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Before we bought our house in the country,we lived in an apartment. After our first encounter with someone seeing Mary naked she was really turned on. One day she was making the bed and noticed that the apartment across the alley had windows facing our bedroom, and bathroom. She decided to try something. That evening she left the blinds open and after her shower she walked in the bedroom naked. After about 3 nights of doing this I noticed the man next door looking at her, so I decided to let her enjoy it and give him a sow. That night when she came out he shower I was sitting on the bed naked and asked her to give me a bj. As she did I got turned on too, knowing we were being watched. After I came in her mouth I positioned her on the bed so he had a perfect view of her pussy. I started pushing my cock in her and as I did I told her we were being watched. She went wild.

Suppose it depends on what you call it as well. Like on the Feeld app, there are many younger folks talking about their ENM/poly relationships and few references to swinging.

You aren't missing much since you live a life better than porn, a poly family and your episode with Shannon and Joe. 90% of porn does nothing for me such as BDSM, rough sex, and just plain bad performance and bad camera work. What porn does for me is my kinks, I love good amateur sex in public places and female piss videos. The reason why the female piss videos take me back to my first encounters of girls and sex, just like 69 being a favorite sex position because I did 69 before intercourse. Porn is simply to satisfy my kinks.

What's actually going on there is women are just demanding less sexism than they put up with in the past. Not the physical/financial status. " But there’s a deeper problem with dating culture at play. Men are feeling lonely, because expectations for men have been famously low and they tend to half-arse both dating and their own personal development, and women are, put simply, giving up on them, weeding out the week and raising their dating standards. Psychology Today puts it this way: “[Women] prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.” And because men are… not always the best at all of those things, women are ditching them. " https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/women-dating-standards-higher-than-ever

We started with only Daniela playing. Now we've moved onto swapping within a closed group of married couples, but she often plays without me (with men or couples), mostly because of scheduling, it gives us both more opportunities to play. I appreciate that they respect her and me, and I'm proud of her.

We've played with several couples with hot tubs, and yes it was an ice breaker type deal. We eventually got one of our own, and at that time were exclusively playing with another couple, and they had one too. Whether at their place or ours, the hot tub was then more of a rest and recovery station than an ice breaker since that ice was way past shattered 😊 With vanilla friends, we'd sometimes use it on pool party nights once it got a little too cool to swim after dark. With just us, it's a relaxing in the evening before bed type thing. Strangely, we sort of run in spurts on that. This winter we haven't used it that much at all. Other years, it was every night and some mornings too. Like other things, just sort of what you get in the habit of doing, and then after a while, you get into another habit.

Yes,she is at least curious and fantasizes about having another cock to join base on my experience after introduced a dildo to my wife she first signed was shy then eventually I noticed she always reached out to my cock to suck it anytime I fucked her with the dildo then finally admitted she loves to have another cock in her mouth as long as she receiving cock in her pussy.

The central question is--who is going to maintain it? The purchase price is a number. The pleasure and value that you get out of it is only partially related to that number. It has to work as you wish it to work when you want it to work. There are bargains to be had, of course, and you can go through a big box retailer...but... it needs to be installed, maintained, and service needs to be available if and when something breaks. Make it a point to visit the local dealer and learn about local issues around maintenance and service. Ask about service in the area. Think about how the spa will be maintained when you are not at that location. Consider the various systems aimed at keeping the spa clean and clear--bromine, chlorine and silver, saltwater systems and so on. Think about the options you really are going to use. Absolutely, look at the size of the tub and think about how it will feel with four people in it. Think about the cost/comfort relationship with a five/six place tub if you expect to use with just four people. Think about lights, jets, sound, etc. Covers are often an afterthought, but remember that when the spa is not in use, it needs to be covered--and investing in a good cover system will save you heat loss, cleaning time, and back pain.

Shannon texted me and said it was great to meet me and when it’s possible that we should get together, she and Joe would like to meet David and our children. I don’t know when that might happen. I’m certainly not going through the same trouble I did just to tease myself again.

An interesting turn of phrase.

Perhaps it's age, we have observed the same thing--no one is either surprised or distressed hearing that we do not wear anything in the hot tub. Nearly all who choose to join us are perfectly comfortable nude. There is an occasional younger adult guest who is (mentally) uncomfortable with social nudity, and we of course permit them to wear a suit--we ask that they choose an old one and make sure it is free of detergent and other things that stick on textiles. They quickly see our comfort and their (now physical) discomfort. Unsurprisingly, the next time they come in to the hot tub sans textiles.

You may not have had a pre-game discussion, but you handled it perfectly, creating the opportunity, but letting your girlfriend/wife maintain control the whole way. And thus: I'm not surprised.

Different men pump at different frequencies. Different women trace different patterns with their tongue.

The way forward is for you to allow your husband to be with other women if that’s what he wants. Now if he’s content to *not* do that while you screw other men … fine, because it’s HIS decision. But your unwillingness to allow him the same freedom you want for yourself is the epitome of self-centeredness … something that doesn’t work *at all* in the Lifestyle. If you can’t give him that freedom, then you need to stop what you’re doing now!

Your selfishness is stunning. It's been all about more cocks for you but a woman gives a quick suck and you're distraught and end the activities... Same advice here as a few other threads about jealousy. Stop swinging. You want whatever you desire and flip when your husband gets the same thing? This goes nowhere good.

Took many years and the entire trip has been amazing. Now the sex is off the charts!

A fantasy doesn't make you bi. However doing it does make you bi in the eyes of others. You can "lick a dick" and still deny being bi and for all intent and purposes you won't be bi if you don't admit it to yourself. Just be sure the guy your licking is OK with it. Otherwise you might be a bi guy with a black eye.