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Yeah, I'd clarify the meaning of 'prefer' in this context with him. The other man is new to you, and it's invigorating to have and want to be had by another man. That sort of newness can't be had in someone you've been married to for years. But, your husband is special to you...if he wasn't you wouldn't be with him. You're actively choosing to be with him, not with anyone else. HE is the man you choose to be with, no matter how much you enjoy sex with another man. Make that clear to him.

I only let my husband and my long time bf cum inside me and for others we use condoms. If you ask cuming inside or outside which you would prefer I would say inside.

You both have new toys that you are fascinated with. Nothing wrong with that. I suggest, however, that both of you stop using the word "prefer." It is antithetical to swinging. Swinging means that you have different partners to meet different needs, desires, wants. No one, not even a deeply devoted spouse can be everything to you. Just enjoy the adventure without comparing and live it day to day.

Such an accusation is just dumb. Please don't place any weight in it. It's a random person on the net who knows you not. I think I speak for many of us here that you are very, very welcome here. You provide a lot of positive advice, and have helped a great many people here. PLEASE don't stop!

Totally agree with Numex. Its all about new experiences which we then use in our spouses. Will give you an example once we were with a couple and the girl while riding caught hubby sack and rubbed it which he enjoyed now it is a practice i do with him. There are many more things to explore with others just go by the flow babes.

As a woman I prefer to feel his orgasm and ejaculation. The pulsing of his prostate, the pumping of his semen. In my vagina (where God intended it), in my mouth, in my bum (where He doesn't). If I haven't cum yet (or even if I have) it puts me over the top.

^^^ This. I've had the good fortune to have sex with my wife many times after one of her (long term; only they get to go bareback) boyfriends has just cum inside of her. I absolutely leave penetrating her feeling her so sloppy with another man's cum and completely open, receptive, and very warm. It's quite intense! I've never been able to do that after two (or more) men have cum in her, but I'd love to try.

For us there it's not only separate rooms, it's separate places at different times because of scheduling and the need for babysitting.

That's surprising? Talk about shooting a man's horse, dang. Now you don't know what to do? I'd pull back on the swinging and reengage with each other. This is a bad road you're on. Seems you two have an interesting approach to swinging. For those we've encountered (and us) swinging is an addition to our incredible sex life. It isn't where we seek an individual that we prefer. For us, adding in a partner is to bring a MFM, FMF or MFMF dynamic that can't happen when it is the two of us. We don't partner up with others. If you feel he prefers someone else, and you say out loud <gasp!> that you prefer another man...your marriage is heading down (as others have said) and if you want to say it, get off the swinging road.

I understand why people use condoms but I really try to play only bareback these days, creampies give me the greatest o's. I'm only looking for friends that want that special connection bareback sex offers. Just my opinion, I know some will strongly disagree on here.

Some have the fantasy of posting on here multiple times a day or being the first to post every morning. If that’s what excites you it is your fantasy.

You guys are really knowledgeable! Thank you so much 😀

Although I prefer women I’m sexually attracted to guys as well. I don’t consider myself truly bi as I’ve read that to be so one has to be capable of having feelings for or falling in love with both sexes equally. I can only do this with women. With guys it’s all and only about the sex. I consider myself very open minded and sexually adventurous.

Yes, it can be a learning experience, and if it's something you don't like to do, just let her do it. And maybe watch. It's not a contest, it's not a competition.

Uh, isn't that why we all swing? For new experiences and to get those kinks we like but don't get from our spouse. Not to get mad at him or her.

Evolutionarily, that is why penises have ridged heads. To scoop out the competition and replace with your own.

Agreed. The socially accepted norm among vanilla people has progressed from virginity/marriage/monogamy to premarital sex/serial monogamy/non-marriage (i.e. a "partner") to relationships that have no expectation of monogamy like Tinder hookups, or have a nonmonogamous transition period between serial monogamy.

During swing play, he can cum inside me but with a condom. Or he can cum outside, anywhere on me. For my SO and bf, they can cum inside on safe days. And of course, in mouth or bum.

I love it when hubby goes balls deep and pushes as hard as he can and I feel his cock pump deep in my vagina. When I ride him, I love feeling his cock pump like that deep in me. Then I lift up and sit on his face and mouth so he can swallow everything I push out and then lick me clean of his cum mess.

Despite this being a lifestyle forum, I’m sure some will disagree. And that’s fine. My intent is to shed new light on human sexuality, male and female. The results of this study seem to indicate that EVERYONE is bisexual, to some extent. Anyway, I thought people might be interested, so, here ya go. https://www.mirror.co.uk/science/no-one-100-straight-aroused-12191338 Thoughts? Sean and Em

Anyone else?? Or am I alone here?? I am into Pleasure...period. If it is pleasurable I'm all for it. I have no urges, desires, wonders, fantasies, attraction, or anything else of having a relationship, cuddling, kissing, holding hands or any of that with a man. But if in the moment your good enough where my body signals my mind to where it arouses me or vise versa then let's roll with it if not then I'm 100% cool with that too. We have met couples and single men and we've exchanged head, hand jobs, frottage, and I mean like I said if it feels good then I'm down for it... So when I hear the term(s) gay or lesbian or bi I think attraction, lustrous, connection, relationship with someone of the same sex. Its always associated with a relationship or attractions to someone, or feelings/actions of intimacy. Anyone else get where I'm coming from??

Every female I've ever been with goes crazy when I go down on them after cumming inside them. My ex-wife and I started swinging early in our marriage. One day I came home and I went down on her. While I was lapping away she told me her 'lover' came in her not more than an hour ago. I almost came in my pants!

I'm extremely bi-curious. I'd love to suck some cock.

Am I? Perhaps. I'd guess I'm 70-30: Mostly straight and in a way, bisexual. Not really sure I'd define it as such. And the "why": Although I have no particular romantic inclinations toward men, I do thoroughly enjoy cocks and cum. My favorite fantasies involve sex with women who are coated in warm slippery cum (like in those bukkake videos) from multiple men or to have a man cum in my mouth. I'm not sure whether that even qualifies as bisexual or just having a cock and cum fetish. Is it possible to have such a fetish without being bi? I have no idea. Regardless, I've always had an affinity for cocks and large quantities of cum.

I conceived my first child in a Chevy Bel Air. I've always had a fascination with making love in cars. Even our little two seaters were fun to fool around in.

My husband and I have been seeing a couple steadily over the past 4 months. For the most part, this is a strong relationship, but I felt that he would prefer having sex with her over me, which only seemed normal since she is new to him. I tried to bring this to the forefront with him and said I realized that he preferred her over me which he denied though I don't believe him. I told him that I preferred the other husband over him, and yikes, it really hurt his feelings. Now, I don't know how to make it up to him or what to do. Help!