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I am near 63 and I and another couple, who was both a year younger, did a DP. The female had only anal one time and didn't care for it, but wanted to try DP as a bucket list thing. The 3 of us talked about it while we were nude around their swimming pool. So we got the lube and her husband laid on a pool lounge chair and she rode him cow girl.I got in behind her with plenty of lube and it happened a lot easier than I expected. She came very quickly and her husband came next with me shortly afterwards. Now about the age, I do take viagra and don't know if her husband did, but what amazed me was the ease to enter her anally. I have had anal sex with various women of age, but in my opinion, the older the woman, the easier it is to have anal sex. And as far as athleticism, it's just knowing that the bottom man has to put his legs together while inside her pussy so the guy that enters her anus can have easier access. To me, I think DP is easier from 50's older simple because more relaxed.

Yeah, I mean I don't necessarly have a problem with the group part, it is more that I felt like I spent a lot of time of our group date on waiting. I think the reason why we got into that situation was because he and one of the girls had started making out a lot, and then the girl suddenly got down on all fours on his bed and he started examining her and got ready to penetrate her from behind. I guess the rest of us just fell in line at that point, and the moment when he got up to me, I did feel like all the waiting had been worth it. I will admit though that I felt a bit unnoticed a lot of the time; it was only really the moment when he penetrated me and started with me that I felt like I was doing something with him. But I guess I will try to be a bit more forward with him next time. I have heard from someone who knows him that he is apparently very used to going home with several girls at once like this, and that he pretty much gets drawn into it, since girls always flirt with him so much. He did turn out to be extremely good at sex, so I guess he has got a lot of "practice".

Hello everyone, I am 21 years old, and I have been studying a bit at a summer school these last few weeks, and one guy in my class is this super-hot guy who all girls are crazy about, and he is basically put on a pedestal. I ended up following him and 3 other girls out on a weekend party two weeks ago, and we followed him home that same evening. And after probably just a few minutes, I saw the other girls starting to get naked and line up for him on his bed, and I was a bit unprepared for that, but I guess I sort of fell for the group pressure, and decided to go with it. The next several minutes were essentially him just having his way with different girls from behind (including me), and I did think that this was hot, but I also felt like I was just one in the bunch for him. It was also a bit frustrating to spend a lot of time waiting (it had kind of become that moment when he was the one switching around), especially when I saw him go at some other girl, and I would just be like "come to me instead ffs". xP I feel tempted to try to get him on a one-on-one date, but I am not sure if he is that type.

This Forum, posting and now more open talking has opened up a new future of friendship, enjoyment and new look at sex. Even with having sex at a younger age I didn’t talk about sex with anyone. I had ideas what others did, learned sex through my own experiences only slightly talking to friends about sex in a non-specific way. We all had sex and joked about the boys we had as boyfriends. I new when sex was just sex, when sex was good and when sex was great. I never discussed masturbation with friends even when guys freely spoke about jerking off. Now I have friends on here and a new friend that have opened my mind to enjoy and discuss sex to find the best ways to enjoy. I’m not embarrassed to speak freely how to have the most pleasure I can. I am lucky that my husband and I see our future sex life the same way talking more about what we like doing. There was a post on toys for the bedroom that interested both of us that led us to a toy that made me feel something that I’m now using everyday. I had toys before, I used alone and with others, basic vibrators in different shapes, sizes and for some reason in colors. The Magic Wand we just got is very intense and we are having mutual fun with it. We then got a Womanizer, different kind of feeling, it uses air it says and it’s for me, fits over my clitoris and works so quick and intense. I soon realized I need a towel close when I use it. Now I know more about squirting something that may have happened before to me nothing like this. I’m going to do a review on their site. Our original post on here gave us nerve to meet another couple with what we thought would just be sex then ended up we made friends who ended up as puzzled as we were. Two silly women and two horny men not sure what sex with others would do to our own relationships. Again we talked cautiously at first afraid to open feelings and wants. I don’t think I could just have sex with strangers I needed to know them first. Just writing this makes me a hypocrite, I had sex guys on first dates and now I waited for a third date with another married person. Thank you to everyone who responded to our post and to the messages we received privately giving us advice and encouragement.

Exploring, I (and I think I can say 'we') are so glad we've been able to help you out, to assist you and your husband as you travel this road, finding out what you like and what is right for you. I don't believe that you are a 'hypocrite', you simply were lost in the mindset you came into this with - and we've all done this - and then by experimentation and reflection you've opened a world divergent from what you had been seeing. I (we) wish you so much luck and good times in the future. I hope as you mature in the LifeStyle you'll check back here and give others advice that you've gathered from your experimentation ,

njbm, your comment makes perfect sense and that’s my assumption that if we do a DP that’s how my friends and I will proceed. Because I’ve had nerve injuries to both arms that makes it challenging (or impossible) to support the mass of my upper body, I will almost certainly need to be on the bottom rather than the top. (I think it might work if the other guy were on the bottom and in her pussy but they were positioned such that his butt was on the very end of the bed. Assuming their legs were spread and the height of the bed was appropriate I could enter her anally from a standing position. Not sure if the three of us would be able to get a rhythm going in that configuration, but all we can do is try.)

Not from personal experience, but rather just thinking it through, if a male is older or heavier, that man can lay on his back and the woman can get on top of him and that man enters her vagina. The other man can enter the woman anally from behind her. Hope that makes sense.

Many years ago, during a Thunder Beach bike rally in Panama City, FL, we ended up in a hotel room with 2 other couples. One of the other women had a cordless wand from Brookstone. Ms Dive fell in love with it. After returning home, one of first trips was to the Brookstone store to purchase one. Alas....Ms Dive is one of those people who can't remember to charge anything til it goes dead. Eventually it was replaced with a corded Magic Wand.

I agree that it's not really a swinger topic, but she is asking for advice and I see no harm in giving it, especially since we're all experienced in relationships. Jessica, I think this is a classic case of looking for what you want in all the wrong places. I agree with GoldCoCouple; he isn't going to suddenly drop getting to have sex with lots of women at once to have solo sex with you. Possible? Yes. Likely? Very much no, especially given his (approximate) age. In today's dating scene a woman like you can likely have the pick of anyone you want. You can find what you want, and don't have to think about sharing your guy with someone else. I mean, sharing is FUN, don't get me wrong... but it sounds to me like you really want the 1 on 1 attention (which is great!). I'm glad the sex with him was great!

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Compliment him and ask him. Don't be shy, be yourself and you'll stand out among the others. All he can say is No, and that would be his loss not knowing what you can give him. Then you can decide whether he's worth another date. Please let us know how it goes.

Rita has noticed more and more latley(who knows how long it’s been going on) blacks flirting more and more direct. It’s been turning her on. Watching IR porn. She has never had it in the past. Roaring to go. House party is this weekend so she is very eager

Ah, now I have to add that to my list.

1. Toys are likely not returnable if used. If there is a mechanical problem on receipt, of course. 2. It's not just the strength of the vibrations, it's how you best position the head. Curvatures of the two heads is not the same. The smaller head and thus the tighter curvature makes it more natural to slide between Mrs. FL's labia at the top of the introitus against the exposed clitoris. Typically we'll start with some foreplay, I'll spend some time on cunnilingus (+/- 69), then she'll start with the Mini and enjoy three or four really strong orgasms, with my fingers or tongue assisting, and then we'll get on to the main event. Two tips: 1. Lay in a supply of your favorite lube. Your consumption will go up. If you don't currently use a particular lube, happy to offer advice, but know that you will need lube 2. Between natural secretions and lube, things get ...messy...fairly quickly. We keep a bunch of Liberator throws around the house--we use them for sit-ons when nude and for play--and they are really useful ensuring that no one is resting or sleeping in a wet spot. See https://www.liberatorstore.com/fascinator-throw.html . We were the couple that talked them into making the "mini" size, which we find is perfect for a lot of our needs. 3. There are a lot of eStim products out there. See the Aneros line for anorectal/prostate stimulators. It's a reliable line. We do not use them, but know couples that do. 4. Re: "Seniors going at it". Seniorhood is a great time of life. First, seniors are generally happier and more content than middle aged folks. Second, seniors often have more time to themselves. Third, seniors are a lot less concerned with body image. Fourth, seniors long in the LS have generally gotten past the health traps and the relationship traps. Sex is seen as fun, healthy, exercise, antidepressant, socially connecting. And, as you point out, the world view has changed. It's no longer "Ewww, old people kissing (or fucking). " Rather, it's "We want to be that couple, tell us how to get there!".

There is a reason that most who have discovered they CAN do it end up coming back for more. It's more of an occasional treat for us, in large part because any anal penetration is a closer for the night, but if you can find a good rhythm it is very intense for all parties. We tend to find DVP more enjoyable though and run with that whenever the opportunity presents.

At a house party some years ago, I had one arm around Ms Dive and one arm around the hostess' maid. I informed said ladies that I needed to pee and asked if one of the would like to hold it for me. Ms Dive replied "Why not both of us?" So off to the bathroom we go. I still had to tell them to point it down further or I would be peeing on the wall. Fun times....

I've never encountered a UPS guy that I didn't want to ravish. Even the 20 somethings... Damn, they sure are sexy as hell and I love the summer deliveries. Ahhh, those calves look so delicious in those brown shorts, all the way up to, to...to....excuse me please....