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And that's what gets me excited even though I'm on birth control - having a man's (actually several men's) sperm swimming around in me. Even after I'm clean and fresh, some have gotten so deep into uterus and fallopian tubes that they will live for days.

I was just prodding adamgunn2 I agree with your point.

That wasn't fantasy for us. After our wedding reception, David invited Red to our hotel room, removed my clothes (I was only wearing three pieces, two of them were shoes) and said, "Meet my wife." Red fucked me first as a married woman before my husband had me. Since David and I were going on a ten-day honeymoon, Red returned the next morning for more. You need to marry that woman. She is special; a keeper. You'll have a hard time finding another like her.

Would you rather have a server on his first night on the job at a restaurant, or one with five years experience . . .

Petra, over the course of a long life and a couple of decades of swinging/ENM I’ve had more different sorts of sexual experiences than I care to recall. By a wide margin the hottest sex I’ve had has been intentionally procreative sex (serially) with all of my three wives. Not only was the fucking itself incredibly powerful, but my libido just wouldn’t quit. When trying to make a baby with any of them, I was hot for them all the time. Just looking at them I wanted to mount up. And even after they became pregnant I was still super hot to fuck them.

I'm not sure I would really call it "weird." There is a certain taboo to it. When you go to a porn website or to a strip club you know you are going to see naked women, sex, etc. But you're not supposed to see your coworker or friend naked or having sex. I know some of my buddies get extra excitement from fucking my GF because she's my GF. There is some additional kink to it for them. They've actually talked about fantasies they have about if we got married and fucking her on the wedding day to cumming on the wedding cake and feeding it to her. So it might be "weird" to some and I can see why but I also understand there is a taboo nature to it that gets them off as well.

Yes she does. Sometimes I'm there or sometimes I'm not. I think she likes it when we're at a bar or club and she sneaks away with another guy and has "slut sex" and then returns to me. We've had lots of fun memories doing that kind of stuff. We both find it very hot and fun.

Not surprising. Our bodies try to avoid disease, but achieve reproduction. Me too. It doesn't make sense to me with a condom or on the outside of my body. As our poly family was beginning to form, Clair, despite being on birth control, got pregnant with my husband's child. (She wasn't fucking Red at this point.) We decided that it was not a bad time to start having children and Clair and I wanted to go through pregnancy together. So I went pot luck with both my men. It was for me psychologically the best sex I have ever had, two men competing to get me pregnant.

Nobody is putting a needle in my dick unless my life or my penis itself is in mortal danger.

Since my post four years ago in this thread, three women we know well from swinging underwent hysterectomies due to persistent HPV infections. Despite all the hubbub against vaccines, I think getting the HPV vaccine series seems like a no brainer for swingers/ polyamorous people.

I think this is a very valuable thread to read over. I'm surprised it didn't get more attention. I'm a proponent of going bare most of the time (not in clubs, and not for anal.... hardly ever), but that damn HPV! I'm under 45 and will get the vaccine, but I've probably been exposed already having had vaginal intercourse with about 40 partners to date. I've known a couple of women in the poly community in a big city have HPV on their cervix (both cleared in a couple of years). They had the same boyfriend for a little while. He was bare with one of them, and used a condom with the other. Otherwise, in my years of non-monogamy, the moment someone has a symptom, partners are notified and and extra safety is taken till more info is given about the outbreak. Other than that HPV, I've rarely heard of a spread. It's been just individuals that have had HSV for years, and not passed it on. I had a ureaplasma infection recently. I think I caught it receiving oral. That's one that is rarely tested for in the US, and isn't always considered an sti, sort of like a yeast infection isn't. Ureaplasma is on us already, but a person with high levels can pass that on as an infection. Like, tag..... you're it.......

It's not even an average. It's a number pulled out of thin air to sell books. I am hardly an alarmist, but I think the most positive thing I can say about the "statistics" (I use the term generously here), on that site, is that if he ever took a statistics course, he is owed a refund.

HPV is as common as the cold. Few swingers discuss it, but it is rampant. Condoms don’t necessarily stop it. Fortunately, regular OB/GYN care will track it. And there is now a vaccine.

This is an interesting document, Mr. adamgunn, so I'm happy you brought it to my attention. I have one comment. The odds for people who engage in swing activity are almost certainly not the same as for people of the general population. I do firmly believe that swing people are much more likely to alert their sex partners when they learn that they have "caught something". This has the effect of limiting transmission to others.