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I use mine in the evening. I will strip down turn my radio on and soak while looking at the stars. Yes, my vanilla friends come over to soak and drink a few beers. They know ahead of time that I will be nude, they can be nude or wear swimsuits, most had seen me nude before because we went to high school together. We bring up all sorts of topics but try to avoid politics and religion. I really don't use my hot tub as far as sex and swinging. Neither me or K like pools or hot tubs for sex, maybe foreplay. Really it surprises me how many of our vanilla friends go nude. We have a 72 year old female neighbor that will jump in nude!

Some stats on the swinging world. Interesting that a slim majority (50.2%) of men now identify as bi. 65.8% in the 18-39 age group. I think the days of that being a closeted thing in the swinger world are coming to an end. Also surprised me that 80.5% were soft swap only. https://swingershelp.com/swinger-survey-results-2022/ And they also provide a list of most popular swinging sites in various cities. https://swingershelp.com/popular-swinging-dating-sites/

It's true, and I do think masturbation habits have a lot to do with male responsiveness. There's something called "death grip" that tends to be anecdotally associated with excessive "dry" masturbation to pornography, no lube and very hard, which can be desensitizing over time to the point that it's very difficult for a woman to provide the kind of oral stimulation the man now needs to ejaculate. She does have excellent vaginal orgasms, easily and frequently actually, and almost always upon ejaculation - she thinks it's the anticipation when she realizes a man is about to climax. They do tend to be smaller, more like waves, though. She frequently has to masturbate very hard to the point of discomfort to get off without penetration, and usually to pornography. (Which, now that I'm typing it out, resembles the so-called "death grip" situation above.) It's very possible to give her an extremely high level of stimulation with oral, but she tends to perceive it as painful and can't stay with it for more than a few seconds at a time. (I'm not actually sure how to interpret that, and neither is she. Lots of women find intense oral hard to handle, to the point restraint can be required to keep them from pushing my head away, but I've never had one use a safe word. Mrs. E is not into BDSM stuff, and doesn't tend to play through discomfort. She was actually pretty surprised to learn that her experience of receiving oral is somewhat different from others.) I do know that when Mrs. E had her FMF with her friend's boyfriend, she ended up riding him while her friend sat on his face. She thought it was hot, and hot to taste her friend on his lips as they wrapped it up. It was midnight and she had to get going and thought the face-sitting was distracting him from getting off so they changed it up to finish the night with her friend riding him.

This is our situation, we have limited our swinging to our 2 favorite couples. Before covid we would go to Mexico or Jamaica and have swapped there, but we have little interest traveling outside the country for fear of being quarantined. So in our case, yes we have limited our swapping. But it isn't just swinging, we don't eat at restaurants as much or go out to as many social events. We invite our couples to our place or go to their house.

Thanks for sharing this! Interesting!

These are interesting questions. - We've really only ever done this with other women on their back. She doesn't particularly like or dislike it more or less than anything else I do with other women, the nudity and arousal is hot to her but it's not a specific thing for her. It's possible that this has something to do with her never getting off from receiving oral - ever - it's just not as tantalizing to her as watching intercourse. - This is the specific fantasy we started out wanting to experiment with. She was not hugely confident about it the first few times, and kind of went into her own world focusing on the work. She's gotten more performative and exhibitionistic with confidence and practice, but I still do not generally try to let her run her own show her way. She is not a "submissive" type and doesn't really want direction. We've both come to enjoy sharing detailed discussions afterwards. - I love her watching. Pouring a small glass of wine and chilling out while I work on her friend can be hotter than having her actively involved in FMF.

Wife and I had played with the idea of a MFM experience for years. We are in our late sixties, but could pass for fifty. I was her only lover and never thought she would ever go along with this idea. February, 2020 I signed up with SLS and spook with several gentleman that were very interested in meeting with us. We talked about one gentleman for a month or so, and text him a lot. He was anxious to meet with us, and I would tease her about it. Then out of the blue she told me she was ready to do it. This excited and scared me at the same time. We set up the meeting and I went along thinking she was trying to teach me a lesson and, would back out at anytime. Well she did not, and it was a very hot experience. She had mutable orgasms and wore us both out. The one thing that really surprised me was how fast she was to perform oral on both of us to completion and swallowing. Up to this point she had never been very interested in performing oral on me and had never really swallowed. We have had two more MFM and she has done the same thing. I love watching her perform on the other guy and she always swallows. This is so hot. Our sex life is as hot as it was when we were in our twenties. All she has to do is smile at me and I get hard. The only down side is that she has a week or two of remorse after each meeting, then that passes and we start planing our next event. I do not push and let her lead, and she decides when, who, and where, I go along for the ride.

My wife is stunning. She is multi orgasmic. She can cum in every position. Sometimes, when she is really turned on, she'll cum while giving a blowjob. The sexiest thing in the world to me is her pleasure face. Watching the pleasure engulf her is so amazing. I can watch while in missionary, or when she is riding me but I can't watch when I'm doing her from behind. The first time we were in a foursome, she was blowing me while someone else did her from behind. I got to watch her try to focus on my cock while she started to cum from someone doing her from behind. It was unbelievable. The question is why do guys like this? That's why. My wife loves giving blowjobs. She gets pleasure from it. I love watching her get pleasure. I would guess the guys who do enjoy watching their wives have similar views. Their wives are sexy, and when their wife is having a good time, they are having a good time.

Probably because she makes it look like so much fun. I suspect that some of the guys are fantasizing about doing it themselves. I know that some of us have.

Well it totally depends to be honest with you. If it's night time and I don't have a lot of running around to do I prefer he come inside of me where I can feel his cock throb while he cums. I just love to feel that. If it's morning sex and I have a lot to do I prefer he cums on on my belly or breasts. I know no one wants to hear this but I prefer to not feel it leak out of me all day. I had an incident the other day where I let him cum inside of me before we took off and I forgot to put in a pantyliner. Well about two hours later while standing in line at McDonalds I just felt this gush and my panties and pants were soaked! He cums so much at a time I would just assume it was outside to not deal with the mess later on. I know, not the sexiest reply you could have gotten