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We have married lesbian friends one of which I dated before they married. Her wife also dated guys before they became a couple. I was not totally surprised that they became a couple, more surprised when they married, it made me wonder what I did that pushed her that way. Good news they both enjoy men for sex and happy that the friend I dated still enjoys me to please her the way only a real penis can do. Who is luckier, I have a wife and our two friends. Marriage is about love, sex is about sex. My thought they have a love connection yet are bi.

I don't feel pressured to hurry up unless my partner wants me to, and if we are being watched I try to drag it out as long as possible. If we finish first, we will either watch or take a shower together to get round 2 started.

Cunnilingus is generally acceptable, but analingus is something you might want to cover in the "pregame"

Acceptable if your partners enjoy it. Every woman I know enjoys getting oral and I can’t remember one who didn’t enjoy giving. Not every woman will do analingus nor will I do it to everyone. A funny experience, we were with new friends sexually for the first time, Honey had him in her mouth while she had his gf eating Honey with the girl’s butt exposed for me. I was going to enter her from behind but decided to use my mouth, she loved it and later told me that was a first

One woman in our group is a pillow queen - she is willing to take oral from a woman, but doesn't go down on women. It's not a problem. All the other women are more than happy to give her what she wants without having her lick them in return.

Cunni, yes. Ana, no.

For Daniela and me, it depends on the situation. If one or both of us are getting together with play partners when time is tight we will get right to a quickie. The only requirement is mutual release. When time permits, there is plenty of foreplay of all types. In those situations, foreplay may start for everyone with one partner, switch partners several times, then end up fucking with a person we haven't previously touched that session. For me, the hottest foreplay isn't me doing anything with another partner, and it isn't seeing my wife giving oral, getting oral, or even fucking. It is watching another guy baring and playing with my wife's breasts. The only thing that comes close is Daniela DPing with two other men.

Among our closed poly family of two men, three women we pretty much have it figured out. The most important thing is to be polite - if you're interested you can "help" the others, but do not distract. Usually the guy or guys wander off after orgasm while the women adapt and continue wither stimulating and/or being stimulated...

It has never an issue for us. If I am done I can catch a break an clean myself a little bit with some baby wipes or if is the case I can go to the toilet and sit for a minute to allow the semen to exit me. Sometimes I can loan a hand and participate a little bit with the other couple, it depends.

We've both been on each end of this scenario, and it really depended on the situation. Sometimes we've watched the other, sometimes we go grab a drink and chat outside the room. For us there isn't a wrong move, but for some couples they may have a preference.

I guess what it comes down to is asking your potential partner what their boundaries are. THere are somethings I only do with hubby, and others that i have no problem doing with others, but it is always appreciated when the person I am with asks first before they try something on my (other than the 'normal' things ). I think you will find there are people out there who are willing to particpate in those type of things without any problem at all.

You will probably have no problem finding ladies that enjoy cunnilingus, and are more than willing to receive. However, before you decide to toss some salad, you may want to make sure it's ok with the potential recipient. Personally, we will go down on a lady in a New York minute, but we find analingus with playmates to be a little too risky for our, um.. "tastes".