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yes, yes yes! We've done it so many times outdoors, and for me (M) her bent over and me just taking her is so hot, primal, animalistic. I cum hard and fast. I hope she does as well, but...in reality that's not my #1 goal. I know, how rude. 😂 We're "old" as well, but I'd take wild sex outdoors anytime. Maybe it's because we spend so much time hiking, backpacking and IN nature. It's where we feel most free.

Like many swinger couples, my wife sets the rules and makes the decision and I just go along with it. Happily usually. My main concern is that she is having a great time. Shit I have a great time no matter what, basically.

It has absolutely zero negative effects on male performance! At 52 I never have any issues with ED at all. I get hard and stay hard for a long time. We both feels it enhances sex for both of us. Also the best sex we have had with others is with people that also partake.

Kind of a delivery guy story. This happen a long long time ago. After my divorce from first husband, I lived in an apartment across from a shopping center. There was a grocery store in the shopping center I would walk over to. One afternoon walked across the street to grab a few things. Saw a guy that was stocking the cigarette shelves (do grocery store even sell cigarettes anymore?). We both just looked at each other and smiled. As I was walking back to my apartment I saw him getting back into his delivery van. Not sure what got into me but I simply walked up to him and said "if you got time for a fuck I'm in apartment 316 across the street". He replied he would be right over after he finished his paper work. Needless to say about 10-minutes later there was a knock on my door. I let him in and we both just went animal wild, didnt make to the bedroom had our clothes off instantly and just fucked right in the living room. We hardly said a word to each other. Never got his name and never saw him again, but he left a lasting impression. I'm guessing for some reason I thought of it as a revenge fuck, but my ex was out of the picture then. Maybe I was just woke up really horny that day.

Brian here. Parents had some long time high school friends that we would see often. They had 4 kids, one of which was a daughter my age. Not sure what circumstances were but she stayed with us for a week. I'm guessing 7th grade. A couple of times at night when parents were still downstairs we would do some show and tell. She seemed to really enjoy showing me her pussy.....in hindsight we should of masturbated together lol. Also around that same time, a long time friend of my parents, a single mom, daughter was my age. A few show and tell sessions then as well.

My first view of a woman vagina was by 2 girls, 2 years older than me, in our neighborhood clubhouse. They wanted to see me nude and I told them that I would but only if I could see them. All 3 of us got naked and ask questions about each others " parts". We got talking about how babys are made, so I masturbated and ejaculated for them. They never took their eyes off my cock while I masturbated . One of the girls moved a couple months later and the other continued to educate me on sex, we did everything but intercourse. She is a good friend and we still laugh about it! I forgot to include that it was the summer before the girls became freshmen in high school and I was entering 7th grade. So share with us the first time that a person of the opposite sex showed you their genitals, and what was your reaction?

Just fyi we have not swung as a couple. Marla did a bit of swinging a long time ago before I met her. We still talk about it once in a while but as of yet nothing. We joke never say never...... Porn helps sometimes but I find my imagination works best. A few years ago we had been out wine tasting, Marla was a bit buzzed and we came home and were fucking. During a break in the action out of the blue she told me that her first husband had talked her into swapping a few times. She didn't really enjoy it that much. But after they divorced she had some fun with a group of friends that would meet up 3 or 4 times a year. Previously she told me they were just group "camping trips", but she then confirmed it was more of a group sex weekend getaway. Anyways, she continued to tell me about some of her past encounters. This got me rock hard again almost instantly. To this day when I think about some of these encounters she told me about I still get hard. Just writing this post and thinking about them is getting me erect. Main fantasy is visualizing Marla with 2 men....one can always dream. lol

Among the activities for one's "golden years", sex generally and swinging specifically seem like better choices than many alternatives. For those who missed the article last (2022) January, this piece in the NYTimes remains worthwhile and relevant: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/12/magazine/sex-old-age.html

I have a situation that is different from anyone I know. I had a vasectomy at 26. Did not want to make any more kids. Could not afford to have it done through my regular doctor (insurance didn't pay for it), so I went to Planned Parenthood. They almost guaranteed that it was permanent. The procedure was to cut each tube, sew each end closed, make cuts into the leg muscle, and sew each end into the cuts, thus making it almost impossible for accidental reconnection. One of the results of this process is that the nuts do not hang low, because the tubes are firmly attached to the leg muscles. 34 years later they are still holding high. I do love to have my nuts sucked and licked on, but most women don't seem interested. Go figure.

We are both very 420 friendly and smoke it daily! If that bothers other people we could care less. It is legal in Canada just like booze. We don’t get uptight about other people drinking even though we are not super into it so if people want to get uptight about 420 we have zero time for them.

People raise stepchildren, have artificial insemination, adopt. I see nothing wrong with this approach. You love your daughter and that's all that matters.

The sister of a junior high school friend of mine asked if I wanted to see her naked. I said sure. She was wearing a t-shirt and shorts, and took off the shorts first. She had a light bush and spread her lips to show me everything. She let me feel her up too. We weren't ready for intercourse, but I wish I had ask to perform oral on her. At later times she let me feel her up and finger fuck her.

For me, it was 10th grade. Didn't last very long. Only got to enjoy it for about a minute before her brother discovered us and all hell broke lose.

We both enjoy it quite a lot… 🔥

Role reversal, but when I was about 23, I took a pizza delivery and some cute brunette forgot to bring half the order up the stairs to my apartment. I went down to get it with her so she wouldn't have to make a second trip. I paid and tipped at the car, she got really nervous and said something about how she felt so bad and wished she knew how cool I'd be about it, then stood there, expectantly, playing with her hair and giggling. I was just plain hungry, and completely missed the real-life porn scenario unfolding in front of me until I had already gone back upstairs. Literally this:

The short answer first, we feel no need to lend help. We assume that the woman got into her mess all on her own and can find her way out all on her own. JoAnn and I have seen abusive bevaviour a few times while developing a relationship with a new couple. It seems to follow a consistent pattern, but not what the OP in the other tread saw. The couple seem to relate to each other perfectly normally throughout the period of becoming acquainted with us. The abuse becomes evident when it comes time for the cloths to come off and the play to begin. The guy hops on JoAnn or leads her upstairs into the bedroom. I turn around to see a woman who just moments before had a smile on her face but now has a pleading look, "Please don't make me do this." It's then that I know that she has only been going along with it to please him. Each time this has happened, JoAnn and I have used words with the couple which are designed to diplomatically convey to the woman that the inability to connect is not her fault and that the man should be more considerate of his wife's feelings. This has happened often enough for us to think we have signs "Amateur Therapist, Bring Your Problem to Me" pinned to our backs.

I'm just a hick Okie, Sex Wonderer, but if I were faced with your problem, I'd get her pregnant first, then go swinging. Mr. Alura