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This reply may be a little late to be helpful (you mentioned April) but if you find yourself headed back that way, the wife and I attended a party at a club in DUMBO, Brooklyn, called "The Loft" a few weeks ago and had a good time. Was cleaner and less seedy than most of the clubs we've been to. Nice floor for dancing, places to sit and talk, and a pretty bit play area that had a couple private spaces and a big open space with multiple beds. We were at a hosted party, so I can't speak to the typical crowd, but the couples and unicorns there when we attended were well above average in the looks department.

A couple in an open relationship is never going to be on an even playing field! The women are always going to have way more opportunities no matter their age, looks or weight. That is just a fact. I personally think any guy that thinks this is a good idea either does not care if their wife is out there getting tons of sex while they are not getting any or just has not clue on how much easier it is for a women to get laid then it is for a man. Not a chance I would be in an open relationship, but if it works for others good for them. If you are not happy with the open relationship then end it! That is if it is not too late.

If you SO knows what you’re doing it’s not cheating, it’s an Open Marriage.

Bless you all for what you do. I have been willing to swallow women’s wetness since I was a teen, I just did not care for mixed drinks.

That's why my wife said that she preferred and had relationships, may overlapping, with married men. They were grateful, both her and the husband knew what it was all about - a relationship that was not going anywhere - she wasn't looking to break up his marriage, he didn't want to leave his wife/family. Daniela likes our situation now in our closed group of married couples. She gets the satisfaction of being within another marriage with the wife's knowledge and bi participation. And the kink she never had before, knowing that her husband, me, is involved with other women.

What I do with my hands depends on the blow jober not necessarily the blow jobee. My hands could be clinging to the sheets for dear life, screaming religious language at the top of my lungs. Or my hands could be firmly holding her head, teaching her how to deep throat all of me. It really depends on the skill level I'm dealing with.

Mrs. Alura needs no guidance. I used to hold her hair out of the way so I could see what she was doing but it's short now so I don't need to do that. I touch her shoulders or breasts depending on the position but usually I just watch her. She's gorgeous with her smile wrapped around my cock and that wonderful twinkle in her eyes.

Assuming it's not a 69 position, I'm doing one of three things... 1) Stroking her hair. 2) Massaging her breasts or playing with her nipples. 3) If I can reach, messaging her clit.

Either stroking her face and hair, or trying to move her around where I can reciprocate at the same time!

My hubby gives me a backrub while he gets his blowjob. The better job I do, the better job he does. And the better job he does, the better job I do. It's a win win situation all around.