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OH! When I saw that the title of this thread is “Fist Time”, I thought it was going in a comPLETEly different direction! 😂

Our first time was with a couple we'd met on SLS and chatted with almost daily for a month or so leading up to our meet. They a bit older and seasoned in the lifestyle and we were very eager to learn so we essentially followed their lead. We setup a date to meet an LS club and didn't really have any limitations or rules in place. We'd discussed them, but found ourselves pretty comfortable all around. When we get to the club and finally meet the couple in person, the female half of the couple takes my wife on 'a tour' of the club while I check in our booze and chat with the other husband. When the wives come back down a few minutes later, my wife informs me that during the tour the other wife had laid her down on the bed and gone down on her. I was a little disappointed to have missed both my wife's first extra marital sexual experience and first girl/girl experience and in hindsight, reflecting back, I think the other couple was trying to divide and conquer us, given we were noobs and they didn't want us getting cold feet. Cold feet did not end up being an issue though and after a couple drinks and a little talk we transitioned up to the group room which was almost on a stage setup and began a soft swap foursome in there. When we went in, we were all alone in the room, but the next thing we knew, when we looked up the room was packed with others sitting in chairs watching us play. This threw me a bit--I didn't mind being seen (these days I thrive on it) but was not expecting an engaged and deliberate audience. We continued our oral explorations there for a while, mostly in swap fashion my wife with the husband and me with the wife until a room opened up. I remember the room was tiny like a closet with a bed in it and very hot inside, but it was private and more in line with what we were expecting and also better situated to observe what was going on. I was excited to fuck the other wife and was getting a condom ready to do so, but after not using a condom for about 20 years, my dick was giving some resistance. I remember switching to oral on the other wife for a while while I watched my wife sucking off the other husband and then helping my wife transition to going down on the other wife with me (her first time going down on a girl). I actually have a very hot recording of this I'll revisit from time to time. Watching girl/girl doesn't normally do a ton for me, but seeing my wife devouring another woman in a state of lust did it for me and I positioned myself behind her and slid into her soaked pussy and was rock hard myself at this point. I fucked her for a good few minutes as she continued going down on the other wife while the other husband knelt next to his wife's face so she could suck him off--it was all very hot to take in. It hit me shortly after that: wait a minute, your dick is hard! So I took the opportunity to slide out of my wife, try again with a condom (successfully this time) helped the other wife off her back and onto her feet leaning over the bed, and slid myself into my first new sexual partner since grad school. I was pounding her hard and fast (the way my wife likes it and how I'd been trained over the years--at the time I didn't have much variation to my game) but the other wife was enjoying and had a squirting orgasm which was good for my confidence... I find reaching climax in a condom to take a lot of work, but I was very close at that point when all of a sudden someone starts banging on the door telling us our time was up! Bummer!! After that we got ourselves cleaned up a bit and went back downstairs to the dance area. The other couple was taking a walk outside to indulge in some 420 and we'd planned to wait, but once alone my wife told me she wanted to get out of there, so we caught an uber and shot them a text from the road. Back at our hotel we talked about everything that had transpired, what we liked what we wanted to do again. She informed me that the other husband was having ED issues which I was oblivious too and she was a little disappointed not to be able to try sex with someone new as I had. She also confirmed her bisexuality (more so than curiosity) and we agreed we loved the experience and wanted to continue swinging and then spent the rest of the night (early morning really) getting our money's worth for the hotel we were staying at. So to answer OP, our first experience was great--though we've become simultaneously pickier and bigger whores since. (We're more picky for wanting physically attractive partners, but we're nastier and far less inhibited when the attraction is there. My advice: Really take the time to enjoy the first experiences. Pictures and videos are a great idea too... at that point in our journey having sex with others was the ultimate aphrodisiac and would lead to weeks of us fucking each other non-stop at every opportunity for privacy. The new relationship energy was through the roof (same relationship but completely re-defined) and life was just euphoric day and night. Enjoy your journey and try to hang on to that mojo for as long as you can!!

That's still my biggest fantasy!

We started out with the two of us and a single unicorn female before moving on to swapping with couples and giving single men a chance! After all these years we have been talking recently about what if anything we still want from this lifestyle. It is looking like swapping and other men all together are probably going to be taken off the plate by her choice. It seems we might just be all but leaving the lifestyle except if a unicorn happens to pop up again or a couple with a bi wife that is only looking for the girls playing with each other does. Guys including many married men from couples have just been a big let down for her far too often. She is more than happy with me being the only guy from now on. I also could really care less about fucking other women. I just end up wanting her more.

Soft swap, same room. Have told this story many times - practically liveblogged it here out of excitement, actually - but we'd started out kicking around the idea of MFM so I could watch her perform oral. We had different ideas about how to find a partner for that, until one day she had reconnected with an old friend and learned that her and her ex-husband, who were still intimate, were actively swapping. We lined it up with a trip to Las Vegas to join them at their house with another couple for a dusk pool party. I knew well enough to take a precautionary Cialis and talk through our limitations before we got there. Mrs. E knew the ex-husband had always had it bad for her and the delight at finally getting his hands on her body was palpable. Eventually she was crouched down on all fours with her swimsuit top off and her hair up, bobbing away, her friend and the third husband were in the hot tub on the other end, and the third wife sat down next to me and went down on me, too. I remember thinking it was kind of a motion sickness feeling like the rising part of a roller coaster, knowing I could stop it but having no desire to do so, more afraid she would get cold feet before he came than anything else. She didn't. In fact, he erupted hard enough and she was dazed enough that she didn't realize she'd spilled cum on her chin and neck when she got up and walked over to me, kind of in disbelief at what was going on. When she sat down to join in, that nearly pushed me over the edge and I had to stop for a beer - and a towel for my wife - and I eventually ended up finishing with the other wife with Mrs. E kissing my neck. We took a quick shower when everybody went inside and took a minute to connect, and agreed that we liked what we'd done and didn't feel strange about it. There was another round of play that evening, she went down on the other husband on the couch while I screwed her from behind. It went smoothly enough that we were ready for full swap with her friend and the ex-husband the very next night. I hadn't really planned it. We'd agreed that we wanted to try it, she pitched her friend in the lady's room, then they pitched us on it at the table of the lounge. We ended up in our hotel room at the old Hard Rock, Mrs. E bent over the opposite side of the bed while I did her friend from behind. They held hands and made a lot of eye contact, both with each other and with us. Was both the first time I'd put on a condom and the first time Mrs. E had been penetrated with one in years.

Yes there certainly are all types. From our standpoint. If we communicated with you first we would set up a time to meet for drinks or food. If we communicated with your husband first neither of us would proceed, but that is just us. We just were in contact with someone and within the first three paragraphs the bedroom chat got pretty heavy. It is too bad. This person had command of English and a decent vocabulary. There were signs that they as a couple might be worth knowing. Then we started to feel like slabs of meat. There are others out there sufficiently hot to trot that would enjoy this persons approach. We have enjoyed spontaneous sex at parties but that is a different scenario.

I can definitely identify with what you're saying here. The needs of our kids are a little different, but the time consuming nature is the same. While our solution has been similar as far as playing together, we have not ventured to the solo thing. During the time we were playing with that bi SM, my wife expressed interest in trying to have solo play and extend the same liberty to me, but I was not at a point where I was ready for it, especially with that particular person who seemed capable of breaking down all our boundaries. Fast forwarding in time a bit, I started coming around to the idea more and have offered a willingness a couple of times to allow her to pursue, but she's said she has no interest and admitted her interest was limited to that single male, in primary part because she wanted to experience him without me and ensure she was his primary interest. We aren't a same room couple, but I'm not sure we'll ever get to a point of true separate play--we consider ourselves "same venue".

This, all too often, is kind of a standard problem that goes back to the start of time. Guys just want to have sex and how their partner looks, acts, thinks, feel is usually beside the point. Women all too often need to have a connection with someone they have sex with. Probably because of the long taught thought that they might get pregnant, so they should only have sex with someone they 'like'. True or not, this doesn't really matter. What does matter is you feel one way and he the other. What HE needs to understand is that if you don't feel comfortable with what you are doing, you won't want to do is for very long. One of our long surviving rules has always been 'if one of us says no then we both say no...no questions asked, no repercussions'. It doesn't matter why one of us isn't interested in another couple, one of us is not interested so we move on to another couple. The only thing we would add is that you shouldn't spend too much time texting/emailing/communicating before you actually meet another couple (or single). You will always learn more about them in 5 minutes together IRL than you would in an eternity of texts/emails/etc. Once we run across another couple that we are potentially interested in, we schedule a dinner or drinks to meet, with everyone knowing in advance that it is ONLY to meet...not to play. After the initial meeting, everyone can decide if they want to get together again and 'see what may happen'. If anyone isn't interested, then we can all save time and move onto the next couple. Bottom line: He needs to be more understanding to your needs and, maybe, in return, you will end up meeting more potential partners...at least to see if you are interested in having more happen in the future. Good luck and let us know how things go...

I love my wife, my wife I hope still loves me, we both love sex, I cheated because it was available when I was alone on the road. My wife says the men she meets have so many different stories about why they cheat, no sex at home is the one she hears the most. Her words, not mine, the nicest men she meets claim they love their wives and are just looking for extra fun.

ConfusedHubby; when we first got into swinging, our kids were young. Finding time to swing was a real problem, especially as one of our kinds needed additional knowledge to care for. Not special needs, but additional knowledge needed and not everybody was comfortable with it. Our solution; we usually played together, but my wife would play solo from time to time and bring home all the juicy stories

Fear of the unknown and excitement of new. We consider ourselves lucky as our friends guided us, we trusted them as experienced and knew we weren’t being scammed. Their agenda was no let us enjoy and not worry about the fears we spoke about. My big fear was what I think other men have that first time, can I and how long I can. I was able to with no problem, just not as long as I wanted which was caused by the excitement. Debbie had different fears that our more experienced friend overcame.

These feelings are not unwarranted, they are based in the reality of our nonmonogamous nature and the dangers of acting on it. In the end, however, we proceed.

Talking before doing was a crazy exciting time for us as we focused on the friends we were invited to start with. Excitement and fear are the two dominant feelings we experienced and the reason we joined here to ask questions. There are plenty of opinions from experienced educated posters that can guide and answer questions even if none can know your deep feelings and insecurities. Keep talking and keep asking, you will know when it’s right, then still have the fear.

-It's starting to feel this way, which is a relief. The anger and upsetness of the other night was very foreign to me, but we had a pretty good week. Very productive around the house, snuck in a lunch and a dinner date and have kept things upbeat. Not sure when she will be ready to venture back into LS activity, but we did discuss that we still want to hang out with LS friends and just not have expectation of play on the table.

Indeed there can be lots of duds. As you've noted, with 'vanilla' dating you get the same problem. We use a lot of filtering mechanisms to help weed out the duds. One thing we do is have a passage in our profiles that they need to say something like their favorite color in their contact email with us. That way we know they actually read our entire profile, rather than skimming trying to hookups. If they don't do it, we delete and block. AdamGunn is right; don't bother with those who have not paid. Ok, any idiot can have a few bucks to sign up, but it adds at least some certainty that they aren't drive-bys looking for a hookup who have no clue what the lifestyle is about. In person, if it's a single male we look hard for signs they are cheaters; missing ring on their finger (often easy to tell) for example. We also ask why are they single and in the lifestyle. Some guys have legitimate reasons. Others... it can get obvious rather quick that they are cheating. Also, anyone who is pushy is turned away. We started swinging in 2008. We've only had one true dud that we played with, and that was a couple. There were some who were not so good, but no other duds. There were a fair number...maybe half?...who were duds that we or my wife never played with. Along the way, we adapted based on our experiences and others relating their experiences here. We felt that if you find a couple or single who is a good match, and fun/good in bed, then keep them around for a while. Ok, you loose some sense of excitement over time as it's less "new". But, you gain not playing with our trying to sort out as many duds. This is how my wife had two long term boyfriends (not overlapping) lasting for years, along with a couple for over a year (and counting). You also gain intimate knowledge of what makes them feel good and vice versa, which is something that's hard to achieve on one meeting. It's not that you want a partner to add on to the partner you already have. It's picking up a play partner who is fun to play with from time to time, without the aspects of a full relationship wrapped around it. If you decided to try that route, you and your husband will need to figure out how your own emotions and that of your play partner(s) would work into that. The more you play, the more chances of more involved emotions developing. Some couples avoid that like the plague, some don't. We don't, and it's worked well for us. That might not work well for you, or it might. That all depends on what the picture in your mind is showing you :) Swing clubs are not all alike. There's commonalities, but there are also differences. In terms of the place, there's usually some common area where people socialize, and another area with separate rooms where people can play. Rooms have doors of course. Some clubs have a rope like you would see at a movie theatre that can be attached across the opening of the room, which means "It's ok to watch, just don't come in". I saw one club that had a window for each room. If you left your curtains open, people in the hallway could watch you. Clubs often have a general area where people can play in full view of others as well, if they so choose. In terms of people, you already know what swingers are like. You might be asking, "How do I know THAT?" It's easy. You're already doing it in you and your husband checking out other people and sharing they're a yes or a no. The average person in a store you run into is what you see among swingers. Swingers are not all Adonis or Aphrodite. They don't spend 7 hours a day 7 days a week in the gym. We're all just typical average people. Some better looking, some not so. Some more conversational, some less so. Some great lovers, some less so. The spectrum of society you see in your day to day world is the spectrum of society you see among swingers. That's who shows up at swinger clubs. If you're in a room with 50 other people, chances are rather high that at least one of them is a swinger. Can you pick out which one? Nope, because we all look like your average person :) Tangential; some people where swinger jewelry to let people know they're swingers. Some people like to do this on holiday, which lets others who are swingers know. There's lots of different options. Some are subtle, some less so. The most dramatic one my wife has is a necklace with a pendant in the middle, and two chains leading either side to nipple rings, which of course are under her blouse or dress. This tends to have a moth-to-flame effect :) You can look up swinger jewelry if this is of interest to you. It's a good thought experiment to consider. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. How someone else is might not be to your taste. It's also possible your husband will respond very positively to that, and that might not be what you want. But, another way to think of it; if he's having fun, is that a bad thing? He's not replacing you. My wife frequently will make sounds with a lover that I don't hear her make with me. She's not a "screamer" but she definitely makes delicious sounds when she's having sex. The first time I realized her sounds were different, it registered with me, and not entirely positively. But, that subsided quickly as I realized she was having a great time, and that's why we were there after all, right? She makes sounds with me she doesn't make with other lovers. It's not conscious on her part, it's just how she reacts. Don't expect perfect. It won't happen. You and your husband aren't perfect either; you're just perfect enough for each other that you married. There's an often quoted idea here; don't go into a swinging evening with any other expectation than having a pleasant evening out. There's no way that another man/woman or couple could ever meet all your expectations and hopes. Plus, having many expectations and hopes will lead to disappointment when they aren't met. If you go to dinner with a friends of yours (just friends, not swinging) you don't have any expectations of anything other than a pleasant meal and conversation. Think of swinging in the same way. You and your husband will have rules on what the limits are for the evening. Stay within those rules. Anything within those rules that is fun is gravy. Also, the diversity of the sexual experience you have with someone else is not something you can specifically expect; just generally. So, just imagine having fun, without expectations other than you and your husband staying within your agreed rules. There isn't a biological science book out there that will tell you that as a species, humans are monogamous. We're not. We've developed societies where the vast majority support and encourage monogamy, but there are many societies that have developed and still exist where monogamy is not the norm. Cheating us common; as many as 20% of marriages have one or the other spouse cheating. Among college age singles in a committed relationship, those rates skyrocket to 2/3rds. If monogamy were the norm among humans, those figures would likely be a lot lower. Our society has many pressures to be monogamous. We're effectively trained to be monogamous from early in our childhood. We have many structures in place to support and encourage monogamy. Thus, there's an expectation of monogamy. But, it's not how humans are really wired. You did the right thing by not playing with that couple. You weren't ready. You didn't by any chance get contact information for that couple, did you?

I see your point. Unfortunately, what I'm saying is it never gets that far. Things, more often than not, end at dinner. She won't say it, but I'm sure for my wife this is only about half about sex. After xx years of marriage and x kids, she's wanting to know that other men still find her interesting and attractive. Wanting to fuck isn't enough. After all, most of us with penises would stab any warm, wet hole that stays still long enough to harpoon it. She's there to fuck, she just wants to know she's worth a little effort. I can't fault her for that, we all have our own motivations.

When my husband enjoyed getting his mouth and a** raped by two guys and then again 12 more times over the next year. Our last couple to join the group, the wife's answer to this question is: "We had opened our marriage up to swinging. We were careful but not careful enough. It took time to get used to letting go. We went to swinger clubs, then parties, we played openly, eventually in separate rooms, and have intercourse with our first in rooms at a party. We were ready to meet privately. We booked a hotel with rooms next to each other so we could have our dates at the same time, always. After the first sex date alone, my husband came over and we talked about it. We loved talking about what we did. The first time turned us on so much telling each other about it we stripped, had sex several more times together before even showering. We both wanted to try a couple next and after many months we eventually each found a couple. Same room and time set up though there was a lot more story to share. This time we were in the shower as we talked and of course had more sex. We’d had so much fun with the couples we wanted to do it again but in the same room. His couple had another couple they swung with so we booked a suite. It took some time for everyone to get comfortable. We decided all couples same room with our partner, no condom. Watching others have sex while having sex with my husband was hot. Then we swapped partners and the sex was even hotter. I had no idea how incredibly hot my husband was f**king. Watching him f**k made me orgasm harder than ever. Then we swapped again. Oh my oh my! I loved watching him while riding another man’s cock. We used condoms each time after the first. I thought we’d all be ready for a shower but the other two ladies wanted to munch. I was like whhaaaaa? I reminded them about the no condoms earlier and they said that is what made it so much more fun. So in a daisy chain we went. I grew hotter by the minute. Here I was with my lip kissing, tongue lapping, and mouth sucking on a woman’s p***y I’d only just met with her husband’s cum all over down there and mine getting ravaged orally by a woman I also had never met who was also into fingering. It had been almost a decade since I had eaten a woman. My last date with the other couple the lady ate me with her husband, we sucked him and he f**ked us for hours as we kissed and rubbed each other but I never ate her. I had forgotten how soft they are. I was wanting more cock not any p***y. I was mesmerized by what I had gotten myself into. We ladies were enjoying ourselves. I hear a – Yeah suck it, Suck that Cock, Dang I can tell you’ve sucked cock before, You’re Goooooood! Ever had you A** F**ked by a Real Man’s Dick? Ever had you A** filled full of a Real Man’s Cum? Suck my dick off and Bly will shove his cock all the way up your a**, make you bag for more, and fill you to over flowing with cum. I focused back on this creamy delicious smelling beautiful p***y before me. Then I heard – That’s IT I’m Cumming! Suck My Cock Dry. Suck My Cum Out. Ooooohhh Yeeaaahh! And I heard a muffed uuummphhhrr uuummm umpppp uummhhprr. UUUUUUggghhh! Wow someone is sucking cock well. Yeah Bly, my cock is drained F**K that A**, I bet it’s not a virgin a**. You’re cock is bigger so once you’ve had it, lubed it with your cum I shouldn’t have any problem power F**king it HARD! Look at the cum running out of that cuck sucking mouth. Yeah drive it home! I heard a – Yeah this one Sweet Hole here, you’ve got to get some of this! It’s as good as Lyllas. UUUUUHHHHHH! Yeah – this is one tight (blanket blank blank) hole. I bet my cock is the biggest that’s ever been in it. I’m gonna unload so much cum in it, it might bust. UUUUUUHHHHH! OOOOOOOOH! Yeah F**K My A**! PLEASE Shove your COCK all the way up my A** and F**K it until you fill it full of Cum! Whaaaa? That was my husband. What the H***? I had my tongue buried as far in Joni’s p***y sucking her clean when it dawn on me, Lylla was still eating me, what the h*** were the men doing? I pop out of Joni with her begging me not to stop. I was beginning my orgasm with Lylla’s face buried between my thighs. I look over to see my husband taking Bly’s very thick dick in his a** with Dan placing his cock in my husband’s mouth. All I could say was – Oh My GOOOOOOOAAAAHHHHH My Husband’s Gay! He was F**king back hard against Bly who had both hands on his hips pounding him. The sounds of grunting was so carnal I orgasmed spraying Lylla. Joni said, no he’s not gay, he enoyed f**king me way to much to be gay, he’s bisexual and from the looks of it VERY BI-SEXUAL! Now please finish me off. I flipped over on my stomach to better eat her and watch my husband take cocks from both ends. I orgasmed again as Lylla fingered me and worked my clit. I ate Joni with a vengeance. Even after she pleaded with me to stop I ate her bringing her back to several more orgasms. Bly had my husband spasming all over his cock and Dan was now F**king my husband’s mouth and probably down his throat. It was the hottest sex of my life. I told Joni I hoped she like getting her a** reamed. Lylla said the same of me. I saw when Dan came his second load of cum in my husband’s mouth. I saw the gulps of cum, and his throat swallowing load after load. Then I saw Bly ram him so deep and hard his eyes bulged as his neck and face reddened. Then Bly came in his A**. The F**KING was rough, very rough. The two men did not relent. The next hours were a bit of a blur as the women took me over and did everything one can imagine two women could do to another. I saw glimpses of the men taking turns F**King my husband over and over again as soon as one got hard again. They took his A** too many times to keep count. The ladies did likewise to me. We passed out. When we both awoke, we were drenched, me in sweat and p***y, my husband in sweat and cum. I saw what they did to his a**. He’s been rode raw and cum was still flowing out. I know I should have been concerned for him but my first thoughts were. Dang, my husband is a biguy. Dang my husband likes dick. Dang my husband likes dicks and cocks in his mouth and a** and lots of cum filling. Dang this is hot as h***! I had to look. I had to inspect. Then I carefully woke him asking him if he was okay. My very own a** had been worked over. Daaaannggg! I was sore. I continued to check on him. Once he was moving and asking about me, I moved around to his face whispering – so you like dick? You sure looked amazing taking those cocks. Can you talk about it? My husband groaned, telling me. You are one sex addicted lady you know that? Yes I am okay, yes it was good, yes my night with the couple they talked me into giving in tell me they knew I’d be a great mouth and a** f**k. They were oh so right! And you with the ladies, dang you were so hot! You like p***y too? We lay there in exhausted pleasure, shock, talking, getting turned on but too tired to get up. We cuddled, I asked – so you we are bisexual now? My husband said – he was if I was. I told him I am, I like eating p***y and playing with ladies and he confessed so am I. I am bisexual and I like men’s cocks in any hole they can get it in. I asked, You were bi before right? Have you have f**ked a guy in the a**? He asked, Were you bi before? Have you have f**ked a women in hers? I said yes. He said, yes. I asked again, You like f**king men in the a**? I did back in the day, I think It will be as good now. You okay with this? He wanted to know. Yeah, yes I am, surprisingly I am. I’d love to see it and I definitely want to see what you did tonight again, often. It was so hot! I let him know. We agree, we were doing this again – a lot. That is how I found out how my husband was bisexual. I will never ever forget this day. Yes we were taken advantage of and even crazier, we got with those couples 12 more times over the next year. They grew bolder and more aggressive with us. We eventually broke it off because they pretty much raped us every time we were with them. Yes as I mention earlier, we were not the most careful early on and the forced sex got way out of hand. They were the only pairs of bisexuals we knew and we did have massively nuclear orgasms with them entire weekends. We have the most incredible group now. We’d all be married most likely we enjoy one another that much in every aspect. I know sounds stupid but these people are my best friends and all of them heck of good lovers.” Someone private messaged me about my stories; sure stories are the point of few of the person experiencing it. Did it all happen? How can anyone remember all of this? We now have 11 ladies in our group with 13 guys. Every lady writes everything we do. We love to share our thoughts, memories, and experiences, and yes of course we have great masturbation group time. A few have blogs, I like forums, a few enjoy chat rooms, we keep a good record of what we do. It’s fun for us, way better than gaming, tving, and wasting time on our phones doing tiktok, snapchat, etc.

We met a guy after chatting on line. He had never mentioned any bi curiosity or bi experiences. I was completely straight and only had sex with my wife until that night. Went to dinner then back to our apartment. My wife and he were in a 69. She was enjoying this but was asked to be fucked. So I started fucking her while they were having oral in a 69. I slipped out of her pussy and felt a different warm sensation. I had no idea but looked down and saw that he was sucking me. I then entered her again but slipped out a few more times and then started fucking his mouth. I finished in her and he came in her mouth. Overall a great experience. My wife later said she didn’t enjoy my “bi side” so I’ve kept it limited for 20 years or so. 🤷‍♂️

After leaving the military, I moved to a smallish town and found it difficult to meet new people and make new friends. Small town atmosphere and I was an outsider. Out of boredom, I ended up getting a part time job at a local box store a couple nights a week. The manager was about 10 years younger than me and was a nice guy, we hit it off and became friends. He invited me over a few times on the weekend, but I usually went out of town, I had friends a couple hours away and we rode motorcycles on the weekends. So I declined the invites. He invited me to a Halloween party. He had a nice place, a few acres outside town. When I arrived, there were about 15 people there, mostly family and a few friends. I had met his wife a few times, she was average looking, average body, shy and very likeable. He lit a bonfire, we had a few beers, grilled some burgers, sat around the fire and BS'd. I was the only guy the rest of them didn't know. They wanted to know about me, where I was from, what I did in the military. His brother got sloppy drunk and out of the blue, his eyes tear up and he say that he doesn't have any friends because he is a science teacher and when people talk about work, he is the odd man out. He says that if anyone here right now knows what the coriolis effect is, he would suck their dick. I looked at him and said, you mean the circular movement of water caused by the earths rotation. He asked how I knew that. Everyone around the fire started howling, telling him to get on his knees. We had a good laugh and moved on. By 11pm the party was winding down and everyone else was gone. It was getting chilly and we were in the living room, I stood up and was about to announce that I was heading home and my friend says I should stay since it was late and I had been drinking. Before I could decline, his wife says that I am owed a blowjob and she doesn't want me to leave without it. I'm sure that I had a shocked look on my face. She wraps her arm around me and says that she wants two guys. She tells me that they had been trying to get me over there for over a month. Small town, she was a grade school teacher and they had to be very discrete. She left and came back in a thong and a skimpy white tee shirt. We headed for the bedroom. She wanted to play with both of us, then finish me off while he watched. We jumped in the shower and she soaped us up, She was on her knees sucking me, working her soapy finger in my ass while he watched. I barely got out of the shower without blowing my load. for a plain shy girl, she was a wildcat once she got naked. For the next half hour the three of us played, nothing too wild, we were getting used to each other. MFM was a bit awkward for me but I was having a great time. She was on her hands and knees sucking me, he was doing her doggy. We went at it pretty good for a few minutes, he pulled out and she flopped on her back, out of breath. I was pretty wound up, probably the most turned on ever. I pushed her legs up and went down on her. He had cum in her and I caught it as it was pushing out. I was shocked but swallowed it and kept on. She got on me in a 69, I licked her clean and it took her about a minute to finish me off. Afterwards she told me that was their big fantasy, but they had never asked a guy to do it. She was lying between us then she moved to the foot of the bed and spread her legs and started using a vibrator. We were side by side watching her and watching each other play with our dicks. He started getting hard again. I was still really turned on, she was moaning, I had never watched a guy masturbate, I leaned over and took him in my mouth and started sucking him. I wasn't even thinking about doing it, he had a nice dick and I was turned on watching him. That got round two started. She was moaning and bucking. He got rock hard and I really got into it. I was playing with his balls, up and down on his shaft, teasing his head and foreskin. I could feel him swell up and tighten, I would back off a little and feel him pull back from the edge. I got him close and he grabbed my head and said don't stop. He swelled up really big and I felt one big throb and he shot his load. I gagged a little but swallowed it all. She finished up just before he did, I was still really turned on but still to limp to go again. The next morning we played until lunch. Lots of sucking, she got him to give it a go on me. We did DP, also a first for all of us. both of us in her, feeling our dicks rubbing together was a big turn on. I cleaned up her pussy again after he came in her and he tried to clean her up after I came in her, but he couldn't do it. We had a great time and continued to play together for about six months. They decided to try for a baby so the swinging had to stop. We tried mutual masturbation a few times, but that ended up turning into a full blown threeway. That was a great experience for me. I have enjoyed bisex every since.

My frist experience was probably closer to grooming but I was 23ish and it was fun soooooo Here goes! I had been talking with this couple on the phone a few times. This was actually before the internet and I used a magazine called TALK OF THE TOWN I think it was... It was an early swingers connection magazine. Anyway she called me about 10:pm one evening and asked me to come over. I was probably 22. So I jumped in the car and went right over to a very nice 2 story house in a great neighborhood. She met me at the door in a sheer robe and we sat down stairs making out and me feeling her up... Her playing with my cock and telling me how she wants us all to get to know each other and have fun together and not have any hang ups about what all is going on... I have a hardon so I was agreeing to anything she asked. She asked if we could go upstairs to meet her hubby. SURE! We went up and he was asleep in a big bed, fireplace in the room and really a nice place. I was in awe... Anyway she introduces me to him and he is naked in bed. So they kiss a while and make out and she is jacking me off and him too.. Telling me how much fun I will have if I trust them and let myself have fun with them. Then she slides down and starts alternating between blowing him and kissing me and that continues with her slowly pulling me closer to her face when she is blowing him... I should have taken this as a sign of things to come... Then she tells me.. Doesn't his cock look great... You should help me... So we start blowing him together and eventually she starts running her hands all over me and its more me blowing him than both of us... But I was enjoying it and I was enjoying her hands and mouth all over my cock and even my ass... When he finally put a hand on the back of my head and started breathing heavy... It finally dawned on me what was about to happen.

My first bi experience was as a swingle man. I had met 2 or 3 couples on AdultFriendFinder, but all were hotwifing scenarios where the man just wanted to watch me fuck their wife. Fun, sure, but they always ended up where we’d have sex, the guy wouldn’t join and then he’d get impatient after and want to leave. But then one evening I got an email from a couple and it was clearly the woman initiating. Her message was along the lines of, “I’d love for you to help me please my man, are you interested?” They were young, hot and sounded fun. So I replied “sure, when are you thinking” and she said, “now, tonight”. Well this immediately got me aroused so I met them out for drinks later that night. We all seemed to hit it off over drinks and we then went back to their place. As soon as we were inside she led me to the bedroom and we got naked while her man made us all another drink. Once he came into the room, he quickly stripped down and climbed on the bed with us. We started out focused entirely on pleasuring her. We each went down on her while she sucked on the other’s cock. Then he said that she’d always wanted to try a DP. I had never tried it either. I laid back, she climbed on top of me, and he got behind her doggy style. We fucked like this for a little bit and he came inside her ass. It was amazingly hot to watch him from below as he came inside her! I wasn’t going to last much longer and told them so. He pulled out, she climbed off and then went down on me and I quickly finished in her mouth. We all laid back on the bed and talked for a bit which was cool. They were both so comfortable and open with the situation. I was laying back on the bed when they both started to rub my legs. It felt amazing to have 4 hands on me and then 2 mouths. They both began kissing and licking my legs and stomach and started stroking my cock back to life. I was so turned on that it didn’t take me long to get hard again. My head was spinning when I looked down and watched them share my cock. Her holding it and directing it into her boyfriends mouth, allowing him to suck me for a bit, then pulling me out and her sucking me. It was an amazing turn on and I didn’t feel anything uncomfortable. At that point I knew that I could enjoy being with a man as long as the woman enjoyed it as well. Watching the excitement and passion on their faces turned me on so much. It didn’t take me much longer and I let them know I was going to cum. The woman pulled my cock out of her boyfriends mouth and she deep throated me. I couldn’t hold out any longer and I came deep in her throat while her boyfriend caressed my balls and ass. It was one of the most erotic experiences of my life. After recovering I told them I wanted to try sucking his cock. He said that he wouldn’t be able to cum again but was all for me sucking him. His girlfriend and I then shared his cock back and forth for a while and I was hooked. We hooked up a couple more times and it was always incredibly erotic and sexy. Unfortunately they moved away and we lost touch. I haven’t had much luck finding a hot bi couple since. But am always on the lookout! So if you know anyone…😉

I love the mess. I'm attracted to the a part of man left inside her.

Is male bisexuality trending? Wow, another neighbor came over to talk. She said she had heard a little of a conversation I had on our deck with another friend about her husband coming out about bisexuality. Here I am drinking my tea and up walks Neana from the neighborhood pool. She plops down and lets it all out, "I walk in on my husband taking dildo after dildo up his a**. I watched as he did himself many times, orgasming, cumming, eating, doing himself more working to larger until he took the largest dildo in our arsenal. I'd never seen him do this on his own. As for cum eating, I normally have to fed it to him. I started all of this. I love doing him with my strap ons, taking him, jerking him off, feeding him, and continuing to take him. I guess it makes sense after all this time he'd be into doing it by himself when I'm gone for a few days. I did get home a day early. What got me was when I let him know I had been enjoying the show he glanced at his lap top which led me to look and there it was - guys fing guys and their wives. Bisex couples sex. We swing but he never once expressed an interest in bisex. I asked him and he said, yes he wanted to explore it." I sat, listened, watched. I learn a great deal being quiet and watching. Her eyes were wide, her voice was excited, her body was squirming, her nipples were extremely pronounced, and I swear I smelled a hint of her. She was very aroused. She went on growing more descriptive, darn she had me going. She had her husband do a show and tell, show her and tell her what he wanted to try. Then she asked me how to go about find someone. I smiled taking her by her hand walking her into the house to our sex room and let her watch a recording of us and a few couples going at it on our big screen. This is the third new couple in as many months whose husband has come out. At this rate our group is going to be bigger than precovid. We still have to vet them a bit more but they already want to come over and watch. The first new couple has already gotten naked and touched with us as a few couples played. The second couple is waiting on their tests. It is looking up to be a great summer.

We were in a threesum, I was sucking the other guys dick and my husband moved his face towards mine for a kiss, but I mistook it, and offered him the dick, pushing it towards his mouth and he took it. So we then made out with the dick between us and sucked him off together.

Yes. We run across this often where one or the other comes out and their mate is all mixed up about it but fair is fair. Take your time to process it, no hurry, let him know. Talk openly about it all, work through it. When I begin the push for my husband to experience things with me it took a very long time for him to even except what I was into much less go along with it. Certain things are bound to happen when you have multiple people having sex, attitudes and desires will change over time. As much as I love sex with my husband and as good as it is, I still get off the most with the men and us going at it. So nowadays, the more we can wives can get the men to do, then harder I orgasm while doing anything with my husband.

My girlfriend and I like watching each other playing with the opposite sex and also with the same sex. Girls eating each others pussy and the guys sucking each others cocks. We also like sharing a guy's cock between us. I love it when she puts a guys hard-on in my mouth or I get to lick her pussy as she is being penetrated. I enjoy being a "fluffer" when he pulls out from between her legs, allowing me to lick her juices off his dick. Then I get to grab his hard-on and place its flared slippery head back at the entrance to her love canal, crawl back under them as they are enjoying each other on all fours and lick his shaft and balls as he is thrusting back and forth fucking her. My favorite position is laying underneath them in a 69 position, her sucking my cock as I am looking up watching her getting fucked, hoping he will pull out every now and then, letting his cock drop down to my waiting mouth. After a while of me orally pleasuring him, I again grab hold of his member and place it back in her pussy so he can finish giving her the creampie that drips his spent load from her sloppy wet kitty lips, all over my face.

My first time was I with a friends wife doggie style and he was licking her at the same time. As I came and pulled out, he took me in his mouth and cleaned me off. I liked tht and have done it many times on both sides many times. the wife loves it that way.

My wife and I first time was with a 46 year old black single neighbor. We lived across from him for 5 years. After we got to know him, we found him to be very kind and well liked by a lot of people. He began inviting us to his social parties. He and my wife became close. I had wanted to share her with another man, but she refused. One night at one of his parties the moment was right, my wife and I stayed behind to help clean up and after awhile I noticed I was a lone. In his bedroom I found him with his pants unzipped and my wife on her knees enjoying his penis. I watched them undress and have sex and things for over an hour. They were exhausted. They fell asleep. I went home because I had to pay the baby sitter and be sure the kids were in bed. She spent the night with him which became very common over the next three years. She came home around four the next afternoon tired, her privates sore and well satisfied. After that, we met many swingers at his parties and we have been swinging ever since.

My first experience was with a couple. She was in a 69 with me and I realized they were both sharing my cock. She climbed off of me so that I could enjoy the view and boy was it hot. She was pretending to be forcing him to service me and he was loving it too. She would look at me and tell me ,"I want you to shoot it in his mouth." He would pull off and she would tell him to , "Suck that big hard cock." I could not hold out any longer and I told them so. She had me stand up and then she made him get on his knees in front of me and service my cock until he milked it all over his open mouth and she licked my cum off his face and the end of my cock. For many months afterward I would find myself jacking off and thinking about that night and wishing I had sucked his cock too. Now I find myself fantasizing about sucking cock and it is the object of many of my jack off thoughts. I would love to have a girlfriend that makes me suck cock and my biggest fantasy is for her and I to spend the night at a motel and have guys come to our room for her and I to get on our knees and service as many as we can the whole night. I have many other fantasies too but that is one hot thought.

It's amazing what pleasures open themselves up to you when you drop the "Oh I could never do that." attitude. The first time I tasted a cock it blew my mind. First it didn't taste at all what I expected it to...it tasted a whole lot better. Second there was a sexual energy in the cock I'd never experienced before. Third, sharing it with my wife seemed so natural, and it aroused her greatly. Fourth, feeling the first male orgasm in my mouth was intense, powerfully sexual, and oh so natural. And wonderful.