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A couple in an open relationship is never going to be on an even playing field! The women are always going to have way more opportunities no matter their age, looks or weight. That is just a fact. I personally think any guy that thinks this is a good idea either does not care if their wife is out there getting tons of sex while they are not getting any or just has not clue on how much easier it is for a women to get laid then it is for a man. Not a chance I would be in an open relationship, but if it works for others good for them. If you are not happy with the open relationship then end it! That is if it is not too late.

When we started in the lifestyle, it was Daniela only, hotwifing. I wanted her to be comfortable beginning to play as a married woman, although she intended to be monogamous after never having been so. Her first two men that she fucked were ex-boyfriends who she had sex with many times before to make it easy on both of us. To make it easy on the other men as well, we three would meet for dinner and put it all out there that we were married, and I was ok with her playing with him. It was so easy for me in fact that it didn't bother me, after all, she had fucked them before so no big deal. I was happy for her having the fun that she used to have with multiple guys going at once. It didn't turn me on, however, until she came home with cum in her cunt. I wanted her bad, and she wanted me. Eventually she wanted me there when she was fucking another guy and we had MFMs; first threesome for both of us. That took it up even further, fresh sloppy seconds. So for all the reasons in the above posts, there's something special about getting the woman you love after another man has had her. Exquisite.

Wife and I started in the swinging lifestyle in early 70's and from the very start we decided that condoms were not required. Of course this was way before AIDS and she was on the pill but we both thought the condom would take away the pleasure. From the very first every guy she fucked came in her pussy. At first she would douche after fucking another guy but one night I got to her before she did the douche and though she protested once I got my tongue in her cunt she was so turned on by the FACT THAT I WAS LICKING HER LOVER'S CUM FROM HER PUSSY THAT SHE HAD AN INTENSE ORGASM. I grabbed her butt and pulled her pussy to my face and loved the feel and taste. Then I slipped my own cock into her slick cunt and it felt so great. She said "you are going to mix your cum with his, aren't you?" You can bet I did, that time and every other time when she fucked another guy - and there were many other guys over the years, but her pussy never wore out and all the fellows loved her hairy cunt.

And yet women have not only been tasting, but also swallowing men's "stuff" since we were teenagers. Oh, the angst!

I can empathize with you, when we met my wife was in her late 20s, me in my 50s. We started in the lifestyle, at my urging, with only her playing while I was monogamous. We had a lot of sex between just us, but to me the important part was that my wife was happy. From starting before we married, she became monogamous with me but she wasn't before that, usually having two or three relationships going at once. I sensed that she would like to do that again so I said she could do so, and on her own terms. I took satisfaction and pleasure in the fact that this made her happy. Our good sex life, despite my fears, got even better. So calm down and look at the positive side as well as the negative. Count your blessings that you have such an attractive wife that other men desire her. Your wife is in the lifestyle. There are men, some who post here, that would give their left nut to get their wife to play. Start with what you have, talk about it and work it from there. You do MFMs, there's a lot to be enjoyed with that. Does your wife ever play alone? That's how we started and having my wife come home after time with a lover was fantastic for us, as if we were sharing in a naughty conspiracy. So for now, go with what you have and enjoy it. You could also strive to find that special couple who wants to pay with you both and pretty much stick with them. It may take some time and be a chore, but finding them will give you what you both want. Finally, have faith and confidence in yourself and use this as an incentive to take control of you life and eliminate the negatives. Lose weight, get in shape, and work on whatever else that you think needs improving. It's hard, damn hard, but worth it in every way. Being appealing to women much younger than me, the wives in our closed swinging group of married couples, is a tremendous incentive to skip the pizza for a salad and get on the bike or run early in the morning. Good luck and keep us posted.

It's not just with the cuckolding thing. It's been my observation that all pairings among men and women in our group are different from that with their spouses, including with Daniela and me. Things are done that people don't do with their spouses. Especially since our group is closed things can go much deeper than with the ordinary swinging like we did in the past. It's all part of and the reason why we do this - variety. As to feelings, my word wouldn't be "navigated," it would rather be "exposed and accepted." My with is in love with another couple; she exchanges parting kisses and "I love you" 's with both of them. It makes me happy that they love her, and I know that were anything to happen to me that they would care for her. Likewise, I've gone on vacations alone with another man's wife to pursue interests that our spouses have no interest in. Swinging makes us all, men and women, cuckolds and our acceptance of it makes us better spouses and people.

I love my wife, my wife I hope still loves me, we both love sex, I cheated because it was available when I was alone on the road. My wife says the men she meets have so many different stories about why they cheat, no sex at home is the one she hears the most. Her words, not mine, the nicest men she meets claim they love their wives and are just looking for extra fun.

The most common reason I get from men is that wives have lost interest in sex and they need an outlet for their needs. It makes me wonder why they don’t discuss the problem with a doctor to find the real reason. Many of us women as they reach an age where sex becomes a problem for physical reasons. I won’t disagree these men are cheaters, they are men that still want to save marriages that are otherwise still loving. Registering on an affairs match site is a discrete way to meet others without trying to pick up a date at a bar.

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No kidding!

Most definintly the best bi sex I've ever had. So many possibilites.

I would be all for that!

I would love to do it. She would love to watch

Is this B&B near Atlanta? Do you have any more information on it (name/location)?

I'm horny for an all married male bi party where I suck & fuck a group of married, bi, masculine men

And everyone is bi? Males and females? Or just the males? I can do the bi thing if that is what it takes but I am way more into the bi males thing and the sharing with hubby if we can get him motivated enough.

I have done that at bi parties. It is lots of fun

I am an hour from Atlanta and your posts are turning me on! I love how open you are and love the fact that you are so sexual. Please share some of my cum!!

As an extreme example, a cartoon showed two Arab me walking past a naked woman. The one says to the other, "I'd really like to see her in a tight burqa."