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Why do you need to think of a way to ask her in an indirect way? Just ask her what she thinks. If you guys can’t openly communicate about lifestyle stuff maybe you are not ready to be playing. As far as playing with a vanilla friend that is a big no for us! We like to be able to cut ties easily with people if we find they are not a good match. Hard to do with someone who is a friend.

We occasionally check our profile we have posted to see if we were contacted or if there are any others that we find interesting. I caught Mrs. MLF (midlifefun) scrolling while I was watching sports on TV when she asked what I thought about a profile, I laughed as the profile was of a couple half our age and thought why would they want us. Their profile stated interested in others 25-55. I thought it was weird, why would someone half our age want to meet, something wasn’t right. The Mrs said she would contact them, I said it was a scam. We know there are plenty of posters that are just looking for online sex chats and I said that should be careful, send no other pictures, give no personal info. She received a reply about a week later from the wife. Doubting it was a woman answering I suggested a real call to confirm. An hour later they spoke, it was a female. The big question I wanted answered why would they want us, we could be their parents. We were told they liked our pictures and profile, they had been with older before, still younger than us, and enjoyed the experience. She is an RN, the husband is a new attorney, they married two years ago. I’m still skeptical.

I'd second this. In addition to being able to cut ties, vanilla people aren't wired like LSers and the opportunity for developing feelings, hurting feelings, harming relationships and getting consequences other than what you want (a hot and sexy experience) increase exponentially.

If they’re close enough, meet ‘em for drinks and dinner. If you hit off, you’ll get to play with a younger couple. If you don’t hit it off, you’ll still get drinks and dinner. 😉

We really need to answer "Gomez and Morticia Addams". From the old TV series. The chemistry those two have for each other just burns off the screen!

If there's one thing the LS ruined for us, it's porn, lol. We'll still watch it some, but it's so much less of a turn on once you've taken a walk on the wild side and much of the porn the emulates "swinger scenarios" is pretty corny and unrealistic... Mostly we do what couplers said and make our own videos, though we *prefer* having our faces and our friends faces in our content. None of our friends have ever minded and I have plans with two lady friends to hire a LS friendly videographer to take some professional content of us (whenever my wife ends this LS break... sigh) Feel free to post some links if you find some winners!

My wife is a big fan of strap-on play, both fucking and getting fucked by other women. It's been brought up in a roundabout way a couple times when chatting with other LSers, that she should try pegging me and I did my best to indicate I'd be "receptive" but it sort of got dismissed along the lines of her having to be 'really drunk' to try that... I should find a way to work back to that topic...

The house is all fixed, the landscaping done, and we are having LS friends stay with us--even if it's just an overnight and they live 40 miles away or they are overnighting in Atlanta because they are going to/from an international destination. Let us know when your travels are in our direction...

The two of you are on our "Reasons to go South " list.

My name is Petra, but my nom d'amour is Petunia.

None of us are really into porn, so I can't recommend any websites, but I do have another recommendation. Be each others porn stars and take pictures of yourselves (faceless) with someone else. Even if you haven't taken the plunge yet, do something like go to a bar and take a picture of her with another man's hand on her breasts or between her legs. Go to a strip joint and arrange a private dance for him and snap a few daring pictures. Then take them home, lie together in bed naked, and taunt yourself. It's porn, but it's you, and it's a real life small step in the right direction. The only time that I masturbate is when I am traveling out-of-town, mostly for business and none of my regular sex partners is around. I am a jealousy addict, so the (faceless) pictures and videos that I have on my phone are of David and Red having sex with Clair and Lora, and Clair and Lora with each other. Knowing that they are at home doing that, I'm not there, they don't miss me, gets me off.

This is incredibly important advice. We'll reinforce it and add two embellishments. 1. Kitchen table conversations ought to be frequent in any relationship that looks like a long-term relationship. The conversation might be a simple "check-in", a discussion about how cash flows are running, an inquiry into a move for a job or a home, something about sex and intimacy, a review of vacation options, ... We think that having a place where serious conversations are welcome to occur is important. We like the kitchen table because there is always a reason to be there. 2. Sometimes one partner knows that bringing up a topic is going to lead to some discomfort or even serious pain. Sex and intimacy conversations that involve fantasies and intentions and boundary-setting can be uncomfortable. For *any* conversation that we think might cause discomfort in the other, we declare "safe haven", which carries the following requirements: a. The person bringing up the topic has to lay it all out. Not part of it, not the soft parts, the entire issue as they see it. It needs to be done compassionately, and also efficiently. If it takes more than a few minutes, the person bringing up the topic hasn't really thought about what they are trying to express. Make statements about facts, make statements about how a circumstance is creating a feeling or emotion or fear, do not assume anything about what the other person will think, or feel, or say. Statements to the effect that "you do not want to hear this" are not appropriate. Statements to the effect that "I am worried", "I am afraid", "I am bothered by" are acceptable because they reflect something known to the speaker. b. The person listening has to listen to the whole thing. They should not respond until there has been at least one full sleep cycle. They are expected to suppress the instinct to react in favor of reflection and response. It is always appropriate to show curiosity--ask why do you see this as an issue, why do you think we are at this point, ask for more detail. They responder then has the opportunity to express their thoughts and positions about what they heard, including both facts and feelings. They get to speak their mind, equally uninterrupted. Then, another sleep cycle. c. Only after each of us has slept on the other's positions do we begin to talk it out. This approach has served us well, maybe for several reasons. First, we learned --and practice--the art of setting issues apart from the core relationship. Put differently, we never go to sleep mad or wound up or fearing for the relationship. Every relationship will have ups and downs and issues and resolutions. We have simply institutionalized that in a way that reinforces confidence in what happens next. Next, we learned that no conversation should ever be a "nuclear event"--an uncontrolled escalating chain reaction. Words are powerful, cannot be taken back, and therefore have the potential for enormous harm. Finally, things always look different after a decent night's sleep.

I’m a little perplexed, why do you look to have sex with others if you have the perfect balance at home. You married for sex and you are happy with the sex you have with your husband. I’m missing your points on people being lazy and animal kingdom. You married to have sex with your husband for the rest of your life so what’s your problem with others looking for more than that?

The best advice I had gotten was to do it when there is no sex, intoxicants etc involved. Sit at your kitchen table or wherever is a good spot to have a serious conversation and be earnest about your interests and desires. Be honest, make sure they know that you love them, reassure them as much as you need. Have the conversation, let some time pass and 100% do not make it a demand.

Don't be shy to ask. I was not a big strap on fan but did it for others. My husband at the time was not either. Nowadays we have so much fun doing it. It had nothing to do with gayness. Flat out, it feels amazing when done well and the only way to do it well is to practice at it. My husband will now take men anally which I thought would never happen and he is the least gay guy I've ever seen when he sucks with me as gets fucked. Sounds weird I know but its true. It is sexual fun, not about the gender with us any more.

We don’t use aliases. We use our *middle* names rather than our more commonly used first names.

I and my wife have known friends who played with their friends, some foursome swinging, others a single male for her. In some situations, someone either developed feelings. In others, simple misinterpretations of words or actions caused hard feelings. Not everyone who swings is an adult. It happens, and then it gets messy. It never happened to us because we never, ever played with vanilla friends. But it does happen. Not every time, but sometimes. You need to be prepared for the worst when playing with friends.

Understand that this *might* work. But studies show that it's more likely that it could cause drama and problems. Are you willing to lose this person as a friend if it goes bad? If you are, yeah, go ahead and raise the subject with your wife. What's the worst that could happen?

May I suggest that after you confirm her interest in having sex with him that you three get together so that it is clear that everyone is on the same page. At dinner, after no more than one drink, tell him that your wife finds him attractive (she can smile and agree), you know, approve of them getting together, and would be flattered if he found her attractive enough for them to have fun. Tell him that you are stepping out of the picture now and that they can get in contact later to discuss and set up what, if anything, that they want to do. With both of you there at first, he's not wondering if it is truly a mutual understanding between the two of you. By allowing them to talk and set up whatever later, they won't feel awkward.

When I decided that I was ready for hubby to play after two years of me having a boyfriend, I started setting him up with my vanilla (but young and horny) female friends and acquaintances. The "hunt" as you call it, was tremendously exciting. We would date them together, taking her out, paying for everything. The opportunity would be created, I whisper to her it's ok, and let nature take its course. It's amazing how many women will sleep with a married man when his wife says it's ok.

Do you use Password1 as your password?

We use all twelve digits, do you suggest we change one? Which one?🤦🏻‍♂️

Ah, but you do have one rule - It's okay to have sex outside of the marriage. And so, it's impossible for you to cheat. Those who haven't set up a firm rule about this are likely to overstep bounds, potentially hurting their partner.

We are just using our Social Security number.

I was a cheater!!! I wonder if I felt guilt. I didn’t feel guilt during, I thought about after that if my wife found out it would hurt her. When she did find out my first thought was to deny, I didn’t. If she kicked me out I would have understood and my thoughts that I have now would be completely different. Nobody knows how one would react in a what if situation, I didn’t think when I did cheat. In hindsight her revenge cheating hurt, making me feel more guilt. The mutual cheating has opened up the deepest communication we had in our marriage. I never thought of myself a narcissist, I’m not a psychologist to put a label on those thoughts. I am grateful that she still accepts me and claims we are still in love and I love her. As all swingers state love is not sex, sex is a physical act.

Two thoughts for further consideration - some spouses don't require that they know in order for play to be permissible. If hubby David or one of the others in our poly family was having sex with someone else without me/the others knowing, I wouldn't consider it cheating. OTOH, we'd share the stories. Second, what level of commitment is required to be cheating? Marriage, yes. But beyond that I wouldn't feel guilty if I had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else, but they weren't married.

If you SO knows what you’re doing it’s not cheating, it’s an Open Marriage.

That's why my wife said that she preferred and had relationships, may overlapping, with married men. They were grateful, both her and the husband knew what it was all about - a relationship that was not going anywhere - she wasn't looking to break up his marriage, he didn't want to leave his wife/family. Daniela likes our situation now in our closed group of married couples. She gets the satisfaction of being within another marriage with the wife's knowledge and bi participation. And the kink she never had before, knowing that her husband, me, is involved with other women.

I love my wife, my wife I hope still loves me, we both love sex, I cheated because it was available when I was alone on the road. My wife says the men she meets have so many different stories about why they cheat, no sex at home is the one she hears the most. Her words, not mine, the nicest men she meets claim they love their wives and are just looking for extra fun.

The most common reason I get from men is that wives have lost interest in sex and they need an outlet for their needs. It makes me wonder why they don’t discuss the problem with a doctor to find the real reason. Many of us women as they reach an age where sex becomes a problem for physical reasons. I won’t disagree these men are cheaters, they are men that still want to save marriages that are otherwise still loving. Registering on an affairs match site is a discrete way to meet others without trying to pick up a date at a bar.

Men looking for more for the same reason women look for more. The old adage that it takes two to tango, the site that you are on are matching married men with married women. We started with wanting a woman to join us, my wife encouraged me to join and she watched. Watching my wife with a woman was more exciting, the jealous feeling didn’t hit until another man came into the scene.

Swinging never damaged my relationships, but there was well deserved damage to my self esteem. After having married David while still having Red as my lover, I was full of myself. I thought I was a master of sex with men (not yet having discovered my Lesbian side) and believing that I could easily manage an expanded sex life. So I thought when I met Sam, found him attractive, and announced to hubby and Red that I was going to have sex with him as well. Well I did, and it wasn't fulfilling or even fun. The first couple of times were exciting, but Sam was a poor lover. He thought he was God's gift to women, just wanted me to blow him and fuck me in my bum, which was OK but anal alone doesn't make me cum, and he didn't care about my orgasms or satisfaction at all. On top of that Sam disparaged my husband (he didn't know about Red), saying that David must be sexually inadequate for me to let him fuck me, and a wimp when I told Sam that hubby knew about us and was OK with it. I would complain to David how my fling with Sam wasn't working as I had expected, and what I was thinking that I needed to do to improve it. (I'm compulsive and goal oriented.) David gave me the best advice - that it wasn't my solely responsibility to make whatever I was doing with Sam feel right. It then became clear to me that I was taking credit for the two relationships that I had with Red and David being so great, when in reality it was their attitude and efforts that made everything work so well on every level. My husband is a saint and the wise man in all of this. I would come home, we'd have sex (because despite what Sam did I still needed to fuck my husband and Red) and I would complain about how badly it was going. He told me it wasn't my responsibility to make this work, it wasn't a failure on my part, that I could end it. He was right. I ended it, humbled, and all was good.

No, it hasn't hurt our relationship at all. In fact, it's done very much the opposite. From time to time, there have been posters here who have written about the damage it has caused their relationships. It can and does happen. Not everyone is cut out for swinging, and that's not a crime. It doesn't work for some people.

Davidia, The question was has it done damage to your relationship. The answers have been directed to that question. Your point that it can, is worth mentioning, and the referral you gave is to the point. I do think any of us who have had no damage, would also argue the point that maturity, proper preparation and proper mindset are the reasons that is so. The cautions are given here over and over, that while good for some the LS still does bear the onus of real danger to those who enter for the wrong reasons or lack a sound relationship in the first place.

Being an Alpha doesn't mean it doesn't feel good. You sound like my husband. Anal play is part of the natural course of things, its down there where everything is happening so of course it's going to get included whether planned or not. Back in the day when we used to get hot and heavy things happened and anal happened. We touch, we grab, fingers slip here and there in the heat of the moment and so forth. Now it is a very planned part of our sex. Over the years and the many many many orgasms I have had from anal along with vaginal, my husband began to realize anal is amazing (to receive) and could as amazing for him. The more he let me play the more open he became and soon the man was having orgasms as large as me and multi (something he had never experienced). We didn’t open our marriage up till much later and then only to people who understood we were only doing it for things we could not provide for each other alone, hence the reason for groups. One male doesn’t provide enough by himself, he needs friends. As I have mentioned in prior posts: I cannot get enough cum from one man, I enjoy it that much; I cannot get multiple holes filled with real live bareback cum filled cream puff stuffed penises with only one man; and I have no way to cum fill or cream fill my man’s holes without other men. So I needed to find a way to get men. For my husband, the comfort level was not there for males only to join us so I found couples. With couples I had to give as much as we got of course. I wasn’t expecting to do all that I do with the wives, but to not be a taker I made myself available for them. You do what you need to do to keep the group smooth. My husband who has no interest in men or really other women does have such a strong interest in my desires and connecting with me in any manner possible eventually gave in. For years we had done him anally and he knows how amazing that is so he would come to the group sex parties and watch. It took a while for him to try a few things here and there like cum kissing with me after I’d sucked one of the men off, then more, then cum swapped. Then I was asked to eat some of the wives’ cream pies, he helped. As we played watching others he was always rock hard, leaking all over and never flinched if someone touched him a little bit. The first time one of the husband’s did me doggy, he sat staring into my eyes as the man came inside me. It was the oddest sensation for us both. That was my first face sit on him. Then another man took me over him, and another, cum and penises are all over his face. So much has happened I get some of the timelines confused now but we were in a similar position with me sitting on his face cum leaking, a send or third penis in me over him, and one of the husband’s stepped in between his legs. I guided him into my husband. There is so much to tell but it is a very long tale. To the point I want to make with you, as per my husband & myself, nothing you can simulate or do is the same as taking a real bareback cream filled cock in your mouth or other holes. Nothing feels the same as it, looks the same, or provides as great of an aftermath picture. The orgasms from it are so intense it is hard to crave it daily and hourly. Since all of this, he has F ed me, all of the other ladies, vaginally, orally, and anally. He has sucked every guy off hundreds of times, been F ed by them as many times anally, and been cum in as many. So from our little meager interest things have expanded as do all things sexual for us. When with others, we still primarily focus on the main things we cannot do as a lone couple. For example, my husband can get all the anal he ever needs doing me so he does not do the other ladies anally often and he has never done a guy. He has no reason to and doesn’t want too. As far as being an Alpha, some men feel they are Alphas and only do others but if you are not into doing it with men why would you? My husband is not into guy’s butts. I however AM! My man is now perfectly content with letting the guys have at him. He’s a receiver and from what I can tell a pretty good one. My husband receives it from toys, machines, me, strap ons, the other ladies, and men and he feels no less than he ever did. He is very manly. Receiving is extremely pleasurable and he knows how much it does for me to be there watching up close, playing, touching, encouraging. There is something so amazing to be right there as his wife seeing and feeling him getting rummaged unloading penis after another and telling him all the while, you can do it, you can take it, you love doing this for me, you are so amazing at taking c***, I love you, I love that you do this for me, I love watching you get F ed in your … It does take a lot of patience and time to get to this point in relationships. Take it slow and play at home, RP a lot, use toys, machines, simulate it all in a variety of scenarios. Even that will be awkward at times. A few weeks ago I was pleading for my husband to take a giant black c*** while I was dping one of our sex machines. I was screaming how much I knew he wanted big black cocks and their cum inside him. He was like, “No I don’t.” Awkward… And yes he has done that and enjoyed them. He wasn’t as turned on as me yet, he’d just gotten out of the shower. I can tell you from my experience and from watching all the couples we have been with, the one who flourish and are the most exciting are the ones who play together, in the same room, stay together or as close as possible, try to watch, talk, and encourage each other as much as possible, kiss a lot, hold hands a lot, hug, and love on another often. It is so cool to watch a wife getting ravaged by several people while the husband is by her side getting done likewise and they are hold hands, glancing over at each other. So many times I see couples stretched out touching as they are doing what they are doing. Since your wife is interested in females I highly recommend joining her. I love it when anyone and my husband are dual doing me and I would much rather have my husband right there sucking and tonguing with me as I tend to the wives. I love sharing with him. That is why we got into this in the first place, not to have sex with others, but to share having sex with others, to share the experiences. We have an unbelievable connection and relate more on a deeper level now. I now get why my husband loves eating p***y so much but it is still so much better together. He agrees.

Sounds like fun to me. I don't like or dislike the cuckold thing. I'm indifferent about it but it seems to come up more and more. I know there are some guys that get off on the fetish of being cucked but from my experience it seems like more guys get off on cucking others. It's become obvious to me that my best friend gets off on the idea of fucking my GF really really hard in front of me in a "cuck like" situation. I never really spent much time thinking of it like that because my GF just likes rough sex and the humiliation stuff but there is definitely a sort of cucking fetish related to that I think. Nothing wrong with it and it can be really hot in certain circumstances like the one you told us.

My first time was when I was on the bottom while a friend was taking my wife from behind. Iit was her first time having her pussy eaten while getting drilled by a bigger penis. I instinctively begin licking his wet shaft as he slip in and out of her. He slid out of her and I took him in my mouth. I loved the way his swollen head felt in my mouth. He switched between my mouth and her pussy until he eventually ejaculated inside her. As he came I instantly released into my wife's mouth. I jerked off as he pulled out and put his cock in my mouth. She was so turned on she begged to watch us suck each other's cock while she masturbated with a vibrator.

What you describe is probably a majority of bi-sexual men. I've been around sex forums for years and this keeps coming up exactly the same. My feelings match yours, my wife is straight, so mmf was our pleasure of choice. I found being on the bottom of a 69 with the wife while she was getting fucked, and sucking me off was the pinnacle of sexual pleasure for me. Licking pussy, dick, balls, the scene, the smells, the sensations. And finishing with a cream pie. You definitely should pursue this.

We began our experiential development when the wifey suggested strap on play. We had already experience double ended dildo play with anal for me and vag for her and it was sublime. We moved on to dildo play with male prostate play and that resulted in the best orgasm ever for me. The strap on experience was an absolute heaven, and recording it was even better as we could watch afterward and hone our skills. There is nothing better than having your prostate tickled while being blown or fondled. After watching many a bisexual MMF vids, we then decided it was time to move on the real flesh thing. After months of interviews and selections we finally found the one we agreed we would both be comfortable with. It was all about me, it was a combined effort. Watching her go down on our mate and then her waving me over to join and as we both sucked that 7" cock and kissed one another while both looking at that glistening piece of member, it was our foray into many more adventures as a bisexual couple. The pinnacle came when our mate entered her in the missionary position and I enter him doggy style. The rhythmic thrusts of our bodies entwined and the sound of our love juices filtering through the room was bliss. So in essence it was a gradual appreciation of what felt good and the introduction of what we thought we wanted and fulfilled. Although bisexual swinger sex is not our only vice, it is on our regular rotation of pleasure. And the notion that you are gay after, is debunked. Never felt more masculine now than ever, and I think my wife feels the same if not more.

Yes we do men together as well. It's just nice when the door opens and she says honey I brought you desert. Kinda like your wife surprising you with cheesecake after a nice meal. We started off playing together and still do. I love watching her get fucked and love licking the guy's cock after he pulls out of her. Come to Canada and I'll show you. lol

I knew I was bi and had a mean crush on my buddy. We played a game and I just said loser had to suck the other guys cock. He was like idk but I'm like let's try it. Well, on purpose I lost and then looked at him and said well a bets a bet and he said are you sure? I'm like well I'm not gay but let's get it over with. I can still remember him pulling down his pants and unleashing a big cock. Well I sucked him and in no time he shot his hot juicy cum down my throat. It was a huge load. The next night he looked at me and said let's play a game and loser has to suck. But let's skip the game. He sucked me and I sucked him. Over the next 6 months we sucked each other lots during school, after school. I never told anyone till one day my wife said would you ever suck cock and I said I have. She was so turned on that now we share cock as often as possible. Now she goes out and gets fucked and brings me home a cream pie to eat

SwingSet - To answer your questions, where I live there are several couples friendly adult theaters in reach. The best is a place called Video Liquidators in Buffalo. They have two separate theaters across the hall from each other. One room is couples only (single men aren’t allowed), the other room is the gangbang theater. On a typical Saturday night there’s about 10 couples in the couples theater and about 60 men in the gangbang room waiting for a woman to cross the hall and venture in. The theater makes most of its income from the single men, so they do everything they can to cater to the “action” that goes on. The projector lamp is turned way down so it’s almost pitch black in that room. You can see outlines and sense the depth of the crowd, but you can’t detail faces. Most of what’s done is done by feel. Since there’s no beds or anything to lay down in, the guys have to fuck standing up. So in the back they have a wide open area with a low rail perfect in height for a woman to bend over, and the first row of seats beyond the rail are at just the right distance to reach out and brace your arms against. This was deliberately designed for quick, furious, “standing doggie” fucks. My husband and I go together, but for different reasons. My husband enjoys the couples room and I want the gangbang room. So we go back and forth between the two rooms. And that’s fine with me because you can’t really stay in the GB room more than about 20 minutes at a time. It’s just too much intensity. Even if they only take 3 pumps to cum, there’s enough of them to last all night. And new ones keep coming in all night long. So we go to the GB room in spurts, and spend larger period “cooling down” in the couples room. We’re usually there from about 9 PM to 1 AM, during which I will go to the GB room maybe 4 times. Your second question – I do bareback. I fully understand the risks involved, and I accept them in the same way that everyone accepts risk in the name of recreation. Sky divers, race car drivers, white water rafters, rock climbers, all risk life and limb for what excites them. My “cumslut fetish” is an essential part of my life. It was instilled in me as a child, and I can’t enjoy life without indulging it. And bareback is a huge part of how I indulge it. I can tell you that most women who have this fetish will do it bareback, however, if your wife wants to play safe, then you MUST enforce respect for that. In the dark and in the confusion of the crowd, guys will constantly be trying to penetrate her bare. Let me give you some advice for your wife. These guys aren’t Joe Stud. If she’s expecting to get fucked silly by stallions that last 10 minutes, forget it. This is desperately horny cock that’s only out for itself. Putting one of these cocks in a pussy is like sticking a finger down your throat. How long can you hold back puking with a finger down your throat? This is the “sense” she will get when one of these cocks penetrates her. From the second it goes in, you can feel the cock struggling to hold back from vomiting … a battle it loses very quickly and very powerfully. And the guy feels this too. So they don’t fuck like Joe Stud. They’ll put it in, pump a couple times, then all of a sudden stop – like a deer in the headlights, and fight like hell to hang on. Usually they’ll cum as soon as they try to pump again, then they’ll just keep pumping to get it all out. This type of thing is not for everyone. In fact, most women will find the actual physical action to be weak. But for women with the so-called “cumslut fetish” it is exciting beyond words. What turns women off the most is getting mobbed. This WILL happen if she allows her frontside to be approached. She must position herself so that the men cannot surround her or she’ll be like the middle sardine in the can, and this will take away all the fun. It’s very dark and all the guys have their cocks out and their hands on every square inch of exposed skin. My advice – don’t try to do it in missionary position. The only way to fuck in missionary position is to recline back in a seat with her legs either up in the air or stretched out in front … and in this position she’s very vulnerable to being mobbed. I ONLY take it from behind me. I bring a little pillow with me, bend over the rail, stretch my arms to the seat backs beyond the rail, and bury my face in the pillow. In this posture the men have no access to my frontside. No blowjobs, no breasts, etc. They can only touch what they can reach from behind me, and the only cum shot they get is by putting it in my butt or pussy (or by accident while waiting for their turn) … and they can only do that one at a time. She’ll find having space in front of her to take away all the claustrophobia, but YOU will have to enforce her condom rule (if she has one). Another suggestion – you mentioned “double penetration”. If she wants anal, prelube her there. When she wants an anal penetration she need only re-position her backside to allow the cock to slide upwards, then she can push back so it goes in the rectum. The guy will think he’s in her pussy, but who the fuck cares what they think. Feel free to ask me any questions you want. And let me know how it works out for her.

I remember at a sleepover at a friends house about age 12, waking up to her hands in my panties. I was surprised to say the least, but I allowed her to continue. I continued to allow her the opportunity at every sleepover. Even with other girls at the sleepover she would always end up sleeping next to me. We never really talked about it. One time on a high school trip we roomed together and went further than I had ever went with a boy. Well then came college and marriage and three kids. Now as empty-nesters going south for the winter I met a neighbor lady who through a few months of laying around the pool and sunbathing together, she one day kissed me on the lips. That was it, it kissing is so intimate it put me over the edge. We now are playmates while the men watch, we have not done the full swing yet, but I feel it is coming!!

I had a sleepover and my friend slept in my bed with me. We were cracking jokes about girls playing with themselves. When she asked if I wanted to try it, I didn't know what to say! But she just spread her legs and started rubbing herself. Her leg was crossed over mine and it turned me on. I was in shock! Her moans got to me the most, so I relaxed and began to rub myself, too. She started cumming and it made me so hot I got off. We never spoke about this afterward. Ive been interested in regaining that intimacy with a woman again ever since.

Hi, this is Petra. Although I didn't know it at the time, my first sign was when I went from being jealous of hubby having sex with another woman to being turned on by it. I wasn't involved with those first girls that hubby screwed, but got a thrill when he got home (or she left and I got back to my house) from hearing about what they did, tasting her when I sucked his dick, and smelling her smell on him. In my mind I justified it as maybe kinky, but still straight sex. After we became involved with Clair and started having threesomes I kept moving along what I thought was straight sex (licking his dick and her clit from underneath as hubby fucked Clair from behind), to eating his cum out of her, to just us girls sometimes.

As I remember, my first sexual encounter was at age 6 with the girl next door, and our checking each other out. And I found that I really was fascinated with girls. It was around age 10 or so that a guy friend, and I were both horny and couldn't find any girls to play with, so we started masturbating together and each other. He nor I thought anything of this, because we really wanted to explore things with girls. During high school, I had some platonic relationships with girls. Since I was terribly shy I never really got to explore the sexual side. Eventually, I did find a lady who I married and enjoyed that side of life. After a few years, her and I had some problems and during a period of separation, I stayed with a friend from work, who I knew was supposed to be bi, but wasn't really concerned about that. Then, one night I woke up feeling my dick being sucked, and thought, now this is interesting. I looked over and saw my friend busy at work, and his beautiful, hard dick, sticking right out at me. Of course I had to help him and took matters in hand. All of this felt perfectly natural. I wanted to do more for him, but he was afraid of scaring me. Nothing more has happened with a guy since then, but a later marriage found me with a very sexual woman, who learned that she was bi around age 15, when she was very close to another girl and found that she liked it. In time she learned about my experiences and she loved it and wanted me to do more. Sadly, we were never able to do all that we wanted in a sexual vein, with others, but I learned so much from her. Now, I have to say that I have no desire to have a relationship with another guy, but I sure love seeing a hard dick. And certainly I am not afraid of one. But, I love women, in so many ways

For what it's worth, personally I think the most erotic porn is when people just have sex and there happens to be a camera there, rather when they try to "make porn". Real people having real sex stomps scripted/scened/posed porn every day of the week.

MMF, I want a threesome where the two guys play together.

I'll give you one more this is a fantasy that will probably stay a fantasy but it has haunted me for years. My wife and I are taken to a motel by three or four well hung black males where I am left in the corner while she is pleasured by the biggest cocks she has ever had , then when they are done with her they force me to service them also while my wife watches and cheers them on.