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I think you're over thinking it :) Certainly kids affect our lives, no matter how much we say they won't. But, having kids has never been much of an impediment to us in the lifestyle. We started in the lifestyle after we'd had our kids and they were still young. Quite young. The only way in which it really affected things for us was when my wife got her first regular boyfriend. We didn't always have babysitters, especially on shorter notice, so she played solo with him a lot. We did a lot of MFMs too, but that was more planned out. So, one way this could work for you all is being baby sitters for each other; one of you watches the kids while the other three play. Also, getting a babysitter to cover your kids together might be easier too.

Overthinking it. As long as it doesn't become a priority it should be just fine. Just don't go flaunting things in front of the kids, but even two couples getting together and giving each other a quick kiss is fine. Two couples sharing a babysitter so they can go out and do something together is fine as well...'real' people do this all of the time. Just because you have 'shared' more than the average couple don't be too sensitive as to what you limit yourselves to. Instead of thinking 'we're swingers: what should we do', think 'they're our best friends (that we just happen to get naked with): what would best friends do'?

This poll and question resurface from time to time. We have moved into our "forever home", designed from the ground up to be clothing-optional with no direct sightlines into the home or the courtyard (except, in the dead of winter when the leaves are off the trees and no one is going to spend time naked outside anyway). Nude (or, in French, au naturel) is the way we are born. It is the most natural state. We bathe, make love, and sleep that way. Clothing for protection, for warmth, for fantasy--all of that makes sense. Clothing makes sense for most public, professional, and business gatherings. Clothing makes sense for many forms of recreation. It makes sense for some social gatherings. But for "everyday", for other recreation (typically warm environment or wet environment or both) , clothing ought to be optional, nude is normal, and people ought to choose what is comfortable for them. If you visit, we'll ask that you remove your shoes (or wear shoe covers) out of respect for our wood floors. If you want to keep everything else on, or you prefer to take everything else off, that's up to you. We'll welcome you either way.

Yes the news has gone way of the almighty dollar. This story will be spiced up to keep in the news and keep the viewers interested. If Lee was just a common man and the sister was just average looking this wouldn't even be a story.

I got a call from the widower this morning asking if I would meet him again tonight. Saturday night I with Michael with me told him I didn’t want a long term relationship with him, that I would be with him just that one time and that the reason I was on AM was just for that reason, nothing long term. He understood my reasoning, his joining that site was for the same reason, no long term complicated troubles. I have nothing negative to report on my time with him, quite the opposite it was a lovely time, almost perfect. I told him the only way I would meet again is if Michael can watch, they already met Saturday with just a checking out time. I assured him Michael is straight and not weird, he just likes to watch or if everyone agrees he will join.

Isn't it amazing how your early introduction to sex affects your likes and dislikes of sex later in life. For me I have a piss play fetish which I attribute to being allowed to watch a girl pee as my earliest memory of seeing a vagina. I also love 69 almost as good as intercourse and I introduced this to girls that wouldn't have intercourse due to the fear of pregnancy. I have always heard that our childhood molded our life but I didn't realize that it would affect our sexuality. It makes me sit and think about people who shun sex, what happened in their early sexual history?

God bless the man who invented yoga pants!!!

I love those yoga pants where the camel toe is exposed. The kind where that pussy looks like it wants to reach out and shake your hand. What I like is the woman that wears those yoga pants and are aware that they are showing a camel toe but don't give rip!

I think the smell and taste is better than the view, I like the smell and taste of a pussy that hasn't showered all day!

I met another sexual partner on AM who was a perfect gentleman and registered his profile for another not typical reason, he is a widower. His wife died a few years ago from medical complications after a 25 year happy, monogamous marriage. It took him some time to re-enter the dating scene, meeting primarily divorcees who were looking for relationships, something he wasn’t interested in. He was honest in telling me he slept with a few of the women he met but they all became too needy. He joined Ashley though it is not cheap for men because he wanted to be with women that had no relationship expectations and were open to be their sexual selves. I was explicit with him that I am married and a swinger that is not cheating and wanted him to meet Michael before doing what we both wanted. I am pretty sure he thought I was an escort and Michael was my pimp even when we assured him I wasn’t looking for anything more.

Fair questions. Meeting this man alone without Michael was a choice we made together. I don’t know what I expected or how his virility would be. I thought it would be interesting, and SAFE.

If a cheater is otherwise a good spouse, supporting a wife and children, but is getting no sex, I could see cheating as better for all than divorce.

If not you, it will be some other woman. If he is on Ashley Madison looking for women then you can bet he is looking other places. He is looking for side pussy and he will find it! Tricia if it doesn't bother either of the 3 of you, go for it, it may be the fuck of your life.

J's Bottom is Up!