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It was years ago so what I remember is only from the times we told others about that time. To start we only looked to meet one guy mostly because of the thrill of picking someone up. Michael was interested in how I would play with someone telling me to not pay attention to him watching. When we found the two somewhat younger men things got interesting. The guys weren’t friends and just met at a business meeting so they were unsure of what to do nor had either one ever been in a situation like this. Michael said I was really slutty pushing the guys to do more. After they left I remember being exhausted and hugging Michael. He said I fell asleep for hours in his arms and we showered together before he told me everything I did with the guys. I know we went out for breakfast in a diner in the morning where he teased me in a loving way how I bossed the guys to do more. We met others over the years with a Michael watching and sometimes he would get involved after an initial start watching. Most of the pickups are more for my excitement not because he loves to watch it’s more he loves watching me enjoy.

It is nice to get the chance to suck another man's cock but why? I just did this for my man and wow he loved it! Two friends came over and I did what he wanted to be the very the best I could be.

That was very considerate of you. Had you guys done regular penis-in-bum anal before? I had, and didn't have interest in doing it for myself, but would do it as a treat for the men if he asked nicely and had already given me my Os. DP, OTOH, is a treat for me. That usually happens with me (or Clair or Lora) when a guy is in our bum and it's a DP that the other two would rather keep going. If we know that a DP is coming during our play, the guy going into the girl's bum will have an orgasm in a pussy first before going into my/her bum to slow him down. If I were that new partner, I would be disappointed not getting the cum. I sort of get a change in feelings too, but as a jealous woman I like to watch them, and when they finish, do oral on them both.

One, as others have said, if you're having ED problems, do NOT drink alcohol. Follow the pilot's rule of thumb; don't drink the day of playing nor the day before playing. Two, if you're getting treatment for ED, that's great. Independent of playing with others, if you're still having difficulty with your wife, keep your urologist in the loop. There are different alternatives for ED treatment. Also, exercise...get your heart healthy. It will help. Even just walking a couple of miles a day can make a difference. It's not that hard. Just put some shoes on and walk. 40 minutes is 2 miles. Easy. You can track it with a pedometer app on your phone. On the playing, my read of it isn't that rules changed in midstream. Maybe I'm missing something. The rule is you don't have sex unless you both have sex, right? Ok, so she asked and you said yes. To me the implication is that you're planning on having sex and you let your wife have sex because of that. From her perspective, that would be my take. So, I don't think your wife made a mistake or did anything wrong. You might consider soft swap only for a while until your ED problems are rectified, and you feel more confident going into a given situation that you will be able to get and maintain an erection. This problem, even for people without ED, is not at all uncommon in newbie swingers. The first time my wife and I played was soft swap. Mr. Happy decided to do pushups...up..down..up..down...up...down. Couldn't get him to stay up, despite the woman I was playing with being very attractive, and very good. Also; there's no problem with you having rules. That's perfectly normal and expected. Over time in the lifestyle, you will find your rules will fall by the wayside and devolve down to one or two that won't go away (one likely being condoms are a must). My wife and I had a bunch of rules at the beginning. They're almost all gone now. Less rules makes it easier to relax and have fun. Don't drop rules until you're ready, but understand rules will go away.

I've said it before and I probably will again. Our understanding is that we both know that neither of us will ever intentionally hurt the other. With that in mind when things go sideways , we figure out where we went off course and fix it. It doesn't seem as though anyone went out of their way to cause injury. Sex when sober and clearly saying that you only change course after private discussion would have avoided this . If you feel the need you can have a series of code phrases of gestures that allow you two to communicate some basic information and requests with witnesses being none the wiser. EastinWest may also be correct about what the wife was doing.Lack of clarity can be a bitch.

Advice. Alcohol and impotence go together. You say you were drunk which makes it even worse. I wouldn’t want to have sex with a drunk. Not only was your dick not work, your brain wasn’t working either. You told your wife to take a break because you couldn’t function, she agreed. What would you like to know?

My GF would rather be facefucked than just give a blowjob. She finds blowjobs boring and facefucking exciting. This has become extremely common among the younger generations maybe due to porn.

I so very much love to watch the Mrs. suck and swallow another man. she has been told that she has a very special touch, at first she was not into it but now loves it, and goes after it like a hungry kitten after cream. It is so very hot and I love her so much more for sharing this with me. We have a rule that the man always has to kiss her deeply after.

Wife and I had played with the idea of a MFM experience for years. We are in our late sixties, but could pass for fifty. I was her only lover and never thought she would ever go along with this idea. February, 2020 I signed up with SLS and spook with several gentleman that were very interested in meeting with us. We talked about one gentleman for a month or so, and text him a lot. He was anxious to meet with us, and I would tease her about it. Then out of the blue she told me she was ready to do it. This excited and scared me at the same time. We set up the meeting and I went along thinking she was trying to teach me a lesson and, would back out at anytime. Well she did not, and it was a very hot experience. She had mutable orgasms and wore us both out. The one thing that really surprised me was how fast she was to perform oral on both of us to completion and swallowing. Up to this point she had never been very interested in performing oral on me and had never really swallowed. We have had two more MFM and she has done the same thing. I love watching her perform on the other guy and she always swallows. This is so hot. Our sex life is as hot as it was when we were in our twenties. All she has to do is smile at me and I get hard. The only down side is that she has a week or two of remorse after each meeting, then that passes and we start planing our next event. I do not push and let her lead, and she decides when, who, and where, I go along for the ride.

For me it’s very much a turn on watching her suck off another man, but she absolutely loves having them shoot their load on her face....even more exciting for me!

I like watching her flirt with other guys for their cocks. I like watching her drop to her knees. I like seeing her lips wrapped around it sucking it. I like seeing the expression on the guy's face. If he's facefucking her I like to hear the sound of her gagging and see her eyes become watery. And I like to see another guy shoot his load all over her face (or sometimes in her mouth and see her swallow). I think that about covers it.

We've been barebackers since we entered the lifestyle around 14 years ago. At that time nobody that we met used them but times have changed. As age creeps up on me condoms no longer work so we look only for people that don't require them.