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The guy should’ve asked Mary if it was ok to fuck her, not you.

I never had an experience like this, but it would be fun to do! About the closest I ever had was on a trip with my girlfriend and a close (male) friend of mine. Late one night, my girlfriend and I started fooling around, very quietly. My friend was in the next bed over and we thought he was asleep. My girlfriend got on top of me, and we started having sex, with the blankets pulled up over us. After a bit, she sat up, with the blanket still around her shoulders so my friend couldn't see if he happened to wake up. Gently, in an asking way, I started to remove the blanket. She was quite receptive, and shrugged it off. Very quietly, we kept having sex. After a while though, I kind of got the feeling my friend was watching, and my girlfriend got the same feeling. It really turned her on. Though she tried very hard to stay quiet, she wasn't entirely successful. I've never known if my friend was awake or not.

Before we bought our house in the country,we lived in an apartment. After our first encounter with someone seeing Mary naked she was really turned on. One day she was making the bed and noticed that the apartment across the alley had windows facing our bedroom, and bathroom. She decided to try something. That evening she left the blinds open and after her shower she walked in the bedroom naked. After about 3 nights of doing this I noticed the man next door looking at her, so I decided to let her enjoy it and give him a sow. That night when she came out he shower I was sitting on the bed naked and asked her to give me a bj. As she did I got turned on too, knowing we were being watched. After I came in her mouth I positioned her on the bed so he had a perfect view of her pussy. I started pushing my cock in her and as I did I told her we were being watched. She went wild.

K and I never had an issue about kissing our swap partners. I love kissing, but isn't such a big thing for K . We have never been with partners with a no kissing rule. Seems awkward to me, having sex with this person but no kissing? For me, I like to see what kind of kisser my lover is, is she passionate and uses a lot of tongue, or is she more reserved and no tongue, love the tongue!

This is obviously a tough area. PRP is a natural preparation sourced from the recipient's own body so, regulating the PRP itself is awkward. There is not particular regulation about the use of a "blood patch" to close a hole in the dura mater when a spinal tap produces headaches. Skin grafts harvested from location (a) and applied to location (b) are similarly unregulated, as is a nerve graft or tendon transfer. It's all internal to that patient. What the FDA can regulate is the device used to prepare the platelet rich plasma. That regulatory guidance is in place, but the regulations apply primarily to the manufacturer of the device and only that the user operate it within a fashion. As for who can inject what into what, have a look at the laws in various countries (and, in the US, the various states) as to who can inject foreign substances such as dermal fillers and botulinum toxin, aka "botox". There are some training requirements. In some jurisdictions, it must be a licensed physician. But not all.

My wife says the same, she has never had a dick on which she hasn't been able to orgasm. She just needs to work it differently, sometimes cowgirl is necessary, but that's about it. Same from my experience with women's vagina, I've never had one to loose or slick for me to cum. One woman in our group is loose and when I'm going sloppy seconds with her it is a struggle because of the lack of tightness and friction. But you know, we make it happen and it is the most intense feeling.

Good advice bbarnsworth. Welcome to the swingersboard Jjattala. As my eminent colleague above has stated, you likely won't have trouble finding a third to join you two. May we suggest that you put a bit of thought into exactly what you are looking for. Are you looking for a guy to join you for a "one and done"? Are you looking for an ongoing thing with this fellow? What's important to your wife in terms of qualities/characteristics of this person? What's important to you? As bbarnwsorth stated, they are numerous online sites that are gateways to finding what you are looking for; we agree that using that vehicle is likely your best option as people on these sites are all there for the same reason. Create a profile that states clearly who you are and what you are looking for. It would be our suggestion that you chat with any prospects, and then you (by yourself) meet with them and if they pass muster, then a meeting with the potential playmate and the two of you comes next. You, and your wife, need to be comfortable with any potential playmate otherwise this is going to create a problem for your relationship. Single males are plentiful in the LifeStyle (LS); take your time and think this through and the odds of you having a good first experience increase exponentially. Good luck to you both.

Sorry the forum has been so slow to respond to you. That's usually not the case! There are a variety of lifestyle dating sites. swinglifestyle.com is one of the most used ones in our area, but it might be different for your area. Such sites are great for finding single males who are in the lifestyle. Be aware; you have to do a lot of filtering to find good single males. There are lots of single males. Good ones are less common, but you can find them. My wife has had a number of good single men to play with. Two of them she turned into long term boyfriends, which worked out really well. I recommend you put something in your profile, some ways down in it, that asks potential single males to say something in their email to you. If they don't say it, they didn't read your profile. Delete, block, move on. Be specific about what you want. If you're going to a bar or a concert and are trying to pick up single men, be aware there's a fair chance they will be cheating. That's your call if you want to deal with that. We don't. If you go to the bar of a nice hotel, you might find nice men, but they'll be traveling...and likely cheating. Sometimes there are telltale signs, sometimes not. But, if you go that route there are ways you can be more apparent that she is available and willing, for the right guy. One of the easiest ways is to wear swinger jewelry, something fairly blatant. There are some rather good options on this etsy.com site (I am not affiliated, I just found it searching) https://www.etsy.com/market/hot_wife_jewelry I particularly like the hotwife anklets. If you go for subtle, you might not get the message across. If your wife is wearing a nice dress, she can cross her legs so that the leg with the anklet can be clearly seen to her prospective target. A bit more subtle, but there's sexy jewelry that you can get as well. My wife has a necklace that has two chains leading from it to nipple rings. Men can see the chains leading out of their sight towards her breasts, and it draws them in! There's lots of potential variety here.

We never seemed to live in the right places at the right time...

About amounts after Mary's girls night out where she had sex with a stranger, our neighbor invited us to a clothing optional bar B que. Mary and I had talked about swinging but had not decided on it yet. At the bar B que Mary has on her string bikini, which hardly covered her 35b breast and her shaved bottom. It took a while of seeing others naked before we decided to skinny dip. I was amazed at the attention she received from the other guys who kept brushing up against her. Ad afternoon turned into evening everyone went inside leaving bathing suits at the pool. The host then knowing this was our first party dared Mary to give me a bj in front of the other 9 couples. As she was sucking my cock. One of he men came up behind her and looked at me, then grabbed his cock and motioned that he wanted to fuck her. I knew it was now or never so I shook my head yes. He started shoving his cock into her. At first she was shocked, but I told her it was OK. After he came in her she looked at me and gave me a passionate kiss. Before t he night was over she had sex with 4 of the other men at the party

Welcome to the site! All great advice above. We've always followed the strategy of to find swingers, go where the swingers go. So either clubs, or online swinger sites. Most people don't "get" swinging, and that includes single guys, either truly single or cheaters saying they are single. Even those within the lifestyle often don't get it, and when you are talking some random dude at a bar, the odds are going to very low on finding one that understands the situation and where he fits into it. But, if we were going to try that route, then here's what we'd do. Have her do the approach to anyone she thinks she might be interested in. She invites him back to your table to "have a drink with me and my husband." If he bolts at the first mention of the husband word, then there's your answer on that one. If he comes to table and you pick up that he is all puffed up under the mistaken idea that you obviously can't satisfy her, then there's your answer on that one, now you just have to figure out a way to make him go away quick. But, if you can find one that clears those two early hurdles, then just spend some time chatting. Everything keeps going good where he is interacting with both of you, then maybe she asks him to dance. If he still sticks around, then maybe the next dance, she sort of drops the hint to him what you all are looking for. If he reacts well to that, then once they are back at the table, all three of you get down to the nitty gritty on what the deal is, and if all are still good, take it from there.

Clair has said that with some Lesbians there is pressure on others not to explore their straight side. A girl who has never had a dick in her is called a "Gold Star Lesbian." Clair was at first, but then discovered she liked men as well. Fortunately for all of us.

Michael, like my husband, is not a cuckold, he is unselfish and generous. Very early in our marriage, before our poly family formed (and I was full of myself) I started having sex with a man like that. He just couldn't understand why my husband was ok with it. Rather than being grateful, he demeaned my husband and said he must be sexually inadequate. I dumped him. The experience humbled me and made me appreciate my husband and boyfriend more.

Definitely.

Our vacations to a nude beach is where we have many swinging encounters and we love it. Seems nudies are friendlier and you get to see them in their full glory. I know on other threads there is a debate about nudist and swingers. From our first time on a nude beach we have had offers to swing.

I like that.

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2792726 see this report in the medical literature.

And that's the beauty of it couplers; women, you are all beautiful.

My wife started her sex life with an older girl in high school. Although she started fooling with boys shortly thereafter, she did consider herself lesbian for a while and this girl was her primary, regular partner even as this girl went to college and Daniela moved to high school. She says that sex with another girl was more understanding, tender, and instructive than the boys who were just trying to shove it in her. Daniela's young female lover also taught her how to deal with boys.

Not into the cuckold kink specifically, but a screened stranger is what I originally wanted, too. I thought it would be drama-free and easy to back out of any social fallout from the experience if we didn't like it. Still lean that way and suggest that to others. However, what ended up happening in practice was that she needed a high level of trust to get over the hurdle and do it, and got a "referral" to an old friend's ex-husband. The two of them play together and he'd often fantasized about her when she was babysitting their child. (No age difference, just something she did for them back then.) It worked perfectly. Once she got over the initial nerves and got her top off, she had no qualms sucking his cock, and he was visibly thrilled with the experience. It was just the way I imagined it, and we met them again for hard swap in our hotel room the very next night. A lot of teasing from his ex-wife about finally getting to screw the babysitter. The first time we did work with a stranger, she grabbed him off a beach in Naxos. He struck up a conversation while she was sunbathing topless and I was getting us drinks. I doubt he could believe his luck when we invited him to hang out.

I answered "Missionary" but that dick needs to be big. I love those long deep strokes, feeling powerless and lusty looks. However, for pure sensations it's from behind (I do dislike the term "doggie") for that good primal fucking! Mmmm Mmmm

Our first MFM was our first Lifestyle experience. We were only dating and still in our 20s. We started going to nude beaches together, and we visited one while on vacation on Sanibel Island, Florida (that nude beach was not an officially designated nude beach and apparently no longer exists). We set up not far from a single male with a mop of shaggy blond hair, six-pack abs and bulgy shoulders and biceps. After a short while we engaged him in conversation. He was local and we were tourists so mostly we picked his brain about local spots to eat and drink etc. Soon after that we stood up to go down to the water and I invited him to come with us. The three of us stood together in the waist-deep surf talking. I sensed my wife (then girlfriend) was attracted to him and I started to formulate an idea that this could possibly lead to our first-ever threesome. Although we were nudists we had never even discussed swinging or threesomes before, I made the bold move to ask him to join us for drinks after the beach. I braced myself for a shocked reaction from my wife but didn't get one. She was actually keen on the idea. Drinks turned to dinner and again I sensed it was time for another bold move. Without any pregame discussion whatsoever I asked if everyone was interested in coming back to our hotel room. He agreed but my wife was stonefaced and silent. As we got up to leave she pulled me aside, put her face right up to mine and asked "Are we really doing this"? My reply was "We don't have to do anything we're not comfortable with". With that the three of us went to our hotel room together. Gory details aside, the night was a success. We enjoyed a long, hot passionate threesome and in the morning I checked in with my wife and she was in great spirits. No weird feelings of regret or jealousy - just a shared feeling of bliss and togetherness. After we returned from vacation we made the decision to visit a swing club together and the rest is history 😀

Did my previous post strike anyone as cuckold? Just curious. I just think of it as alone play, which is not uncommon among our group (and Daniela likes FFMing with this couple). Either way is fine with me, we started with her hotwifing.

Wenn i left today morning the house to the work, my wife makes herself ready for the visit from her toyboy.

My wife and I have been swinging for about 7 years. I imagine our experiences have progressed as many others. We started out mostly soft swap and girl/girl play only and then full swap with the right couples. As our comfort level increased, my wife became more open about her secret fantasies. She has always been a bit more reserved, but have had a blast with group couple play, mfm, fmf. Recently she has showed interest in multiple single men and asked if I was ok with the idea, which I agreed. She did request that for her first time she wanted it to be a surprise and not be the only female. I found three solid single males with experience and a single female and set the night up. I made plans with my wife during the week for a night out on Saturday. So I had arranged that while she was primping, our guests would arrive and she would come out to her surprise. Fortunately everything came together perfectly. When she came into living room she found three gentleman and a beautiful Brazilian girl talking and laughing. She smiled and knew exactly what was happening. She sat right next to the young lady and they hit it off immediately. The guys made small talk and enjoyed watching the girls make out. The girls giggled and then grabbed all the men and led us all upstairs. We have a play room upstairs with two beds. My wife sat on the edge of the bed and all three men went directly to her, while our female friend took me to the other bed. Even though she had all three there, she did not hesitate unzipping each of their pants. All three men were larger than normal and that seemed to excite her as she eagerly gave them all head. All four of them played on their bed for at least an hour and half, while me and my new friend entertained ourselves. Although I could hear her moans of pleasure and asking for more, I was unable to get a visual since I was having my own fun. After about an hour and half, everyone needed a break, so we decide to go down stairs. On the way out of the room, I noticed at least a dozen used condoms from all of our fun. I was sure the night was over, but everyone grabbed a drink and cooled off in the pool. After about 15 minutes in the pool, my wife sat on one of the guys laps and pulled another on top of her and started making out with him. So following her lead and found my new friend again and we all headed upstairs. Again my wife and the three young men teamed up together. This time, I was able to pay more attention and was amazed how easily and aggressively she handled three men. She easily kept them all hard sucking and fucking them for a solid hour. At that point, everyone was sweaty and worn out. We had good conversation down stairs and then said our goodbyes. We straightened up a bit and then decided to turn in. While in bed, she told me how much she enjoyed herself. She was exhausted, a said she has never been so used yet fulfilled. She has been asking when we could do it again. I have also noticed she is no longer reserved, she does not hesitate going after what she wants. Happy to say, we have had another positive experience!!

Getting screwed without the kiss??? I thought that was paying taxes ...