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Her life changed away from the reason you decided to move on. It looks like you left a very positive impression on her that she looked you up ten years later. I don’t know why you are hesitant.

Fortunately, as I got older, the age of women who I am attracted to also went up. For a while. The most attractive to me went up to mid to late twenties and stopped there.

Because of our poly family situation, sex isn't only just for fun, it's for reproduction too. And the most interesting thing is that we wanted for each of us women to have a child with both men, and be pregnant together and have them around the same time. So most of the time when we were trying to conceive it was specifically with either David or Red. That meant that we were extremely cautious when having sex to achieve the desired result. So that meant two things: the guys never stuck it in the wrong woman except for a little oral, and no sperm was wasted by cumming anywhere except her pussy. The relevance to this thread is that after the goals of breeding were achieved, sex between the couples who had been holding off was fantastic.

We meet people who we are attracted to without basing it on race, religion or nationality. We don’t have that much experience but I figure an interracial couple will not be racist giving them a big plus with us. Strange that the poster twenty years ago has a wife who doesn’t want men of her own race which gives me a clue to her personality.

I only go solo when I'm away from Home Alone.

The prejudice is showing again, but while Clair, Lora, and I hope that our daughters explore sex and love with other girls, we don't have any wish for our sons to go the same sex path. It hasn't been discussed with Red and David, but them being straight, they probably feel the same.

We're not prudes, but with children now we aren't nude around the house anymore. With our situation of being a poly family we are super sensitive about child services. We're also aware that some of the kids are full siblings, some half siblings, and some biologically unrelated.

Not every man on AM is a cheater, a few have the blessing of an understanding wife with a mutual understanding of an open marriage.

I would say yes, a woman can be too slutty for me, even in the lifestyle. At first I was intimidated by my future wife having a number that was four to five times mine when we started having sex after we met, even though when single she had a rule of like five dates (she would almost always pay) and two months before having any sex with a guy. Some boob play and blowjobs as they got close to those hurdles and if all was going well. Then I embraced her past and enthusiastic attitude towards sex, so much that after we were married I encouraged her to hotwife. But it was still a slow, measured thing with guys she either knew from her past and got reintroduced, or men she knew and slowly started down the path toward seduction with me involved along the way to make clear what was going on. Now that we play only within our closed group, I like it a lot better. It's far away from stranger sex, we all know each other well, and even care about one another. My wife still plays, a lot, but it is limited to six other well-chosen guys (and their wives), which seems to me a lot better than fucking random men. There are never condoms, which gives me comfort that because we are closed the danger and nastiness of stranger sex isn't there. There is in our group, however, plenty of kinky, crazy, "slutty" play, dirty talk, name calling (you haven't lived until a guy and your wife use the word "cunt" while fucking), or watch two other guys DPing your wife. But somehow it is nowhere near slutty to me as if she just had quick, normal sex using a condom with a stranger.

With the bi guys my wife and I have been involved with, we find the hottest thing is one of us guys fucking the other's wife missionary while her husband fucks his butt.

LIVE Porn!!! > Yes, LIVE Porn is where it's at. Good music is just gravy.

Isn't the reason that your having sex in the same room/bed is so you can watch your partner enjoy him or herself? I would think porn at that point would take away from it. Music is always nice to have in the background.

Silence is golden! But if I had to choose, it would be music.