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Well thank you, I always want sex so I must be a 10/10 stunner lol I'm not really but lucky to have a likeminded partner. I have a stupid high sex drive and like sex with different people and was single for ages as I couldn't be with one person sexually without craving others. Don't get me wrong I can commit to a relationship and be loyal but being highly sex and liking differsnt people.makes it hard.

Does she really want to swing or is she just taking one for the team? By your story it sounds to me that she is doing it for you so she won't lose you. Tread lightly, play it cool to let her ease into more swinging, jealousy is something that all deal with in the swinging lifestyle. As she gets more experienced she may be more open to share you.

We have seen and heard the same. Yes. Wow. There is a word for that woman: Asexual. And while being asexual may be fine and dandy, it is less so when an asexual person commits to marriage with a sexual person. Yet indeed that happens.

It would be our suspicion that you will have no issues with attracting men (or women for that matter). Pregnant women are the embodiment of creation and exude sexuality. Welcome to the swingersboard and best wishes to the three of you!

About amounts after Mary's girls night out where she had sex with a stranger, our neighbor invited us to a clothing optional bar B que. Mary and I had talked about swinging but had not decided on it yet. At the bar B que Mary has on her string bikini, which hardly covered her 35b breast and her shaved bottom. It took a while of seeing others naked before we decided to skinny dip. I was amazed at the attention she received from the other guys who kept brushing up against her. Ad afternoon turned into evening everyone went inside leaving bathing suits at the pool. The host then knowing this was our first party dared Mary to give me a bj in front of the other 9 couples. As she was sucking my cock. One of he men came up behind her and looked at me, then grabbed his cock and motioned that he wanted to fuck her. I knew it was now or never so I shook my head yes. He started shoving his cock into her. At first she was shocked, but I told her it was OK. After he came in her she looked at me and gave me a passionate kiss. Before t he night was over she had sex with 4 of the other men at the party

In your opinion is there such a thing as a woman acting too slutty in the lifestyle? In my swing circle being called a slut is a good thing, it is use as a term of endearment but being called too slutty is not. BTW- we define a slut as a woman who likes to play and is very open minded. I was at the club one night and a woman told me that I had better be careful, that I was being too slutty just because I was dancing topless. I know, the horror, a woman dancing topless in a swing club! She then went on to tell me that men don’t want to play with a woman if she is too slutty. Now this was from a woman who had 4 guys lined up giving them blowjobs in an open room, putting on a show. Not that I think that was too slutty. I think her thinking is a little skewed. I know a woman that will screw anything with a dick, she doesn’t care who or what it is attached to. I am not sure if that is being too slutty or just not being very careful. So guys, if you think that there is a line where a woman has crossed over from being a slut to being too slutty, what is that line?

We posted that I listed a profile on Ashley Madison a few weeks with a few on here posting I should stay away from cheaters. My profile was approved by Michael where he has full access to all communication between me and any man who reaches out to me. A married man contacted with a profile that was shocking if it’s true, we think it is. The man is married 25 years and claims he never sees his wife naked, has never had any sex other than missionary, and has 4 children. The only naked women he saw was In pornography he watches alone. Sex is always in the dark with no reactions from his wife and happens every week but not the one week she has her period. He is a fit good looking man that given the chance could have been with many women in his life. I suggested he meet an escort, younger than me and better looking to which he said he wants a real woman, which made Mike and me laugh. I told him my real story, married and my husband likes to watch, almost scared him away. He was shocked that my husband knows about my profile and approves. We are looking for the best time for him to meet me alone and a place nobody will recognize him. I’m calling him my virgin cheater, it could be fun or a real dud.

Recently Rock and I were at a country western bar in San Bernardino we had had a few drinks and sitting with friends . I was wearing a while blouse half cup bra jeans and calf high boots 👢. A guy I did not know asked me to dance I turned to tell Rock I was going to dance with him but he was busy hitting on some dyed and tried cowgirl , I went to dance with the cowboy. He was good looking guy wearing jeans boots and a hoodie. He put his hands on my shoulders then as the music played he put them up around my neck and gave me a kiss. As the music played I could feel is hard cock rub up against me. He then Linda move his right am around. I realized while holding the sleeve of the hoodie he sloypilled out his arm. The hood was a zip up and was unzipped I could feel him playing with my left tit and pinching the nipple as we moved around the dance floor. A few minutes went by and I feel the zipper in my jeans go down. He put his finger in my gstring and started rubbing my clit to the beat of the music. I was getting soo wet when suddenly he stuck his fat I get in my pussy oh my god he held me tightly as we danced and he finger fucked me untill I came!!!! He slowyremoved his finger rubbed my clit a few times Szilard me up squeezed my big d cup tit agin. Then he slides his arm back into sleeve and as the music ended he pulled me close and gave me a deep French kiss. I walked to the table to tell Rock but he was getting head from our neighbors wife oh well I will tell him later. I love cowboy bars

I will be meeting him later today in a hotel, about an hour away. Michael wants to meet him before we go to a room for safety reasons, not to join us. Michael thinks I’m going to be disappointed, I’m more optimistic and excited. I’m sure I will hear more about his wife and his life. I don’t judge others when it comes to sex or how others live their lives. I have read much on morality and how it plays a role in swinging, we don’t push our morals on others. The vast majority of the population would say Swinging is immoral. There are those on here who say swinging should only be done as a couple, something I would have agreed with years ago, we’ve changed our feelings. Most morality is based on religion, deep rooted or superficially. Monogamy has never been a must if you read the history of man. Most characters in history have had sex out of marriage. If you deep dive into the lives of men in “the Bible”, Abraham was told by his wife Sarah, who couldn’t have children to have a child with her slave. There are many other stories of other men having several wives. Back to my “cheater”, should he divorce his sexless wife? Marriage is much more than sex. I know nothing about him or his marriage or family or why he finds looking for sex from someone, me, a better option to divorce. Sex is physical pleasure, not love or a more meaningful reason to stay together. In our brief messaging he never said anything negative about his family life except his curiosity to what he knows other men and women do.

We could care less why a person cheats! If you are in an unhappy marriage you can choose to leave it. If you are not on the same page sexually you are not a good match. Regardless of what anyone says a compatible sex life is a super important part of a relationship. Without it there will always be resentment. You made the wrong choice in a partner and you learned a lesson. Change is not a bad thing. Move on and start over. I did after a 16 year marriage with two children and everyone was better off for it. Is it hard? Yes, but it is worth it to be happy again. Cheating is right up there with lying, stealing and domestic abuse for us! It is a characteristic that makes a person undesirable to be around let alone consider having intimate time with. We are not religious at all, but we do have morales, believe in karma, respect and choose to live our life treating people how we would want to be treated in return. Just, because we are not the ones cheating it does not take away the fact that we would be taking part in the act of human betrayal towards another person that could possibly destroy their life and faith in people. That would make us no better than the cheater in our mind. We prefer to be decent human beings even when so many others are not. I consider myself extremely lucky to have landed one of the good people when I met Missus Enhancer. Knowing what kind of shitty selfish people are out there helps me never take her for granted.

Several years ago I was talking with a female acquaintance who was a little older (40s), married, two kids and the topic slightly veered toward sex. She immediately shut that conversation down with "We don't do that anymore." Wow. Your place? Women who want sex, or more sex, don't have to swing or use an app, they can usually seduce a guy IRL without much trouble.

It’s often said to go at the pace of the slower partner. She said she’s only doing this because you like it. What are your priorities here? Enjoying your kinks or her comfort? It seems she feels pushed into this and that is unfair to not just her but other couples unaware of this that you may meet.

Per my wife, this is very common for the men on AM. I just figured that most men were common cheaters looking for some free strange from unsatisfied women or in our case women looking for revenge sex. The scenario the OP put out there is common, no sex at all for some men. She no longer hides her meetings from me, telling all about the men. She has been a first blowjob for many many men, men who have no idea what a clitoris is, and men who just complain how sex is boring.

I think it all depends on the situation and location. I would find something too in-your-face or look-at-me as a turn-off in some situations, like in a group setting at a club, but the same thing in the bedroom could be really hot. Perceived motivation is important too. If it's an open and honest uninhibited reveling in letting your freak flag fly, then that's a turn-on. If it's a more self-centered look-at-me competitive thing, then that's a turn-off.

I know of a guy (years ago) who had to schedule sex with his wife. If it wasn't on the calendar days in advance, he couldn't even ask. There's all sorts of strange couples out there. Strange to us, I guess, but normal to them. If it's true, I can't imagine him being sexually attracted to his wife. I mean, how could you be? What a dud.

It's good to hear its not taboo as don't think I could leave the lifestyle and I know my partner doesn't either, it's part of who we are. Plus we both find it a turn on and good to hear we aren't wierd lol as it goes got any advice when it's here? Is it still possible to swing with a newborn?

Welcome to the board! I find pregnant women sexy myself! They have some kind of glow to them that appeals to me! Doubt it would bother the missus if she was attracted to the lady. I honestly don’t think it would matter to lots of people out there.

Pregnant women are sexy! Wait, women who want to have sex are sexy.

I have an opinion and I might be wrong, but when it comes to sex, it doesn't matter male or female, we all like to let our slutty side out when we have the right partner.

We have swapped with pregnant women before and I love it! The hormones get the women horny as hell. Enjoy it, we had a great time.

I believe him, being married for 25 years he probably has been shutdown for sex especially after raising 4 kids. I think that's why there is so much cheating, sexless marriages.

According to my partner there's no such thing as too slutty, it's what he finds attractive but suppose its everyone's own outlook on it. Can't say I don't enjoy being slutty as much as he does though

Not for me, usually it's a woman that won't do much or has a lot of rules that is a problem. I like an aggressive, all out woman when it comes to sex. I realize that everyone usually have a line that they won't cross, but I like a woman that rides that line instead of never getting near the line.

Our vacations to a nude beach is where we have many swinging encounters and we love it. Seems nudies are friendlier and you get to see them in their full glory. I know on other threads there is a debate about nudist and swingers. From our first time on a nude beach we have had offers to swing.

My wife says the same, she has never had a dick on which she hasn't been able to orgasm. She just needs to work it differently, sometimes cowgirl is necessary, but that's about it. Same from my experience with women's vagina, I've never had one to loose or slick for me to cum. One woman in our group is loose and when I'm going sloppy seconds with her it is a struggle because of the lack of tightness and friction. But you know, we make it happen and it is the most intense feeling.

Too slutty? I think is a personal call but it's also a women that is open & free. She maybe a soccer mom by day. At the club or party she let's loose and want's to get wild. I have been with a women that was your class A PTA mom by day. Met her at a house party, Short tight leather mini skirt, Black stockings w/garters and her shirt open for the world to see her little tittys. She's not slutty she getting wild and wants to shock some people. Maybe even herself. She did get close to slutty when I was getting a bj from her and another guy was F**ing, Her hubby came in and wanted to know if she was alright, she did not stop and just gave the thumbs up sign.