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When we started in the lifestyle, it was Daniela only, hotwifing. I wanted her to be comfortable beginning to play as a married woman, although she intended to be monogamous after never having been so. Her first two men that she fucked were ex-boyfriends who she had sex with many times before to make it easy on both of us. To make it easy on the other men as well, we three would meet for dinner and put it all out there that we were married, and I was ok with her playing with him. It was so easy for me in fact that it didn't bother me, after all, she had fucked them before so no big deal. I was happy for her having the fun that she used to have with multiple guys going at once. It didn't turn me on, however, until she came home with cum in her cunt. I wanted her bad, and she wanted me. Eventually she wanted me there when she was fucking another guy and we had MFMs; first threesome for both of us. That took it up even further, fresh sloppy seconds. So for all the reasons in the above posts, there's something special about getting the woman you love after another man has had her. Exquisite.

Simple social nudity is a great joy. We agree that it should be maintained distinct from sexual behaviors and enjoyed at all stages of life. It is, after all, the most natural state. Perhaps paradoxically, erotic play often involves costumes and concealment. We think that some bathing suits--especially those of minimal fabric and of fluorescent hue--are intended to attract the eye to genitalia and breasts and are intentionally more provocative than the natural state. As for deciding that someone is sexually interesting, we focus on the organ between the ears, encased in bone.

For me strangely, I'm in both parts of the diagram, but not the overlapping intersection. I enjoy the non-monogamous sex of our poly family with occasional play outside, but the sex is arranged before the clothes come off. I also go to nude spas and resorts when I'm in Europe. I feel wonderful being totally naked with other people of all ages and types, enjoying the water, sauna, sauna, steamroom and massage. Any sexuality is covert; I don't mind if someone wants to look at me. I've talked to many people: women, men, couples. None have been untoward. Would I want to choose a sex partner in such a situation? No, not really.

I don't have any particular desire to go down on a woman after another man has cum in her (not repulsed, just not my thing). But, to have sex with her after another man cums in her? Oh hell yes! LOVE that! There is something raw and inherently sexy about that.

Once a woman gets truly 'owned' like that by a Bull things do change. She will act with him in ways she does not act with you. She will even do things for him he doesn't usually do for you. This is a normal aspect of the cuckold dynamic, and the cuckoldress/Bull relationship is not something you can really have in a marriage between husband and wife. Marriages (and other long-term commitments) add baggage and complexity, whereas the cuckoldress/Bull dynamic is meant to be simple, sexual and raw. However, if the mixed feelings can be navigated, it can indeed be a rewarding situation for all involved. It just requires an open mind and a bit of soul searching on your part to determine if cuckoldry can work for you and your lady.

Same here for me as a woman. Whenever hubby David or boyfriend Red has ejaculated in Clair or Lora, it sets me off. For a guy, the instinct is supposedly sperm competition, wanting to pull out his sperm with the head of your dick and putting in your own sperm so that the baby's father is you, not him. For a woman, she doesn't want her man getting another woman pregnant and giving her resources and attention. So for me at least, the urge is to go down on her and eat it out; make her orgasm again and push it out. That was the origins of my Lesbian side. I also have the strong urge to perform oral on his spent dick, get him up and get a small share to maybe make a baby. Interestingly, while Lora and Clair act much the same, we are emotionally very close and not otherwise competitive with each other. We love and care for each others children (all the kids are, however, from our same two men). It's not weird at all. The guys will go down on us afterwards upon request, even if it's not their own.

No matter how spent I am from fucking all evening, when my wife is carrying someone else creampie, the second wind kicks in. I haven't tasted one yet (the desire is there but I haven't wanted to weird out the depositor), but the desire to insert myself into her mess is strong.

This is a real concern, but one we chose not to worry about and openly share our faces in our lifestyle profiles (what you see is what you get). Has it resulted in us being spotted? Yes--a friends ex-wife found us, the male half of a couple I went to elementary school with found us and one other friend who I'd grown apart from found us and reached out. Comically, in the case of the last one we were on a date with another couple when I received a text from the old friend with a screen capture of our profile and a message "hey, I know these people" It made for some laughs with our new friends and rekindled common grounds with my old one.

These feelings are not unwarranted, they are based in the reality of our nonmonogamous nature and the dangers of acting on it. In the end, however, we proceed.

These are people trying to control other people by manipulating their most basic instinct. He will preach about controlling one's lust, I look around and see 300 pound people who can't control what they stuff in their mouth.

I don't admire her, really she is sad person. We got along with her because we asked for nothing. She has a bad drinking habit, takes antidepressants, and run off family and friends that she doesn't think the same as her. As far as the swinging with her different men, they had to accept it or they were out, and that's what happened to most of them, she wouldn't be easy to live with. As far as us swinging with her, she will do anything and always wanted to initiate. So no, she is not glamorous, she is sad and promiscuous.

It is in our nature to be nonmonogamous. We are expected by society to deny it and do so for so long that when we have sex with another partner it seems at first unusual. I am both satisfied with their mutual satisfaction and jealous. My addiction is to my jealousy and the crazy things it makes me want to do afterwards (eat her out, suck and fuck him).

Like you, in the late seventies, after 10 years of marriage we discussed having sex with others, years before we actually did it. During sex I would say to her just before cumming in her, "Imagine it's Bill or some other male we knew, cumming in you." More times than not it would give her a more intense and pleasurable orgasm. Which leads me to the next reason why we eventually let other men cum inside her. In high school we both had sex for the first time together, I popped her cherry, and you could say she popped mine. I was selfish, and only cared about using her so that I could get off. Then the third time we had sex, she started moaning loudly, i asked her if she was all right, I thought I had hurt her. she replied, "No, you just made me cum." I really wasn't expecting her to enjoy it. It changed my outlook toward having sex with her. I suddenly realized that I liked seeing her enjoy sex more than satisfying myself. After that I worked hard to get her to enjoy. I would eat her pussy, manipulate her nipples, anything to get her to orgasm. Then one night I bought some condoms with the thought of not having to pull out of her, as she didn't produce much lubrication by herself, I put oil on the condom. We were enjoying the sex, I noticed it seemed much more sensitive, and the feeling sent me to orgasm. When I started cumming, she had the most intense orgasm that I had ever seen her have. When I withdrew, she said, "I feel a very wet and warm, in my vagina. We both looked down and saw my semen run out of her, and the condom tattered, I realized that the feeling of being inseminated had given her the most intense orgasm to date. In 1982, after a few years of looking, one night before going out she asked me, "Do you still want to share me with another man?" I replied "Of course". When we got to the night club she said, "Give me 20 minutes before you go in, I'll be more likely to get hit on if I am alone." I entered, and there she was sitting at the bar with a young college boy. His name was Steve. When she introduced me to him, he said "you didn't tell me that you are married". She said "Does that really matter?" I knew then, that tonight, it was finally going to happen. She teased him relentlessly. She had on a, red dress with no bra, it had a plunging V between her breasts, and the sides were wide open from her arm pits to her waist. He could see the entire side of her tit and her nipple was plainly visible. They got up and danced to a fast rock song, her dress slipped from off one shoulder, then the other, exposing her entire upper torso above her waist. She danced and her shaply 36c breasts swayed to and fro, for the entire night club to see, after a minute or so she slowely raised her dress back onto her shoulders. Then they returned to the bar, she said, "I'm hot, come on boys, take me for a ride". I drove, and Steve directed me to a secluded spot, out in the country. He was in the backseat with her, and was rubbing her breasts. When we arrived, I joined them in the back of the van. Steve and i lowwered her dress, I sucked on her right tit as he did the same to her left one. She was rubbing his cock thru his pants, when she blurted out. "Oh, that's a nice one". His hand was all the way up her legs under the dress and he was fingering her pussy thru her panty hose. Then she arose, and removed her dress and hose and said "Sorry honey, guests go first". She laid down and spread her legs, exposing her hairy cunt for his pleasure, and hers. Steve unbuckled and exposed his manhood, he was about 6"+ inches long, but his cock was really fat. Karen winced as the girth of his cock, split her labia apart and drove all the way into her. As he was humping her it occured to me that we never disscussed whether she would let another man cum in her, but knowing her, I was sure she would. She had an I U D so she was protected from pregnancy. I could see Steve tense up and he plunged all the way inside of her as he grunted his orgasm. When he got off of her, I couldn't believe what I saw, his spunk was gushing out of her, and left a big puddle of his semen on the car floor. It was now my turn to mount her. I stuck my 7-1/2 inch very skinny cock into her. I couldn't believe the sensation. Her cunt was red hot from the friction of his cock rubbing against her vaginal wall, I slid right in, because his slimy cum had lubricating her normally very dry passage. I didn't last long because of the feeling of her used pussy. I came and added my semen to his. We went back to the club to have one last drink, as she stood there, she told me it was time to go home, because cum was running down her leg, and was visible to others. it was obvious she had sex with the two of us, and where our semen was deposited. Now I have to say, after numerous encounters, a few times after having sex with a guy, and him cumming in her, as I layed there she would pass her used cunt over my face, to show me what she had done, I couldn't bring myself to put my tongue on her just used pussy, although I'm sure she would have loved it, if i would clean her, and I'm sure she was giving me a hint. But no. I didn't desire another man's cum in my mouth, but sloppy seconds and another man's semen on my cock, didn't bother me. My wife dislikes condoms, and hates facials or the mess of cumming on her breasts or stomach. She gets most of her satisfaction from a man ejaculating inside her. It has been medically proven that when a man cums in a woman, the hormones from his semen are absorbed thru the vaginal walls into her blood stream. The result of this is, a euphoric feeling of relaxation for the woman. Ever notice how, if a woman, who has just been inseminated, will lay there in a daze or goes to sleep? I have read that a man's DNA can be found in the woman's body afterwards. So if you are sharing your wife for her pleasure, Being inseminated by the bull, is I know what, my wife desires, and very likely yours.

The point is condoms are for the pits! the skin to skin is so much better, we all realize this but, I feel their is a much better sensuality connection, just as when you kiss while enjoying sex, But the feeling of cumming inside a lady is so hot for both.

Well I tell ya, when I first thought about playing I had assumed condoms were the norm in swingworld, but over the last 10 years or so I must say about 90% or more want it bareback and are upfront about it, then their have been couples that say condoms so I show up with them and they don't want to use them? I make a point of playing by the couples rules so do go either way...

We are very similar to you HardTongue, we started swinging late 70’s when we were 35 and married 15 years (it was my wife’s first time with another guy as I had taken her cherry when she was 19), the wife had her tubes tied after our last child was born when we were 30. We joined a nudist club mid 70’s where we found out their was a lot of swinging going on, we talked about it and the wife was all for it in the heat of the moment when we were having sex but cool when it came to talking about it when trying to arrange anything in broad daylight, I kept putting opportunities in front of her and she finally took one up, we were at a 100% straight party (their were some nudist’s there but most of the people were not and did not know about the nudist club), I was called away to work, owing to the fact that I knew their was no chance of me returning to the party we arranged for her to get a lift home with Joe a guy that I knew she was keen on and had been flirting with during the night. Next morning when I returned from work she told me that she had been a naughty girl with Joe, I replied that a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt anyone and she came back with “it was more than a kiss and cuddle” I bared up then and there and took her to the bedroom and made love to her (including going down on her) while she told me what happened, “the dam had burst”. Later in the week Joe and his partner visited us and we swapped partners, that was the start of 25 + yeas of swinging and swapping for us, she took to the lifestyle like a duck to water, “and loved it”. Her session with Joe was bare back with him coming in her and all our other sessions have been as well, we got right into the swinging scene with other members of the nudist club and were going to parties where their could be as many as 25-30 couples attending, all bare back sex. When A I D’s came out we had a rethink and decided that M F M threesomes was the way for us to go as I loved seeing her go with other guys and going silky seconds as well as doing the cleaning up after she had been with other guys, the wife surprised me by stating that she would rather play with married guys (their were exceptions) as they had a wife to go home to so had to look after their selves health wise more that single guys as she wanted to carry on doing bare back sex with others. Our usual sessions start with our visitor going first and me going silky seconds, from their on in I get off on seeing them play with me joining in where ever I can, when the night has finished and our guest has left then I get to do the cleaning up MMMMM, I have actually blown my load with no physical stimulation while going down on my wife after she has been with another guy and I am doing the cleaning up, one particular guy we were having threesomes with was into cream pies as well and we just keep going all night long cleaning up after each other until we were exhausted and spent, what a night that was, and it happened a few times. We have been sexually active with others 25 + years, (we have had some breaks for family reasons) we have never used protection and have never caught an S T D, I would say we have been careful “and lucky”, no regrets this way and still very much in love after being married 45 + years. :kissface:Rick181au.