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It's easy to find out if you've been cheating. If you feel guilty afterwards, you've cheated . . .

If you SO knows what you’re doing it’s not cheating, it’s an Open Marriage.

I said I didn't have any particular desire to do so. I didn't say I was repulsed by it or unwilling :)

There are adventures ….and someone and many of both for everyone.

Many guys are specifically looking for BBW.

Be confident and own who you are and as a single woman you will have no problem finding men of all shapes and sizes to please you! There are tons of guys out there that will fuck anything that moves.

Swinging is a continuos adventure of trying new things. I remember the first time that we did seconds, its terrific. Going Inside my wifes pussy when she's just been filled with a load from her lover's 8 inch cock is fantastic. It's still number one in my opinion. Oral is great. I've no desire to eat cum, not even my own. Our swinger friends use flavored condoms for oral, that's not a bad idea. It's said it's not a creampie unless you eat it. I must be on a diet.

And yet women have not only been tasting, but also swallowing men's "stuff" since we were teenagers. Oh, the angst!

This goes to things you never did before swinging. When Linda and I are alone sex starts with foreplay that includes 69 that leads to full different position sex and both of us finishing with me in Linda. Any additional sex is more Linda getting me hard orally before resuming a second or now bragging third time. I don’t have any desire tasting my own cum. Now swinging oral is always a beginning with any partner and as expected that leads to the main event. In the very beginning of me being with a new partner, my partner had a big orgasm, at least that’s what took it from my oral on her before she got on top of me we got it pretty hot. After her huge orgasm that I was sure of as I felt her spasms I let go in her. The new experience was she straddled my mouth with my stuff dripping out, my first time tasting that.

This is a real concern, but one we chose not to worry about and openly share our faces in our lifestyle profiles (what you see is what you get). Has it resulted in us being spotted? Yes--a friends ex-wife found us, the male half of a couple I went to elementary school with found us and one other friend who I'd grown apart from found us and reached out. Comically, in the case of the last one we were on a date with another couple when I received a text from the old friend with a screen capture of our profile and a message "hey, I know these people" It made for some laughs with our new friends and rekindled common grounds with my old one.

🤣😅😂 Certainly changes your perspective, doesn't it? I wouldn't "fear" so much as recognize that getting into swinging is like regular dating. When you go out on a first date, there's always concerns one should have about how safe the person is, whether they'll be rational, or maybe they've got issues of some kind. Ok it's uncommon for that to be the case, but we worry all the same. It's no different with swinging in that regard, except that you have a wingman to keep you safe. As for expectations; I've only once encountered a swinging situation where I felt put upon to do something I wasn't comfortable with. That was an MFM situation where the guy in question wanted to go bareback with my wife. We said no, things continued ahead with a condom. My wife went bareback with her two boyfriends after playing with them several times, but that was our choice to ask, and they didn't do the asking. I think you'll find the same; nobody's going to layer expectations on you to do anything you're not ready for. If they do, it's perhaps time to exit the scenario. My wife and I had a number of rules when we got into swinging; no this, no that, yes this but only if that, etc. etc. etc. All of it has melted away with the exception of two rules; condoms always with non-regular partners, and the rule we call the "golden parachute". If for any reason either of us thinks it's time to leave, we voice it to the other, get dressed, and leave without discussion or debate. We'll discuss it after we leave. It's an empowerment rule; both of us are in control of us...the team...at all times. We're in this to have fun together, and if one of us isn't for some reason, then we leave. We've never had to invoke the parachute, but it's a comfort knowing it's there all the same. I think most swingers understand that being pushy or trying to make things happen is not the way to do things. That's not to say swingers are all great people. There are some who are not so good, just as with regular dating. But, I think most understand and respect borders.

"Snowball" refers to a person taking a man’s ejaculate in their mouth, not swallowing or spitting it out, but then open-mouth kissing a person (it could be the man who produced the semen in the first place or a third person) and sharing the mouthful of semen. Elsewhere in this string I recounted a time when two women alternately sucked me until I reached orgasm. Then the women into whose mouth I’d ejaculated (somewhat ostentatiously) shared it with the other woman via a long open-mouthed kiss.