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I have an opinion and I might be wrong, but when it comes to sex, it doesn't matter male or female, we all like to let our slutty side out when we have the right partner.

According to my partner there's no such thing as too slutty, it's what he finds attractive but suppose its everyone's own outlook on it. Can't say I don't enjoy being slutty as much as he does though

Not for me, usually it's a woman that won't do much or has a lot of rules that is a problem. I like an aggressive, all out woman when it comes to sex. I realize that everyone usually have a line that they won't cross, but I like a woman that rides that line instead of never getting near the line.

The enemy of jealousy is communication, truth, honesty, and love. I know that no matter how 'good' someone else may be in bed, we are still going home together. Sometimes one of us even learns something new that our partner enjoys and we can add to our own intimate times together. Keep talking, set your boundaries and limits and don't exceed them, never move faster than the slowest person is comfortable with (there's no reason to rush anything) and you should be fine. Also, one of our original rules that still remains in place is that when one of us says no, we both say no (no matter what it is about or for)...and if one of us wants to stop, we will happily stop, no questions asked, and take the memories and enjoyment with us as we leave.

I don't feel pressured to hurry up unless my partner wants me to, and if we are being watched I try to drag it out as long as possible. If we finish first, we will either watch or take a shower together to get round 2 started.

Alura had more influence on this site than most will ever know. All of the above is all totally true, but that was just the forward facing part of his involvement here. He was on the mod team from way back, way before me, and his counsel and approach to things runs all through how this site has always operated. Even after Laura's passing when he didn't publicly post nearly as much, he still kept in touch as a "mod emeritus" and would offer wise words about how to handle this or that situation or the overall direction of the site. A one of a kind, a full and interesting life well lived, there's really not words to do him justice.

Thanks for this update, cplnluv. Pleased to learn PSULioness has landed on her feet. (I had just assumed that after that guy and I had a couple of pointed IM exchanges that he had blocked me and that was why I didn’t see any more posts from him. I found him often tiresome, but he was a prolific contributor and in that regard I’m a bit sorry he’s gone.)

This young Lioness has gone through some tough times in the last few years, marriage being a major effect on her personal life. Without saying too much she has moved a few times, fell on some difficult times and is doing much better now. She has the toughness of young lady with street smarts she learned early on in her life. Those who don’t know her, she is still younger than most on here and was only in her twenties when she became active. Alan and I met her and her ex and found her an extremely smart astute person who knows what she wants and can defend herself against bullies in real life and on any social postings. It’s ironic that the poster that PeterJ thinks pushed her to stop posting is no longer posting either. I just went back to that topic and saw your posts defending our friend.

I enjoyed PSU Lioness' viewpoints as well. Such a shame how lady posters (single or married) attract toxic personalities 😑

PSULioness contributed frequently, thoughtfully and candidly until April, 2021, and then stopped abruptly. (You can check out her profile.) She came back in October, 2022, commenting on a post that posed the question: "Would you sell your sex?" She received aggressive & dismissive pushback from one board member. PSULioness and I exchanged several PMs at the time, discussing the status of her marriage and the bad treatment she’d received. She hadn’t posted since. I don’t have any contact info for her other than what’s here on the board. Perhaps she still monitors the board and you could reach her through a PM.

I had no idea, did she post that? I looked up some of original posts, before she got married, that she broke up with her then bf then she married him. I realize if a marriage is not solid then lifestyle choices expose those problems. I wonder what her husband was like and if he just went along with her choices to make her happy. I didn’t read everything so I also didn’t know there were harsh comments. Now I see Padoc possibly passed, not sure about adamgunn. Do you have PSU’s contact info?

I found out while checking Facebook at work and sat at my desk crying. I told Mr. intuition on the way home, again, tears welling up (I'm a bit of a crybaby) and he said he was very sorry about my friend. "Ah well," he says, "I'm sure he's found his way through the pearly gates and is getting the same talking-to that his wife got: 'Now like I told Laura, this is not THAT kind of afterlife. You can't do that here.'" I laughed and said the vanillas can keep their heaven. I would rather be roasting my ass on a clothing-optional beach in hell with all the heathens. I'm sure they're better company.

There are posters who always added to discussions in a sensible way, posters who would be interesting to have a drink with if nothing else. There are seasoned posters and younger posters. Every so often I wonder if someone just lost interest in posting because some of the more questionable posts. I don’t know any of the posters other than reading the posts and then one day you notice they haven’t posts. Alura, Padoc I figured aged out of the lifestyle or lost their partner. AdamGunn was another who I realized is not here or Psulioness who had to be young and funny. Maybe they got busy with other parts of their lives. Cancer doesn’t know age.

The pair who finishes first gets to relax and enjoy the show. Don't stop! Keep going!

Well, that is kinda rude. Did he excuse himself at least, or just get up and leave? Serves guy #1 right for abandoning you! I hope you enjoyed guy #2!

It has never an issue for us. If I am done I can catch a break an clean myself a little bit with some baby wipes or if is the case I can go to the toilet and sit for a minute to allow the semen to exit me. Sometimes I can loan a hand and participate a little bit with the other couple, it depends.