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  1. 5 points
    Doesn’t sound like a scam. Except from you not getting laid you had a great night with new peeps you met on a hook up page. You said you enjoyed meeting, having drinks and getting to know them well enough to go back to their house. Going to their home not a hotel says they trust you and aren’t hiding anything. I have watched Honey fuck guys I never thought I was being scammed or me hotwifing her, I saw her enjoying the fuck and if she is enjoying I’m happy. They are new so the wife was watching her husband fucking a woman for the first time and you allowed her to soak that in. Watching can be shocking while thinking what else is going to happen. A mistake you made was not trying to fuck her. She said she wasn’t sure if she could, never said she wouldn’t. I bet she went home asking if she wasn’t attractive enough for you or why didn’t she get any. When she squeezed you she was asking for you to do something. She was naked with a man watching a fuck scene, she had to be dripping herself. Any doubts can be sent away with a call. You will know for sure if they answer. If she answers ask her if the next time is “our” time.
  2. 4 points
    This is a solid point worth reading twice.
  3. 3 points
    (Footnote: one of the terrible realizations of my early 30s was how many women were waving neon traffic batons for me to ask for sex in my early 20s, and I was too dumb to notice. "That's not true. That's impossible! Noooooooooooooo")
  4. 3 points
    It wasn't my original quote, but I'm not sure the generation gap pulls in that direction. Every vanilla woman I've ever known born before about 1975 not only expects the man to initiate, but considers a woman explicitly asking to be almost taboo. Holding his hand might be the only signal she thought she needed to give for him to try to go for a kiss. If he was wrong, she'd say so and that'd be that.
  5. 3 points
    Why am I on here on Valentine’s Day? Happy V Day to all. ❤️ Billy you were not scammed. We have been with many first timers and most don’t know what to do or when to do, they met you so you can lead them to what you met for. Getting naked is one of the hardest parts for first timers, some will wait for us to make the first move. You did all the right pre-meeting things, wives talk first, meeting for drinks, getting to know them first. Getting naked is not always the guarantee to complete sex, many couples will stop before anymore happens. Our meetings are usually with bicurious women leading to a much bigger challenge because same sex sex is completely new. Alan never makes the first move, I am less threatening and have a better take on how to make things progress. Not being there I have no idea how Debbie and the husband started, who initiated the sex and why you and the wife watched. Is it possible you didn’t initiate the sex with the wife who being new didn’t know how to initiate the sex herself. Some women want more and don’t want to be the one to initiate. Hesitation is not a sign of not wanting. Some women need a little push, not forcibly just a sign. Debbie could have shown her approval by encouraging the wife but that didn’t happen. You are relatively new and they were completely new, call them and set a next time and be a little more aggressive and see where it goes. Go with an open mind.
  6. 2 points
    And just like that you prove I’m old and out of touch. Lol I never knew this.
  7. 2 points
    Yep. That was me in high school.
  8. 2 points
    Honey said she can tell when a guy hasn’t showered in a week.
  9. 1 point
    We are terribly disappointed with what happened even if things didn’t pan out to what was planned. I don’t think the couple we met set out to use Debbie as a birthday gift but now we are thinking more of the exchange. Debbie met a couple online and showed me the profile for my approval. Debbie is our designated site searcher because I just look at pictures while she actually reads profiles and is better at communicating with strangers knowing what questions to ask. I looked at the pictures that they posted that matched my criteria, both of them together, fully dressed in several different locations and attractive physically close to our age. Profile said they were looking for a first time meeting, curious to swinging, both straight. Debbie communicated by text that the husband was turning 50, she was a few months younger. The texts led to a call between the wives to see what the real story was. Also to make sure there was a wife, not just a guy pretending. According to Deb they only thought of this recently, never met anyone and weren’t sure if they could go through with the actual acts. Debbie suggested we meet at a restaurant to better discuss things and see if we had a connection to them. In the two hours with them we learned we had plenty in common, they are married 25 years and have two kids. This was a change of life curiosity that they couldn’t tell anyone. I don’t want to make this a long description, we went back to their house and we watched the husband and Debbie have sex. Not what we were expecting, we went along with it. We knew she wanted to watch her husband, was not sure if she could have sex that night. Were we used?
  10. 1 point
    Don’t know that it was a scam, but definitely not a scenario that would interest us at all! Before we go back to someone’s place or have them come to ours we are going to want to know what the intentions of everyone involved are. If it is not something that appeals to both of us then it isn’t going to happen. This sounds more like they were looking for a unicorn and your wife filled that spot for them. Which is fine if both of you are on board for that situation. Would not be something that interests the missus or myself. If it was the woman wanting to play with my lady well the men watched and then played with their own woman we would be all over that. We have played that way many times in the past. She gets to live out her bi side and I get to enjoy the show as foreplay. Maybe next time you talk to them ask if they were interested in you fucking the other wife well he and your wife just sit back and watch. The answer you get will tell you what their intentions were all along. Your wife should not have a problem with that. Seems reasonable to me.
  11. 1 point
    I think things happened and it was fun for you. Maybe this couple will go further next time. If not, you can find someone else to date.
  12. 1 point
    Thank you for your comment ! Definitely something for me to think about... Thanks for sharing
  13. 1 point
    Seems to me like a good start. More of a good start. Were you? Time to put on your seductive moves. Did your wife take care of you afterwards? It would have been a good opportunity to start with Debbie to show your readiness then go into the other wife who was obviously turned on by watching her husband with your wife.
  14. 1 point
    We are waiting to see if they reach out to us again before we make a call. I never pushed to have sex even if we were all naked. She was very focused on watching her husband in Debbie and squeezed me when Debbie appeared very close. She rushed to him when he was done and gave him a big deep kiss. She did ask me if I was okay but didn’t offer to do more to me. The after talk was how great it was to watch him and Debbie, she never saw anything like that. As I already said I didn’t do much to encourage us to put on a similar show for her husband. Debbie was happy at the time so I didn’t make a big thing at the time.
  15. 1 point
    Billy, if you were expecting more than just to watch Debbie have sex with another man — that you would have sex with the other woman — then I understand your disappointment. But at some point prior to the initiation of sex between Debbie and the other man, the woman told you up front she wasn’t sure if she would be able to perform. And she didn’t. The evening may not have turned out as you wished, and you may have been "terribly disappointed’", but you shouldn’t have been surprised. When the other woman told you she might not have sex with you, if that wasn’t an acceptable outcome for you (and, I assume) Debbie, you could have called off the rest of the evening. But your concluding question was "Were we used?" Maybe you were. Maybe you weren’t. And you will probably never know, because you don’t know what she was actually thinking when she made that equivocal statement and you won’t be able to put this woman on a polygraph. 😉😂 If she was being candid and truthful with you and Debbie (and perhaps her own husband) then in my opinion your unhappiness is on you. On the other hand, if she never intended to have sex with you but was deceitful in her stating that she was unsure, then yeah, you were used. (If this really was their first time, I’d be inclined to give them/her the benefit of the doubt. Anecdotally I know that for a lot of couples their first ENM experience is emotionally highly charged and filled with anxiety. For sure lots of folks have posted in these forums describing the challenges of a first time with others. Are you sufficiently curious or potentially interested in a second date that includes you engaging with the other woman? If so, you might want to follow up with them, asking for their evaluation of the evening. You may find, if they respond at all — and assuming she had been honest with you — that they weren’t happy with how things ended up either. But they might also be interested in another round. If so, you should have course make clear that she will need to be comfortable with and committed to having sex with you. And if you do meet up, that you and the other woman begin sex before Debbie and the other man.)
  16. 1 point
    Thank you so much for your detailed response it is certainly something for ke to think about.. greatly appreciated
  17. 1 point
    I think what everyone else has said so far is very good. I'll echo what they said. Some more thoughts to consider. There's an old saying around this forum that swinging multiplies whatever it finds in a relationship. If there is deep and abiding love, it amplifies it. If there is a problem of some kind, it will amplify it. You note the insecurity you feel. If you swing with your boyfriend, that insecurity will be amplified. If you feel he is emotionally disconnected from you, that disconnection will be amplified. Let me give you a couple of example scenarios regarding just those two potential problems. You're understandably insecure in your relationship. Imagine you're in bed with another couple, and you and your boyfriend are having a wonderful time. The couple is great, the sex is great, and it all seems so wonderful, so releasing, so empowering. Then you hear your boyfriend making noises he hasn't made with you. Your sense of insecurity can suddenly explode as you feel like the other woman is able to evoke something out of him that you can't. How will you feel? You're understandably concerned about his emotional unavailability with you. Again, you're in bed with another couple having a great time. What if your boyfriend does an act of kindness with the other woman, that could be interpreted as an expression of caring? It is quite possible you will suddenly feel quite upset that this act of caring was so easy for him with a woman he'd just met, but not so easy with you. Again, this can all explode. You haven't said you're considering swinging to fix any problems in your relationship, and that's good. But, understand that just as much as using swinging to fix problems is a recipe for disaster, so too is going into swinging with a relationship that is problematic. We obviously know nothing really of your relationship. But, if the emotional unavailability is a concern, the future of the relationship is likely short. All relationship covers all facets. That includes emotional availability. Everything else can be great, but if that emotional availability isn't there, there's danger in the future. I wouldn't swing as a single while you're still involved with your boyfriend. But, if you do break up and still think swinging would be fun, I agree with Sprocket above; you will very likely have a lot of fun. You will also be in VERY high demand. Many couples are looking for single women, and you can have your pick of the best. Let us know how things go! You are very welcome here, and we're glad you are here with your questions!
  18. 1 point
    Although my wife hasn't said this to me outright, I pretty well certain that she gets "better" sex from one or two play partners than from me. But she is thankful to me for it and, I believe, one of the many reasons she loves me and stays with me. You are doing that to yourself. Take satisfaction in her finding pleasure and it will look totally the opposite.
  19. 1 point
    I agree with you 100%, and add that even between loving spouses their individual sexual desires and satisfactions are different, and may be extremely different. Room needs to be made to allow freedom for that as well. One of the joys of swinging for me is Daniela telling me things from her past or that she has done when playing alone that she thought I might find distasteful. I find it exciting.
  20. 1 point
    It has been quite a few years since we have been able to get away for our anniversary and we finally planned a week away for just ourselves at the beach. We decided to go during the late summer when my wife's parents could watch the kids during summer break. We had a lot of anticipation and excitement leading up to it and left early on a Saturday morning to be able to fully enjoy our first day. We had an early check in for the room and got up there before noon and decided to get ourselves settled before going down to the pool area. We splurged and had an ocean-facing balcony so when my wife was unpacking I went out to take a look. When I came back in she was standing there laughing as she held a 24 pack of condoms and looked at me and said, "We are here for 6 days, this might be a bit much." I smiled and said, "Just wanted to make sure I had enough." Of course she couldn't let it go by without responding, "You know, if you just had a vasectomy, we wouldn't need these anymore at all." I replied, "I know, I know." So we finished unpacking and she changed into her bathing suit. We are both 38 and have pretty nice bodies but for her, she doesn't enjoy wearing a bikini anymore. She is 5'6" cute brunette with long hair, a firm sexy ass and soft 36D tits. She changed into a sexy suit none the less, it was kind of like a bikini at the top but with an added amount that covered her stomach. I didn't mind as I could still admire her breasts. When we got to the pool area we went right to the bar and the drinks kept flowing. We laid by the pool, walked by the beach and spent some time in the water but mostly just had drinks in our hands. On the way back to the room we stopped by the front desk and bought a few 6-packs for the fridge in the room. We walked up to the room carrying our beer and as soon as we got inside we put the beers down and started really kissing, then she pulled away and said to save it for later because she wanted to have a few drinks on the balcony. I hand her one and she goes out on the balcony while I put the others in the fridge. Then I walk out and hear her talking to someone, that's when I saw that the room next door had an adjoining balcony. He was a younger guy named Jeremy and was having a pleasant conversation so I offered him a beer and then sat down. We talked for a while and it was a lot of fun and my wife then made a comments and said, "You must be having so much fun with all these young sexy girls on the beach." He just laughed and said that he enjoyed some of the sights. I jumped in and responded, "I like what I get to look at" and got an eye roll from my wife. My wife said she wished she still had the body she used to have, especially the perky tits. Without thinking I reached over and grabbed a tit and said that they were great. I expected her to swat my hand away but she left it there and said I only liked them because I was stuck with them. I immediately looked at Jeremy and asked if he thought they were nice too and he just smiled and said he didn't mind looking at them. This is when I realized that the drinks had really hit her because she stood up and leaned over, squeezing them together with her hands saying, "They might look good from this angle." She bent over a little too far and fell into his lap and they both started laughing. She collapsed on her knees in front of him and looked at him and asked, "Do you really think they look nice?". He insisted yes and she still argued that he was just saying it to be nice. So I leaned forward and reached around and grabbed her top and pulled it open with her tits spilling out. "Now he can see them and I know he likes them," I said. He said they looked so nice and soft and that he really did think they were nice. She told him how sweet he was and that she wanted to make sure he got a nice view of them and I sat and watched as she reached forward and pulled his swim trunks to his ankles. I sat speechless ash she leaned forward and squeezed her tits around his dick slowly tit fucking his cock to make him hard. As she did it she asked if her tits were as soft as they looked and if he enjoyed the way her big areolas looked on her big tits. "Those are the most suckable nipples I have ever seen," he responded. She quickly stood up and pushed one of her tits in his mouth and his hands immediately went to her ass and he effortlessly slid her bottoms off. As he was sucking her nipples back and forth he was also rubbing her pussy and driving her wild. She spread her legs open wide enough to straddle him and sat down on his lap with his dick in between them. He was really enjoying her tits and I know how much that turns her on and how crazy he was driving her. It was then that she leaned forward dragging her pussy along his dick then letting the tip touch her pussy as she started working her way down on it. At this moment is when I noticed just how big he was, she was about halfway down and working it up and down inside her but he wanted more. He grabbed her ass and started pulling her down onto his dick. She moaned, "Oh my god I am so full. You are so deep. This is stretching me out so much. God keep going". When she said keep going is when he thrust his hips upward and went all the way inside her. She was just moaning "Oh fuck me!" over and over as she rode his dick through an orgasm. She was really pushing down to get it all inside her when I saw him grab hold of her ass and clench up and I knew he was cumming. She got up right after and walked inside the room and I didn't know how she felt about what just happened. She was only gone for a minute and came back with a beer and handed it to Jeremy. Then she turned and got on her knees in front of me and pulled my pants down to see my already hard dick. She sat on my lap like she did his and had my dick pushed between us. She was kissing me deeply and then kissing my neck and told me to close my eyes. So I did and and the next thing she did was slide back a little and then I feel her touch my dick. She kind of giggled as she unrolled a condom onto me then got on top and pushed my dick inside her. She was riding me and told me that since I brought condoms that I needed to use them. She kept talking and said: "Wow, doesn't this feel so strange to get sloppy seconds while wearing a condom. Jeremy made my pussy all loose and sloppy for you." I couldn't think with how wild this situation was. She looked at me and continued, "You know he hasn't even kissed me and I have his cum in my pussy." With that I tensed up and came in the condom. She went inside the room and laid down in bed and fell asleep immediately. Jeremy and I finished our beers and then both went to our rooms. I laid in bed for hours replaying what just happened as she slept soundly through to the morning.
  21. 1 point
    Who would have thought a card game could transform rather stuffy gray-haired suburbanites into a hedonistic group of very intimate friends? Bridge was the game. The four couples of our little bridge group gather monthly at Celeste and Harold's home to enjoy an evening of cards, gossip, and wine sipping. We start with each couple playing as partners, and at the end of each rubber, the winners move to the other table with a partner change. It's an enjoyable game. I'm not terribly good at it, but Robert is a whiz. At midnight, scores are tallied to see who's the best player for the night, the hostess serves coffee and sponge cake, and we have a group hug and go home. At least that's how it used to be. Things began to change as that group hug became more and more familiar. Over time, the group hug evolved to a group smooch and thence to a group grope. Just innocent fun among tipsy graying adults too old to be jealous over such minor things as a stray touch here and there. Then one night, as we were walking home from an evening at Celeste's, Sophie suggested that Robert and I drop in for a nightcap. Having recently observed her response to Robert's cupping her breast through her blouse earlier, I suspected I knew what she had in mind for a nightcap. Still, I readily agreed. For the first time in the forty years since I married Robert, before the night was over, I had willingly and enthusiastically spread my thighs to accept another man. What surprised me most was that I was not in the least perturbed by the sounds of Robert and Sophie in the next bed. I was actually happy for them - and for myself. I was ready for this new stage in my life. Eventually, it became apparent that we weren't the only ones who had succumbed to the hormonal urges aroused by those late-night farewells. Suffice to say, when Celeste confided that she and Harold were engaging in similar activities with Fran and Martin, the nature of our bridge nights underwent an abrupt change. Our sedate monthly games continued as before, but now, when midnight signals the end to cards, no longer is it just a good night hug - no more good night, for that matter. Nobody goes home. And no clothes stay on. We all pour another glass of wine, get naked, and retire to the den. The dark paneling and luxurious carpet make it an excellent playroom, especially in the winter when a fire cheerfully flickers its extra warmth to bare skin and romantic light to see by. It was in front of that very fireplace that I experienced another first for me. For the first time in my life, I laid two men in one night, three actually counting the reconnect sex with Robert at the very end. All of us ladies being well past childbearing age and trusting all in our little group, condoms were never even considered. The memory of my vagina overflowing with the semen of three different men taken one after another made me feel deliciously young and slutty. I stayed aroused for days just with the recollection of it. Such as, and I'm embarrassed to admit this, but during a boring meeting of my civic group. I could not control my thoughts and secretly masturbated myself to a small orgasm at the table in front of all the other ladies. I had never been one to orgasm quickly. But now, something had changed in me. I discovered I could bring myself immense pleasure by rhythmically pressing my thighs together tightly while concentrating on that beautiful feeling of three loads of thick spunk laying heavy inside me that night. Finally, I could take no more and excused myself to the ladies room. I hurriedly locked the door behind me, yanked my skirt up, squatted down, pulled the gusset of my panties aside, and having given my fingers full access to my open pussy, furiously frigged myself to a glorious orgasm. It felt so good I had to bite my lip to keep from crying out. After I had recomposed myself and returned to the group, I couldn't help but wonder what had taken me so long to find this level of sexual desire and satisfaction in my life? Now that I was set free, I knew many more beautiful experiences would come.
  22. 1 point
    New Orleans turned out to be quite The Big Easy for Darla and me. As our marriage has matured, we have become more sexually adventurous. Recently, we had a chance to get out of town and work on some of the fantasies we had developed over the last year. I'm 40, and Darla is 37. We have been married 16 years. Darla is a very petite 5'1" blond with small but round tits and a great ass. I'm over a foot taller at 6'2" and 200 pounds. We booked four days in the French Quarter, and by the time the last night approached, we had enjoyed three days of great sex. The highlight came when Darla fulfilled a fantasy by standing in the middle of Bourbon Street, flashing her tits to about 50 men on a balcony above a bar. That got us both so hot we wound up hurrying back to the hotel, where she noisily sucked me off in the hallway as I fumbled for the room key. (The exhibitionist in me kept hoping for someone to come by, but no one did). As the last night began, we had one more fantasy to fulfill; a third partner, either for her or me. Our travels had taken us to every strip bar in the Quarter. Darla and I had both drooled over the college students on spring break, and we had promised each other that if we could pick up a third party, regardless of sex, we would do it. As it happened, a perfect candidate appeared on that last night. Matt was from some Midwestern college. Believe me when I tell you that Darla didn't care what he was studying in school. All she wanted was that hot young stud. He looked to be in his early 20's and was, in his words, 'a third wheel'; in town with his roommate and his girlfriend. The roommate was banging the girlfriend somewhere, and Matt was drinking in one of the Bourbon Street bars alone when we spotted him. Darla liked him right away…he was blond and about 5'9" with a slender build… 'something a little different just for fun' Darla explained. Since tables were hard to come by, we invited him to sit with us. We drank and talked about nothing important for about 20 minutes. When Matt went to the bar to get another drink, we had our chance. "Do you want him? Do you want to fuck him?" I asked my wife, who had never fucked anyone else since we married. "Seriously, can I? Are you sure about this?" she said. I said yes on one condition…that I could at least watch and preferably join in. "Oh, you'll do both, or he'll be jacking off on his own tonight," she laughed. Maybe it was Darla's self-confidence (she looked great that night in a short black leather skirt and tank top), perhaps it was the drinks, or maybe it was being so close to her fantasy… Anyway, I was amazed when Matt returned with his drink and sat down. My wife leaned over the table and said, "So Matt, I'd like to suck you off while my husband fucks me. Interested?" I'd like to tell you Matt was shocked, but I think he knew something like this might come. He just smiled and looked at me and said, "You sure?" I told him it was a fantasy of ours, and I wanted it almost as much as Darla did. With that, we left the bar. It was two blocks back to the hotel, and it took forever to walk back. I had never have been so hard. My cock was so hard it was difficult to walk. Darla played it up for me (and her) by holding hands with Matt on the way back and looking at me as she ran her hands over his ass in the hotel lobby. We wasted no time getting back to our room. I held back to see what Darla would do…after all, I wanted her to get exactly what she wanted. I let her and Matt take each other's clothes off while I stood to the side, rubbing my dick through my pants. Matt and my wife kissed passionately. And then, just that quickly, my wife was undressed. No hesitation, no shame, just naked and ready to fuck. For the first time, I watched another man suck on the tits that had been mine and mine alone. I took off my clothes too, and Darla caught my eye. She was giving me one last opportunity to stop things. She saw the smile on my face and the pre-cum dripping from my dick and knew there was no need to quit. Taking control, she pushed Matt down on the bed and kissed his stomach, working her way to his dick. He was a solid nine inches…not quite as thick as me but plenty for my wife to work with. She got on her hands and knees, and I knew what she wanted…to be fucked from behind as she sucked Matt's cock. Well, that was on the way, but not yet. She lowered her head and began to lick him. What an unbelievable thing to see your wife licking another man's balls. I knew I should be fucking her, but I just had to watch. Darla gives great head because she knows when a man is about to explode. She always backs off just in time and makes me wait. I could tell by Matt's uneven breathing that she already had him close…and right then, she backed off and started working on his balls again. Enough of the great view; time to get to work. I moved behind Darla, spread her gorgeous little ass cheeks, exposed her pink rosebud, and began to tongue fuck her ass. In and out, I drove my tongue, watching her head bob up and down on Matt whenever possible. Having her ass licked always drives her wild, and this time there was no holding back. When I speared two fingers into her pussy from behind, she raised her head from Matt's dick and moaned as she came. I stuck my face in her ass (I love to feel her ass contract as she comes) and enjoyed every minute. When it was done, she went right back to work on Matt. I got up and slammed my dick into my wife's pussy, which was wetter than I had ever seen it in all those years of fucking her. I pounded her hard as she continued to work on our lucky college student. I had seen too much; I lasted only a few more strokes before shooting my load into her. Now everybody had gotten off except poor Matt, who was indeed ready. I continued to watch, expecting my dick to get soft in Darla. Amazingly, and for the first time since I was a teenager, I stayed hard after coming. I moved slowly in her, knowing I could fuck her again at any time. Meanwhile, she was clearly getting Matt ready to come. As I watched, I wondered how she would finish him. Would she swallow it? I wasn't going to tell her what to do (she was beyond listening anyway). She increased the sucking, making loud noises on him as she did with me in the hallway. Finally, Matt moaned, and I knew it was time for the kid to get his nut. I should mention that one of the few things Darla is uncomfortable with is cum on her face. She's let me shoot off that way maybe four or five times…but she has to be extremely hot or a little drunk for it to happen. So I was amazed that as Matt went over the edge, Darla took his dick out of her mouth. She pointed it directly at her face and let the kid shoot one of the biggest loads of cum I had ever seen all over it. I couldn't see it hit her face since I was still fucking her from behind, but there was no doubt what she did, and Matt really got off on it. As soon as he finished, Darla moved away from him and then moved away from me…so I knew she wanted my cock out of her for whatever reason. She laid on her back, and I saw that the kid had absolutely covered her face income. "All right, big boy," she laughed, "you got what you like to see. Let's fuck some more." I immediately got on top of her…the boring old missionary position was never better. I pounded her again as she stared lovingly into my eyes with another man's come on her nose, chin, cheek, and even eyebrows. We came together, and Darla moaned, "I love you," to me as she went off. It was far and away the most incredible sex we ever had. The good news? We already have our New Orleans reservations for next year, and they coincide with Matt's next spring break. The better news? Darla says she owes me one and promises to recruit a gorgeous work friend named Susan for me to play with.
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