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3 pointsMy wife and my favotrite swinger gf enjoy dressing up in sexy crotchless body stockings. It's definitely errotic
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3 pointsThanks for all the advice and nice thoughts that registered with us when we met our new besties. I never thought my husband would love me less if we joined a swinging site, I thought it meant he loved me more and I loved him more than ever. Everyone says that looks don’t count, it did and does for us. When looking I looked for what I called hot looking wives before looking at hot husbands. My husband said about a choice I found that the husband is not good enough, all based on looks. We agreed we wanted to meet the best out there. Unlike many men on here my husband is not showing me off or even has the big desire to watch me. I’ll take that back, he watched the first part of the night. All done in fun I stopped things just as they got sexually started with two horny husbands watching two wild women. I wanted to watch me too. We all agreed to chronicle as one poster suggested by letting the men use their phones to record the fun of those wild women. I wish they recorded the very first laugh we had. I say I was seduced by the best seducer we could have found. It is said every woman remembers her first, this first is much more memorable for me. I watched the video, I will say it was more fun when it happened. Watching yourself is like listening to yourself, hard to believe it’s you. The proof things went well is that the day after, today the funny texts went on all day between me and my “bi lover” lol. She asked if I am still looking for others, she volunteered to search together then added only if we can all meet.
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2 pointsEnjoy what you have, no reason to rush to find others. As exciting as new partners are you have plenty of time to explore. We are now enjoying a small group that truly enjoys being together.
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2 pointsWe all enjoyed our evening
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2 pointsA couple of years back I reported very few encounters. We've been swinging for almost 6 years so we've added a few to the list. I now have seven girls on my list. I just added anew girl last Friday and I'm looking forward to more sex with her. The most satisfying swinging sex I have had was on a Hall Pass, 4 times with the same girl. My low number of partners is possibly due to having played with one girls over 50 times. My wife has played over 50 times with the same guy and can count about five in total.
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2 pointsNot sure, but at-least in triple digits, counting BJs it might also go into four digits 😅 /jk.
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2 pointsI didn't lose count after 30.......It's been 45.....So far
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2 pointsAs a swinging couple for almost 6 years we have had sex (defined as mutual masterbation, oral, anal, and/or intercourse) with 8 single men, 19 couples, 3 single women, and one tranny. We have a date tonight so hopefully the numbers will be different tomorrow.
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1 pointI love blowjobs! Ive always liked giving them. Do you like blowjobs? Giving? Getting? I'm always a little surprised when I run acroos a guy who says he can take them leave them.
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1 pointHey guys! My wife Sarah and I are brand new to swinging. We've been married for 11 years and have fantasized but are starting to have some real conversation about making it real. We are 36 and 32 and have kids. It's worth noting that it was originally my wife's idea but we're both trying to figure out if swinging is something we'd like to try. With all of that, we're hoping to find a mentor or mentors. Not necessarily to play with but just so we can ask questions and learn. It would be great to have someone that we can talk to as we explore. We're open to any advice but it would be nice to find someone with similar LS preferences or experiences. So far we're focusing on adding another guy to playtime. We're hoping to find others that we can have a friendship with as well as playing. We arent sure how we feel about single men but we realize that could make it more difficult to find. In an ideal world we'd find a couple that is ok with the husband playing separately. For right now we aren't looking for complete couple swaps but maybe in the future depending on how things go. We are also only looking to play together (my wife and I ) and arent interested in either of us going off on our own. Any guidance, experience, or friends would be awesome. Thanks guys!
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1 pointThese words of yours struck me. Whether it was watching my wife in the throes of passion with another man, or both of us in a foursome swap or orgy, the memories are but a pale comparison of actually being there and watching and performing sexual acts with other happy humans.
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1 pointWe had several mentors right here when we were sorting out what to do. In case you don’t know there is a feature where you can private message a member you find helpful, it helped us and continues to help. Not all advice you will see fits your situation, some to me were childish and somebody else’s fantasy. There is also a search feature that takes time to figure how to get posts you may want to read. Alan and I have been called mentors to some of people we met. We pay it forward. Getting started is tricky so ask away.
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1 pointThere are several of us here who enjoy working the process with newbies. My wife and I have in the past and are currently talking with a couple. In our case we are paying back for help we received. Sometimes , but not always this leads to something physical. For our part that is not the goal. While this can be done in public as is happening here on the list or via email, off list, it eventually gets to the point that face to face is of use. To that point might I ask where you are? It might help in raising up a suitable mentor couple. We are in the 53208 area code. You can feel free to email us through this list or on SLS where we use the same login.
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1 pointPeterJ that's really helpful actually. You're right, that's one of the main reasons that we're looking for someone that's part of a couple. To your point, confirmed to be, we're not trying to help anyone be unfaithful. It's good to know that kind of thing is actually out there. We actually imagine possibly even having a friendship with both the husband and wife outside of playing. A big uncertainty for me is what it will actually be like the first time seeing my wife with someone else. It's exciting to think about but only with the right person, that has a similar perspective to what you describe. Thanks for the words of wisdom!
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1 pointMy wife Amy came home from work all hot and bothered the other day. That new girl who recently moved here from out-of-state, Claire, just told me that she and her husband were invited to Ken and Lesley's house for drinks and snacks. Amy couldn't understand why we were not invited. I asked Amy not to be jealous and told her that we all had our own swinger friends. Then, a few days later, she told me that Claire had told her about their evening with Lesley and Ken. Claire said they had only ever gone to kissing and cuddling parties where they previously had lived. Lesley explained about having fun swinging. Pete, Claire's husband, had sex with Lesley but it was the wrong time of the month for Claire so she and Ken sat it out. Pete, Claire's husband, said he had enjoyed his first experience of swinging last week. He wanted Claire to catch up with him. On Friday evening we all met at Ken and Lesley's house. After introductions of Claire and Pete to me, Lesley began by saying that Claire wanted to try swinging. Lesley said there were options. The girls could swap with all the guys. Each of the guys got their SO warmed up and we began changing partners. Amy said that she would like to finish with Ken in a separate room. Claire said that she liked that idea, Claire and I finished up together in a bedroom. When she took off her blouse I saw she had a patch on her arm. "Is that up to date?" I asked her and she said, "definitely." My next question was, "So are we protected or unprotected?" and she said, "I like the feel of warm flesh inside me." Claire has a beautiful body but very small boobs. We soon started having sex and she started to chuckle and said, "If you cum on my tittles, perhaps it will help them grow." We continued for a while and as she had an orgasm she cried, "Please finish inside me!" On our way home Amy and I discussed our experiences and we both agreed that Claire was a super person.
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1 pointHi, any guys out there want to cum on my wife’s sexy pics, and take photo or video of it. It turns my wife on massively, me as well message me
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1 pointI think it's completely normal and the other couple probably feels the exact same way. Sometimes it helps to agree there will be no sex on the first meet (subject to change), but like every other daunting task, the jitters usually vanish once the meet happens. Take a few deep breaths and go in. Remember life's biggest regrets are usually the things you didn't do.
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1 pointHey I love to cum on yr wife pics , message me
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1 pointI’ve had sex with five different men in my life, three currently, but I’ve had those three men ejaculate bareback in me this week, and I’ve licked and been licked by two different women to orgasm as well. There are people here who are only wannabees, and even many “real" swingers only play several times a month. I at least get some sexual variety pretty much daily. Even for things outside my experience I do have an opinion. If you don't like it, don't read it.
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1 pointI have had sex with 12 different people. My wife on the other hand though the last time we tried to figure out how many guys she has had vaginal or anal sex with is well over 200. We aren’t aware of a exact number because in college and the first couple years after and before we were married she was known for getting drunk and fucking whatever guy was at the bar that night and obviously she can’t remember them all. We worked together before we were married, and I would always hear stories about her fucking some guy in the bathroom of the bar from other females she was out with. So if I had to guess I would say it’s prolly over 300.
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1 pointHave to stop and really think about it, but think it's the 10-15 bucket. And probably being bumped into 15-20 by end of year.
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1 pointMy first one was with a prostitute that we picked up in the park and 5 of us team up to take turn on her bareback,creampie her cunt and I was the last to get my first time 2nd sloppy,I was grossed out cause of my buddies sperm smell but felt fantastic once my cock went in that full of cum pussy gave cum instantly.The next was my Ex,we met in high school and due to pregnancy concern she chooses to gave me bareback oral sex for 4 years until she graduated.Lastly my current wife who I still married until now.
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1 pointWe were on a Bliss cruise and Chris had hurt her back on our first play date. I was walking around the open play room (there’s also one limiting admission to couples only). It’s definitely exciting to walk around and getting to watch and listen to all the people having sex. A man approached me snd asked if I’d like to join him and his wife. Of course I said yes ( the wife had given me a hall pass while she was out of commission). As the play room was closing in a few minutes we went to their cabin. We all got naked immediately and I went don on her until she suggested it was my turn . Meanwhile her husband started to finger fuck her while she pleasured my cock. Soon She was ready to fuck and laid back inviting me in. While I fucked her , the husband knelt above her head and fed his cock to her. I’d never been that close to another man’s hard cock but it was hot watching his cock disappear into her mouth while I fucked her. We traded positions several times and she rode us both too. She came several times and had me finish on her breasts while she shielded her face in case I came with enough force to shoot that far. I thanked them for inviting me and for letting me play with them. Everyone had a fantastic day. They ran into my wife later and told her how lucky I was to have a wife who’d let me play alone.
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1 pointOur was totally unplanned. Hubby and I were experimenting with anal play at the time and we were using toys to simulate dp. We talked about how great it would be to have two real penises but it was nothing more than pillow talk for our own titillation. Then one day on holidays we were at a resort in the pool very early in the morning and there was another guy there. He was clearly checking me out and hubby and I played up to that. Then as bold an bold could be he came up to us and said it would be more fun with a third and asked if he could kiss me. We told him to f**k off. But after hubby and I had a chance to talk and he was totally into the idea I swam up to him and planted a big kiss. 20 minutes later we were in his room and didn't leave until very late that night, It was a one time only thing and we didn't have another swinging experience for 12 years which was only a month ago. We're older, more mature, more established and more comfortable in ourselves and our relationship now so that experience a month ago has opened up this whole lifestyle for us now. Don't be shy now, we'd love to hear your story.... or anyone else's for that matter.
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1 pointSince this post has been bumped, there is a need for me to update my number in the last 14 years: it has gone from three to FIVE! The three men that I have going now plus my Lesbian relationships with Clair and Lora are enough.
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1 pointMy wife and I thought it was funny that we had more sexual partners while we were married in our fifties than we did when we were single in our twenties. If you told us that would be the case when we were in our twenties, we would not have understood it.
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1 pointNobody told us there was going to be a test! When we met in 2002, I was way ahead, having been a single young cop in eastern Pa in the late 70's( "Oh what a night" and "love the one you're with" happened a lot then). I was Mrs Doc's 4th. Im not sure that she's caught up yet but when you consider the built in limitations of erections, refraction periods and the number of available penises at swinger clubs and house parties she may well be getting close. We tried one night to put a number to both of us but we kept reminding each other of different events and additional people and finally just gave up. It was an amusing and erotic exercise. Our only conclusion was that we could easily be described as sluts, both of us!
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1 pointI was probably 13-14 when my brother invited me up to stay the weekend with him at the university he attended. He lived in the dorms and had a girlfriend who I knew. After I got there, we hung out a little but I was tired and went to bed. His roommate wasn't there and his girlfriend was staying the night "because it was too cold out." They were sleeping on the floor, and I was in his bed. I think I had barely fallen asleep when a soft moan woke me up. It was pretty dark and I probably rolled over, but I didn't say anything, just listened. After a minute or so, they must have figured I was still asleep and the next thing I remember was that I could smell that they had opened a condom. So, I didn't really walk-in on them having sex, but my brother and his girlfriend had sex on the floor about 5 feet from the bed I was sleeping in.
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1 pointMy young daughter of maybe 3 or 4 I think walked in on her mommy and I once. She later asked her mother, "Why was Daddy squishing you Mommy"?
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1 pointThis past summer my husband and I were in our bedroom with our door locked fooling around while our kids where downstairs watching tv, suddenly the door goes flying open while my husband was on top and our 2 girls asked what were we doing, I have never seen my husband move that fast in his life. The 2 little stinkers managed to find the little metal pin that we use to open the locked doors.
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1 pointI did walk in on my brother and his wife while they were having some fun. Seems like the only one that was embarrassed was my SIL. I still laugh.
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1 pointI have only been with three men my entire life, but with two of them now (my lover for seven years, my husband for 5). Hubby has had seven women, me plus three others since we've been an item.
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1 pointI have had sex with both of my ex's brothers and after we divorced I found out that he had had an affair with my mom while we were living with her after he got out of the military.
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1 pointYes, but not in a swinging manner. When I was younger (like right out of high school) I was at the house of a girl I was dating on and off and she fell asleep. Her older sister (only a couple of years older) came on to me and being the young horny kid I was took advantage of it. Mr. WS
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1 pointI am only in my mid 20's, but I knew how to have a great time before I hit 21!! I have had plenty of experience and enjoyed every minute of it!
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1 pointI'm in my sixties. I've been divorced forever. It has to be well over a hundred.
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1 pointWell since I'm 59yrs and have lived in a number of place thanks to the Navy, my count is (and it the truth) is well over a hundred...
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1 pointMe and the wife got to thinking on this, got to remembering, got distracted and went to bed for awhile Anyways, it's about 25 different men for her, and less than 10 women for me... this is only after we started swinging. We like threesomes a lot, so she gets a lot more new partners than I do... which is fine with me.
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1 pointI don't think few are willing, most have answered by way of the poll - that's what polls are for. It's much easier to give a ballpark (for some) than to give an exact count. Some of us don't keep diaries are put notches in our bedposts after each encounter to ensure an accurate count.
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1 pointIsn't it interesting how few people are willing to say how many people they've had intercourse with in their lifetimes? Both of us were married once previously. I was her 8th sexual partner, and she was my 6th. After nearly 9 years of swinging, she now has had intercourse with 42 men and I have had intercourse with 34 women. So I am averaging about 3 new sex partners per year since we started swinging, and she is averaging about 4 new sex partners per year. I guess we're just sluts, but we sure are HAPPY sluts!
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1 pointOk, I'm not sure where to start here... I've always liked the idea of being with twins but I always kind of wrote it off 'cause what were the chances? Then I met "the boys". These really cute identical twins. Sweet guys, very funny and SOOOOO sexy. Now six years later I'm marrying one of them and we're swinging with his twin and twins girlfriend. Crazy huh? I can hardly believe it myself. I guess I can mark that fantasy off my list. The boys don't do anything with each other (we all agree that's just gross). "Just don't cross the streams" that's what they say . I still think about twin girls but I'm not that lucky -CosmoGirl
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1 pointThree, I've had sex with three guys. Two ex-boyfriends & my fiance. Not very impressive but we just started swinging so we'll see... I guess I'll start keeping track now. I can't wait to up my # and add a girl to my list!!!!!!
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1 pointWhen I first met my first wife in college, we walked down the main drag at Cal State (PA) and had 10 girls all wave to me and say "Hi". She asked who they were and I could not remember any of their names but I do remember I did them all. I was such a slut!!
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1 pointKind of limiting yourself here. If we count the last year alone, we would be off your scale. But, then again, we are swingers who go to parties to have sex, not just to sit around and talk about it. That is what this is about, correct?
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1 pointActually, I guess I shouldn't be tooo concerned about having more than a fair share of partners. I've been sexually active since I was 14. I'm 37 now. That's 23 years of sex. If you break it down, that's about 1.3 different people per year. Unless you count last year...then it throws all of the figures off. Hubby says I have to get off the computer now because it's apparent that I've got way too much time on my hands today. LOL He says he has something to take care of my boredom.
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1 point20+men...intercourse and then some.... 10+women...use your imagination.
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1 pointOk, I might sound a little dumb here, but you said intercourse. BUt are we talking about just male/female sex? Or are you including male/male or female/female?
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1 pointYou mean I was supposed to count?????
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0 pointsI put 20-25 ... though I don't know if that's accurate. Hubby was my #8 as I was married before, though first husband and I did not swing and we were married for 10 years. I was somewhat active prior to my first marriage. Last I counted, I was up to around 19 ... that includes swing partners, husbands and "others". If I had to include the two date rapes, that would add two more, but I generally don't include them. :rollseyes
