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Putting our profile on a public forum allows for all types to contact us with a goal not much different from us. The reasons people register can only be answered by the individuals who want similar yet diverse outcomes. Meeting true newbies throws up red flags along with thoughts of thrills of being a first. We are being cautious for many reasons including scams. Why would anyone half our age want us, we wouldn’t seek out those twenty years older and we are more than twenty years older. I am flattered that I am desirable and the dirty old man is excited trying to keep perverted thoughts out of it. How would I feel if my children were attracted to those our age. My Mrs. turns flush thinking how exciting the possibilities can be while I remind her how things can go terribly wrong. I encouraged my wife to get details without coming across as disapproving, find why us, why not someone closer to their own age, how experienced they are. It’s interesting that finding others in the twenties are not easy to find, ones they have contacted according to her were crazies. What was confided was her first experience was her husband’s unmarried friend. They don’t know of any married friends they would approach. They met an older couple who were younger than us that she described as nice time. Her husband has had experience with a literal milf, a friend’s mother when he was in high school. I bet she wasn’t 30 years older like we are. The husband is still athletic, I can imagine that was the attraction in high school as it is to my wife. My thought is if they want why would I look away even if I can’t explain the attraction they see in us. I know my wife is still a piece and can give him a good ride if he is attracted to her. Is it sick to think of it as a Father’s Day gift?

We occasionally check our profile we have posted to see if we were contacted or if there are any others that we find interesting. I caught Mrs. MLF (midlifefun) scrolling while I was watching sports on TV when she asked what I thought about a profile, I laughed as the profile was of a couple half our age and thought why would they want us. Their profile stated interested in others 25-55. I thought it was weird, why would someone half our age want to meet, something wasn’t right. The Mrs said she would contact them, I said it was a scam. We know there are plenty of posters that are just looking for online sex chats and I said that should be careful, send no other pictures, give no personal info. She received a reply about a week later from the wife. Doubting it was a woman answering I suggested a real call to confirm. An hour later they spoke, it was a female. The big question I wanted answered why would they want us, we could be their parents. We were told they liked our pictures and profile, they had been with older before, still younger than us, and enjoyed the experience. She is an RN, the husband is a new attorney, they married two years ago. I’m still skeptical.

You two certainly have a very evolved and mature relationship based on love, trust, open communication and neither of you feels any insecurities. That’s amazing! However, that’s the ideal situation and we all know that there are a million situations outside of “ideal”. You sound like you are polyamorous swingers, which is awesome. However, many swingers I’ve known try to limit or even inhibit the emotional aspect of their relationships. Men can be egotists and feel threatened by their wife having feelings for someone else. Like those feelings somehow diminish her feelings for me. My wife is in a polyamorous relationship and has had a BF for 8 years now. He also happens to be one of my oldest and most trusted friends. They love each other. Their relationship makes them happy. We sometimes play together as a threesome and they also have their own one on one time which I encourage. I trust him and it’s a perfect situation because I know he loves me and would never want to break up our marriage. So I know it can work. But the husband has to have the ultimate confidence in their marriage. There needs to be an understanding that the marriage is THE most important relationship between all three parties. If there is any “threat” to that relationship that is when things can get rough. These are strictly my opinions based on my own experience. But every marriage is different. Every friendship is different. It’s important to talk about how it makes everyone feel and everyone needs to be respectful of the other’s feelings. good luck, have fun and let us know what you do!

Did you report them to the administrator of the site?

Young men hardly ever refuse any woman who is willing regardless of age or looks. Younger ladies normally don’t look for older men unless there is an underlying reason such as a boyfriend or husband pushing them. I’m not saying 45-50 year old women with 60 yo men, I find 20-30 yo women with 50-60+ yo men. Older women, call me Cougar, sometimes search out those younger men who are willing. It is smart that the wives are talking. Make sure the young lady isn’t being coerced to join you as excited as you are it just wrong if she isn’t 100% willing and wanting.

I cannot wait to hear what happens, this has the making of a great story, Hope it works out for you all. And btw we have two younger couples in our group by 20 years. They are the ones who approached us. They are a great deal of fun so you never know...

When my GF was in her 20s she fucked some guys in their 50s she called them DILFs. I don't think it's that weird at all.

Just don't think about getting one of the biggest invoices you've ever had.

When we were new to swinging my wife was interested in more mature, experienced couples. The first couple we hooked up with at a club was 10+ years older but that's what my wife wanted. I think some newbie couples feel better with a mature couple bc they think they will go slower, and be more patient teachers than young couples.

Nothing perverse in meeting those of a different generation for sex. We drew the attention of players twice our age, Honey fucking a man more than twice her age many times most likely Viagra assisted. The older friends give a different experience that is interesting and more grateful. I think you should go with an open mind, remember they aren’t judging you on age.

There is something to be said for maturity. 21 year olds might be hot to look at, stay hard, or have almost zero refractory time but if you talk like you text, and your interests are all about caping and TikTok, it’s not going to matter. Yeah, a broadovergneralized, stereotype but hopefully you get the gist of where I’m headed. If there is a spark, see if it leads anywhere. Seems tough enough to meet people since Covid. Maybe it’s time for everyone to dip their toes outside their comfort zone.

Obviously wise to be careful with personal info, etc., but I don't think it's as uncommon as you're envisioning. A lot of people have preferences that shift quite a bit when it's "just sex" and there's little risk of anybody finding out and it impacting their perception in their circle of friends/family. Mrs. E's first husband was 10ish years older. I'm almost 15 years younger. The couples we've played with were similar in age to her, but she gravitates toward grad students in their 20s for random fun. Now I'm around 40 and it's not at all unusual to get a 20-25 year old off Tinder who wants to suck-and-fuck an older man, or a 50-year-old woman on business with a boyfriend who wants a video of her getting a facial from a younger guy. Don't read too much into this. People have their reasons. If you seem to like each other, enjoy.

In general, I think a little caution might be warranted, but not too much. I’m in my mid-70s and in my two decades of being regularly active in the lifestyle It’s been my observation that a majority of couples/singles prefer to play with folks within a decade younger or five years older than themselves. But there are a lotta people in the lifestyle and you aren’t trying to fuck all of them. Before I took a pandemic break most of the couples and women I played with were 20 years or more younger. There may not be so many of them, but there are a sufficient number who are open to or even actively seeking significantly older partners. Their reasons are their reasons, but I’ve never been asked for remuneration. I have a date for play later this month with a couple 15 years younger I’ve been socializing with for over 18 months. The one partner I’ve played with since becoming active again is 30 years younger and I’ve twice had social dates with an engaged bi couple who are literally both young enough to be my grandchildren. The woman is very beautiful. (So is he!) They play together and separately. I assumed it would become a no-sex lifestyle friendship (I have lots of lifestyle friends I don’t fuck) but she says she’d like to include a sexual dimension. I think they are both at a point in their lives where they want to experience as much as they can. If I’m the beneficiary I won’t complain. (After our first social date I had sufficient information that I could check her out on LinkedIn. She was precisely who she said she was. And I know her industry and her position. It’s a great job and they truly don’t need to be running financial scams on old men…😂) From the other side (and as I’ve posted on this board’s previously) about 10 years ago at a party I played with a couple in their mid-80s, who had been enjoying ENG sex since before it had a name. Why did I join them. It was a spur of the moment decision; I wondered what it would like. It was enjoyable.

If they’re close enough, meet ‘em for drinks and dinner. If you hit off, you’ll get to play with a younger couple. If you don’t hit it off, you’ll still get drinks and dinner. 😉

Talk with your wife first, but I would say sure, that's what friends are for. It's good to have someone who you can trust. He'll become an even better friend.

I used to ask David and Red to let me hold their dick while they peed. Maybe it was a control thing or just curiosity, but I like to do it. I haven't done it in a while.

What about live music?

When we made our first online profile we quickly discovered a couple we know who live just a block away. They are the types who put their faces right on their public profile (we don't). In the interest of fairness we reached out and said "Hi" although never played with them bc they're not our type. We are friends now and they are a valuable source of local swing-scene info and gossip 😀

WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE. Honestly, what happened to morals, ethics, common decency. It seems like there is a movement to cheat in so many aspects of our lives. And to harm as a result. Please people: love one another, respect one another and be a good human being.

That is horrible.

How could the patrons see who behind the glory hole? Seems like this is a fantasy.

We both love cum! My husband loves it when a guy fills my pussy with his cum then eats me. He also likes to suck cock and get cum in his mouth from a guy. I love licking pussy a lot and love licking my husband's cum out of another woman.

Have you ever shared pictures with a couple you were looking to meet only to get ghosted? Then see your pictures in a profile that was not you? Yes, we have had that happen. No more sharing like that. We have also had a few couples we thought we knew from our home town and we promptly made our profile more anonymous. Something about the hometown crowd, I don' know...