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Since the very beginning, we both agreed on the rule of always using condoms for penetration; it took us years (about four years) of bonding with another couple to start even considering the discussion of not using condoms with them. When I say bonding, I mean not only sexually but at a personal-friendship level. The four of us discussed the option during sober moments and made the decision, and planned it accordingly, including an STD test for all. Later, perhaps a little more than a year later, we decided to include a mutual friend couple that we play regularly; the process was the same with them, but this time involving six of us. Since then, all six of us have agreed to get tested at least twice a year and share the results. We have never regretted our decision, quite the opposite, we love our “exclusive group” and the deep intimacy we share with them.

I haven't even heard of this before now...which if it was such a 'game changer' I would think that there would be more of a buzz about it. After looking at their website, it seems to do everything, faster...longer...just short of making you richer, better looking, and improving your personality. It will be interesting to find out what you find...please report back.

The results are in. Clair and Lora both say that I do a better job with my lips and tongue solo, but they do like the visual of me being taken while getting it. Oftentimes I and the guy in me will finish first, before the girl I'm licking has had enough. Also brought up: us women 69ing while one of the guys is in her vag. I like being underneath in close proximity to his tesicles. Yeah, FFM is my favorite.

I haven't used either, but I would advise you to plan ahead next time :)

Not at all. That's just a rather big downside to shaving. Wife shaved a couple days ago and it was fun for the night. But she's been itchy and irritated since it started growing back.

Call me lazy, but frequent shaving to avoid spiky stubble takes too much work. Trimmed to the length where it's soft works best for me. At first I was going to thoroughly concur, but there have been some wonderful occasions when our sweaty, dirty bodies didn't want to wait for a shower before getting together.

For me is cum; I love to taste it, swallow it, rub it on me, you name it, I always have; cum play has been a thing for me even before entering the lifestyle. When I feel sexually attracted to a man, I feel the urgency of “testing him” While I suck a dick, I always try to squeeze as much pre-cum as possible and wonder how his actual cum may taste and feel, a huge turn-on for me. I also love a nice and messy creampie in me, but we play condomless exclusively with our closest friends, which are only two couples, so I have had the privilege of being filled by 3 different men including my husband.

Yes this stuff happens, so it's important to keep emotions in check and give each other some wiggle room in terms of boundaries.

Every time we swing with a new couple or single we have a pregame discussion where basic rules are laid out. If you say yes to bi play then establish the boundaries. If you say no then no means no. We have never not once engaged with a couple who flagrantly broke the rules of the pregame discussion.

I can’t answer definitively what will happen with what will happen when you start meeting others. Most profiles on pay sites ask questions of what you are looking for when meeting, it would be foolish to be untruthful. Our search started with females who are bi or bi-curious, woman who want to explore a possible bi side. There are many many profiles that state both swingers are straight, if that is what you are looking for restrict your search parameters to straight only. The scams you will find on meeting others have very few concerning bisexuality, read into all requests before meeting. You may be correct that female bisexuality is more common, in our searches and in our circle of LS friends it is because that is what we searched for while male bisexuality is not common or is repressed in our meetings. We have never encountered a man insisting on male contact, I have seen casual male male touching with no overt sexual acts. I realize you are looking for answers by check out forums, keep in mind there is exaggeration in some posts. Keep reading and you will learn whose advice is worthwhile and whose posts to disregard. Have fun in your exploration and be careful.

Sometimes you have to swallow your pride.