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I think this one hits a several buttons, all at once, for me. I mean, right off the bat there is the "getting away with something naughty" part. All sorts of things push this button, but this is DEFINITELY one of them. Then, there is the voyeuristic button. I mean, watching is good, and watching someone I have a connection to is even better. Then there is the projection part. Since I know what he's feeling, I can imagine the sensations, and of course that's good. Then there is the vicarious part, of enjoying her enjoying herself (it would be no fun if she didn't). Then there is the anticipation part, because I'm going to definitely enjoy my part. Then there is the participation aspect, in that I get to be part of her kink too. Knowing that after sucking, she'll be dripping wet for me or whoever else is next is a huge turn on. Finally, although it doesn't get to control me, there is always that primal tingle of jealousy. Even if I'm thoroughly enjoying the entire spectacle, there's still that little burn at the base of the skull, where the lizard brain still whispers. So yeah, it hits all the buttons. I think the reason that oral does it more than plain old sex is that it's usually slower and more deliberate. By the time the fucking starts, everyone is purely in their moment (I hope), and so it's not so much shared or deliberate.

I don't know about other guys, but I like the way it looks. I think a woman sucking a man looks very sexy... and I can't really appreciate it the same way when the man is me, because the sensations of being blown distract from the visual impact. I love watching the show... which works perfectly for me because my wife loves putting on a show.

So I've always had the higher libido, even in my twenties but I was an exotic dancer so I was surrounded by sex 8 to 10 hours a day, and the mind wants what you feed it. My big change when I hit my 30s was more in what I wanted to do sexually started to evolve. In my twenties I was all about Male/Female vaginal sex, I sucked cock but not a lot, and I did zero anal. In my thirties I realized I loved sucking dick, and in the right circumstances I love anal. I also got less uptight about societal norms and started being open about my bisexuality and openly put women on my dance card.