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Wrote this in another thread. The interaction there is much more civil than other swinging related sites/apps we've tried. More moderated and with face pics being the rule rather than private bits seems to keep people on better behavior. But with that also comes more of an ENM dating scene rather than one night hookups(though you can still find those there too it's not the overall vibe). Feeld caters pretty specifically to the non-monogamous folks. The majority of people we see there are ethically non-monogamous in a couple. Where each member of the couple has their own profile but they are linked together. Also generally very nice and genuine. Having a much better experience than SLS/AFF/SDC. Much lower pressure, just friendly interactions. Profile pictures are PG and no one has hounded us for anything more. None of the immediate dick pic nonsense. More how's your day going, what's your favorite drink, what would you want to do on a date sort of more normal small talk. We're liking that environment.

I am an older man in an ENM relationship whose wife doesn’t play. Per my longstanding agreement with my wife I play with couples and at parties. As others here on the board can confirm, that makes establishing connections challenging. Most of my successful lifestyle connections I’ve developed over the 19 years that I have been intentionally active in the lifestyle have been through networking with others who are also in the lifestyle. I tried paid memberships with both AFF & SLS. Although I did make several successful connections on those platforms, the small ratio of wheat to chaff was daunting. I found both to be too much "Wild West" with lots of misrepresentation and fantasy folk, so I eventually stopped using them. Several years ago while working out I was listening to a podcast. The guest was — I swear this is true — Rudy Giuliani’s polyamorous daughter. In the course of the podcast she spoke about Feeld as a platform that had proved useful to her in finding partners. So I signed up and it has worked well for me. (For those who are not familiar with Feeld, actual humans confirm your identity as well as your partner’s (assuming you have one). Based on your particular interests the algorithm serves up prospective connections from within the metro area you have specified. You indicate those individuals with whom you would like to converse. For about a dollar you can send a "ping" that tells that person you are interested. If they are the platform connects you and you can begin a text conversation and take it from there.) I can’t speak to how many folks on Feeld are couples looking for couples, because that isn’t my criteria. But I get served up a lot of couples who are looking specifically for a man (MFM or MMF) or are at least open to that. I can’t confirm because I don’t don’t see the entire spectrum of folks on the platform, but my sense is that most people are looking for something other than one-and-done experiences. But if anyone here on Swingersboard is on Feeld and into ultra-short experiences I’d be interested learning if Feeld has worked well for you. From my perspective Feeld is great. It’s so hard for someone my age, gender (male) and relationship status to establish successful connections that proceed to a bedroom, that I focus my efforts on establishing reasonably durable FWB ones. While I still come across some flakes and fakes, there are relatively few. (I’ve yet to come across someone who is looking to arrange a 15-man gangbang for their wife as an initiation to the lifestyle. 😉😂 ) I’ve made far more genuine connections. And while fewer than half progress all the way to sex, enough of them do. Of all publications, The New Yorker magazine recently ran a favorable article about Feeld. I believe you can read a couple of articles before the paywall pops up. Otherwise, if you are interested PM me and I will send you a "fair use" excerpted version that contains the gist of the article. https://www.newyorker.com/culture/annals-of-inquiry/feeld-dating-app-sex

Well… myself and wife had a little night away we had planned at the end of last month and let’s say it really didn’t disappoint, it was obviously the first time ever doing anything and was a fantasy/talk upto this point until my wife actually told me she wanted do it, and that we actually did think I’m still hard from it all

TeamCalgary, Feeld is good for finding others seeking ongoing friendships, as Nerds and I have noted. Your concerns about the geographic factor is a reasonable one. You have observed that Canada appears to generally get short-shrift from all lifestyle platforms. Here’s my perhaps relevant experience with Feeld in that regard. We spend most of our time in our home in a quite rural part of the Hudson Valley (an hour’s drive to the closest big box store). But we also own an apartment in Manhattan and spend some time there. Feeld follows me around. (I think I gave it permission to do that.) When we are up in the Hudson Valley I get relatively few prospects served up, and many of them turn out to be farther distant than those far-away big box stores. (Keep in mind that I’m an older man who plays without my wife, and I’m looking for couples who want to play together. That’s a small universe…😉😂) But Feeld knows when we are in NYC and I get quite a few hits. And if we travel to Boston, D.C. or another area Feeld will automatically serve up prospects in that area. It’s a mixed blessing. It’s always nice to make a connection, but because I’m looking for ongoing relationships someone a three- or four-hour drive (a plane-ride) away is of limited value for me or for them. Overall to me one of the good aspects of Feeld is its geographic specificity. For members who are planning a trip to an area far away there is a feature called "Teleport" which allows you to see and be seen in different major metro areas in North America and Europe without actually being there yet. My suggestion is to give Feeld a try For a month or 90 days. Three months of the premium (called "Majestic") membership is about $25 USD. Purchase a dozen "Pings" (which allow you to notify folks you are served up of your interest.) The Calgary metro area is about 1.5 million, so there should be a decent number of folks who fit your criteria assuming the two of you play together and are not looking for something too exotic. Depending on how satisfactory you find the results during those three months, you can cancel your membership or proceed. (For me, making a couple of connections that lead to a coffee or meal meet up is well worth the quarterly price.)

We may be misunderstanding this situation, but it appears to us, that you are driving this wagon, not her. Our suggestion, would be that you let her at least sit beside you upfront on the wagon. The situation you seemed to pine for is potentially a lit match in a fireworks factory; if everything, absolutely everything lines up as per expected, all good. All it would take would be one spark for this to blow up in your (and her) faces. This is not a great choice for a first activity; the combination of the lack of your experience coupled with your obvious lack of understanding of this pursuit has us questioning the wisdom of your plan. Take this in small bites my friend before you jump into the all you can eat buffet.

Fifteen? Holy cow! You haven't mentioned if she was even interested in such a thing.

I think he means, "A gangbang with ten guys for a initial foray into the lifestyle? Hmmm. Good luck!"

Totally bareback, we adore cum. We trust the group we are with and always hope no one does something stupid to ruin the group. We have all the cock, ass, pussy, cum, fingers, mouths, etc we could ever need and so far so good for many years. It's when we open up to new couples that is always a bit challenging but once we get to know them well and slowly let them insert themselves everyone loosens up. We have 3 newer couples and they have all made it past that stage. Everyone is free and open in what they like to do and are willing to offer. It always takes a while but now even they are all bareback sexers. We all are extremely careful and safe with regards to all the anal sex we have and take lots of showers, which is fun in in itself. We have oh so many showers scenes - lol. Bareback in the shower rocks because of all the easy access and cleaning. It's fun to help others clean as well while getting taken bareback and cum filled, I love oral after loads of cum filled pussies and pussy coated cocks. We are redesigning a wall in our largest shower room to have lower bend over walls so more people can bend over and get taken from behind, cum filled, played with, more cum filled, cleaned up for even more. We are also trying to design better hand holds for safer stand up sex in the showers. We can comfortably fit 8 people at a time in our largest so its a great deal of fun for group sex with lots of cum. The only challenge is trying not to loose the cum - lol. Even with the water off or turned down while having sex that darn cum can run out fast sometimes. We have two guys with very thick cum that sticks pretty well but the weight at times can make even it get wasted. Nothing worse than wasted cum in my opinion! Darn gravity. :0

My wife would definitely prefers bareback and creampie since she admitted she feel more skin contacted for bareback & she enjoys most when receiving cum inside but of cause under the must condition is have to be clean of diseases.

We've done it once for my wife's birthday last year with the husband of a couple we're good friends with. We did both DP and DVP. I'd be up for doing it again.

Another variant: with another couple, I went into his wife's pussy missionary and he into my ass doggy. Some weeks later, we switched, he in my wife's cunt and I buggered him. It was the women's idea. It was ok both ways, but we never did it again. The only gay stuff I've done has been at the girls urging.

One of my greatest memories was when our longtime best male friend and I were having a threesome. When I was on my back having intercourse with my wife, he would lick and play with my balls. When he had intercourse with my wife, I would do the same to him. We also did DVP with him and it was great.

i love seeing her riding a nice looking cock. Love to eat her pussy and give his shaft and balls a little attention as well.