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It’s been a couple of months shy of 20 years ago that Ashley posted her query and comment. I wonder if she’s still swinging? 😉 (I hope so.) On other threads I’ve commented about playing at a party maybe ten years ago with a MF couple who were in their mid-80s and had an orgy on their wedding night in the late 1940s! I wonder less about whether they are swinging than whether they are living. I hope both, though I reckon the odds aren’t good at this point. I’m in my mid-70s and in very good health. I plan to continue being active in the lifestyle until I don’t enjoy it any more or until I can’t perform.

Sorry, but I like a scrotum that is loose, where each testicle can hang separately, distinctly, and (for some reason), unevenly. That if I wanted to (and I often do), I can easily identify each one individually and take them between my fingers or in my mouth. That as my love cums into her, they serve their purpoe and rise up slightly as his mechanism between his sack and ass contracts to pulse and pump. How masculine!

I have. Surprises do happen and all works out well. I have even gone along with a second meeting if my wife really enjoyed the other man. Her pleasure is a motivator for me. After that point I back off of future meeting. If the guy was really fun for her, we have arranged one on ones for her.

Kink!! One person's norm might be kink to us? Actually Wu thinks some things that I find pleasant like urethral stim and anal and cross dressing kind of weird and kinky and I sure was aghast early in our marriage when she wanted to have sex where we could be watched, but today I don't think that's so kinky at all! Perception changes with experiences and time?

They do have those dear little swimmers waiting for your pool😉! That being said mine don't hang and while they enjoy gentle cuddling they don't like squeezing and vibrators and such, kind of uncomfortable. I too enjoy watching other guys tight nut sacs as they cum and appreciate a rooting section myself when I do too.

I chose oral, 69 is just as good as intercourse for me. A woman that's into 69 as much as I am is better than intercourse.

I like my testicles dont get me wrong.. but for me being a guy there is just not to much excitement going on with those two guys.. They seem to be more of a liability than a asset. They are so fragile and moody.. if you dont treat them right the smell like ass and if you pump to hard they hurt.. Some women seem to love to put them in their mouth's... but that just frightens me. Why couldn't t god have tucked them up in my abdomen where they started in life? I vote two thumbs down for the hairy twins.

Years ago, one of the first couples we met to play with. The guy was hot for L (hey, most guys are) and L was ready to play. His wife did not seem to be into it. We met them at a bar, at their request. L and I had water, the husband had a beer. The wife had 4 doubles of some killer drink (zombie? stinger? something with about 6 kinds of liquor in it). Not sure if the wife wasn't interested in me or just wasn't interested in swapping. After chugging her fourth, she declared we should head for the motel. On arrival, the wife disappeared into the bathroom. After 10 minutes, the husband went in after her. L and I shrugged. We couldn't leave gracefully, as it was our room. 10 minutes later they came out with the wife in a pricey outfit that would have been sexy on a sober woman who wanted to play. L and the husband got naked and started playing. Even though the wife didn't seem interested -- heck, she was barely conscious! -- she seemed insulted by my reluctance, so I felt like I had to do something. You could tell her body enjoyed the sex, but her mind wasn't even in the same county. Not a stellar experience for me. It wasn't that she was physically unattractive, it was that she was uninterested. On the other bed, L and the husband had a few good, albeit fast, fucks. Neither the wife nor I initiated anything further with each other. Since then, L and I have been harder-nosed about not playing with couples unless the wife convinces us she's interested.

The short answer first, we feel no need to lend help. We assume that the woman got into her mess all on her own and can find her way out all on her own. JoAnn and I have seen abusive bevaviour a few times while developing a relationship with a new couple. It seems to follow a consistent pattern, but not what the OP in the other tread saw. The couple seem to relate to each other perfectly normally throughout the period of becoming acquainted with us. The abuse becomes evident when it comes time for the cloths to come off and the play to begin. The guy hops on JoAnn or leads her upstairs into the bedroom. I turn around to see a woman who just moments before had a smile on her face but now has a pleading look, "Please don't make me do this." It's then that I know that she has only been going along with it to please him. Each time this has happened, JoAnn and I have used words with the couple which are designed to diplomatically convey to the woman that the inability to connect is not her fault and that the man should be more considerate of his wife's feelings. This has happened often enough for us to think we have signs "Amateur Therapist, Bring Your Problem to Me" pinned to our backs.

You're going to need some birth control, somehow. taking chances like that would be not only risky to yourselves, but also to your partners. If you didn't tell them she had no birth control, then it would be rather deceptive. There are plenty of other birth control options, e.g, diaphram, sponge, etc, which are relatively effective. of course, none are going to prevent the spread of disease, so you'd need to choose your partners carefully. Here is a pretty comprehensive list : https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control Sometimes, a fantasy is best left a fantasy. If you're making it a reality, make sure you check the consequences REALLY CAREFULLY before you leap over the edge. If she got pregnant, would you both(!) be comfortable with an abortion, or alternatively, fathering a child who is not your own?

It seems like "taking one for the team" is more a refelction of what you would like for your partner. I enjoy seeing Di having a good time and if that means that my experience isn't the best, oh well. To a limit, of course. If your partner feels the same, things will even out over time. I mean, is OK sex better than no sex??

We both have.....and in my situation, I can't say that I wouldn't do the same again. We met this great couple that we had great conversation with, had lots of similiar interests, etc. She is TOTALLY Drew's type and he was very into her, which was exciting to me. I thought she was cute. Her husband, a really great guy, is polite and attractive, certainly not a troll, but there wasn't a great deal of sexual attraction on my part. We've played with them on more than one occassion and although we had fun, if he weren't so attracted to her, I probably wouldn't have played with them. I think I had fun partly because he was having such a good time. We probably will play with them again at some point, and I certainly won't feel like 'oh darn, we have to play with them AGAIN' We had a good time and probably would again. So, I don't consider it always being a bad thing to take one for the team. It's just that sometimes we have different levels of attraction to different people within a couple. Did that make any sense at all? Pepper