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Usually happens when 'they' are really a 'he' and all they want is to collect pictures. Block and move on...

So you're looking to find another guy to 'convince' your girlfriend to double team her. Wow, nothing could possibly go wrong here. As others have said, sign up with the swinger site that is prevalent in your area. You won't have any issue finding a guy to join. And if you play your cards right, this approach will get what you want AND you'll lose your girlfriend. Two for the price of one!

We both love the taste of sex. When we're at a party, and we're kissing someone, we both like it a lot if we can taste sex on their mouths. When I'm kissing a man, I want to smell and taste a pussy on his breath. And it needn't be mine. Likewise, when I'm kissing a woman, I want to smell and taste pussy or semen, if I may. As I've already mentioned in another post, the best of all is to taste my John's semen on the breath of any man or woman who has just blown him. Of course a totally super experience would be for someone to lick me 'till I come, then kiss him so he smells and tastes me, then blow him to get a load of semen in their mouth, then play snowballing with me. That is over the top. So, as I always like to do when I start a threat, I'd like to throw it open for discussion. Who likes the taste of sex on a lover's mouth? And who doesn't and why? Would you rather taste pussy or semen? And snowballing . . . love it or (as it is for many people) hate it?

People’s fantasy lives can be, and very often are, very different from what they want in their "real" sexual lives. That’s why the advice from members of this board is pretty consistently to have this conversation at the breakfast table over coffee rather than in bed while in a sexual setting. In my own erotic life one particular example of this stands out. A decades-long FWB entertained wild fantasies during sex, some of which she refused to even share with me. But she encouraged me to suggest non-conventional sexual scenarios to her while we were having sex. One I suggested was to have a close male friend of mine join us for an MFM that would include DP and her being spit-roasted. This was something I would have been more than happy to have done, so later, in a non-sexual setting, I brought it up. She was absolutely firm that she did not want to do this. But during subsequent sex sessions she enjoyed playing with that fantasy. (As an addendum, when she was in med school she had a MFF fuck-lick session with a married couple who were close friends of hers. In retrospect she was neutral about the experience, not at all sorry she’d done it, but not eager for a repeat.)

Why is it that the number of different sexual partners is important rather than sexual activity overall? Why is a woman who has infrequent vanilla sex with ten different men over a ten year period considered more experienced, slutty or whatever compared to a woman who marries a guy and over the same ten years has sex with her husband twice a day every day and does every act imaginable?

Talks filthy and I love it ! K doesn't talk dirty because she doesn't feel like she does it well and it embarrasses her .

Same problem with the religious who believe that consensual non-monogamy is a sin, but adultery is sort of ok because when some is doing it they know it is wrong, so it can be forgiven.

Have you ever raised a garden? One thing I keep hearing is "Well sown is half Grown." Getting results takes time and preparation. Your question reads like you want to go directly to the harvest. I believe that most of us who have been here for a bit have taken the time to properly put things in the ground. Let her know that you desire this. Wait for awhile. If the occasion arises you can allude to it without pushing. If she expresses any interest you can reassure her that you are serious about it , with no repercussions for her. Maybe you can offer that you would be willing to explore this with her, or be open to her researching it. Patience, Patience, Patience.

The odds of this happening are asymptotically zero. I only use Feeld these days to find prospective partners, but years ago I was more into the hotwife scene as the third for couples. I had modest success with AFF & SLS as a way of connecting with couples who "said" they were looking for a male third. For every couple with whom I had a successful sexual episode there were one or two guys where as the text discussion went on it turned out the guy wanted me to help them persuade (or seduce) their wife/partner, who either wasn’t on board or didn’t even know this was what her husband/partner had in mind. I couldn’t imagine such a scenario ever working out and as soon it became apparent that was the situation, I tapped out.

This site isn't really a hookup site, more of a discussion site. For hooking up, I'd try one of the swingers personals sites like SLS, SDC, or Swingtowns. You can set up a free profile to try them out, but once you find the one you like the best, people will take you more seriously if you spring for a paid account. Was that your main question, the best way to find a third for a threesome after you and her have already agreed to it? Just asking because it kind of reads like you are expecting the other guy to help do the convincing? If that's the case, I can about promise you that isn't going to go too well. Would you be convinced of anything if a virtual stranger is involved in doing the convincing? Probably going to have the opposite effect. Just some food for thought...

That's pretty much my comfort level: condoms when meeting out in the night life, but bareback (usually not for anal) with people that will sit down and talk about and share at least somewhat recent test results. MFM is my jam too, and I'm typically dating women that have a lot of sex partners while I don't have many others, if any. HPV is my bigger concern too, and mostly for women. It's the only sti that I've known people in my poly circles to catch. I knew a handful of people with HSV 2, but they had that from years earlier before non-monogamy. I'm about to get the HPV vaccine. I got part of the Hep B vaccine a few years ago, and need a follow up (good for those that that like to lick some ASS .( ; ).

I've heard couples on swinger podcasts that met as each being singles in the lifestyle, but it is very rare, yes. I did meet a married couple that found each other on adultfriendfinder, each of them looking for casual sex and being open to group sex.

We don’t search for Unicorns because we have found more than a few young ladies who have joined us for fun. We don’t label them as Unicorns, we call them friends.

Yup, but everyone thinks they are going to be the exception!

This is a great question because I just answered another thread and this question popped in my head too. I have not been with that many men and swinging is still brand new for us. I have always been well satisfied sexually by my husband. Being with a new sex partner was very different. I can't put my finger on what is different. I think every partner is different just like all people are different. Looking back, I can say I was seduced. We didn't just have sex that first time, he took his time. He touched me differently than my husband. He smelled differently, he tasted differently. His rhythm was different. His positions were different. His little noises were different. I can't say how but when he was giving me oral it felt different. He touched me differently and in different places. Over the years we know what our partner likes but when with someone new you find they like other things. It felt strange and fun having a man directing me to do things to him. He told me I felt tighter than his wife. I never even thought I was tight. He also said I was more limber. The same way I thought his oral was different he said "I wish .... was as good as you in sucking" Compliment?

Aaah, the smells and tastes of sex. Nothing ruins it for us more more than heavy cover ups. The smell of female musk is intoxicating, and the taste of pussy on my wife's mouth is wonderful. We came home from a night at an on-premise club and I was sucking my wife's nipples. It was then I remembered a guy cumming on them while she sucked his balls. The taste brought that whole moment back to me... and it was pretty hot.