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Both Anon and Gold have given you great advice. I'd heed them, if I were you. I'd add two things: 1) Don't pressure her. Don't make a point to pester her every day, or every time you make love with her. Give her time to digest this new situation. Pressuring her is more likely than not to turn her off. 2) Understand that the process of her accepting this new dynamic is going to take some time. For my wife and I, it was over a year from the first time we discussed opening up our marriage until the moment I heard her whines as she was with another man. This will be particularly true if you have children in the house. Be patient, let her make up her own mind, decide her destiny. Even if she says, "I don't think so," now, in months or years she may have a different opinion. Good luck!

She didn't say NO! but she hasn't said yes either. First, you two need to talk about this outside of a sexual situation. She needs to KNOW that you are serious and there will be no repercussions for her, then you need to start talking. If she doesn't seem interested at this point, drop it and see if she brings it back up again later.

Yes it definitely sounds like she is interested. Doesn't mean she is willing to take the plunge yet but definitely seems interested if she keeps bringing it up like that. I find that some women don't want to come out and directly admit that they want a MFM because they might be thought of as slutty or it has some kind of a stigma attached to it, I think you need to keep the conversation going and let her know that you're perfectly fine with it and make her comfortable that you won't see or think any differently of her but rather find it sexy.

Yes it will radically alter some peoples response. At this point that is probably to your benefit. It probably would not be a good thing for you to be pressured. My suggestion would be , just be who you are. You may circle ever closer to the event horizon, or not. Either way you are doing what you like and remain in control. There are billions of people. You will not run out of prospects. There are those who find that just being around those for whom sex is not a forbidden or scandalous topic is refreshing. Someone has a tag line here that goes to the fact that once you needn't lie about sex you needn't lie about anything. That is so true. We realized a long time ago that the only reason that we knew some of our closest friends even had sex was the fact they had children. We began to wonder why that wall was up. My wife and I enjoy talking with people who are making up their minds how and/or if they will take the plunge. Sometimes it leads to play sometimes not. If it does lead to play sometimes it is with us. In any case we have had the pleasure or helping them figure it out.

I did with my ex wife's sister while we were married. I was keeping an eye on my sister's place while she was on vacation to feed her dogs and clean her pool. My ex, her sister and I went to check on the dogs and cleaned the pool and we decided to go for a swim. It didn't take long before we were all nude and started to play. My ex and I started fucking and her sister watched as I pounded her pussy. After I came, my ex came to me and started stroking my cock and asked her sister if she liked what she saw and if she wanted to be fucked by me. I swam over to her and started playing with her pussy and she started squeezing my balls and jerking my cock. She was so tight that I had a hard time getting in, and it wasn't long before I came inside her. It was the only time that I had sex with her but it was so fine.

Is it possible to be in the LS without swapping? Sure, but it shouldn't be a surprise that it isn't what most other couples are seeking While we value friendship we've got an extremely busy social vanilla life and want sex to at least be a possibility of our LS relationships. It doesn't have to go there everything or even most times, but we want it to be a possibility. Speaking candidly, we want couples that are on the same page with each other that have an idea of what they want. "not sure" for us translates to "not a match".

Don't say anything about swinging or MFM, take her doggy style in front of the mirror again and watch her actions. I would be interested how she would react again.

I think that many are looking for a swap and if it isn't going to happen they just move on. It's like fishing at a lake, if the fish aren't biting in a cove, move to the dam and try your luck.

When we first went to Desire, people would ask us if we were in the lifestyle. We would hem and haw. We wanted to try it, but at that point, we had not. The couples asking us would take off like a shot. I think parallel play is sexy, but it is not what most people are looking for. But if you feel that is your limit, stick with it. You be you. My wife often says she wishes we stopped at dinner.

I’ve told her about the invite over, which I mentioned and her face seemed to light up I asked her if that meant she wanted something to happen between them.. to which she replied it would be a fun night with the 3 of us

I guess we are the odd ones. We only look at the pictures when we have already decided to meet up. For us the profile is the standard. Sapiosexual is the term that I think Fundamemtallaw once applied to were we are coming from. Once we are interested we open a few pics just so the other folks can pic us out of a crowd. Before we meet we do look at theirs for the same purpose. The meeting then decides if there is a future in it. A good deal of the time it is only a pleasant meal, which we do not consider a waste of our time or money. We think of it as networking.

Talk with your wife first, but I would say sure, that's what friends are for. It's good to have someone who you can trust. He'll become an even better friend.

One thing I like about this forum is that people talk about what happens between guys sometimes. I used to worry about it, but now it's not a problem. So I want to ask what you have done with another guy beyond just accidental touching? Sex with a woman is still what I want, but sometimes now I will do these things too if a guy wants while we are having fun with the girls.

Honestly it sounds like you are more suited to mfm than swapping and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! My first choice is always her with other people over me with other people, because I love watching her in action. As far as the dick size conversation it makes no difference at all to her what the size of a guys dick is! For her what is important is his looks, body type and personality. If he has those things going on and is a good lover she will cum non stop like she always does. Hell she cums just as much when she is getting her bi on with other women. I am on the larger side of things, but have never thought that it makes me something special and I have never used my size as a selling point to others, because I think it is ridiculous. I won’t throw out the inches, but if anyone wants to think I am making shit up they are welcome to look at some of our older galleries on this site. She likes it, but that is, because she likes the person it is attached to. It isn’t why she is with me. I already bottom out in her so bigger is not something that interests her. I do understand however why guys would enjoy seeing their wife handle a bigger cock. It is a visual thing.

Great story. I always find it amazing how everyone on these boards is above average. Every study ever done concluded the average erect penis is between 5-5.5 inches, with a standard deviation between .5 and .75 inches. Yet every man who writes about his states it is 7 inches. Without exception. The OP states his is 7 and his girlfriend's best friend is "9 or 10". Stunning. So the OP is three standard deviations beyond the average and this other guy is over 5 standard deviations from the average. The OP is nearly in the 0.3% of the population (3 standard deviations from the mean) and this other guy is basically in the nearly incalculable group. As for the orgasm during intercourse...my experience has been that women tend to orgasm when the man hits the g-spot, which can be done via modified missionary. The thickness isn't the issue, it is where the man is hitting inside the woman.

The first time we tried this, she was between the other husband's legs giving head and managed to spill quite a bit. Not so much gagging as it was she just didn't swallow fast enough. She told me later that it was just that she'd been so used to the way I cum, thicker and stickier, that him being more watery caught her by surprise. Was very hot to see and to talk about.

I've only had a handful of threesomes with my bf so far that have involved another guy. I've started swallowing the other guys come recently. I dont swallow my bfs because of the taste. No offence to him but he tastes disgusting. The swing partner on the other hand tastes pretty good and i actually enjoy swallowing his come. I feel bad sometimes because i feel i hurt my bf because i swallow for this other guy.

I would sooner have sex with my wife's vacuum cleaner than with her sister.

In California, we swung with my wife's sister and her husband quite a bit. That relationship was established with wife and her ex, and in fact pre-dated any of their marriages. Whereas wife's ex had had some problems with both SIL and BIL, with us, it was really good relations all the way around. This, by the way, was the couple with whom I had my first experience ever swinging. It really is nice when you can get into with a couple like my in-laws. They're really great. And for sisters, they get along delightfully well. Mother in law and father in law were long time swingers too.

Husband of the pair here - When I was 17, I had very unexpected sex with my girlfriend's mom. Not very proud of it, I was pretty helpless to her seduction and it was pretty amazing to a young guy only a year or so into sex. Downside to the story? I found out a little later that it was revenge sex after finding out my girlfriend had given a blowjob to her mom's boyfriend. Talk about messed up! I got out of the situation very quickly.

Why did I get hard reading that one?

Dawn's sister lived with us for a while before we married, and she used to watch us have sex fairly often (we hardly ever closed the bedroom door ). Her sister gave me head a couple of times (at Dawn's urging) while I fingered her. We showered together probably 15-20 times, although nothing happened. We were usually in a hurry to go somewhere and only showered together so we wouldn't run out of hot water. I never got to go down on her and we never had intercourse. I did kiss her by mistake once. When Dawn and I first started dating, I went to pick her up and her sister answered the door. It was dark, and I thought it was Dawn (at the time, they looked almost like twins), and just stepped in and kissed her, and she sure as hell kissed back. I thought something was amiss because her tongue felt like a cat's tongue (no, I haven't been kissing cats ). When I stepped back and saw it was her, I said, "I'm sorry." She said, "I'm not." What can I say, Dawn comes from a strange family.