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I signed up for Ashley Madison and am already getting messages sent to me. Mike and I have read every message together also looking at profiles. I won’t make any move without Mike’s approval. We also have an opportunity to meet someone that we met at a party about 5 years ago and that may be something we do next.

Hello let's do it again, What you have alluded to, is the primary reason why many couples, including us, have no face pictures on the "public" aspects of our profiles. We exchange face pics when we have spoken with and vetted couples and only then. Unless your wife was working within the terms of an employment contracted that specifically called out certain views/activities as being grounds for dismissal, what her former employer chose to do is certainly legally actionable.

How do the prospects look on Ashley Madison? And tell us more about the person from five years ago...

There is definitely some crossover, but nudist does not equal swinger (and vice versa)

A cuckold is the man whose wife is unfaithful. I am not unfaithful because I have sex with Michael’s knowledge so he’s not a cuckold. I am not demeaning him by having sex even if some of the ungrateful guys try making fun of him.

My mom, dad and sister know of our family; it's hard to hide unlike in the beginning. Mom, despite her moral disapproval, has reconciled herself to the situation and is wonderful with the children, accepting all of them as her grandchildren (even the brown ones). Dad disowned me years ago and we are estranged. My sister is accepting but ... basically jealous. (Her marriage is always in turmoil, but they stay together.) Yes. Their like of our arrangement varies, as does contact with different relatives.

Yes with his expressed permission beforehand.

We are ok with mostly everything except for pain or dirty stuff, and after almost 10 years in the lifestyle I have received many uncommon requests. For me, I would say feet-related things are the most popular requests I received. For my husband, the usual request he receives is to have rough sex with the other lady, like rough anal sex, cock slapping her face, choking, etc.

When me and my ex were swinging, we swapped with a Baptist preacher and his wife. The preacher's wife had always wanted to strap on a cock and give it to the preacher, which he would not allow. So she asked me if she could me, and I said "you can have my ass, if I can have yours". She surprised me how good she was, because as she fucked my ass she also reached around and jerked me off. I really don't find this too odd, I think alot of women have this fantasy of strapping it on and giving it hard to her man or another woman,.

Swinging never damaged my relationships, but there was well deserved damage to my self esteem. After having married David while still having Red as my lover, I was full of myself. I thought I was a master of sex with men (not yet having discovered my Lesbian side) and believing that I could easily manage an expanded sex life. So I thought when I met Sam, found him attractive, and announced to hubby and Red that I was going to have sex with him as well. Well I did, and it wasn't fulfilling or even fun. The first couple of times were exciting, but Sam was a poor lover. He thought he was God's gift to women, just wanted me to blow him and fuck me in my bum, which was OK but anal alone doesn't make me cum, and he didn't care about my orgasms or satisfaction at all. On top of that Sam disparaged my husband (he didn't know about Red), saying that David must be sexually inadequate for me to let him fuck me, and a wimp when I told Sam that hubby knew about us and was OK with it. I would complain to David how my fling with Sam wasn't working as I had expected, and what I was thinking that I needed to do to improve it. (I'm compulsive and goal oriented.) David gave me the best advice - that it wasn't my solely responsibility to make whatever I was doing with Sam feel right. It then became clear to me that I was taking credit for the two relationships that I had with Red and David being so great, when in reality it was their attitude and efforts that made everything work so well on every level. My husband is a saint and the wise man in all of this. I would come home, we'd have sex (because despite what Sam did I still needed to fuck my husband and Red) and I would complain about how badly it was going. He told me it wasn't my responsibility to make this work, it wasn't a failure on my part, that I could end it. He was right. I ended it, humbled, and all was good.

Before becoming Mrs we were set up with a couple as a show for someone who watched. We were athletic and the other couple was an athlete too. He had to be 6’5” at least and his partner was very fit and hot. We were stripped down and some just talking for the first time, we just met. I noticed the snake hanging half way down his thigh. I was gawking and leading Honey’s eyes to his long cock. I was thinking what his girl thought of mine and if she was going to feel me. The girl I was going to fuck was muscular with a gorgeous bubble butt and firm tits. Honey turned to me and said let’s have fun. And fun she had and I had fun. We weren’t married and I just thought how I could ever fill her again.

Only seen her with 2 men in person in a club setting. Have her on camera maybe 5 times and there are countless others. She plays mostly solo. My cock is on the smaller side and everyone comments on how tight she is. So seems like almost everyone is larger than me, but she has told me stories about 8,9,10+inches guys. 1 or 2 being to big to fully take ( 2nd person in the scenario) I can think of 2 people in particular. This is going back 6 years ago. One was from the local work out place. He was tall, skinny and packing around 7-8” she really enjoyed him right off the bat. Another was a really tall heavier guy that use to plow our drive way ( not the only thing) that she said was just enormous. They were together a half a dozen times at least and he slowly stretched her out to the point where she was able to accept him somewhat comfortably. She has been with a lot of men ( we lost count) some one time only and a couple was a steady thing. I remember being insider her after her and the “plow guy “as we called him became more of a thing and thinking wow I can actually feel her stretched out. It turned me on knowing she was getting fucked by a cock so large it literally made it feel like I just fell in and had room to move ( think hula hoop, lol) as that’s the turn on for me. For her to get pleasure and honestly get fucked like I can’t. It’s a mix of emotions and it’s addictive.

The second time I actually got hard seeing his big hard dick. I also enjoy watching him stick it in her at first having to work it in and open her up because he is so big and she is so tight. My favorite part is seeing her pussy and his dick when he cums and takes it out.

My girlfriend wanted to try a MFM threesome on her birthday. One of my friends just broke up with he girlfriend and also has a 8.5 inch plus dick. (She knew this because his ex girlfriend told her before). We got a hotel, played cards and drink, took our pants off and had casual sex with her for a couple hours, trying different positions, taking breaks switching back and fourth. I was having sex with her doggy style while she was sucking his dick and he goes "Im about to cum" and she goes "no wait I want you to cum in my pussy." I take my dick out and he comes around back, she props her ass up over the bed, and I watched him put it in. He pounded her hard for about 20 seconds and exploded inside her pussy. It was the hottest thing I have ever seen when he dick flopped out followed up a huge glob of jizz from her pussy and cum dripping off his dick still. She hoped back onto the bed and spread her legs to show us all the cum dripping out. We all kinda laughed. Not sure how I was going to feel about it but I was unexpectedly turned on by looking at his dick. I was sitting in the chair with a super hard dick, my friend sitting on couch with half limp dick and his cum everywhere and my gf came and hopped on me. Needless to say we did it a few more times after that night She said she enjoys me watching another guy fill her pussy up.

I feel no need to point out the obvious; that neither a swingers' club nor a private party are the same as a German spa (but I guess I just did). The only occasion that I witnessed a woman at a club clamp her thighs tightly is when a guy reached for her bearded clam without an expressed or an implied invitation. The sound of thighs slapping together was rapidly followed by the sound of an open-handed slapping of a face.

We have known many swingers and many nudists over the years. We are in both camps. The most surprising thing to me was a couple we met through common friends. She was so anti nude that her husband had never seen her naked. Even during sex. None of her play partners has either. She always had a large flowing gown on when being intimate.