We were on our first swingers’ cruise. It was about ten years ago, so we were 55.
We played in a trivia contest. We met a couple there and they asked us to coffee. We had a nice chat. I would say they were late 60s or early 70s. Clearly a lot older than us.
They asked us if we wanted to meet them in their room to play that evening. We figured if they have the guts to ask, let’s give them a chance. We met. The guy used some kind of electric glove which he used on my wife which she found enjoyable. The wife gave me some kind of tantric hand job. Very nice.
In our swinging career, we often had a good time when we gave unlikely match ups a chance, such as different ages, races, nationalities, etc. Give people a chance, be open minded.