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What I find strange is that nobody mentions the possibility that his wife is not 100% honest. That she does not want to share him is most likely true, but if then she was to admit enjoying the mfms, she knows it would make her look selfish, so she pretends that she's only doing the mfms for him.....and we all know that thats BS! I love how some of you right away tell him, look she's only doing it for you....of course on this board. the ''it's all about the women and they can do no wrong'' attitude does not surprise me.

Welcome to the Swingers Board! We're not much into chatting now either. Back when we first got started we would do it more, usually on Yahoo back then. It was sometimes fun, but overall we decided we preferred to just use chat, text, or whatever to set up the first meet in person and then go from there since we quickly learned there is no substitute for meeting in person to get a feel for people.

That's what I don't understand. Why didn't the women have multiple husbands? A woman can satisfy more men than a man can women.

If a cheater is otherwise a good spouse, supporting a wife and children, but is getting no sex, I could see cheating as better for all than divorce.

I really enjoy men seeing me nude and having sex, especially giving blow jobs. Hubby enjoys both being watched and watching others.

We are talking constantly and finding our way slowly but positively. Communication has always been great generally so that's a plus. Learning to navigate feelings (physically too) and emotions is hard but important. This is something that not many openly talk about I feel as its hard to admit. But we are also human!! Being scared of nervous isn't a reason not to do anything we want to do..but I feel it important to address it and help us to grow. Looking forward to to the future 😉

If you’re both sure you’re ready for this then I have one simple piece of advice that can make or break your experience and possibly even your relationship……Your first time, you both should concentrate on the other person…..NOT YOURSELF. If you make sure he’s having a better experience than you and he makes sure you’re having a better experience than him this can be awesome. If you focus on yourself and ignore him….or vice versa, that’s when things go to shit. Both you and your husband should ask yourself one simple question to see if your ready…..can you look in the mirror and see yourself honestly saying “ wow, watching you fuck that other person is a huge turn on! If you both can do that, your go to go. If either one of you can’t see yourself saying that…..RUN, don’t walk away from this. I don’t know about you but my marriage is worth way more than sex.

I could speculate (because it's better to give than receive?), but it's a mystery. My advice is to embrace that feeling. Don't try to deconstruct it. Let it all wash over you like a wave and enjoy the complexity of it all. Best of luck and please keep us updated.

This is we intend to do.. just as we discuss anything that may come up already. I've read and heard how good this part is too. Only time will tell. I'm probably overthinkung everything!

We are not much for chatting! Found most of the people in the past that wanted to chat lots never amounted to anything, but chatting. When it comes to chatting in the lifestyle we keep it to a minimum until pics are exchanged and if interest is there the first meeting. Absolutely zero interest in sexting or flirting on line. Does nothing for us. We are live action people. I spend most of my time online in hobby related sites.