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It may arise from my earlier insecurities with my body - small tits, large lips that have to be moved aside, big clit. But I am cute. Yes! Oh, yes. After wondering if she feels as good to him as I do, can I be as eager, I want him, I want her, I'm dripping wet. My desire is to suck his dick and taste them both, get him hard again and in me, lick her as he fucks me, stealing his cum out of her. Painful bliss. I can understand David or Red just fucking a woman for the sex, they've done it and so have I with other men. But understand that Red and David love Clair and Lora, as do I, since we women have had a child with both men and only them. Especially my husband David - he's never said so, but he loves Lora more than me (but me no less than he ever has). Poly life isn't always easy, sex within the family is never "just sex."

OK, I'll admit one of my fantasies is to eat my wife's pussy after another man has cum inside of her. I also wouldn't mind eating a cum filled pussy other than my wife's. I have had this fantasy for years, but have never had the chance to do it, mostly because my wife doesn't want me to and secondly because I haven't done it before and I have the "First Time Factor" syndrome....I guess I am a little reserved. I've asked my wife several times in the past before we play with another to let me come over after he has cum inside her and have me clean her up. She knows I want to suck her cum filled pussy. I've even considered eating her pussy after I cum in her, and a few times have come close but she gently pushes my head away. A few times I have brought myself just to climax then held back and cum a little in and on her pussy without her knowing and then went down on her and sucked her. So, how many people here, men and women like to have their pussies eaten after being fucked and like to eat cum filled pussies? I don't think I'm too weird. Maybe I am. I wish my wife would let me do it. I did have the opportunity once to suck my cum out of the female partner of a couple we were playing with, but I sort of chickened out....I think because it was all my cum. However I am sure if it was another man's cum I would have went right down and sucked her clean. What's others experiences? Yes or No? Good or Bad?

I can't be the only one this has ever happened to... our old friend jealousy came to visit me recently and that made me say some things in a manner that was not reflective of my true feelings resulting in a bit of damage in my relationship. During a play session with another couple I noticed that my partner was doing things with our lady friend that he hasn't done with me in a while. So instead of doing the right thing and communicating effectively about it I went about it completely wrong and did something never wanted to do and that is hurt him. First let me tell you what I did and then I'll tell you what I should have done. Looking back at the experience I now see that I probably had feelings that I didn't understand in my alcohol infused state during play time that resulted in my sabotaging my experience. That is called jealousy. I saw him doing things to her that I wanted him to do to me but instead of using that as a relationship builder, I completely messed up, got my feelings hurt and sent him a text message. In my defense, which is mute at this point, I felt the text message would be received in a more upbeat way. But that's the thing about text messages; they are recieved through the voice of the reader not the intention of the sender. I tell all of my couples to never talk about important issues through text and then what did I do... Here is what I should have done but hindsight is always much clearer than the presented issue, right? I should have figured out what he did with her that I wanted from him and said something to the effect of: "I really liked watching you do ---- to her, do you think you could do that to me tonight?" Yes folks, that is the mature way to deal with jealousy in this situation but of course, I did not have the forethought to behave in this way and I hurt my beloved partner because of my inability to effectively communicate my needs. I am human, sharing your partner is difficult at times but I have made it even more difficult by allowing jealousy to sneak in. I know we will make it through this stronger but it doesn't stop the initial damage my stupidity has caused. Have you every experienced something like this? If so, how did you handle it?

Our first MFM will always be special in our couple memory. Not only because it's been a very erotic evening, intense, full of pleasure, but also because... well... a first is a first! We will probably tell that story soon in a post, but first we would like to read from your first MFM. How did it happen? What brought you 3 together? Was it planned? What happened? Make us dream... tell us everything about that special night... 😘😘

Before we bought our house in the country,we lived in an apartment. After our first encounter with someone seeing Mary naked she was really turned on. One day she was making the bed and noticed that the apartment across the alley had windows facing our bedroom, and bathroom. She decided to try something. That evening she left the blinds open and after her shower she walked in the bedroom naked. After about 3 nights of doing this I noticed the man next door looking at her, so I decided to let her enjoy it and give him a sow. That night when she came out he shower I was sitting on the bed naked and asked her to give me a bj. As she did I got turned on too, knowing we were being watched. After I came in her mouth I positioned her on the bed so he had a perfect view of her pussy. I started pushing my cock in her and as I did I told her we were being watched. She went wild.

Fear not. Nobody handles polite rejection better than those in the swinger community. It's a core skill.

Totally bareback, we adore cum. We trust the group we are with and always hope no one does something stupid to ruin the group. We have all the cock, ass, pussy, cum, fingers, mouths, etc we could ever need and so far so good for many years. It's when we open up to new couples that is always a bit challenging but once we get to know them well and slowly let them insert themselves everyone loosens up. We have 3 newer couples and they have all made it past that stage. Everyone is free and open in what they like to do and are willing to offer. It always takes a while but now even they are all bareback sexers. We all are extremely careful and safe with regards to all the anal sex we have and take lots of showers, which is fun in in itself. We have oh so many showers scenes - lol. Bareback in the shower rocks because of all the easy access and cleaning. It's fun to help others clean as well while getting taken bareback and cum filled, I love oral after loads of cum filled pussies and pussy coated cocks. We are redesigning a wall in our largest shower room to have lower bend over walls so more people can bend over and get taken from behind, cum filled, played with, more cum filled, cleaned up for even more. We are also trying to design better hand holds for safer stand up sex in the showers. We can comfortably fit 8 people at a time in our largest so its a great deal of fun for group sex with lots of cum. The only challenge is trying not to loose the cum - lol. Even with the water off or turned down while having sex that darn cum can run out fast sometimes. We have two guys with very thick cum that sticks pretty well but the weight at times can make even it get wasted. Nothing worse than wasted cum in my opinion! Darn gravity. :0

Yeah see people declaring that they are ENM as part of their dating profile right from the get go with younger folks. As opposed to the more stereotypical husband of years trying to talk his wife into swinging of the past.

My ex wife had 3 kids, 2 boys 10 pound each and a girl 9 pounds. On the last birth she had a 10 pound boy and needed no stitches. The other mothers couldn't believe how she had a 10 pound baby and no stitches. But as far as fucking her, her pussy was tight! The loosest pussy I ever had was in college, she was a small woman who never had kids, but got extremely excited.

I agree, GoldCoCouple made an excellent point, different age groups use different labels for what at its heart, is basically the same thing. Maybe good example would be how often do you see the term "wife swapping" now vs 20 years ago?

We've played with several couples with hot tubs, and yes it was an ice breaker type deal. We eventually got one of our own, and at that time were exclusively playing with another couple, and they had one too. Whether at their place or ours, the hot tub was then more of a rest and recovery station than an ice breaker since that ice was way past shattered 😊 With vanilla friends, we'd sometimes use it on pool party nights once it got a little too cool to swim after dark. With just us, it's a relaxing in the evening before bed type thing. Strangely, we sort of run in spurts on that. This winter we haven't used it that much at all. Other years, it was every night and some mornings too. Like other things, just sort of what you get in the habit of doing, and then after a while, you get into another habit.

We just replaced out 25 year old Jacuzzi with a Sundance. A seven man, it was not cheap, a mere 17K. But it was the best use of a tax refund I've ever made! That thing has jets and a half! We are still waiting to break its sex cherry, but we don't swing with people here in town, rarely out of town.

The central question is--who is going to maintain it? The purchase price is a number. The pleasure and value that you get out of it is only partially related to that number. It has to work as you wish it to work when you want it to work. There are bargains to be had, of course, and you can go through a big box retailer...but... it needs to be installed, maintained, and service needs to be available if and when something breaks. Make it a point to visit the local dealer and learn about local issues around maintenance and service. Ask about service in the area. Think about how the spa will be maintained when you are not at that location. Consider the various systems aimed at keeping the spa clean and clear--bromine, chlorine and silver, saltwater systems and so on. Think about the options you really are going to use. Absolutely, look at the size of the tub and think about how it will feel with four people in it. Think about the cost/comfort relationship with a five/six place tub if you expect to use with just four people. Think about lights, jets, sound, etc. Covers are often an afterthought, but remember that when the spa is not in use, it needs to be covered--and investing in a good cover system will save you heat loss, cleaning time, and back pain.

My guess is that more younger people are involved. It has always appeared to us that there is two groups: 20-29 and over 40 with the 30-39 group being involved with raising families. One possible reason that the 20-29 group is so low in this pole is because they might not call it swinging, but just playing or experimenting or some other word. "Swinging" all too often can bring up ideas of the 1970's: shag carpeting, sunken living rooms, fondue parties, and the like. If you don't actually GO to a 'swingers club', does it still count as swinging if a young couple has a threesome or swaps with another young couple? I think it might just have to do with where the survey got their data from and what the definition of 'swing' is/was...

For me it's 60 visual and 40 percent personality. My type of woman is either very tall and thin or short and buxom both with long black hair. I am 62 and not as picky as I was 10 years ago, personality goes a long way now. When I was forty I preferred beauty and she could have had a personality like a doorknob, not anymore! Being older, I just don't put up with a party pooper. Give me the lady with a momma belly or c-section scar over a stick in the mud.

Let her know that she is in control and can make the decisions for both of you in all respects - who, where, when, how often, whether you're there or not, whether and how you participate. Make her comfortable with what it is she decides. Tell her that you will support her whatever she decides, don't criticize, and tell her that you are grateful to be the one taken along on her adventures. Worked for me.

I love licking my cum from my wife's pussy. During sex 1 night I told her I wanted to lick her pussy after I came in her. She said OK. After I came, I backed out due to post orgasmic blues. After a few times of trying, I told her I wish she had made me follow through. For a Father's day present, she strapped me down to the bed and rode me cowgirl style. When I was getting close, she said " I hope you really want me to make you follow through because as soon as you cum I am sitting on your face and you will swallow everything that I push out and then lick me clean. " Right then I shot my load. She reached back and fondled my balls and said that's it, fill me with your cum. When he started to shrink, she moved up to my face and lowered herself down to my mouth and said swallow it all. I had to swallow twice, then I licked her clean. We now routinely do this.

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Very happy to see I'm not alone with this desire. The thought of eating her out after another guy comes inside of her gets me very excited. I told her about it a few years ago and we worked it into our fantasy/role playing. I'll come inside her and she'll get dressed and pretend she just came home from fucking a guy she met in the bar and I'll eat her out

When my Hubby and I are in full animal-mode, I want him to try more kink than he already had. I did have a finger full of another guy's cum and got him to lick it and he has been able to tell the different tastes like I do, besides, seeing him have cum on his tongue whether it's his or other's, I still get extra wet. Laura Laura and Dave vegasnudecoupl

I'd suggest you get off AFF and go to one of the pay swinger sites that cover Florida, SDC or SLS. While there are flakes on every site, AFF seems to be the market standard.

We have been swinging for 15 years and have found that nearly all the rules we first had have disappeared including the MUST wear condom rule. We do insist upon condoms on the few occasions a year when we go to a club where, in the heat of the moment, in a group, selectivity may be impacted. At clubs, we always use condoms and will walk away if a guy even tried to slip it in bareback. That has led to a few tense moments. With good friends or at parties where we know and trust the host, we go bareback. Mrs Doc loves the different feel of each uncovered cock as it enters her. As for cumming, she absolutely knows when an uncovered dick cums in her and it often sets off another orgasm for her. I much prefer the feeling of thrusting deeply into my partner as I cum inside her. Its way more stimulating, intimate and satisfying than cumming in a latex tube.

I have gone to adult book stores and gotten paid to do BJs. Hubby goes along as a body guard and to watch. He likes seeing me get people off.

Nope, You're not alone. I have noticed the same thing. Seems anal and MFM is the craze in porn anymore. OH yea, and facials. (never did get that one) How about some good old fashioned FMF once in a while.