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I thought, "Me, never." But in a way, actually, yes. When it was just Red, David, and me at home alone, Red wanted it. He came up behind me, pulled down my pants and did it. Then hubby followed and did the same. In the moment I was thinking, "That's what it's for." "That's what I'm for." I felt flattered that these two men got the release they needed, the satisfaction they wanted using me. These two men love me and have shown it over the years, but at that time I was just a pussy to them. And that was great.

Couplers, you are one of us and your point of view is unique, and, valued. Thank you for being part of the "family".

That is horrible.

Iam in the ministry and this is how I approach the subject. All sin originates within the individual. Hate, murder, envy, lust, adultry, etc. sin is any action or idea that causes intentional malicious harm to self or others. When you practice intentional harm you fall outside the doctrine of Christ which is to loveGod and love others. We do cause harm sometimes intentionally sometimes not hence the reason we need Jesus Christ. He saves us. We do not save ourselves. my wife suffers from chronic pain due to some medical conditions. I witness this daily for years and it is very upsetting to me to watch her suffer. Helpless? Not quite. Sex seems to give the longest lasting pain relief. More so than morphine and other prescription opiates. We been noticing and paying attention for many years. I suggested we try to add a third person to our sex life. Male or female mattered not to me but what she needed to feel better and get some pain relief. We were both apprehensive but battled on through this knowing the end result would be a better quality of life. we had our first meetup and it went most excellent. She was blindfolded lying on the bed prone. Of course I was right there with her. I had the other man come in and strip down and start performing oral on her from behind while she performed oral on me. We then switched positions while I licked her and fingered her from behind while she sucked him. No other man has touched her or has she touched but me for 35+ years. We stood up and she was sandwiched between us I was in front kissing her and caressing while he entered her from behind while she stroked me quite frantically. Only her and I kissed and only I talked. I had this scripted out and we discussed before hand what would take place. This really helped her envision what was to happen and she felt safer knowing. We got back on the bed and he entered her from behind while sher gave me oral again. I her her climb on top of me and asked if she wanted to be double penetrated. This guy had a longer penis but was thinner than mine so we both thought the dp would be more comfortable if he entered her anally. During this the other guy and I had some proximity contact and I lost my erection. She did not care and went back to sucking me off while he penetrated her ass from behind. He was wearing a condom. I had pull out and ejaculate on her ass and pussy. He girt up and watched for awhile while I made her squirt with clitoral stimulation while she sucked me off. He left quietly. We hooped in the shower and sher sucked me off again. the pain relief lasted several hours well into the next day. This super charged our sex life like we in our teens again for several weeks. We in our 50s. I thought it was super sexy but my only goal was to improve her life and it worked. It also has seemed to draw us closer and to more openly. We are discussing are next adult adventure. God is good.

Avoid couples who are narcissists and don't care about you, as a person. They will just use you and dump you when your usefulness is over to them. It's not all about us -couples; our guest male's pleasure is as important as ourselves.

We were on a hike with another couple in our group. Usually the guys walk and talk together and the women do likewise, but this time he was with Daniela and I with his wife about 40 feet behind them going uphill somewhat. She and I were talking about our work. He and Daniela stop and Daniela pulls down her shorts and off one leg over her hiking boots. He pushes down his shorts partway and starts fucking my wife doggy. The other wife and I just stand there watching. As the show goes on, she grabs my hand and kisses me deeply. They finish, pull up their pants and continue on. The thing that sticks in my mind is the sounds in the woods (including Daniela's moans and shouts) while we were stopped and silent. The rest of the hike we talked about sex, including what we were going to do later.

Magdalene Taylor is a writer covering sex and culture. Her Valentine’s Day opinion column, currently up in the opinion column on the New York Times website, looks at the epidemic of loneliness and loss of connection in our current society, a trend that she notes has been exacerbated by the pandemic, and the broader knock-on deleterious effects it has had. Her recommendation? More fucking! For the betterment of society and ourselves as individuals she says we should all make an effort to have more sex. I expect that few members of this board would not agree with Ms. Taylor’s prescription. At the end of this post I’m including the link to her piece. The Times has a paywall, but I believe if you register you can read several articles per week or month. For a nice combination of social commentary and smiles I recommend this essay. (As a former Timesman I am confident that the two brief passages quoted below fall well within the bounds of fair usage.) "The loneliness epidemic may be a societal issue, but it can be solved, at least partly, at the level of individual bedrooms. Those of us in a position to be having more sex ought to be doing so. Here is the rare opportunity to do something for the betterment of the world around you that involves nothing more than indulging in one of humanity’s most essential pleasures. "So, anyone capable should have sex — as much as they can, as pleasurably as they can, as often as they can." https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/13/opinion/have-more-sex-please.html?action=click&module=Well&pgtype=Homepage&section=Opinion

As The New York Times is the paper of record, we should certainly take this advice seriously...

I will freely confess to having a nooner with my wife while the AT&T guy was working on the lines outside, and the idea of having him join us made for a great fantasy in the moment. However, I think it's one of those fantasies that is best left a fantasy. Spontaneous sex with strangers is great fun when everyone knows the rules and is on the same basic page... hooking up at a swingers club for instance. However, if everyone doesn't know the rules and isn't on the same page, the possibility to drama is high and drama does not make sex more fun.

The reality of the situation stops me as well. Thanks for bringing this up...because even though we as swingers are more open about having sex with others, that doesn't mean that the majority of society is and can result in others getting hurt if we aren't careful.

We once ordered some Chinese take-out when we were entertaining friends of ours. All four of us were on the same bed playing when the doorbell rang. Mr. intuition threw on a housecoat and went to the door to pay for the food. He was laughing when he got back because he said the look on the delivery guy's face was priceless. I asked him why, and he replied that between the sound of women's voices coming from down the hall and the raging boner making a tent in his housecoat, it wasn't hard for him to figure out what was going on. He said, "The guy could've almost hung the bag off my dick." LMAO

As if sexual health issues among those of us who non-monogamous and value staying healthy don’t already face enough challenges, on The NY Times website today is a story about shady businesses that will generate fake STI panel results. There were several interviews with women who’ve had prospective partners furnish them with these fraudulent documents. The Times has a paywall, so if you aren’t a subscriber you won’t be able to read the article. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/03/style/fake-std-tests.html But this Twitter sequence summarizes the circumstances one of the interviewees found herself in and outlines how one can guard against this sort of malicious behavior. (That she is an Only Fans performer does not invalidate her advice.)