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There are vanilla friends that will always be vanilla friends that we enjoy being with in a very vanilla world. We have great friends that we have no desire to be sexual with while we enjoy all the other aspects of the friendships.

The Womanizer is perfect alone toy in a warm bath, music, candles with a glass of wine. I’m enjoying learning how to adjust the intensity to prolong the fun. Mr EO loves that I can use it with him as well orgasming in less than a minute in a way he is enjoying. Now I want to get the Womanizer Duo.

Based on the NYT piece and some of the comments--public and private -- here, Mrs FL is the owner of a new Womanizer Classic 2. I have a trip away coming up in the near future, and that will be Mrs FL's time to see how she likes it. She likes to try toys out in private first to see what she likes about them and what works best for her. Not all make the grade (what does one do with toys that do not quite do what someone wants? Is there an orphan toy graveyard somewhere? ) Review will follow in due course.

There is so much truth and depth in this statement. Each of us has exactly one life to live, an instant in geologic time on this pale blue dot adrift in otherwise (to our knowledge) lifeless space. The core question becomes, "how will we choose to live this life--our lives?" We think that joyful (personal experiences) and joyous ( events, things, times, places) are important. We think not only is the LS compatible with a moral, responsible, and honorable life well lived, we think the honesty, respect, and freedom of the LS might actually be a better foundation for such a life.

You don’t have to be a swinger to enjoy toys. Most if not all the women I know have at least one with most having several and most have no connection to swinging. Way before joining the lifestyle or having any thought of doing so and as far as I know none of our friends were involved in it we never talked about our private sex except as a punchline to a joke. Then one of our friends invited the women to a party of notions, lotions, potions, sexy lingerie and Sex Toys. The party started with an attractive party leader breaking the ice with talk of sexy creams, then warming lotions which we all passed around. We tasted lubes in all flavors which were also passed around. Some of the girls were quiet, some were having a great time. Then came the toys, different shapes, sizes, some very realistic and many had vibrations or other moving parts. It was amazing how even the quiet friends started talking and laughing. She finished by showing some lingerie. The real fun was the purchases.

Of course there are some down sides to being in this life: Having vanilla friends come over and not being able to openly talk about the sex we've been having Having vanilla friends come over and not being able to just get naked while we talk Now that I think about it, having vanilla friends come over... It's just much more fun to be able to talk openly and freely about anything and everything, sometimes dressed sometimes not, sometimes while playing, sometimes not. Kind of makes us think that THIS is how life and relationships for everyone should be (just most are not prepared to be able to handle it). It almost makes us sad that everyone can't experience the sense of freedom that comes with swinging. The absolute worst part is that we can't just tell our vanilla friends about the great sex we have been having just because people are not allowed to talk openly about sex...which is one of the best reasons for being alive!

My vote is for Womanizer Pro my new best friend when alone or with my bestie husband. I can’t wait to share it with our friends when we see them. I wish it had a cordless recharge capability like our phones. It does have one benefit over my phone, it’s waterproof which I think my iPhone is even if I don’t want to risk drowning my phone.