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Wouldn't it work the other way around too? When Red or David has been totally spent from recent activity and couldn't get erect again, we women have been able to get them to another orgasm while flaccid with oral. Not easy for them, but doable, and fun for us. Barely a drop of cum.

I don't like it. If you're going to be a cheater, cheat. If you're going to be a lifestyler, be open and honest.

Sex outdoors? What do you think I am? An animal? Of course I've had sex outdoors. Although we've done it down and dirty in the dirt, the best times were when I was bent over, holding onto a tree while David and/or Red took me from behind. Like an animal. And played they with my tits (any animal do that?). Images of the guys with Clair and Lora outdoors stick in my head as well.

I started having intercourse with my high school girlfriend when we were both 15. I didn’t have access to a car, or even a license, so all of our sex was outdoors. We lost our virginity together on the porch of a Quaker meeting house the night before Thanksgiving. It was in Western New York and the temperature was well below freezing. We just took our bottoms off.the sex was short and quite terrible. I was inclined to think maybe masturbation, which I could do in the comfort of my own bed at home, might be a better option. But somehow we persisted through the winter. We went to the movies for her 16th birthday in the early spring and we fucked standing up in the alley behind the theater cwhile waiting for our parents Vito pick us up. My wife and I used to have sex at night next to our pool, and also at night quietly on the wraparound porch of our Victorian house, occasionally while people were walking past on the sidewalk less than 50 feet away. That was 20 years ago. Now we are old and prefer the comfort of our bed. 😉😊

As a married couple we were invited to a camping trip with our new friends where we all had sex under the stars.

To numerous to count……and to many ways.

I would consider a partial retirement. Nothing would stop me from eating pussy!

I love sex outdoor, nothing like having sex on the deck and the neighbor's dog comes over to watch. We like to find a trail camera and have sex in front of the trail cam. So many different sex scenarios when outside.

We enjoy swinging on vacation whenever we are on a nude beach. If we approach another couple or if another couple approaches us, we look to swing. I guess what surprises me is the countries these other swingers are from and the age difference, we are 62 and 52. We always get offers from British couples which we find very sexual! I love the younger ones, seeing myself in them whenever I was a younger swinger. Nothing better than swinging during vacation.

Welcome to the site! All great advice above. We've always followed the strategy of to find swingers, go where the swingers go. So either clubs, or online swinger sites. Most people don't "get" swinging, and that includes single guys, either truly single or cheaters saying they are single. Even those within the lifestyle often don't get it, and when you are talking some random dude at a bar, the odds are going to very low on finding one that understands the situation and where he fits into it. But, if we were going to try that route, then here's what we'd do. Have her do the approach to anyone she thinks she might be interested in. She invites him back to your table to "have a drink with me and my husband." If he bolts at the first mention of the husband word, then there's your answer on that one. If he comes to table and you pick up that he is all puffed up under the mistaken idea that you obviously can't satisfy her, then there's your answer on that one, now you just have to figure out a way to make him go away quick. But, if you can find one that clears those two early hurdles, then just spend some time chatting. Everything keeps going good where he is interacting with both of you, then maybe she asks him to dance. If he still sticks around, then maybe the next dance, she sort of drops the hint to him what you all are looking for. If he reacts well to that, then once they are back at the table, all three of you get down to the nitty gritty on what the deal is, and if all are still good, take it from there.

This is obviously a tough area. PRP is a natural preparation sourced from the recipient's own body so, regulating the PRP itself is awkward. There is not particular regulation about the use of a "blood patch" to close a hole in the dura mater when a spinal tap produces headaches. Skin grafts harvested from location (a) and applied to location (b) are similarly unregulated, as is a nerve graft or tendon transfer. It's all internal to that patient. What the FDA can regulate is the device used to prepare the platelet rich plasma. That regulatory guidance is in place, but the regulations apply primarily to the manufacturer of the device and only that the user operate it within a fashion. As for who can inject what into what, have a look at the laws in various countries (and, in the US, the various states) as to who can inject foreign substances such as dermal fillers and botulinum toxin, aka "botox". There are some training requirements. In some jurisdictions, it must be a licensed physician. But not all.

Interesting article FL, thank you. 22% of those providing the injections into the penis/vagina were not physicians; ouch. I have to ask, is the law around this so lax that a person off the street can administer something like this?

I found out something about estimating penis size recently. This was an actual study done, not some quack survey online. If a man's ring finger is longer than his index finger, he has a higher chance of having a long penis. They're also more likely to be nice to women. I'm really not making this up. https://www.livescience.com/49883-finger-length-in-men.html I encountered a guy in a group shower once. This was in the Navy. He had a very large cock. I'm sure he was a shower, not a grower, but I sure as hell wasn't going to ask him! Laughingly stereotypically, he was from Texas. I still sometimes fantasize about my wife playing with mr. huge cock. In particular, the two of them on their sides, him fucking her from behind, his hand on her breast, and she's moaning and looking into my eyes. Ok I gotta go now 😄

An interesting way to play, I suppose. The nudity of the people in such a situation is a common undertaking, and I don't mind if someone wants to look at me. I too will part my legs slightly to improve the view. I find myself looking much more at other women than the men.

Fear not. Nobody handles polite rejection better than those in the swinger community. It's a core skill.

"Im sorry, no, I don't want to." should be good enough.

As already pointed out, there's no good way for us to know. Accept the gift she has given to you and get her what she wants. She was willing to let you know this fantasy, who knows where it might end up...or it could also just end here. Baby steps...but let her know that you will not judge when she shares her fantasies with you and keep the communication open. See where this path will lead...

Thinking about what has changed I wasn’t 100% wanting this. I had apprehension watching my wife with another man. Getting nude in front of friends. My heart jumping out of my body touching and then oral sex and then the big act with our friend of many years. I swear I only went a minute or two that first time and my wife and he went for ever. The changes. I’m very comfortable being nude. I’m completely fine with my wife playing without me, spending a night with our friends together and with either one. I am no longer a minute man, no longer afraid of not pleasing. I have learned to read the signs of new partners and willing to try new things. What hasn’t changed, I still might be uncomfortable being too close to other men. Others may like to do DVP, not me.

I see my life of non-monogamy being in five stages: Me having two men as sex partners who know about each other, love me and accept the situation. Marrying one while continuing with the other. Allowing/encouraging/setting up my husband with other women. Opening up to my Lesbian side. Forming our poly family with my two men by adding two women. Having children among us. We've done some other limited swinging and everything on the list except large group sex and strangers. It is everything we've wanted to do.

Viagra! It's an insurance policy! The technology exists, use it.

I had a similar problem, and when i was finally able to get going, things ended a lot sooner than expected. Some people might not agree with how I addressed it, but I experimented with blue pills and haven't looked back, predictable performance.

Tequila is legal and tastes better.

You're going to need some birth control, somehow. taking chances like that would be not only risky to yourselves, but also to your partners. If you didn't tell them she had no birth control, then it would be rather deceptive. There are plenty of other birth control options, e.g, diaphram, sponge, etc, which are relatively effective. of course, none are going to prevent the spread of disease, so you'd need to choose your partners carefully. Here is a pretty comprehensive list : https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control Sometimes, a fantasy is best left a fantasy. If you're making it a reality, make sure you check the consequences REALLY CAREFULLY before you leap over the edge. If she got pregnant, would you both(!) be comfortable with an abortion, or alternatively, fathering a child who is not your own?

The US is rapidly slipping into oblivion. Legislating moral values NEVER works and usually harms one or more segments of society. The attack on women we are seeing now is depressing and immoral, not to mention an affront to the constitution and equal rights. COVID has made it worse, in that people think they have a right to tell others how to behave. Politicians and organizations pitting one person against another is a powerful tool and we humans have fallen for it hook line and sinker.

And yet, on the other hand, abortion is now illegal in many states. What a strange world we live in.