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I can understand some put restrictions on what they do with others we chose to be in the moment or go with the flow. We met very nice people who had a no kissing rule, no kissing on the mouth, no French kissing. Knowing the rule was a distraction for me, I don’t think of kissing as intimate or meaning anything more than any other contact. The real strange thing was she had no problem doing oral sex to completion.

I would be loathe to play with a porn star or a prostitute for fear of disease. I don ‘t think that a titanium condom could stop some of those oogies.

My wife reserves condom free for me and a selected few. SHE says swinging means going all the way. She's not a fan of condoms so she chooses her swinger partner carefully. She has just two who she lets finish inside her. Also both of their wives let me go bareback.

We normally want to read what we agree with or what aligns with our beliefs. Agreed some posts feed into other’s experiences. You did what was the correct thing, thanking them not accusing and it led to conversation. It’s hard to read minds or truly know intentions of those that join sites to meet. We have been scammed, eventually you get feelings of who is real and who is fake. We aren’t looking for men who just want to watch the wife have sex with another man but there is a fine line for us because we were looking for curious wives which meant the husbands, including mine, would watch. With all that we may have been scammed a time or two. Not every woman can do what she thinks she wanted to do, meeting us with good intentions. A few of those times I pleased the husbands only if I thought he wasn’t a jerk. We never push too hard to what a woman wants. I think the call Debbie made can lead to you making a long term friend. I would warn to not have Debbie do anything unless the other wife is there for you. Good Luck and enjoy.

That is so funny. It is strange that some have rules that don’t make sense to me. No anal, fine. Even no oral but that would be a deal breaker. Condoms again I understand. But Kissing lol.

Not a Scam Thank you all for the feedback. Some we agreed with, some we didn’t understand. I stated this incorrectly, she said she hoped she could do it, wanted to do it, just didn’t know if she could do it. Debbie and I knew they were not sure what or how to start so Debbie took things into her own hands, literally. He was very ready quickly. Bingo!!! Exactly what happened or didn’t. My fault. I didn’t pick up the signs, never checked her dripping. Have no idea what that all means. Let me clear a few things up, Debbie texted Laura, the other wife, thanking for inviting us to their house. Didn’t mention sex, just a TY. Laura asked if Billy was good that he didn’t have sex. This led to a call. Not hearing the conversation Deb said that I missed out, Laura was waiting for me to start. Funny part she said her husband now thinks he’s a stud. Debbie was very loud, Laura said she was faking, he said it was just him being great. We were invited back to their house on Valentine’s Day to complete what didn’t happen, we already had plans. We are invited back with one must, She gets hers before I get mine. I wish I could have listened because Debbie said I need to start with oral to get her lubed. Whatever it takes.

This is a solid point worth reading twice.

Thank you for your comment ! Definitely something for me to think about... Thanks for sharing

Again, I am the contrarian here. I am a woman who believes that a relationship before marriage should not be held together by endless compromises. You are at the stage where you are evaluating whether the person who you are with is the right one for a lifetime commitment. So live the life that you want, including your form of nonmonogamy, and see how it works with your partner. Be kind, be generous, be respectful to him, but don't compromise on yourself. I say this as a woman who did my thing, something most guys wouldn't accept, but found two men who love me as I am. Eventually, in turn, my selflessness has made them happy. We were all open about what we wanted and what we were happy to give.

Seems to me like a good start. More of a good start. Were you? Time to put on your seductive moves. Did your wife take care of you afterwards? It would have been a good opportunity to start with Debbie to show your readiness then go into the other wife who was obviously turned on by watching her husband with your wife.

Glad you answered the question with your opinion. Just what the poster wanted...

From time to time I bring up a closely related topic which is a kink of mine and I believe doesn't get the attention that it deserves - testicles. It is the source of cum's active ingredient, the acknowledged origin of manhood, and in an interesting package. Anyone else here have their interest, their eyes, hands and mouth drawn to a man's balls?

First, if you haven't already, marry that woman. Second, do you ever think of what cum actually is? It is an independent living part of a man. I love the idea that when a man (or two or three) ejaculates in me he is leaving a living part of himself in me that if inside my cunt will luve for days. Third, is she bi? It's we women who love eating cum out of each others pussy and passing it back and forth while we kiss.

Some guys (like Red) get those, and some (like hubby) do not. After Red cums he's not even really a cuddler, definitely isn't interested in watching the woman he's just fucked getting started with someone else, not even interested in another woman. He needs emotional and physical recovery time. David is the other extreme. When alone post-orgasm, he'll cuddle, go down on me/her. If it's more than just us, afterwards he'll watch me with someone else or move on to another woman, depending. We women OTOH, are emotionally and physically built for multiple partners and multiple orgasms.

When I first got over my fear of hubby playing with other women, I began setting him up with female friends and acquaintances. It was easier than I thought. David is attractive and women feel comfortable carrying on with a married man with his wife's permission. It was super exciting for me, but the difficulty was having them let me be there to watch and possibly participate. Clair was the first that not only let me watch and participate, but got sexually aggressive with me. That's how I found out that I had a Lesbian side as well. The point of the story is that I quickly went on to spread the lesson to other women who had never had a homosexual experience before. The joy of licking pussy.

Many exciting possibilities! You've been swinging with Lesley and Ken for five years and haven't watched your wife fuck Ken yet? Still using condoms? Do both - cum in Lesley's mouth while watching your wife ride Ken.

As it should be. That's why we are part of a closed group of married couples, we are all fans of creating that mess. Modern birth control makes it possible.

Reminds me though of the story I told before about going on a trip with the wife of a couple in our group to do things that our mutual spouses hate: museums, concerts, plays. Yeah, there was sex too, and there wasn't a problem with any of it for anyone. I do remember getting tingles, however, when I clicked on the "CONFIRM" buttons when booking the flights, hotel, and tickets. At one point Daniela looked at some of the texts and emails between me and the other woman and was disappointed that there was no sex talk, only about arrangements and reservations. "This is supposed to be a swingers group, not a travel agency."

What intimate acts do I reserve just for me and my partner? Paying bills.

Mrs Doc is a swallower. She will occasionally cum as I cum in her mouth. It's really hot to watch her blowing someone in a 3-some or while his wife is sucking me. She always goes down as far as she can go and holds it as he cums. Amazing to feel and incredible to watch!

I have always loved cum and even more so love guys who are comfortable with it themselves. It took me many years to get my husband to that point even though he would play however the person he was with wanted. He was never into it himself so much until years of play with me. Now he can get into it, it is hot as heck to me! I love to see cum all over his lips and watch him as he parts them and I see the cum streaming between. I can't help but shove my tongue in there and break it up, sooooo hot! We've been having entire weekend of cum play like this.