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Yes, all but the "unexpectedly" part. I think a good swing partner, or spouse for that matter, doesn't do something like that unexpectedly during sex. A favorite swing partner was really into this and veeeery good at it and it led to some mind-blowing orgasms.

It is a non factor! Condoms are going to be used regardless. Guys seem to think that saying they are snipped is going to allow them to not have to use a condom. Wrong.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE. Honestly, what happened to morals, ethics, common decency. It seems like there is a movement to cheat in so many aspects of our lives. And to harm as a result. Please people: love one another, respect one another and be a good human being.

A few years ago a very attractive couple had reached out to us to hang out immediately (like the next night) which we could not do due to busy schedules--then they proposed a couple of days later which was also too short of notice for our busy lives. We were a bit turned off by the impatience and they seemed to lose interest--likely deeming us flakes. Fast forward a couple of years and we are at a house party in another state and we are drawn to an amazing couple. They are super attractive, charismatic and just oozing sex appeal--we are very interested. Then they bring up to us "you don't recognize us do you?" and proceed to tell us we had been chatting before on SLS and it clicks, lol. Long story short, we love this couple! We've vacationed together and they have introduced us to their core group of amazing friends. They are also extremely understanding of our ridiculous schedules and haven't given up on us, always making us feel invited whenever they plan something. I guess the moral of the story is that it can be hard to really interpret personality traits from a couple of quick texts and 'mis-reads' can go both ways.

Impatient people get no where with us! Hate to tell you, but no one is more important than my spouse, my family, my job, my hobbies and my real life friends that are there for me all the time. We are not looking for a new long term relationship or new best friends. Most of the time it is going to be a one off. It can take a bit of time before both of us get a chance to sit down together and look at messages and profiles. There is no point in answering before both of us are in the loop, because we are always a team. Needy is not sexy.

How (short of producing a medical report) can you prove to someone that you HAVE been snipped? Now a condom cannot be lied about...either it's there or it isn't. Also, as already mentioned, the risk of pregnancy is only one reason to require a condom. Wrap that rascal or it's a wrap.

No! I don’t want anything in my ass. Out door only.

Thank you so much for your detailed answers, Numex. We appreciate you taking the time, and making the effort to answer our questions. Good luck to you and your group!

As I scanned this old thread, this made me realize how we in our poly family are fundamentally different from swingers. We became a family unit through accretion of young adults a decade ago, then through having children. During that time, I have come to realize that my husband loves Lora more than me. But that's ok, because he still loves me as much as ever, and I love her too. We are willing to not only remold the concept of sexuality within a committed marriage, but marriage itself.

Doesn’t matter. Mrs. Shy had tubes tied. Pregnancy is not a concern. STIs are. No bareback here. if you harp on it, as if strongly hinting that you are v-safe and don’t think you should wear a condom, we probably won’t meet. we met a couple online. Right out of the gate the guy was like “I’m v-safe and she hates condoms.” We bowed out of the chat quickly and never met. Just our personal experience.

We are professionals is one of the most overused statements we see on profiles! Why put it on your profile? Is it a classist thing? Is it supposed to mean you are more attractive, because you are a really important person? Does it mean you are only interested in meeting other super important people like yourselves? Personally we could care less what people do for a living or how much material things they own. As long as they are contributing member of society they may or may not be someone we are attracted to. Their profession is going to have nothing to do with how attractive they are. We are not looking for a life partner out of this lifestyle. We already have that. Are you good looking, in good shape, respectful to all people and fun to be around? Those things are going to make you attractive to us. Not how important you think you are to the rest of the world.

Enhancer; we played with a couple once where the husband was the provost of a major university (not going to name it of course). Didn't make the evening go any better. In fact, the evening wasn't all that great! lol! It's true though; it matters what's inside. What you do, how much you make, etc. that's pretty meaningless.

Old thread, but still feel the same way! Could care less what people do for a living or what material things they own. Does not make them special to us or more attractive to us at all. We like good people. A persons job or status does not make them that. We could be just as interested in someone who works at a Tim Hortons as someone who is a CEO for a big company. Not everyone has the same opportunity’s or financial support as others on their life journey. Reminds me of a recent message we got from some young guy at 6 in the morning on a weekday wanting to hookup that day! I said no we both work for a living. His response was I make more than you two put together. Not sure how he would think he knows how much we make, but odd response anyways. Just another goof on the block list now.

Always thought professional in the context of a sex meeting meant paid escort or prostitute of some kind.

I thought, "Me, never." But in a way, actually, yes. When it was just Red, David, and me at home alone, Red wanted it. He came up behind me, pulled down my pants and did it. Then hubby followed and did the same. In the moment I was thinking, "That's what it's for." "That's what I'm for." I felt flattered that these two men got the release they needed, the satisfaction they wanted using me. These two men love me and have shown it over the years, but at that time I was just a pussy to them. And that was great.

That is horrible.

NOTE: I have started and stopped answering this post a few times. You can say our coming of age or better our cumming of age was a very positive for me and I am pretty sure for her it was what she wanted. We took our time and the big moment happened when we were both ready to take that step. My first love was a girl I knew very well as our parents were good friends and we grew up as friends. Friends, classmates and almost cousins even if we weren’t related. Our parents always made comments that it was cute that we were so close. From being family friends to spending plenty of time together to going on a friends date. I remember having feelings that she was the one even if I was way too young. My first kiss on a park bench with tongues dancing. Yes I remember that kiss. We became boyfriend and girlfriend for real then. The summer before ninth grade was the first real feeling her up, the first time she allowed me to touch her breast while kissing. Making out. We didn’t go much further at first then we were grinding with clothes on and I got hard. Towards the end of that summer with our parents at work we went to her apartment, her sister was going into the city and wouldn’t be home. On her bed we had our first real touching with me touching her under her clothes and me opening my pants with her hand going in for the first time having myself touched by her. I didn’t go far that day because I heard her gasp as my finger entered. I am thinking this was the way we made out for the next month whenever we had time alone. The next step was when we finally got naked in her bed knowing we were going to be alone for hours. My first real look at a naked girl and her pussy and her first time having a penis out in the open. It was better for me that day because I had my first hand job while I think she I had pain from my fingers. It was the first time I came from another person. I think you can tell we cared and liked being together. Did we say love? It’s only memory but mine was she was as much into this as me, we made names up for our parts, mine was Boots and hers of course was Puss. She would show me how to touch her and I would guide her hands. Things kept going further and further until that special day. Our first time was a Wednesday afternoon. Now I’m laughing HumpDay. The big laugh was her trying to put on my condom which fell off. I remember the mixed tape we were listening to. She said it was great while I knew it was great for me. I only worried two days and then she got her period. Sex with her didn’t end with a one time bad experience, it lasted for years. Like others time goes on and things changed. I have good memories and I can only hope she didn’t have regrets.

I started talking to my wife about eating her cum-filled pussy, and she brushed me off, saying that it was gross and dirty. After we had sex, I went down and teased her a bit, then she finally let me in for a taste. After that, she pretty much forces me to do it now every time. Very erotic.

Is it an option to have a quiet word with the husband ? If you like this couple a lot it might make sense to try and resolve the issue, it could just be a bit of banter on his part or him trying to make your wife feel good , it's really hard to say without being there. If that's not an option then how about getting your wife to ask his wife if she was indeed a bit put out by what he said.

The year was 1900 and 21-year- old Albert Einstein was seeking the answer to a stupendous question: what would it be like to ride a beam of light? But at that moment he had the more conventional pursuits of a young man in mind. When fellow student Mileva Maric arrived at the lakeside love nest in Como, Italy, she found her "dear, naughty little sweet-heart waiting with pounding heart and open arms". They were both to pay dearly for that weekend of passion. It might even have delayed his ferociously brilliant theory of relativity.

I was 17 when I met my husband and he was 27 but it worked out great we've been together for 20 yrs. Now on the other hand, we have a daughter that is in a few years going to be a teen and I would have to say her father would kill a man that old going after her.

I don't know about France, but here in Canada it is legal for a 16 year old to date anyone they want. So me being 34 dating a 16 year old is perfectly legal. I wouldn't do it, but it's legal. Up until a year or so ago the legal age of consent for sexual activity was 14. Personally, 18 is my lower limit, but even that would be an exception.

Speaking for myself only #1 and #2 are my personal favorites. I would imagine that loosing your virginity (for guys, anyway) is probably pretty big. I gotta be a pretty boring guy, but #3 though #5 was never on my play list. Go figure.