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Rules and boundaries are always on the table ahead of time. Anytime we feel that we may be approaching that line, we check in with our partner/new playmate. Pushing boundaries, comfort zones, etc. can be fun once you’ve built trust. If you try that before trust is built, your are risking at best a shut down and detachment. Or getting kicked out all together. Either way, if that happened to us, zero chance of a second date.

We usually manage to have one on one conversations with both parties before anything gets moving. If one of us has picked up on anything we can ask outright while on a 15 minute walk. If something surfaced we would find a reason to not get into bed. It doesn't mean that we would drop them , but it does mean that something needs to get settled first. If it was out and out abuse, we would probably suggest to the victim, in private, that they do have alternatives.

Kind of a delivery guy story. This happen a long long time ago. After my divorce from first husband, I lived in an apartment across from a shopping center. There was a grocery store in the shopping center I would walk over to. One afternoon walked across the street to grab a few things. Saw a guy that was stocking the cigarette shelves (do grocery store even sell cigarettes anymore?). We both just looked at each other and smiled. As I was walking back to my apartment I saw him getting back into his delivery van. Not sure what got into me but I simply walked up to him and said "if you got time for a fuck I'm in apartment 316 across the street". He replied he would be right over after he finished his paper work. Needless to say about 10-minutes later there was a knock on my door. I let him in and we both just went animal wild, didnt make to the bedroom had our clothes off instantly and just fucked right in the living room. We hardly said a word to each other. Never got his name and never saw him again, but he left a lasting impression. I'm guessing for some reason I thought of it as a revenge fuck, but my ex was out of the picture then. Maybe I was just woke up really horny that day.

yes, yes yes! We've done it so many times outdoors, and for me (M) her bent over and me just taking her is so hot, primal, animalistic. I cum hard and fast. I hope she does as well, but...in reality that's not my #1 goal. I know, how rude. 😂 We're "old" as well, but I'd take wild sex outdoors anytime. Maybe it's because we spend so much time hiking, backpacking and IN nature. It's where we feel most free.

Something we have done many times. We got the idea from reading a post and now I’m wondering if it was your post.

The only men who evacuated while flaccid with me were going for a second, third or fourth time, and like most men the amount is never the same after going a few times. I was very very recently with a divorced man, alone for a first time meeting with both of us going to work in the morning. Michael knew where I was and was waiting for me at the hotel 6:30 AM. Our first time went the way new meetings would go, he was erect without any help from me and we had a very nice session ending with him going soft after evacuating. I then got him erect again and orally took care of him, he didn’t hesitate to reciprocate even though I hadn’t cleaned up. We both fell asleep after freshening up until he woke me up with an erection behind me. I can’t say how big his ejaculation was but I was happy with him. Number 4 was in the shower, not fully erect and my oral fun had him get something out.

Sex outdoors? What do you think I am? An animal? Of course I've had sex outdoors. Although we've done it down and dirty in the dirt, the best times were when I was bent over, holding onto a tree while David and/or Red took me from behind. Like an animal. And played they with my tits (any animal do that?). Images of the guys with Clair and Lora outdoors stick in my head as well.

Before I met my wife, I liked all breasts except for the really huge ones. And, when we met, I loved my wife's young, firm, 36C's But after a few years of enjoying hers, I found that women with smaller were the ones I liked most. You know, swinging is about getting strange, right? LOL! And, in fairness, I remember once when my wife declined to swap with a couple we had an opportunity for. That wife, btw, was drop dead gorgeous and the husband seemed to be nice looking too. Later my wife explained that he was just too much like me, so why bother. Now I guess my most attracted to female is a woman who has a bush and small breasts with long nipples.

One factor we enjoy most about swinging is the variety. If this means itty-bitty-titties, whooo hoo!!! As CoupleNUs said, we all have something that we aren't happy with.

I don't think it will matter a bit. You're thinking and worrying about it 100X more than anyone else will I'm positive. I know that's easy to say, because we all have things about ourselves that we wish were different, and so it's much easier to advise someone else to do than it is to do it yourself. Personality and the vibe you give off makes up 95% of attraction I think. This is swinging, not sorting through a stack of retouched photos to select the Playboy Playmate of the Year award, and so people are looking for other real people, with all their perceived "faults", who they hit it off with and want to share something together. If that chemistry is (or isn't) there, your breast size is not going to change anything. Another factor in how people perceive you is confidence. If implants are something you want for YOU, then that's worth considering. If it's something you are doing for someone else, then don't.

I have two friends with breasts that are probably smaller than yours and both of these ladies are extremely popular in the lifestyle. They are wonderful, sexy people and I'm sure you are too. You are enough.