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My wife and I have attended a few parties, and we've been out on double dates where we participated in soft swap and hard swaps depending on the other couples preferences. However, when we started discussing the idea of opening our relationship to others the thing that my wife couldn't get out of her head was when I mentioned hotwifing and I told her just the thought that she could be out there cheating on me with another man was sexy as hell. The idea of cheating turned her on. She couldn't get it out of her head. She loved the naughtiness of cheating. So she took it a step farther. She agreed to us sleeping with other people but she wanted it to feel like a real affair. As she talked she laid out what she desired this to look like, I was incredibly turned on by the entire thing. So I agreed to her requests. They were pretty simple. 1. She and I sleep with whomever we want, excluding each others family. 2. We can play solo with anyone we want. 3. She never has to tell me who she is sleeping with nor ask permission. 4. I am permitted to do anything in my power to catch her in her affairs. 5. If I catch her I have to confront her and then she will tell me everything. In an effort to catch her in the slutty act I've turned myself into a bit of a super sluth. I purchased some nanny cams and hidden cameras and set them up throughout my house. I have 2 in the living room, 1 in the dinning room, 1 in the kitchen. 2 in the bedroom, 1 in the guest room, 1 in the master bathroom focused on the shower and the tub. I installed a ring doorbell to see whoes. I also bought a couple apple airtags and attached one under the seat of her car and I put one in the lining of her purse. I travel for work frequently and I have had a fair number of nights where I got to watch some very sexy videos of my wife fucking around behind my back. I've also caught her having sex in her van as well. And I even followed her to another guys house using the airtags and saw her having sex with a guy in his hot tub. 🔥 this sexy game of cat and mouse has become one of our favorite games. So I know most couples want complete transparency but does anyone else get off on the idea of your spouse fucking around behind their back?

I'd take him up on the offer and just bring your wife along with you! Let her know that you'll give her some alone time with him in the hot tub and she'll take it from there. Remember it doesn't all have to happen at once. Maybe suggest that she can always start with giving him a blowjob in the hot tub this time, depending on how things go. They can always go further one of the next nights you guys see him.

I had a chat with my wife, I sort of said I think he fancy’s you, which she laughed a little but in a way like flushed as if yeah I know type of thing. and then she just came out with we haven’t been out with him for a while, does that mean oh we should meet him and now you noticed this we possibly get it on? From the seems of this just from a small convo we had I think this is something she is up for doing, it just so happens aswell he brought a hot tub and he only messaged me tonight saying oh you will have come over check it out, I’m thinking now I mentioned this to my wife will she kind of go for it off her own back if we go round?

Hello everyone so before I posted in here about me and my wife turn the possible fantasies into a reality, which we did but now I wanted to ask thoughts of others on something, so we always said it will be with someone we don’t know, but I have a friend who I think wants to fuck my wife he often drops little comments in like jokey about her tits etc and I think given a chance he would want fuck her! Now we we obviously want to get another hook up done sometime soon, would I bring this up to her as in I think he likes you type of thing and see if she reacts to it? As sometimes I think she goes a little flirty with him also? And if she wanted to actually fuck him then let them fuck? I trust him also in a clean sense as my wife would want to go bareback as she prefers that. What are your thoughts? Or should I not let that line get crossed?

After reading my post I wanted to add that I was speaking about our personal experiences, our choice of play and our LS friends now and over the past 25 plus years in the LS. I did not want people to think that the club as a whole promoted condomless sex. It did not and provided free condoms and lube in each room and every play area. And with most first time or hookups condoms were always used. If through more get togethers and over time getting to know one another and some form of verbal discussion/consent did condoms become optional.

Super hot. I love this approach-- very mature and responsible way to have incredible sexy times. Six for sex is an awesome number--especially with total freedom.

I haven't even heard of this before now...which if it was such a 'game changer' I would think that there would be more of a buzz about it. After looking at their website, it seems to do everything, faster...longer...just short of making you richer, better looking, and improving your personality. It will be interesting to find out what you find...please report back.

Since the very beginning, we both agreed on the rule of always using condoms for penetration; it took us years (about four years) of bonding with another couple to start even considering the discussion of not using condoms with them. When I say bonding, I mean not only sexually but at a personal-friendship level. The four of us discussed the option during sober moments and made the decision, and planned it accordingly, including an STD test for all. Later, perhaps a little more than a year later, we decided to include a mutual friend couple that we play regularly; the process was the same with them, but this time involving six of us. Since then, all six of us have agreed to get tested at least twice a year and share the results. We have never regretted our decision, quite the opposite, we love our “exclusive group” and the deep intimacy we share with them.

All but two of the women in our group of seven married couples can orgasm readily by dick in pussy penetration. The other two can usually cum that way, but need certain positions like doggy or cowgirl and to be in control in order to orgasm. It doesn't seem to matter whose dick it is. Sometimes with those two women the answer is just to ask if they prefer I go down on her for her orgasm. Licking her clit and her vagina opening, finger fucking, finger in and around her butt hole always does the trick. They still enjoy regular fucking and I always get to cum in their cunt.

I have always been a slow cummer, so much so that a girlfriend from long ago (who was always able to pop one quickly) would ask, "What takes you so long?" Fortunately, my ex-wife and wife now enjoy a longer ride while I've become capable of speeding it up when a woman wants. At least that's how I interpret, "Cum in me! Cum in me now!"

My best friends fuck my GF and I don't regret it in the least. A lot of people say to keep friends out of it though so maybe we're just lucky. Could it create issues with your friendship? Yes. But in our experience the only "friends" that it caused issues with turned out to not be real friends at all.

One pragmatic approach is to shift your swing/LS arrangement into an open relationship-ish. Let your wife flirt with your friend on her own, without your involvement. This is less scary for vanilla people. If he shows interest, then let the wife explain that she is in an open relationship with you so she is free to date with anyone. If the friend confirms first with you and ask your permission, then you have a true friend with benefits for life! However, if he doesn't... and turned out to be a go-getter, then don't feel cheated or betrayed or end the friendship. Remember, you all got what you wanted. She is satisfied. You are, as well as your friend. Your wife has identified herself as a free agent in an open relationship and she got the experience. Don't bitch about it! And continue being friends 🙂 (Of course, make sure your relationship is mature and secure before trying this, as feelings can easily develop)

Bad, like how? Seriously, I'm not trying to be a smartass. I met men who were in a sexual relationship with my wife before me, and several she was having sex with when we first started dating and screwing. Some I still occasionally run in to. Then there are the men in our group who she is fucking now, and I their wives. There hasn't been any problems or drama. It's because who my wife has sex with is not an issue for me or any other guy. It is her choice. My only concern is whether she is happy. That doesn't mean it's a free-for-all, our relationship has a very responsible structure, but basically male control of a woman isn't happening.

Yes I will talk to her and see how she reacts to it, if she seems to like the thought of this I will see what he says in some kind of way

Talk with your wife first, but I would say sure, that's what friends are for. It's good to have someone who you can trust. He'll become an even better friend.

Am I the only one missing this? Did your girlfriend's best friend have a good time? Did you give her a couple of Os? Since she was stepping down a size or two in dick size, were you extra skillful? Did you give her oral? Did she have to go back to her bf to finish off? It's good that you like watching your gf getting fucked and enjoying herself because if you don't take extra good care of the other woman, that's all you may be doing.

My husband described it as he likes seeing me play the slut. He likes it when I do all the dirty stuff with another guy cause then he can spend his day imagining I am out there taking whatever I want sexually. He imagines I am so horny I couldn't control myself. If I met a guy I wanted my inner slut would do anything to take him. Of course its totally in his head, I can control my vagina just fine. But he loves the imagery so I give it too him. I play the slutty unfaithful wife that is a succubus and needs sex to survive.

Wife and I had played with the idea of a MFM experience for years. We are in our late sixties, but could pass for fifty. I was her only lover and never thought she would ever go along with this idea. February, 2020 I signed up with SLS and spook with several gentleman that were very interested in meeting with us. We talked about one gentleman for a month or so, and text him a lot. He was anxious to meet with us, and I would tease her about it. Then out of the blue she told me she was ready to do it. This excited and scared me at the same time. We set up the meeting and I went along thinking she was trying to teach me a lesson and, would back out at anytime. Well she did not, and it was a very hot experience. She had mutable orgasms and wore us both out. The one thing that really surprised me was how fast she was to perform oral on both of us to completion and swallowing. Up to this point she had never been very interested in performing oral on me and had never really swallowed. We have had two more MFM and she has done the same thing. I love watching her perform on the other guy and she always swallows. This is so hot. Our sex life is as hot as it was when we were in our twenties. All she has to do is smile at me and I get hard. The only down side is that she has a week or two of remorse after each meeting, then that passes and we start planing our next event. I do not push and let her lead, and she decides when, who, and where, I go along for the ride.

For me it’s very much a turn on watching her suck off another man, but she absolutely loves having them shoot their load on her face....even more exciting for me!

I like watching her flirt with other guys for their cocks. I like watching her drop to her knees. I like seeing her lips wrapped around it sucking it. I like seeing the expression on the guy's face. If he's facefucking her I like to hear the sound of her gagging and see her eyes become watery. And I like to see another guy shoot his load all over her face (or sometimes in her mouth and see her swallow). I think that about covers it.

It's very visual, quite easy to see. And, for some men, perhaps it's less threatening. If my wife wants to suck a guy, and she often does, it's fine by me. I like to look at the way she's handling it as it's in her mouth, the look on the guy's face as she's giving him oral sex. If she chooses to let him come in her mouth, it's funny the emotions on his face as he lets go. On the other hand, if she'd rather do other things, that's fine by me as well.

She has always been a swallower and knows just how to apply the perfect sucking pressure to the finish. I was surprised one night when she knew I was about to cum that she took her mouth off and pumped me into her mouth. It seems that a man she met enjoyed that and she thought I would too.

I would like to state the reasons For playing with friends. I see on to Poll topic on this board this topic never ends. The great majority say don’t play with friends, not even friends you have made while playing with them. I ask, who better to play with? I understand some people like to have sex with strangers. No attachments sometimes without even know a name. Have sex, go home. I had one nighters as a single woman. I’ve had a number in college as well. To be honest I had guilt after one nighters. Self doubt. I know I am younger than most on here but I am sure the vast majority had one nighters. My intro to the LS was with a colle friend. I was the unicorn. It was a threesome and I had sex with a girlfriend. It did cause guilt. Guilt of having sex with a female. Guilt of cheating on my boyfriend. What I loved was having fun with someone who I have shared many other fun things with. Our relationship was not based on sex alone. I soon learned that other friends from college were into playing too. It surprised me at first. My boyfriend, who I have since married was upset with my newfound experience. I think with the help of a few girlfriends his being upset was turned into being the luckiest guy. For the most part our play friends are friends of mine from college and live hours from us. We have met new friends mostly from my old friends. We enjoy the parties we have gone to. We also enjoy tailgating, going to games, and just hanging out. Not everything is sex. Bringing our LS to our local friends was scary for me because I read the downside so many have written about. My husbands best friend and then my best friend. Our guy friend was very eager to play. Surprise surprise. What really amazed me was the willingness of my girlfriend wanting to join me and my husband. Both of these people are close friends who we enjoy being with. Our friendships go much further than sex. Sex has just added a new dynamic to what we already have. The only thing that might be better, and I did say might, would be my girlfriends willingness to be more open with bisexual play. I respect her and won’t push.

You are definitely NOT alone in the eroticism of the thought..... or deed. I was never the type to fantasize about seeing my wife with someone else of either sex.. well, another woman would be nice. Then over the last few years that attitude has done a 180. Now I set her up for play whenever I get the chance. 1, 2 or more occasionally is something she looks forward to and enjoys discussing the planning with me.. Being able to see her react to so much stimulus, from any position, has been great.. If you two are comfortable with it, I say go for it.. it's been an erotic, fun part of our play for several years and will be for the foreseeable future.

How many of you guys have actually experienced it? My wife plays with other men in fact she is at a fwb house getting fucked as I type this. One thing I can tell you is even though it's the hottest thing I've ever experienced the reality is hard to handle emotionally. Now I'm not at all jealous but I've had my moments getting here. It's a massive learning curve, but well worth it. Reclaiming your loved one is the most intense loving sex I've ever experienced. I've still yet to participate with her and her fwb but it's not far away. For her it's been a slow journey and she's not comfortable with involving me other than texting and photos. It'll bring you closer together, just like swinging does, as if you can talk about fucking someone else you can talk about anything!

I have a huge fantasy to let me wife have sex with other people, men or women. I'm not a possessive kind of guy and I can see the potential my wife has sexually. She can squirt and is multi orgasmic. I would love to see her take a BBC or just other guys in general. She had some experiences with another girl as a kid, and I'm sure she would enjoy playing with another woman now too, if she could break down some inhibitions and stretch herself just a bit. My ultimate fantasy is to watch another guy take her hard from behind, making her climax all over him several times. This could be a threesome or even a couple swap experience. I think it would be really amazing. My wife looks good, a woman with a good body and lots of sexual potential should be shared! Sharing is caring :-)

My fantasy is to see my wife sucking a nice hard dick, then sticking it in my mouth and slowly jacking him off. Next he sticks that hard wet cock in her pussy and as he pumps her I am there licking her clit and his cock. Next I want her to pull him out and he stick that meat stick in my ass and I look at her as she is watching me get pounded. Finally I want her to jack him off into my mouth and load me up with hot sticky jizz!!! Thats my fantasy!

I am wondering if anybody else does this, or heard about it or fantasize about this. One of the things we do at home is that my husband likes for me to give oral sex to his friends when they visit, not every friend but I do this for about 30 of his friends, I don't see them all of them all the time, many of them I see once, maybe twice a month or not for months when im in Albany, we spend a lot of time in west palm beach where he has about 10 friends who I do this for, also don't see all of them all the time. My husband wants to keep me safe so this something I do only for his friends that we feel comfortable to keep it safe and discrete, I let him deal with that, who he tells me to do it, I will do it, no questions asked. Im a sub and I love it! I do this when my husband is around, but since im home during the days because of the work I do, and my husband is out during the days his friends text my husband and he usually text me to give them oral when they come by the house. I am nude when they come by the house, but all their friends have to respect my husbands limits and know that I will only do blowjobs for them. If they dont respect, then I no longer do oral for them. Simple. My husband is also very firm that he doesnt want them taking their clothes off around me. We have been married for over 20 years and dated for a couple years before that, I did this for my exhusband and its how I meet my current husband who was friends with my exhusband. By the way, my exhusband left me, not the other way around. When in in Albany, it is not uncomon for 2 or 3 of his friends to drop by during the daytime on weekdays, for most of them their wife's don't know but im dont feel im doing anything wrong since im only doing blowjobs, so I guess their work hours is the easiest time for them to drop by, but sometimes its more, 4-5, or around the holidays sometimes 10-15 in a single day, I do swallow every time. I am in West Palm Beach now, going back to Albany on Monday, today 1 friend showed up around 11 AM, yesterday one showed up around 9 AM and the other one around 2, on Sunday one friend showed up at 10 AM, someone else at 4 PM and the same guy who came first thing in the morning came again at 7:00 PM. I was on vacation for a week before Saturday, but they do keep me busy. I enjoy it, I enjoy the attention it gets me, they enjoy it, and im sure their wifes are happy since their husbands arent asking for them to do it. I know im not the only one who does this, is there any wifes who do this for your husbands friends, or any husbands who ask their wifes to do it for their friends.

we started the same way (MFM) and have enjoyed that many times. She would love to be the subject of several guys but so far I haven't found: 1: a small group of guys that I think deserve her talents (as in 3-5 guys) 2: a small group of guys that are "up to it".. the whole homophobic thing 3: had the willingness to "open up" to some guys and be subject to her or I being "judged" as weak or a slut.. It'll happen withing 2013, but it's a matter, to me, of finding a few of her fave MFM playmates and see if they are onboard with being part of a bit larger group than MFM

I love to watch my wife with other men...being able to watch the expressions and movements that you don't notice while your with her is unbelievable. But then again, I may be biased, as I love sloppy seconds. We're so into her having other guys that we are working on a POKEher game of 5 guys. Them playing poker while she is under the table trying to distract the players and to try to keep their poker faces. After that, it will hopefully be a free for all. We'll wait and see how it turns out. Rick "Not the Better Half" of CoyoteCouple