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I am flattered by your wanting me to give my view on this. Two points. As with many terms in the general non-monogamous lifestyle, the words “poly” and “polyamorous” mean different things to different people and get thrown around loosely. For us, it defines our family as being very tightly bonded by emotions, love, sex, children, finances, and a shared home. Although we can’t have a traditional marriage among us (and don’t expect society and the legal system to recognize us as a married fivesome), we have tried to cement the bonds among all of us by a number of other means to achieve the same ends with agreements drawn up by lawyers, accountants, insurance policies, tax experts, commonly owned real estate. We even have plans vetted by our attorneys of who should marry among us if certain things (like death) should happen. It helps that every child is biologically the products of a mix of only us in the family. In short, for us “poly” means as tightly together as possible. But there are plenty of other interpretations given in the posts above and no official definition anywhere. Second, it is up to you, and only you, to decide what is right for you. If the couple that you are involved with is changing the arrangement among you all in any way (emotional, sexual, financial) you all need to talk about it. If it no longer suits you, leave. I, and all the others in my family put the others first, most especially the children. We are all generous with the others in our family. If you are not getting the respect to which you are entitled - honesty, transparency, fairness – have a serious conversation. If it is not what you want, you must be prepared to move on. It doesn’t matter what you call it – poly, a throuple, polygamy, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, swingers – the point by point attributes of you relationships with both of them must align with your needs and desires. Your concerns are genuine. Choose the best course.

A carefully screened single male from our swinger's website or a lucky find "in the wild", but never a friend, coworker or family member.

The reason I wanted to hear from couplers is that she is the most clearly defined "poly" contributor on this list. Before generalising on this her input was important. What I am seeing in the answers above: Your questions and concerns are genuine reasonable and reality facing. 1. You may be letting the term poly throw you. 2.Try considering this in terms of just normal human to human relationships. 3. If the situation has changed from what you have accepted and expected, then it is time to reexamine. 4. Talk this out with your partners. Perhaps some mutually satisfactory clarity can be had. 5.If this can not be worked out to everyone's happiness, then it may be time to move on.

That makes it extra spicy!!!!!

We are on the Desire Greek Island cruise Aug 26-Sept 2, 2023 if that is the one you are referring to. We've been on 12 lifestyle cruises including a Desire cruise last year out of Lisbon. Of all of the LS cruises we've done, we like the Desire cruises as the best for several reasons: 1. Smaller ship (they use the Azamara Lines) which has ~350 cabins or 700 people. Compare that to cruises like Bliss that have from 2,300 to over 5,000 on board and you can see that the Desire cruise will be more intimate and easier to meet and find couples. 2. Cruise package includes the Premium drink package or you can upgrade to the Ultimate package if you like 3. Desire brings a select group of Play Makers on board from the resorts so the program is always active. Now about lifestyle cruises in general: 1. Theme nights each night and most dress for theme nights but not required. Personal experience says that if you do dress in theme, you'll invite more interaction. 2. Dinner dress is as sexy as you want without being topless and bottomless. Short and sheer work well. Wear those sexy dresses that never see the light of day at home. 3. Pools are clothing optional while at sea. While at port, it can depend on the port and if ships are docked next to ours. 4. There is a playroom that is active. No sexual activity allowed around the pool at any time. Only the playroom and your cabin. 5. We are at ports most days so the day time is port focused with tours and such. The evening back on the ship shifts into adult party time. 6. You will find all ages and body types on board but most passengers will be in the 40's and 50's age group. Some lower and some higher. 7. You don't have to be in the lifestyle to enjoy the cruise. There will be a mix of swingers, nudists and couples that just want a sexy vacation in a sexy vibe. No pressure. Other notes for those that have not cruised or cruised little... arrive at least ONE day early. For Europe, we plan 2 days early to mitigate lost luggage and delayed flights. It's happened to us on trips to Europe where we arrived over 24 hrs later than planned. Check to see if there are special events going on in Athens during arrival and departure dates. Special events will book up hotels early so make hotel reservations ASAP. We are also going on the Desire Venice cruise in May and Venice is booked up for hotels long ago due to a special event taking place there. An option to consider is a special Pre Cruise event that the agency we use to book with is putting on in Athens. A 2-3 day option including hotel, transfers and some excursions and meals. We've booked several with her and like it as much as the cruise. Feel free to reach out on any questions.

There are two reasons that I like to have an MFM with my wife. The first is that I am happy, as you should be, that she is having a good time, perhaps enjoying experiences and pleasures that she hasn't had before, even with me. It doesn't mean she thinks less of you or wants you less. When my wife has mind blowing sex with another man, I am the one who gets the credit for it. Second, when another guy is enjoying sex with my wife, he is jealous of me, no different than if he borrows a car or boat of mine he covets, or he's a guest at a club I belong that he envies. He gets to sample it, but it's mine. Same with my wife, she is still mine but happier and with a glow of desirability from other men. (Not "mine" as in possession, but "mine" in that she wants to be with me.) Primary for all of this though is that the sex she has with other men is what she wants to do. Maybe she doesn't want an MFM with me. Maybe she wants to play with some other guy alone. Or another couple alone. Or even have an MFM with two other men. All either with me there or not their. Her call, her pleasure. She always comes home grateful, which is all that I want. (Her gratitude, or just personality, is to give me all the sex I need and still let me play with other women.)

My ex wife had 3 kids, 2 boys 10 pound each and a girl 9 pounds. On the last birth she had a 10 pound boy and needed no stitches. The other mothers couldn't believe how she had a 10 pound baby and no stitches. But as far as fucking her, her pussy was tight! The loosest pussy I ever had was in college, she was a small woman who never had kids, but got extremely excited.

My wife and I have a lot of fantasies about this subject, and we've tried many things so far. Recently I was on a business trip and on the day I was supposed to arrive, my wife called and told me that she had a surprise for me when I arrived. I got very excited and decided to take a potency-boosting drug 15 minutes before entering the house. When I arrived and walked into the house, I was very surprised as my wife was having sex with two men, and I immediately joined them. The evening went great:)

The first timed my gal took on a very large (9X6") cock was an exciting time for me too. We were traveling on the West Coast and arranged to have him meet us at a hotel where we would be staying that night. We had reserved a room just down the hall from our room, where her mother was staying with us. After my gal got ready we said goodnight to her mom and went down the hall to his room. After some chat sitting on the bed, I invited him to kiss her to get the party started. As they began French kissing, I started helping her get undressed. Soon she had his cock out and was stroking and sucking on it. I was amazed at how large it was. He and I alternated giving her oral until she came. By that time hie cock was soft so she started stroking and sucking it again. My head was close to hers and she pushed his cock over in front of my mouth and asked me to suck it while she sucked his balls. I did and she did. When his cock was hard he put on a condom. I rubbed the head of his cock up and down in her pussy slit, and on her clit. He then said, "I have it," and started easing his cock into her pussy. He gently pushed it in and pulled it out, getting deeper and deeper each time. When he had about six inches of his cock in, she said, "Deep enough!" They fucked for about 45 minutes until he came. After a break, he and I rimmed her until her ass was fairly relaxed and loose. After she and I got his cock hard again, he put on a condom and with me lubing his cock, he worked it slowly in her ass until he was balls deep. They fucked for about 50 minutes until he came again. She loved it and kept asking him to fuck her hard and deep in her ass. Rather than be jealous of her enjoying his big cock, I was very happy that she felt so good while fucking it. That was the beginning of her becoming a size queen. Fortunately, her pussy returned to its regular very tight shape shortly after she fucked guys with large cocks. So, by the time we fucked after a session with a big cock, her was pussy tight, juicy, and hot, and always gave me a wonderful feeling during our after swing fuck. We always viewed that session with her first very large cock as one of our most memorable swing sessions.

I love anal sex, but it's because of the taboo of it... nothing to do with Shelly's theory of analivity. Although I like the term. It is just very very naughty and very very erotic. Lucky for me that Mrs. WS loves it. As far as tightness? I still find my most intense orgasms are via vaginal. I think because the anus is tight going in but not tight after that. The vagina completely encompasses the penis equally from top to bottom. More sensation over a larger area. Mr. WS