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I’m pretty sure Swinging has never fixed a emotionally disconnected relationship……EVER I think you’re in a high risk situation, with little upside. Let’s just say that you have awesome luck and you find a partner that you really connect with, both physically and emotionally, that would only leave you with a sexual relationship that’s everything you want and your current long term relationship that leaves you wanting and wondering…….. This spells disaster. Maybe a better approach is focusing on communication with your current partner…….a hard fact to accept is that it takes two people to fail a relationship. If he’s not opening up to you the way you want him to , you need to not only let him know that but you also have to help him feel comfortable expressing himself. Many people are capable of great love and affection and just don’t know how or are afraid to let themselves go.

Mmmmmmmm I love it too!!! Love sharing cum kisses too!!😈😈😈😈

Your anxiety about entering into swinging events is normal. The excitement of what may take place is very enticing, However, it comes with relationship breaking risks that are not always obvious when excitement is dominating thoughts. As always in good relationships, open and honest communication between partners is paramount. It seems that you may not have that level of relationship as you indicate insecurity is on your mind. If you value and want to continue to build your relationship then it would be silly to risk it without him opening up about how he truly feels for you. Only when you feel rock solid emotionally with him can the swing lifestyle be considered. Many relationships/marriages have been damaged or ended because of swinging. Should your current partner not want to commit himself to you and YOUR interest in the swing lifestyle remain enticing, then take the plunge as a single girl. You will meet some wonderful people and likely to have some great sex on the way.

Without really great communication there will not be security and this lifestyle will not work! You do not have that so entering into this now sounds like a big mistake.

I would say do not do it.

When my Hubby and I are in full animal-mode, I want him to try more kink than he already had. I did have a finger full of another guy's cum and got him to lick it and he has been able to tell the different tastes like I do, besides, seeing him have cum on his tongue whether it's his or other's, I still get extra wet. Laura Laura and Dave vegasnudecoupl

ok first off...WOW this forum and especially this sub-forum have opened so much up to me, I don't feel like such a head case or outcast, it is really great to know that there are others like us out there. So thank you all for your knowledge and judgment free attitudes. So here's the deal...and sorry in advance for the long-winded post. I absolutely LOVE cum, well actually both the GF and I do. The taste and feel of it, the way it looks when it's on a beautiful woman's skin, the way it looks on my GF's lips and tongue. The fantasy started about W years ago when we first started dating. I had been thinking that the idea was hot for a while and one night during sex I stopped right before orgasm and just came a little giving her just a little on her lips and tongue to 'play with' then we continued making love as we fantasized that it was someone else's cum that we were sharing. We both felt as though it was one of the hottest things that either of us had ever done and it became a semi-regular role play thing for us. I actually got really good at having more than one orgasm so we could kiss and play with cum, all the while pretending it was from another guy. We even bought an ejaculating dildo and experimented with homemade recipes...haha So that was fun and hot and we learned what we wanted. We decided together that the next step was to play with cum from another guy. We found a guy who wasn't freaked out by the idea and we had our fun...it was the most sensual thing I have ever done up until that point, and to this day, almost a year later, I still regularly get myself off thinking of that encounter. We managed to pull it off again a few months later with the same guy but this time she actually spat it into my mouth and I proceeded to clean all of it from her lips and face with my tongue while we made very passionate and sweet love...god it was so incredibly sexy that I get hard every time I think about it. So how common is this? I know guys like to taste their own but do 'straight' guys ever want to try this? Let me first say that I am 99.9% certain that I am 100% straight haha. I am not attracted to men at all, don't want to find guys on my own, have no desire for anything considered traditionally gay, am not turned on at all by gay or bi porn, etc. I love the term used on another thread in this forum "situationally heteroflexible" and feel that it most describes me. For instance, seeing a cock in my GF's mouth is so sexy it drives me crazy. I want to help guide it in, and I want to put mine in with his (and we have ). The thought of double vag and his hard cock rubbing against mine inside of my GF drives both of us crazy. But that's pretty much where it ends. I have zero desire to be with a guy by myself, in fact oral, penetration, pretty much anything touching other than our cocks and specifically inside her, is a turn-off for me. I know I'm a huge perv, and I love it. I don't like labels and don't give a shit what people think about our sex life but just curious how others feel about this. Is it hot or is it weird? And please use this thread share your cum sharing thoughts, fantasies and stories with me! and I loved this quote from another thread:

Magdalene Taylor is a writer covering sex and culture. Her Valentine’s Day opinion column, currently up in the opinion column on the New York Times website, looks at the epidemic of loneliness and loss of connection in our current society, a trend that she notes has been exacerbated by the pandemic, and the broader knock-on deleterious effects it has had. Her recommendation? More fucking! For the betterment of society and ourselves as individuals she says we should all make an effort to have more sex. I expect that few members of this board would not agree with Ms. Taylor’s prescription. At the end of this post I’m including the link to her piece. The Times has a paywall, but I believe if you register you can read several articles per week or month. For a nice combination of social commentary and smiles I recommend this essay. (As a former Timesman I am confident that the two brief passages quoted below fall well within the bounds of fair usage.) "The loneliness epidemic may be a societal issue, but it can be solved, at least partly, at the level of individual bedrooms. Those of us in a position to be having more sex ought to be doing so. Here is the rare opportunity to do something for the betterment of the world around you that involves nothing more than indulging in one of humanity’s most essential pleasures. "So, anyone capable should have sex — as much as they can, as pleasurably as they can, as often as they can." https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/13/opinion/have-more-sex-please.html?action=click&module=Well&pgtype=Homepage&section=Opinion

Yeah, I agree! Men that I know would rather play video games, work out, or try to make money. Women that I know only have sex if there is something to gain by it. It's disheartening that people don't have sex for fun and to bond with one another. A lot of people not having sex wonder why they are having anxiety attacks, it doesn't take a brain surgeon. Yes, have more sex, loosen your bullets and enjoy your life.

I'll just throw this out there: a pretty good place to connect with hot wives "in the wild" (as opposed to online) is Vegas. When we go to Vegas my cougar is on the prowl and we are NOT the only ones. Start in one of the topless Euro pools, then prowl the casino bars. There is action to be found!

I would rather go to Hedo or Desire. Porn stars are overrated.

Sadly, if your own relationship requires psychic powers, it's not going to get better when you start fucking other people and also can't communicate about that.

At a party once four women got together to quadruple-team helpless me. It was clearly just a performative stunt. Two of them sucked my nipples, which did absolutely nothing for me. (I asked them to stop.) While I was reclined on a bed the other two took turns sucking my cock, which did a lot for me. 😉😂 Eventually I reached orgasm, ejaculating in the mouth of the woman who was then taking her turn. When my spurting stopped she raised up her head and french-kissed the other woman who had also been sucking me. It was a long kiss. I was totally spent physically and mentally; they’d left me pretty much in post-orgasmic la-la land. But if their object in sharing my semen was also performative I enjoyed the show.

I love doing this. I’ve only done it a couple of times but those are times I’ll never forget. I was 69 ing with a girlfriend while my buddy was banging her. When he came it along with her juices oozed out onto my face and in my mouth. It tasted and smelled so good. It was intoxicating. There’s nothing like a cock and pussy cum cocktail.

I have never assumed a woman wants me to cum in her mouth (swinging or otherwise). I think it's polite to ask if that's what she wants.

My husband loves it and it's such a turn on for me

I also experienced fmfm but but was not able to try that since I don't know the other woman that well. In a mfm-m I did in the past where I personally trusted all the men, I did swallow in all the bj I gave/received from them during our weekend getaway! I remember gaining a little weight from it! :-D

It is a regular occurrence for us. In a play situation, however, it has gotten to the point where the women are pushing the men aside to go down there.

Every female I've ever been with goes crazy when I go down on them after cumming inside them. My ex-wife and I started swinging early in our marriage. One day I came home and I went down on her. While I was lapping away she told me her 'lover' came in her not more than an hour ago. I almost came in my pants!

We enjoy something similar IRL. When my wife has come home from a quick encounter with one of our play partners, I'll be horny as hell. So I eat her for a short while until I can't stand it, take sloppy seconds, then calmly give her another orgasm licking her double sloppy pussy.

Very happy to see I'm not alone with this desire. The thought of eating her out after another guy comes inside of her gets me very excited. I told her about it a few years ago and we worked it into our fantasy/role playing. I'll come inside her and she'll get dressed and pretend she just came home from fucking a guy she met in the bar and I'll eat her out

A few weeks ago Mrs R and I were going at it pretty heavy. We were on our 2nd bottle of wine, no doubt having a influence. Mrs R said she wanted to feel me cum inside her. I then told her that I wanted to cum all over her pussy then lick it up and kiss her (totally spur of the moment thought). The look on her face when I said that was amazing and her response was "OMG yes, do it!" That was probably the hottest, most lust filled kiss we ever shared. Something we're both agreed that we would do again.

My husband loves to eat my pussy while another man is fucking me. When the man cums I sit up over his mouth and give him a very wet cream pie. I also like doing that with another woman while a man is fucking her. Deb

I enjoy it quite a bit. I would love to get to the point of cumming inside then having the wife assume the 69 position with her on top and having her squeeze my load out over my face as I lap it up, but it seems like I'm always extremely anxious to do this before I cum and not so anxious after I've cum. So I've come up with a compromise so to speak. I can actually get myself right to the end of having a full on climax but stop and hold back and after a few seconds I'm able to let about half my cum "escape" and ooze out of my cock without actually having an orgasm. On occasion I've done this and let it ooze out onto her nipples or onto her pussy and then I can slowly and sensuously spread it around with the tip of my tongue for several minutes then lick it up and share it with her on occasion which really gets her aroused. Then as I'm about half soft again I can let her take me in her mouth me hard again, the resulting orgasm seems to be an order of magnitude more intense after this. Especially if I've done this a couple of times in the same session. I used to be (before the vasectomy) a pretty heavy cummer also it seems like you've always expelled an enormous load if you've done it several times in succession. I know my wife has even marveled on occasion after doing this about the quantity of cum all over her tits. I think it's erotic as hell!

Although I have no qualms about eating Mrs. Alura after her pussy has been filled, it hasn't been a sought-after experience. I remember an incident, however, that got pretty exciting. We were spending the weekend with our playcouple in their lake cabin. We had been boating in the morning and were playing in their bed. I had eaten Playwife to an orgasm and entered her to pound a bit while she was climaxing. Of course, I came in her pussy. Playhusband, however, entered Mrs. Alura at the wrong time and she failed to come when he did. I had rolled off Playwife and was lying there gasping when Mrs. Alura asked, "Would you like to eat a really hot pussy, Sweetheart?" She didn't wait for an answer but climbed aboard my chin, placing her dripping pussy in exactly the right place. My tongue didn't hesitate. Meanwhile, Playwife got on her knees and took my softening cock into her mouth. Playhusband got behind her and entered her doggy-style. A surprise to me, I became hard again. About the time Mrs. Alura was shrieking out an orgasm, I came a second time, this time in Playwife's mouth. She didn't swallow, but turned around and pulled him down onto the bed and kissed him with an open mouth while replacing his penis into her pussy. They fucked only a few moments before they both came again. As the four of us lay panting, one of us giggled. Then the second. Finally all of us were laughing our asses off. "That's about the hottest thing we've ever done!" opined Mrs. Playcouple. She pointed out that she had semen from two men in her pussy and one in her mouth which she'd shared with her husband. "I've been shorted!" said Mrs. Alura, "I only have a load in my pussy, although I did share it with my husband. I need another load in my pussy and one in my mouth." A few hours later we evened her out.

This is what got us into the lifestyle. My fantasy was always to have a hotwife and to have her bring home a sloppy, well used pussy for me to enjoy. I love it when she comes home from visits to her boyfriends. I push my tongue deep into her pussy to taste the cum. And I love the smell of her pussy after she has had sex with them. She will also sit on my face to help it drain out. One time a man she was with came in her pussy and mouth. Knowing that I was waiting for my treat she didn’t even clean her face before coming home. There was dried cum on her lips and chin. I couldn’t wait for her to get inside the house. I started to ravish her outside and lick the cum from her face. Then it was upstairs to enjoy the cum still in her pussy. My wife really gets hot when I do this with her and our orgasms are simply earth shaking.

Oh yeah we have done this. We usually have sex together after we play and often I have tasted cum in her. I love to kiss after I shoot a load in her mouth, or even be forcefed my cum. I don't care whose cum it is, I will lick it out of my wife or any woman that will let me!!

When we decided we'd walk on the wild side after 10 years of marriage, she wanted to start with someone she knew and trusted. That turned out to be a guy she'd known before I met her, a casual friend she'd been out with a few times but had never been with him sexually. A long story there, but he was a family friend, her family. So she called and asked if he'd like to have dinner the next time she was in the area, he said yes, of course. She met him the next time we visited her home state and they had dinner and the next night they met again and ended up in a motel room. She came to me late that night and as she was relating the evenings events, and I was undressing and otherwise engaged with her, she began pushing my head down below her breasts, my favoite lingering spot. But on she pushed, until I realized what she was doing. My only recollection is one of incredulous excitement. It was more the idea that she wanted me to go down on her after she'd been with him. I did and it drove her crazy, nice crazy. We both loved it and repeated it many times after. That was many years ago, I even posted a story on the board about 5 years ago.

I'm bi as well and this is very sexy to me. I want to see my s/o fuck another woman and fill her up, then let me eat it out of her (both his & her cum). Hopefully this is fantasy I can make a reality soon! Yumm.

Twist- It is fun. I have only done it once or twice, but both of us liked it a lot. I love creampies. Not only do I love to eat a cum filled pussy but I also love to watch the cum drip out of her.

I love to do this. Only recently my wife and I had our first threesome. She was a little nervous but I made sure he came in her. Then I loved sucking it out of her then kissing her with the other guy's cum in my mouth... The whole thing is very erotic.

Oh my..... It's one of my biggest fantasy, just the idea to clean the filled pussy of my fucked sweet wife turne me on and make me so hard. I wish to do that very soon. Also I have this damn fantasy to lick the cock of the man who just came in my wife's pussy, I don't think I'm bi, but I just have this fantasy

Only if it is my cum in her pussy I also like to cum in her mouth then give her a big deep kiss.

My husband has been eating me a long time after we've fucked and for the last year or more he's even started eating me out after my boyfriend fucks me. There isn't usually a lot of cum inside me though because they both like to cum all over me but there's usually a little.

mine and my hubby's fave...we both do it ..of course only with our long time couples who are like wise married. My man loves to eat his own or someone elses ..it is all the same to him...hot and erotic... facelick

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