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Been with gf over 5 years now, sometimes feel like sex life is getting boring. She's mentioned fucking other people before but we never did it. One day her best friend and her bf are visiting us. We have a few drinks and eventually we play truth or dare. Truth or dare ends with the 2 girls making out naked. I go over start fucking my gf and the other guy does the same. Eventually move to bedroom and switch partners. I'm happy with the friend but while I'm fucking here I see the bf fucking my gf. I'm not insecure about my dick, it's a good size( 7 inches) but the friends bf had the biggest cock I've ever seen. Must have been 9 or 10 inches and very thick. My girlfriend was squirming and she told me she came three times while fucking him. I think I enjoyed watching her get fucked by that massive cock more than I enjoyed fucking her friend. We're visiting them again soon and I hope I get to watch him fuck her again. Any tips?

Am I the only one missing this? Did your girlfriend's best friend have a good time? Did you give her a couple of Os? Since she was stepping down a size or two in dick size, were you extra skillful? Did you give her oral? Did she have to go back to her bf to finish off? It's good that you like watching your gf getting fucked and enjoying herself because if you don't take extra good care of the other woman, that's all you may be doing.

Talk about Unicorns, your gf hit the pot of gold. From real experiences of being up close to many penises, very few are really 7 inches and maybe one in a thousand are the Loch Ness monster. I don’t call myself an expert yet my thrill comes from unveiling a monster and from my many unveilings I am still looking for Nessy. (I stole that from someone else’s post). I found most guys might even think they have a 7,8,9 or 10 inches, in reality very few are over 6 or so, and most women just accept what guys brag about. Does size matter to me? Yes!!!

NoAngels has a better take on what’s on Ashley Madison, I am just starting. Every guy I see that is good looking makes wonder why he is on here, others look like they can use a makeover or better pictures. I found out guys have to pay to contact you and get free additional messages. I gave my special private email to four different men and am continuing messaging off the site. I like that these men were not explicitly sexual in their contacts. I’m getting to know them first before going to the next step.

I am going to tell you from the husband of a woman who is on Ashley Madison for years, it’s similar to the prospects you find on any dating site, some attractive, some unattractive, some real, some fake. There are less fakes on AM because it’s not cheap for men to be on there. I have learned the criteria she has in responding to men, looks are primary, age and then her gut feeling. She has brought the old adage of you can’t always tell a book by its cover to her comments when describing the men she met. From the time we became honest with our meeting others she has been satisfied by the majority of her meetings. More than once she came home saying no wonder a guy’s wife doesn’t want sex. The sex acts are not always something you can tell from pictures or messages sent. I would say Your Mileage May Vary if I had to rate the site according to my Angel. We found that SLS has a similar outcome for us. I will wait for the OP to give their take.

Nobody is putting a needle in my dick unless my life or my penis itself is in mortal danger.

Our dictum has always been that we do not post anything online that we would not be willing to have it become public domain.

So THAT'S where Nessy has been hiding! 😄😄 Ok maybe you stole it from another post, but it's still flippin' hysterical :) My wife did find Nessy with one guy. Absolutely huge dick. Downside; he had great difficulty in getting a truly hard erection. My wife still played with him all afternoon though.

Yeah it's good to have another couple so no one's left out but I'm definitely more into the idea of her being with someone else. We'll definitely try a bigger group soon though. I'd like to see her spitroasted, one of my biggest fantasies.

Your gf is lucky to find the two biggest dicks.

Hello let's do it again, What you have alluded to, is the primary reason why many couples, including us, have no face pictures on the "public" aspects of our profiles. We exchange face pics when we have spoken with and vetted couples and only then. Unless your wife was working within the terms of an employment contracted that specifically called out certain views/activities as being grounds for dismissal, what her former employer chose to do is certainly legally actionable.

Our therapist who always keeps a very straight face almost burst out laughing when I used Nessy as a euphemism. I have told men I want to see their Loch Ness Monster, some understand, some don’t have any idea. It’s no surprise that some men are bigger when flaccid which plays into my want of that first look of a man. A larger flaccid one reminds of all those pictures we see of Nessy sticking its neck out of the sea with that bend. Size is easy for me to estimate, I know exactly how wide my hand is, very few are two hands. I have been with men not getting totally hard, a few, no matter the size I still have fun, I never blame him or myself for it. Size is more important to me in that initial showing, less important in the sex act.

For sure it is not hard for them to see what you post on social media! If she was on private members sites though and the company pried into that then I am surprised the Union did not back her on that. That would be intrusive of someone’s privacy. Telling someone they can not work for you, because of who they choose to sleep with is a human rights violation and has law suit written all over it. It would be the same as telling someone they are fired, because they sleep with the same sex. Not cool.

Unless she was using company computers or company internet I am not sure how they would have been tracking her online activity! Surely doing that is a good way to be busted on your private affairs. I know our company monitors what is being done on the companies equipment and internet. I would not even open my bank account let alone anything else personal on their stuff.

Not long ago we were happy Kasidie members. Then about a year ago they established a policy where you could not post explicit (anything other than titties and ass) pics unless you "verified" your identity with your credit card company. This verification process required a driver's license, credit card, and working phone #. We didn't like it. They told us the credit card companies made this requirement and all the swinger sites adopted this degree of verification now. We left, yet a lot of ppl stayed and complied. So, given this degree of "verification", it seems it would be easy for credit card (or other) companies to provide insight to your sexual habits - especially if you "verified" in such a way at a swinger website.

Even though both Ms. Gold and I have (or had) 'morals' clauses in our contracts, I doubt that they would stand up in court for something like finding us on a swingers site (just whose job is it to troll swinger websites looking for employees?). Not only would the have to prove 'beyond a shadow of a doubt' that it was us, they would also need to prove it was one of us who posted the image and profile and not someone just using a photo found on the internet to create the profile. While we don't post any public photos that openly show our faces, I doubt that is would become a problem.

I signed up for Ashley Madison and am already getting messages sent to me. Mike and I have read every message together also looking at profiles. I won’t make any move without Mike’s approval. We also have an opportunity to meet someone that we met at a party about 5 years ago and that may be something we do next.

My belief is that if it is consensual, it's not cheating. Any agreement can be modified by further agreement of the parties. For us though, it doesn't matter. Since I already had my relationship with Red when David and I got married, we left "forsake all others" out of our vows. David was monogamous with me at the time, but I didn't want to be too obvious by making our vows non-reciprocal. My parents were astounded that Red was even at the wedding since he was my ex fiancé.

I have not automatically associated nudists with swinging. I guess always I thought of nudists as "naturists", just enjoying being free of clothing, and not necessarily looking at it as a sexual thrill. I had trouble understanding how one could think that way, but I guess I thought they had that figured out! It was only after being in the lifestyle, and spending time in some places that were clothing-optional, that I came to understand how you can have your times of being "nudist naked", without being sexually aroused all day long. The surprise for me is that there are so many swingers who are not comfortable in a nudist setting. I suppose there are some swingers who still have body-image issues, even though they play with abandon, and even do it with the lights on! Perhaps also some swingers are not comfortable with the "nudist naked" thing, unable to contemplate being around all those naked people without being aroused.