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2 pointsYou need to tell her you and your wife are swingers, and that your wife is completely onboard with her being around. Stop being dishonest.
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2 pointsThe US is rapidly slipping into oblivion. Legislating moral values NEVER works and usually harms one or more segments of society. The attack on women we are seeing now is depressing and immoral, not to mention an affront to the constitution and equal rights. COVID has made it worse, in that people think they have a right to tell others how to behave. Politicians and organizations pitting one person against another is a powerful tool and we humans have fallen for it hook line and sinker.
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1 pointKink!! One person's norm might be kink to us? Actually Wu thinks some things that I find pleasant like urethral stim and anal and cross dressing kind of weird and kinky and I sure was aghast early in our marriage when she wanted to have sex where we could be watched, but today I don't think that's so kinky at all! Perception changes with experiences and time?
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1 pointUsually it is just me, I am retired, and K is a registered nurse. With the nursing shortage, K mostly works and sleeps!☹
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1 pointOur first swinging experience was my ex wife's maid of honor and her boyfriend watching us have sex and them joining in the middle of it. The maid of honor went through several different men yet we continued to swing no matter what man she was with and it eventually became just her as a threesome.
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1 pointThe only men who evacuated while flaccid with me were going for a second, third or fourth time, and like most men the amount is never the same after going a few times. I was very very recently with a divorced man, alone for a first time meeting with both of us going to work in the morning. Michael knew where I was and was waiting for me at the hotel 6:30 AM. Our first time went the way new meetings would go, he was erect without any help from me and we had a very nice session ending with him going soft after evacuating. I then got him erect again and orally took care of him, he didn’t hesitate to reciprocate even though I hadn’t cleaned up. We both fell asleep after freshening up until he woke me up with an erection behind me. I can’t say how big his ejaculation was but I was happy with him. Number 4 was in the shower, not fully erect and my oral fun had him get something out.
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1 pointBe honest with both women then ask what they would like to do. For your sake I hope they don't toss you aside and just get with one another.
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1 pointDaniela had a lover, a married guy, (again, before we met) who could never get it up. His sex life at home was non-existent. His wife wouldn't do oral on him even to try to get him up. Daniela would and make him cum. She says he ejaculated a normal amount still staying flaccid. Eventually, she got him on ED meds and everyone was happy, including his wife. It seems that my wife has a story for like every occasion.
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1 pointNo chance. The last time we saw each other was...shall we say...tense. He also lives quite some distance away. Ironically, part of the reason we parted as friends had to do with his approach to polyamory, and his inability to see how he was totally &*#(@$&# it up.
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1 pointSomething not every woman can understand, oral on a flaccid penis. I don’t expect all women to enjoy everything I enjoy just like I don’t enjoy all the things others do. I never had any man stop me from giving oral, erect or flaccid.
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1 pointI don't like it. If you're going to be a cheater, cheat. If you're going to be a lifestyler, be open and honest.
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1 pointIf she knows about your wife, why didn't you tell her that both of you are swingers. If you get both in bed with you, do you think they will enjoy each other sexually? If you do pull this off and get both together in bed with you on vacation, how are you going to feel next time you go on vacation and your wife wants to bring a man on vacation to share a bed with you and your wife? What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right?
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1 pointWouldn't it work the other way around too? When Red or David has been totally spent from recent activity and couldn't get erect again, we women have been able to get them to another orgasm while flaccid with oral. Not easy for them, but doable, and fun for us. Barely a drop of cum.
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1 pointMy suggestion would be to take only a half step in that direction the first time, so as not to shock her. Ask her to imagine it is cock of someone real, but not a real possibility - a celebrity, an athlete - a fantasy. You can later bring up people you know. Encourage her to identify the men, ones that she likes. I don't know how common it is, but no guy would turn down a blow job. Just make sure that the rules are clear all around, including the big one, whether he can cum in her mouth. Set the rules all around, including to both of them, "No fucking, no matter what I say in the heat of the moment." But my prediction as a woman who was extremely possessive of my husband and didn't want him to fuck other women is that you will get there. Thinking about it when you are not horny you will decide at the right time with the right guy your wife wants under the right circumstances it is the right thing to do. There will be two reasons: you want to please your wife and give her a wonderful gift with no expectations in return, and you will want to see it as well, a beautiful act. That is what I did, and no regrets, it is wonderful. Your English is very good.
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1 pointNobody is putting a needle in my dick unless my life or my penis itself is in mortal danger.
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1 pointSince all six of you had already had sex with each other, it seems that the door had been opened. The play had not stopped, just moved to another venue. (With swings and everything!) No disrespect to your husband or anything, but it just seems like an overly rigid interpretation of the rules.
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1 pointOur #1 rule in the lifestyle is 'any mistake that is innocently made is immediately forgiven'. We've both messed up on accident, in the heat of the moment going further than our rules really allow. We've never done anything that would put the other at risk (eg unprotected sex) and we've never done anything that was not, sincerely, a minor slip up. So, in your case it seems totally understandable how that mistake could happen and it doesn't seem like a big deal... I think he should be able to get past it
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1 pointFor sure lifestyle couples should discuss in advance how they will comport themselves when they are in sexual situations with others. And it’s important to identify activities that one or both are uncomfortable with and agree to avoid them. Essential to maintaining the level of trust that enables both to have a satisfying experience in the lifestyle. That said, I also find myself thinking that if in the middle of a great sex session you aren’t on the ragged edge of rationality and control, you might not be doing sex correctly…😉😊 From my perspective, given the situation you describe, this doesn’t seem like such a huge slip. But you report your husband is extremely upset. It makes me wonder if there’s some larger issue here. Just a thought.
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1 pointHow we Started in the Lifestyle So hubby and I had many, many conversations about what types of things we would like to do with another couple and what types of rules we wanted to follow…some that got thrown out the window right away! Should we kiss? How about watching each other? What about the big finish? With who? What to do? So many things! Some for us were never a question but others? Being flexible is key, you can’t set things in stone because you never know until the time comes! With this in mind, we were interested to see what opportunities would come our way. We had been on SLS, working on our profile and figuring out what pictures to add. Then we got our first email!!!! We opened it and we were both like OMG she is so cute!!!! She asked if we had any pics, and I was going to post them that day, so I sent her one. She said we were cute too!!!! We felt like a bunch of giggly school girls!!! We exchanged a few teasing emails and we still didn’t know etiquette or if there were any rules…so I told her our names and sent her my phone number. A few days later, after some hot loving, I got a text. Hubby and I were all cuddly in bed and I checked it and was like “it’s her!!!!” So we were texting back and forth and she sent us some naughty pictures…the rest of us exchanged phone numbers so all four of us were texting. We decided to meet the following week. We set up a babysitter and kept texting. It shifted to my hubby to her and her hubby to me texting each other. Lots of dirty, dirty things and pics. We were still virgins and shy, so we didn’t send any naughty pics yet. So the night we met, we were so nervous!!!! It’s like a first date, but with couples. We met at a bar for some drinks. We got to sit and talk and just hang out and see how comfortable we were with each other. Pictures really don’t give people justice…it really is all about the personalities. I was a little unsure about hubby from the pics, but when we met, everything was fine…they were both so nice and fun to hang out with. After a few hours, my hubby asked if they wanted to come back to our place!!! The vibe was good, so why not! So we got back to our house, sent the babysitter on her way and went to hang out in our playroom in the basement. We sat around talking and generally being a little nervous, until finally she suggested we get it started. So she climbed on top of her hubby and started kissing him and I did the same to mine, right next to each other on the couch. Things started to progress and clothes started moving around and body parts were poking out…I heard “Look honey, she has big boobies!”…lol! That totally helped lighten the mood and then she and I started kissing…next thing I know, we are missing clothes and the boys started losing theirs too. After a little of that we were all naked and really fooling around with our spouses and she said, “well, are we going to fuck or what?” and we proceeded to swap. Normally I’m a go for it kind of girl, but I was definitely on the hesitant side of this for some reason. I think I was worried that we were fundamentally going to ruin our awesome marriage because of this, and I wasn’t really sure how into it I really was. But I thought, it was just sex, nothing else! It had never been a problem for me before, so why let it be now? Then hubby basically jumped her with glee right in front of me and there was no turning back. So, her hubby and I started kissing and I realized it really was just about sex and nothing else. It helped put me at ease and really start to get into it. We all fooled around with each other a lot! Lots of kissing and touching and sucking…it was strange having someone go down on you after ten years of just your husband doing it! But it was cool…my hubby brought her to orgasm and she squirted right on his face. Surprise!!!! And it is strange to suck another guy's cock with your husband right near you. Next thing I know hubby starts fucking her…now that was hard to see…I’m not going to lie…so I had to distract myself somehow, so I stopped kissing him and asked if he wanted me to hop on. He said, “What?”. And I said “Sorry, that is something hubby and I say, do you want me to climb on top?” So I got a condom, rolled it on and proceeded to climb on his cock. Well, that was a very different experience and it felt so naughty!!!! There was my husband fucking his wife and here we are fucking each other…bizarre, yet so fun! We switched positions a few times and then switched back to our spouses and then we just stopped. We hung out talking for a while, they are so cool and open and straight forward, so it was easy to talk about awkward things and clear up any issues. For being first timers, it went really, really well! We got to see what it was like and figure out what worked and what didn’t. Needless to say, hubby and I had lots of things to talk about after this and it of course added fuel to our sexual fire! We liked it so much though, that we had a playdate with them a few days later!!!
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1 pointI have lots of sex, but I've only had sex with five men in my life, three of them currently. Does that answer your question?
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1 pointBoth ways can work for me. I do enjoy sex with people I know (in the lifestyle); the familiarity of an existing connection is nice. On the other hand at parties I’ve had great fun with women I’ve met just minutes before. I try to remember their names and make sure to use it a couple of times early on in the play session. Unfortunately, over the course of a really strong experience it’s too easy for me sometimes to forget the name when I’m being overwhelmed with how good they fuck or suck. Which is embarrassing when my partner might have just a few minutes before swallowed my load. ? (I do wonder if there have been women who have been cuddling with me in our mutual post-orgasmic bliss and said to themself ‘’Gee, that guy was pretty good. I’m embarrassed I can’t remember his name..." ? )
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1 pointMy question wasn't totally clear, because I was asking more whether testicles are appreciated for their masculinity and excitement that arises from just seeing them, sort of like breasts are for a woman. For me it arises from being raised a sheltered Catholic girl hearing about a guy "having balls" (or "NOT having balls"), someone being a "ballbuster," a guy "getting his nuts cut off," or having "the balls of a bull," all those sayings. That part of a guy took on mythical dimensions in my pubescent teenage mind. When I masturbated it was in my mind, and still is. And the first time I got to hold the real testicles of the guy that took my virginity (and is my current boyfriend), they were (and are) of mythical proportions. So I have never shaken my schoolgirl fascination with that part of a man's anatomy. I like to see them, and it is a secret pleasure of mine to watch them as hubby or boyfriend is orgasming.
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1 pointYou know you are getting old when you have to hold your balls up when sitting down so as not to sit on them.
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1 pointIF S is into the guy or the couple and I can at least get it up then ya we can play and I will take one for the team you could say. I know that if he doesn't excite her at all it wont happen no matter what. D
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1 pointWell, I guess you're right. I'm a woman and I like to get to know people first. That being said...there were a couple of experiences in my much, much, much....and even a few more "much's" ... younger years. Memories.... -EBF
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1 pointWe have found that the sex is better with people that we know. This is just our preference. Others may feel differently, but each to their own. Jesse