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4 pointsWith everything now at a new normal I thought I would add our hosting experiences using hotels, which when done well can be a great venue. First we have always believed in and practice “hiding in plain site”. It is reliable and very easy to keep things “normal” as well as functional. It is our belief and experience that getting one or two adjoining rooms and inviting a crowd draws too much attention. It can easily get out of control, loud and attract hotel staff/management attention or inquiry. We attended a few held at residence inns that featured kitchenette, small living room and two bedrooms. Much easier, better and having private direct entrance. But only really worked well with those who know and play well in group activity…..or orgy style sex play. Those that prefer couple or solo play need not apply lol. When we hosted house parties we would also host once or twice a year a swing weekend getaway, Friday night through Sunday. We used the Redroof Inn most often. We would send out an announcement to gauge how many would be interested. We mostly would invite couples. But an equal number of solo/single ladies and men. We would block X amount of rooms all in the same hall….some times a whole floor. No cost, 6 - 8 weeks out we would announce the block of rooms to our group and the event name the rooms were under. Those interested would call the hotel, ask for a room in the block….their room. Some would share a room…..being in our group. We would get a master room with an attached, door connected room. That would be the common room where everyone would meet and socialize. To play you would go back to your own room. Or even hold your own group play or what ever activity you wished. Breakfast, lunch and day activity was up to each individual/couple/group. We would make dinner reservations at a local restaurant (as many as 40-50 people) then back to the hotel for pool and or evening adult fun. This was always a great hit. Loads of fun. Loads of activity. Loads of laughs. each couple or single with a room could host their own mini party or theme. Again…..hiding in plain sight.
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3 pointsNewtothis; WELCOME! While I can't claim to be evangelical per se, my wife and I are most emphatically Christian. Of course, God calls us to evangelize regardless of how we label ourselves, and we do. For the record; we attend both an Anglican church and a Baptist church. Getting into swinging and reconciling that with a Christian life was something that was challenging for us. We didn't want to approach it as the sort of thing where we tried to ram it through, and twist and contort the Gospel to meet our idea of what we needed it to be to support swinging. We wanted to approach it with truth, honesty, and openness. We concur with jamesok; adultery is cheating. It's an interesting word. Work through that in the context of the Bible. Read the Gospel about this. What we found in our own understanding was that adultery is the act of one spouse bespoiling themselves by having relations outside of marriage without consent of the spouse. The penalties for this are the same for either the husband or the wife; death (Leviticus 20:10). Jesus removed that as a punishment, though the penalty remained. So it would seem to be a grave sin. But is swinging adultery? Is it cheating? Is it bespoiling? That's for you to reconcile within yourself. For us, it came to this simple truth; there is no victim. If there is no victim, where is the harm? If there is no harm, where is the sin? My wife and I choose to have sex with other people. They come away from it happier. We come away from it happier. Our lives have been more fulfilled by having an open marriage. We are closer, more loving, better communicating, and more trusting. Nothing has come from swinging that in any way has been a negative. We were ready to swing because we had a great marriage to begin with, and because of being able to find answers mostly on this forum. For those who are not ready, it can cause damage and that would result in a victim; themselves. But, dating someone monogamously can cause harm to ourselves. Obviously we are not cheating because we both consent to it. But are we bespoiling the marriage? If it generates such happiness and positive impacts, how can that be the case? Are we bespoiling our bodies? When a man cums inside my wife, is he tainting her by leaving behind his semen? Define 'taint'. My wife can not get pregnant, so no child is being created within her that is not mine. She enjoys the act, as do I. So, how is it bespoiling her? Likewise for me. This is your journey. Don't force yourself to reconcile the concept of swinging with the Bible. Answer the questions, yes. Contort the Bible and yourself to fit this paradigm? No. Prayer, communication, and reflection will guide you.
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1 pointHello all, My wife and I are in our 40s and are Evangelical Christians and have been reading alot about how its actually not sin to swing and not adultery, based on scripture. We would love though to maybe chat with another evangelical Christian Couple who are more studied than us just to give us some tips please? We are British and in the UK, so obviously will be virtually but we would really appreciate some tips from a biblical point of view aswell as just knowing we are not the only Christian swingers Hoping another Christian couple will be willing for a quick chat sometme and connect? Thanks all
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1 pointHiding in plain sight! I love that. Alan and I had stayed with one couple at time for almost eight years, meeting mostly newbies, then we changed deciding to enjoy those we loved being with. We always let the others choose where to meet, their house or a hotel of their choice. We’ve been told that some felt a walk of shame sharing a room with us which caused me to laugh. Hiding in plain sight as you said, only we knew what was happening. Leaving to others did find us at motels I rather not stay in as well as very high scale hotels that would be a stretch for us. For a quick getaway with friends we shared a room with two queens in a corner room. We didn’t want others to hear us when walking in the hall. Hiding but not hiding. Our new favorite if having a party is someone’s house. I am not ready for too many strangers meeting, going for a few friends and possibly a friend’s friend or two. I still don’t want to be with multiple men, maybe three in the course of a party. I am interested in LS cruises or a cruise with a few friends, leaning to the latter. Renting a vacation home or cabin with others might be an option.
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1 pointA true Happy Ending or two All my thoughts were for naught. We had a much better fun and sexual night with laughs and new friendship. Laura, the wife, admitted she was very nervous the first time so she didn’t give me a real sign even though she said she didn’t think she would have stopped me if I made the move. Even now she was not that fast to go ahead as promised. She did! A few times. Was she hotwifed if her husband watched and enjoyed watching I think. For the doubters of their intentions, we spent the night and enjoyed breakfast and more fun the next day. If we didn’t have other plans last night we would have stayed another night. Now that is true happy ending or a happy beginning.
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1 pointWelcome aboard
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1 pointPersonally, I think the post doesn’t belong here. This is a lifestyle/swinger site not an escort/prostitution site. living in SoCal there are (or were pre-Covid) a few events that claimed to be hosted by pornstars. I used to see frequent posting with Carla Lane hosting. We attend a party and Ron Jeremy (surprise guest) was in attendance. Pretty much a standoffish snob. Closed down one of the playrooms so he could have VIP retreat. Not impressed. Lastly, at an hotel party we attended regularly, there was a young amateur porn actress and her BF. Super cool, fun people, who fit right into the regular group and everyone had a blast. No pay other than our $80 admission.
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1 pointAt a party once four women got together to quadruple-team helpless me. It was clearly just a performative stunt. Two of them sucked my nipples, which did absolutely nothing for me. (I asked them to stop.) While I was reclined on a bed the other two took turns sucking my cock, which did a lot for me. 😉😂 Eventually I reached orgasm, ejaculating in the mouth of the woman who was then taking her turn. When my spurting stopped she raised up her head and french-kissed the other woman who had also been sucking me. It was a long kiss. I was totally spent physically and mentally; they’d left me pretty much in post-orgasmic la-la land. But if their object in sharing my semen was also performative I enjoyed the show.
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1 pointFirst, if you haven't already, marry that woman. Second, do you ever think of what cum actually is? It is an independent living part of a man. I love the idea that when a man (or two or three) ejaculates in me he is leaving a living part of himself in me that if inside my cunt will luve for days. Third, is she bi? It's we women who love eating cum out of each others pussy and passing it back and forth while we kiss.
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1 pointMy wife, Lynn, and I were planning on meeting Mark & Karen at the swingers club in a town a few miles from our home. Karen wasn't feeling well, so our date was cancelled. We figured it was a good opportunity to meet new people, so we went to the club anyway. Beth & Christopher, a couple we have played with several times before, were there. Beth had brought her younger sister, Joanne. It seems that about a year ago, Joanne found out about Beth's & Christopher's extra-curricular activities. She was at first appalled and disappointed in her big sister. How could she think of having sex with other people? After many discussions with her sister & brother-in-law, Joanne became more and more curious about the "lifestyle." Several months later, Beth brought her to the club for the first time to see what it was like. Joanne thought it was interesting, but didn't find anyone she wanted to "play" with. On the night we met Joanne, she was very curious and asked a lot of questions about my & Lynn's relationship. She wanted to know things like how Lynn felt when she watched me fucking someone else, and did we kiss the other people we fuck? We explained how we were able to overcome jealousy and were truly in love with each other. We were very open with her, and before too long it was obvious that there was a connection between the three of us. (OK, perhaps the alcohol was having its effect as well.) Joanne was looking for a sexy adventure to tell her boyfriend when she got home and was very interested in trying a FMF three-way. And she wanted it to be with Lynn and me! She had never been with another woman before, and she thought my Lynn was "just adorable." The three of us went to one of the club's playrooms and undressed each other. Both women looked incredible naked. They began by hugging and kissing each other while I watched. Seeing their bodies pressed against each other certainly made me more that ready to join them. Joanne had some things she wanted to try. Lynn also had some ideas, and of course I had a few fantasies to fulfill. I have seen a lot of photos of combinations possible between one man and two women, and I believe we tried most of them. Joanne ate Lynn out like she'd done it for years. Her blowjobs were strong, deep, wet, and wild. Joanne was able to take in most of my modest seven inches. I have always wanted to try the position with the man on the bottom, and two women on top; one fucking him and the other sitting on his face. This position was as much fun as I thought it would be. The two women made-out with each other like crazy as they rode my cock and my face. We finished, after each of the ladies came several times, and when I came all over Joanne's face, Lynn licked it all off. Just as we finished, Joanne's sister, Beth, came into our room to check up on her sister. My wife and Joanne both thought it was wrong for Beth to be the only one in the room with clothes on, so they got Beth naked too. (Beth's hubby, Christopher, remained at the bar, meeting some new club members.) Joanne begged Beth to take a picture of the three of us. She wanted the pictures to bring home to show her boyfriend. (Taking pictures is a huge no-no at the club, but our room was mostly private, so Lynn, Joanne, and I posed as Beth took several pictures with her digital camera). After Beth finished taking the pictures, I was treated to my very first two sister blowjob. Yes, it's true. Beth & Joanne were both between my legs, licking, stroking and sucking my cock. Lynn was playing with both of them from behind. She told me later that it was totally hot switching back and forth licking the sister's pussies and asses. I'm no young stud, but with this action, I was able to cum again. Joanne & Beth shared my cum, then they both went down on Lynn with their tongues. I just sat back and stroked my cock as I watched my wife be devoured by these sexy women. Joanne promised to give us a call when she is in town again. She said she'd like to bring her boyfriend next time, which is fine with us. Joanne said that she'd email the pictures to us when she got home. I can't wait to see the pictures and for Joanne's return visit.
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1 pointI finally cleared a hurdle with my wife in that she now knows I like cum, my own at least. A couple weeks ago I decided that instead of finishing inside her pussy, I would pull out and cum ON her pussy, lick it up and then kiss her. What did I have to lose? Besides, she likes everything else so far, why not this? She like to suck my cock, fingers, and anything else that ends up wet with her pussy juice. She even likes when I help her suck her dildo. When the time came I pulled out and announced that I would cum on her pussy. Her response was more than positive. It took me longer than I expected to finally shoot but when I finally did I came buckets all over her pussy, stomach and inner thighs. I did not admire my work long though as I quickly dove in and began licking and sucking up my cum from her asshole to her navel. After I had collected all of my cum I lifted my head to show my cum filled mouth. I let some fall down onto her snatch and began playing with it with my tongue and mouth. I even got my nose involved! She loved every second of it. Finally, I scooted up until we were face to face, and then she answered my prayers by opening her mouth and presenting her tongue for me to drain my mouthful of cum onto. I was swapping cum with my wife just like you see in videos. I had done this before but this was my wife and therefore on the table on a regular basis. It was so hot. Now I regularly cum on her and lick it up. I can't tell you how big that is for us!
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1 pointI can still remember the first time my wife did that for me about 20 years ago. We were playing with our longtime friend and playmate Bill. We both had had a lot of experience playing with him. First it was a foursome with him and his now ex wife. It then evolved into threesomes with him. Along the way Bill and I started playing with each other alone part of the time. My wife knew about it and approved, but she had never seen me do oral on Bill until that one night. It started with my wife and I giving him oral together. We finished up with my wife jacking him off while I was working on the tip of his penis with my mouth and tongue until he came. We still play with Bill and my wife has seen me do oral on him until he cums many times. Bill sometimes has difficulty cumming and during a threesome when he hasn't cum even after my wife has had many orgasms and is getting a little sore, I will often finish him off orally.
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1 pointMajor fantasy of mine is to have my wife jack him off into my mouth!! YUMMY!!!!
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1 pointI have been fascinated with cum since a very young age. For me it is the height of sexuality in terms of the visual aspect and the fact that it is the ultimate goal of sex, at least for the male. Recently I have taken the step of either unloading on her pussy or face, licking it up, and then kissing her. She loves it and encourages it so that's a good thing!
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1 pointI for one thing am LOVING all the posts on this forum about how adventurous you guys are when it comes to cum play. As a cum lover myself, can I just say please don't ever change and enjoy your cum play. We hope to meet some playmates just like you guys one day, because cum play is unbelievably hot as! :-)
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1 pointI used to not like cum too much but the more sex I've had with other bi men, the more horny it makes me. One of my favorite things while sucking dick is the feeling of his shaking as he's coming combined with the hot load going down my throat, on my face or I LOVE him telling me know he's about to bust, then jack off onto my cock.....his hot load feels so good on me and then he can immediately go into sucking my cock with his cum on it.....omg so hot
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1 pointMy ex-wife and I use to really get into cum-play! She use to have the best orgasms when I'd go down on her while she was full of her lover's cum and believe me I loved it! My current wife, running hot and cold on the swinging scene (see my other thread/post), also has amazingly powerful orgasms when I go down her and eat my cum out of her but I'm dying to eat someone else's out of her. Or have her kiss me with a mouthful of his cum and let me eat it all! I can't see how guys won't eat or play with their own cum. I mean we expect everyone else to take our loads but as soon as it's 'out' they get freaked out. It baffles me but I TOTALLY get "To Each 'HIS' Own!" but thankfully I for one LOVE cum!
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1 pointI have always loved cum and even more so love guys who are comfortable with it themselves. It took me many years to get my husband to that point even though he would play however the person he was with wanted. He was never into it himself so much until years of play with me. Now he can get into it, it is hot as heck to me! I love to see cum all over his lips and watch him as he parts them and I see the cum streaming between. I can't help but shove my tongue in there and break it up, sooooo hot! We've been having entire weekend of cum play like this.
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1 pointAbsolutely. It's a major turn-on for him to play with our partner's cum.
