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We have both "Why *they* said no", as well as "Why *we* said no" stories: After seeing our face photos, the other woman quickly 'noped' on us because Mr Bluebird -- apparently -- looked exactly like the other woman's brother. Mr Bluebird wasn't actually her brother, but she said the resemblance was too great to overlook. The situation where We said 'no': We met up with -- unbeknownst to us, as we hadn't met them before -- the parents of our Daughter's Significant Other: We were going to meet them the following weekend for the first time when we helped our kids move-in together. This wouldn't have been a problem, but we had never met them before, and while we were having an introductory chat over drinks, they let us know that they were quite "Open" about their involvement in the LS: Their friends, family, and even kids knew they were swingers. And if their kids knew, that meant our daughter's SO knew. And -- by virtue of their relationship -- our own daughter would know about their activities. And that was just *too close* for us to consider playing with them -- We're not 'out', and wanted to remain that way.

Cunnilingus is generally acceptable, but analingus is something you might want to cover in the "pregame"

Acceptable if your partners enjoy it. Every woman I know enjoys getting oral and I can’t remember one who didn’t enjoy giving. Not every woman will do analingus nor will I do it to everyone. A funny experience, we were with new friends sexually for the first time, Honey had him in her mouth while she had his gf eating Honey with the girl’s butt exposed for me. I was going to enter her from behind but decided to use my mouth, she loved it and later told me that was a first

Alura had more influence on this site than most will ever know. All of the above is all totally true, but that was just the forward facing part of his involvement here. He was on the mod team from way back, way before me, and his counsel and approach to things runs all through how this site has always operated. Even after Laura's passing when he didn't publicly post nearly as much, he still kept in touch as a "mod emeritus" and would offer wise words about how to handle this or that situation or the overall direction of the site. A one of a kind, a full and interesting life well lived, there's really not words to do him justice.