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Swinging is especially important after you have kids and are older. It will keep you interested in one another and in life in general. I couldn't imagine my wife being as happy as she is without the opportunity to get some elsewhere. Think of the things you haven't done and wanted to. Don't let life pass you by.

I came close to being in a dv, but when the other man asked me and the woman I was in, I got excited and came. Did you enjoy it? Tough to coordinate?

Adding to what Numex said: Something that most couples have happen way too often is once they have kids they slip into the 'mom' and 'dad' role and forget that they used to be very sexual people. The kids eventually leave and then what does mom and dad do...somehow they need to get back to being lovers and just enjoying being together. Doesn't matter how they do this...it might be swinging, or porn, or exhibitionism, or whatever, but all too often, they forget that they need to get back to being lovers. Otherwise, they all too often look in the wrong places to find new lovers...

It is not that Sasquatch is on my radar, so maybe looks 5% Otherwise to me Attitude, attitude, attitude.

I was just prodding adamgunn2 I agree with your point.

That wasn't fantasy for us. After our wedding reception, David invited Red to our hotel room, removed my clothes (I was only wearing three pieces, two of them were shoes) and said, "Meet my wife." Red fucked me first as a married woman before my husband had me. Since David and I were going on a ten-day honeymoon, Red returned the next morning for more. You need to marry that woman. She is special; a keeper. You'll have a hard time finding another like her.

Men looking for more for the same reason women look for more. The old adage that it takes two to tango, the site that you are on are matching married men with married women. We started with wanting a woman to join us, my wife encouraged me to join and she watched. Watching my wife with a woman was more exciting, the jealous feeling didn’t hit until another man came into the scene.

You understand my feelings on this. I posted many times about my first time with a new lover when I can’t believe I gave him my whole body even though we just met and I never did anything like it before. I am positive that if my husband was with us that night the experience would not have been the same. All these years later I wonder why I was able to go alone with a man we just met. We aren’t big swingers, we don’t go looking for others, we have played with a very limited number of others. Group sex is even more limited, the number of times I watched or even been in the same room as my husband playing with another woman even more limited. Like you I do have jealous feelings watching him and a sense of pride when I see him satisfy a partner. I love the feeling of being with the right man, I’m not addicted to it.

Many swingers don’t understand that being alone with a sexual partner is one of most pleasurable activities for me. It is difficult for me to fully enjoy my partner if anyone including my husband is watching. Watching him with a woman has become a bit easier, not something I find myself needing to do.

Alura had more influence on this site than most will ever know. All of the above is all totally true, but that was just the forward facing part of his involvement here. He was on the mod team from way back, way before me, and his counsel and approach to things runs all through how this site has always operated. Even after Laura's passing when he didn't publicly post nearly as much, he still kept in touch as a "mod emeritus" and would offer wise words about how to handle this or that situation or the overall direction of the site. A one of a kind, a full and interesting life well lived, there's really not words to do him justice.

When we were new to the LS, Alura's advice was always well-considered and meaningful. We've missed his contributions, recently; knowing that he has joined Laura is fitting and offers all of us a sense of closure.

I've never had sex with a guy using a condom (but I've also never really been a swinger, just poly). I did lots of oral, both giving and receiving from an early age with the guys who I dated. Also some bum sex if I really liked him, he licked and fingered my pussy well, and he was pleading to go in. Pretty much as soon as I was old enough to drive, I went to Planned Parenthood with a girlfriend. My parents weren't suspicious because I was a good student and other than the sex, which they didn't know about, I was well behaved. My friend wasn't planning on it, but she got a script for The Pill as well. After that, I found that straight ahead p-in-v sex is my favorite. That is until I found my Lesbian side and wanted both.

I’m going to agree with Tricia that the real first time was painful and I expected it to be. My second time was a little better still painful. At the time I kept it to myself and wondered if I had a problem. To answer the OP I was with a virgin who I liked a lot. The first time was very fast not that he ever lasted long. Both of young and neither of us knew much. I wonder about what happened with him. Does anybody search for their first boyfriends?

Most of us on here if truthful will say the first time was not great physically and orgasms were not to be. My first was awkward and fumbly and painful. I also worried about getting pregnant after he had problems with the condom. I was ready to do it, wanted to do it, was scared to do it. I was told it could hurt and bleed and went as far as having an old towel under me. I really liked him, had been with him a few times and had first played through clothes. Oral was only one way don’t think he knew. We had stopped the time before because of pain from his using his hand. Finally I told him to do it and not stop, I most likely was biting my lip then screamed, he stopped but had already came and then realized the condom came off. Young love we dated a few months. We did it a number of times when we found his or my parents weren’t home. I don’t remember having a real orgasm with him even though we both enjoyed the making out.

I think the oddest is working with a couple we met in person with, really clicked, and the lady decided that Mrs. Swing was not bi enough

Participated in my first one a couple weeks ago . Dvp that is . It wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be .a lot Of fun lol.

One of my greatest memories was when our longtime best male friend and I were having a threesome. When I was on my back having intercourse with my wife, he would lick and play with my balls. When he had intercourse with my wife, I would do the same to him. We also did DVP with him and it was great.

i love seeing her riding a nice looking cock. Love to eat her pussy and give his shaft and balls a little attention as well.

I happen to have a pretty wide pussy for being so small, but muscular, so I love a good DP and DVP, so size doesn't matter. I like to have my hubby rubbing with another hard cock and then they can lean me up afterwards. I did do double anal twice and actually liked it when younger. Laura Dave and Laura vegas nude couple

Interesting. Have never tried DVP (or anal) but we've had some fun with putting a chair down so that she can ride someone reverse cowgirl and lean forward to give head. Balancing it wasn't easy, but it was sort of an interesting sense of semi-anonymity for her, and a great view for both guys.

we tried a new position last night. my husband was on the bottom and sat back in. recliner. i got on top nd he slid his cock in my ass. i spread my legs wide and the guy stood in front and was able to easily penetrate my pussy. my husband couldn’t move much but i loved the pressure in my ass while getting off on the other cock. I also liked being able to see him rather than being on all fours. i liked that when he pulled out i could watch him jerk off and cum on me. Not the same as pulling out and cumming on my back. Afterwards they switched - just make sure the guy in your ass wears a condom and then remove it if he’s going to switch to the front.

I (the male half) did DVP with a previous partner, and a male friend while his wife watched. It took a bit of doing -- awkward positions, weird placement of legs, but we managed it. He said it was pleasurable and came first; it was fantastically arousing for me to feel another hard cock snug within her, sliding against me, and a new, weird, and ultimately orgasm-inducing feeling to feel him swell and cum in her alongside my own cock. I'd never felt that much cum ooze out around my balls (I was underneath), and I couldn't hold back at that point and came, too. She said it was amazing and came a couple of times with the two of us in her. Adding a larger dildo during sex when it was just the two of us became a regular thing, and eventually she took to enjoying an entire hand -- and others -- inside. Sadly, she took ill, and now that I've remarried, we haven't tried that kind of thing since.

My wife chooses to have the thicker dick in her vagina, the longer one in her ass. So with her, the guys don't get to choose in a DP. When given the choice with another woman, I'll choose the front. I like looking at a woman's face when she's fucking and playing with her tits.

If the other guy has a small or average cock I can take two in my pussy. If he has a big penis, i’ll let him have my pussy to himself and my husband with take my ass. either way i love it.

The wife brought it up and I have been wanting to try it. We tried V and A with a toy and it's not comfortable for her, even with her controlling it all. We tried DVP with the toy and she had amazing orgasms. As for in person, we aren't there yet, no, I'm not there yet but the thought turns me on. We did do a mfm for a few min with our new friends. My wife was moaning and asked me to come to her to suck on. The other wife was smiling the whole time. Man it was hot.

Both times our best friend hand DVP with my wife and me, he and I came rather quickly and we both came together. It was amazing. Since we were not using condoms, he and I could really feel the added lubrication when we came together.

The first two times we did it, I came as the other guy slid in. It was just that hot. You are not alone!

My close call with DVP was a cruel joke. I was at a house party. A woman (friend and playmate) was on top of me and I was in there. Another guy approached us and asked if we wanted to try DVP. I got so excited by the thought of it, I came almost immediately. My partner and her nearby husband thought this was very funny!

I participated in a DVP with a wonderful married couple multiple times. We would only get together once a month as the wife considered it her husband and hers "special date night" and wanted it to always be special. We started doing DVP after a couple of times being together and I'll admit at first it sort of weirded me out being so close to another man but soon realized this was all about the woman being pleasured. The husband was straight like me but he loved bringing his wife to sexual ecstasy. It was a HUGE turn on to see how the wife would just get lost in fucking and cumming. I've never experienced DVP again and I do so miss it. Slow and slippery was our motto.

It's difficult to just happen into a dvp. It does require all participants to be on the same page. It's good to be aware that getting into the position does require a decent sense of humor. So, since she is concerned about enough room, be very careful. You should be the top guy. Get the bottom guy in as deep as possible and allow her time to adjust to him. The position is bottom guy with legs together, her cowgirl, chest to chest, you are coming in doggie with your legs between hers and his. Getting your dick in should be done pretty slowly and with too much lube. Once you get the head in, let her adjust again and don't push until you feel her start to push back, or tell you to give her some more. Once you are in, you will still probably have to go pretty slowly but let her set the pace. Keeping everyone somewhere between soft and shooting is tricky but with commitment and practice, you too can soon be DVP masters.

The only DP I and my wife have done is one in the pussy, one in the anus. Done correctly, it's very pleasurable for the woman and exciting for the guys, but the guy in the ass tends to cum too quick. I especially like it when neither of the guys is the woman's husband. None of the women we play with, including my wife, have ever suggested trying to get two dicks in one hole.

Did the Mrs. go crazy with enjoyment? My Mrs. is open to the idea, but worried about there not being enough room.

We are both bi and it's a huge turn-on for me to see him suck a dick or get taken from behind. He was bi before I met him and I think it's great that he can be himself.

I was there to see hubby's first bi experience last year and it was such a HUGE turn-on. So when he is ready to fuck ass or be fucked, I would love to see that. Though it's more his fantasy rather than mine, from the time I witnessed his bi experience, I am not adverse to seeing him take it a step further if he chooses to do so. :-)

When Mr. Mimi and I met, I wasn't at all interested in male bi play. However, a post on this sight regarding male play got me so turned on that we have now added that, with the blessing of the Mr., to our repertoire. I have seen him get his cock sucked while I was riding our play partner and I almost rode that poor man in to the ground, I was so turned on. Next, I can't wait to see the Mr. suck cock. So excited that, because of this board, we are able to explore this fantasy together.

Yummy. I love watching gay porn, makes me SO wet. My husband has sucked and been sucked. He isn't bi at all - just open minded about what feels good. Lately he's been talking a lot about wanting to get fucked in the ass by a real cock (and not just me with a strap-on LOL). I hope we can make this fantasy of his come true!! MY fantasy is for him to fuck me while he's getting fucked in the ass. Talk about orgasm!!!! Lol