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That's what I don't understand. Why didn't the women have multiple husbands? A woman can satisfy more men than a man can women.

I was the same as your wife, my husband David was fine with me having a boyfriend, but I was too jealous to share. At first, I had sex with them separately, but then the MFMs started and became a regular occurrence. I tried hard to keep both happy and was a busy girl. It took two years, but then I snapped. A friend of mine said she found my husband attractive and it must be nice sleeping with him. I fibbed and told her David thinks you're hot and it can be arranged. I went home and told David that she was coming over Saturday so that they could fuck. He was surprised, but didn't object. I went on to arrange a number of partners for hubby among my friends and acquaintances. I was jealous, it hurt like hell, but I couldn't stop. So my advice is to make it so that your wife has as much fun as possible. Let her choose her sex partners and how she plays - with you there or not, when, where, how, how often... Make it all about her and her sexuality, her adventure and fun. It took me two years, but what my husband let me do while asking nothing in return brought me to the point to wanting for him to fuck other women and for me to be there.

If a cheater is otherwise a good spouse, supporting a wife and children, but is getting no sex, I could see cheating as better for all than divorce.

I really enjoy men seeing me nude and having sex, especially giving blow jobs. Hubby enjoys both being watched and watching others.

For me as well, but I have seen my wife genuinely make love with the guy (and his wife) that she is infatuated/in love with. Some people are not inhibited. Sometimes sex can be pure physical pleasure, even alone with a spouse that you are totally in love with. Daniela and I have had some incredibly satisfying quickies that have ended with us wiping up, pulling up our pants and going our separate ways.

I would be both or I would say the situations make you become any one of them.

Gonna agree with Anon321 on this. If dogging is something that interests you i think an adult theater may be your best bet. At least you won't get robbed or arrested. But yeah the crowd and environment are usually not real appealing for most women. Then again if dogging is her thing the crowd and environment might be perfect.

An unexpected diagnosis of anything is always unsettling, so sorry you are having to go through this. The link angelkin provided is a good one, and from some reading there and other reputable sites, I'm having a hard time reconciling what your specialist said with HPV. The rate of infection is so high, that any adult with HPV should not come as a surprise to anyone. Also, it's impossible to determine where you got it, so best not to even worry about that. From what I understand, it could have been years or decades ago. Young females are testing positive for HPV even prior to their first intercourse, so basically any sexual contact of any type can transmit it. I'm no medical professional, but something isn't adding up here. Either it's not HPV like you suspect, she misinterpreted the vibe she picked up on, or you need to find another specialist. What is adding up is she's not comfortable with him/her, and no matter how this turns out, she should seriously consider finding someone she is comfortable with. There is a time for the holding your secrets close approach, but this isn't one of those times. Too, what kind of professional throws out something like that and then doesn't follow up with anything else and leaves you guessing and trying to figure it out on your own? I understand they may not know for sure at this point either, but they should at least run down the possibilities for you, and if they won't, then again, time to find one who will. Going through these things is hard enough without someone who is supposed to be helping the situation but instead is making it more difficult. Like most things in life, swinging is a calculated risk. If just walking away from it would reduce your stress and worry level, then it's certainly something to consider. On the other hand, if it's something you both enjoy, then maybe just taking a break to give the facts time to work their way to the top and fill in the blanks to allow you to make an informed and calculated decision would be a good approach too.

Traits to hate: Pushy men Drunk people Gossips Pretend swingers Excessive screamers Traits to love: Women Nicely groomed men Sense of humour Flirtiness Mrs WA PS - How can anyone hate Canadians? Canada is the nicest state in the U.S. *ducking*

Interesting article about oral sex and throat cancer https://nypost.com/2023/04/27/oral-sex-fueling-epidemic-of-throat-cancer-doctor-warns/?utm_source=url_sitebuttons&utm_medium=site buttons&utm_campaign=site buttons