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Hello, We have been to Cap d'Adge and we like That the beach is 100% nude mandatory while the town is clothing optional (30% nude, 70% with a small pareo covering with Women 100% topless) 95%+ Couples in the high season. (single guys seem to me a small tiny minority). There are hotels 100% couples like Jardin de Babylone Several lifestyle clubs/discos, pool parties and restaurants geared towards couples. Parties start at 12 in the afternoon and end at 2 in the morning. During the day you can go to restaurants and even the supermarket totally naked. At night Women dress in the most beautiful sexy outfits that you can imagine, while men are relatively formal. The place is well policed (municipal police + private security), and everyone respects each other. Sex happens in the clubs or in one specific area of the beach which leaves space to rest (although people also have sex in their balconies or leave their blinds open and you can see sometimes multiple action in the apartments) It is very women/couple friendly, certainly there is always an initial shock for a first visit, but most people let go after a couple of days What could be improved: Accommodation is mostly very expensive self-service apartments and surely for Americans it will look very low value for money. now to Desire and Hedo, we have never been there and we have questions: In Hedo o Desire is Nude around the Pool, and beach mandatory or is it clothing optional? (for us, Europeans, topless belongs to the prude/textile beach). We look for places where is mandatory to be 100% nude for men and women. Do Desire and Hedo take single men (for us is a no go if single men are allowed to stay beyond a really tiny fraction) Whats the best time to come to Hedo or Desire (in Cap is it 7 of July until 20 of August) How many playrooms/discos are there? Are those couples only? We do not want single guys. Any experience from people who have been in all 3 places welcome. Thanks

What brought out my Lesbian side and established my bisexuality was the jealousy I had watching my husband fuck another woman. (I had chosen her, so she was already attractive to me.) I just had to reclaim my husband afterwards by licking his semen out of her vagina and sucking his sloppy dick. I loved every aspect of it and my favorite arrangement is FFM.

My wife doesn't flash strangers and we don't post nudes on line, but something Daniela told me about while she was in college still sticks in my mind. Before we met, my wife went to strip club amateur nights with some girlfriends and danced. She said it satisfied her exhibitionist desires at the time. What I remember from what she's told me is that they all became totally naked, but my wife did the reverse of what the other girls (and they were "girls" at the time) did. The others danced topless for a while then took off their panties and flashed pussy at the end. My wife became bottomless early on and spread her lips and ass while dancing. She only removed her top and flashed her tits at the end. I wish I were there.

True, and perhaps she is OK with that. We in the lifestyle are all fine with non monogamy. And she may not be a one man woman. This could be a match made in heaven.

The best part of the blowjob is sharing a cumkiss especially if it is to finish him at the end of sex. We share our mixed cum and always keeps us going longer

I love blowjobs! Ive always liked giving them. Do you like blowjobs? Giving? Getting? I'm always a little surprised when I run acroos a guy who says he can take them leave them.

Thanks, Just to warn you that Cap accommodation will look like Alcatraz but if you can support this you will have a lot of fun, Visit Glamour Beach foam parties (100% nude and couples only), rent a bed (around 50 Euros for the classic or 240 Euro for the VIP with Champagne next to Jacuzzi) and have fun in the bed, in the jacuzzi or in the foam. There is no limit.

People change, personal tastes change over time. Neither is wrong.

This Forum, posting and now more open talking has opened up a new future of friendship, enjoyment and new look at sex. Even with having sex at a younger age I didn’t talk about sex with anyone. I had ideas what others did, learned sex through my own experiences only slightly talking to friends about sex in a non-specific way. We all had sex and joked about the boys we had as boyfriends. I new when sex was just sex, when sex was good and when sex was great. I never discussed masturbation with friends even when guys freely spoke about jerking off. Now I have friends on here and a new friend that have opened my mind to enjoy and discuss sex to find the best ways to enjoy. I’m not embarrassed to speak freely how to have the most pleasure I can. I am lucky that my husband and I see our future sex life the same way talking more about what we like doing. There was a post on toys for the bedroom that interested both of us that led us to a toy that made me feel something that I’m now using everyday. I had toys before, I used alone and with others, basic vibrators in different shapes, sizes and for some reason in colors. The Magic Wand we just got is very intense and we are having mutual fun with it. We then got a Womanizer, different kind of feeling, it uses air it says and it’s for me, fits over my clitoris and works so quick and intense. I soon realized I need a towel close when I use it. Now I know more about squirting something that may have happened before to me nothing like this. I’m going to do a review on their site. Our original post on here gave us nerve to meet another couple with what we thought would just be sex then ended up we made friends who ended up as puzzled as we were. Two silly women and two horny men not sure what sex with others would do to our own relationships. Again we talked cautiously at first afraid to open feelings and wants. I don’t think I could just have sex with strangers I needed to know them first. Just writing this makes me a hypocrite, I had sex guys on first dates and now I waited for a third date with another married person. Thank you to everyone who responded to our post and to the messages we received privately giving us advice and encouragement.

My wife has a small, battery powered vibrator of a brand unknown to me, which she takes with her when traveling alone. She also uses it on occasion when we are away from our lifestyle group. She never uses it when men in our lifestyle group are available. In contrast, the only time I masturbate is when I am out of town totally alone without wife or female lifestyle partners. My conclusion: between the two of us, my wife and I, she can give me all of the sex that I can handle, while I am not enough for her. That was my suspicion early on and my primary motivator for suggesting in the beginning that she, alone, start in the lifestyle. Daniela is also proficient at hand masturbation, but prefers her vibrator.

So SIZE DOES matter! 😅 We have had DVP with dildos and human flesh. Really fun, she exploded. In a GOOD way. I was also concerned about stretching her, would she be able to take it etc, but it all works well. Remember, much larger 'things' can pass through and since two cocks are probably way smaller than a child... I do recommend it. Take it slow, let her lead, and help her relax.

I am near 63 and I and another couple, who was both a year younger, did a DP. The female had only anal one time and didn't care for it, but wanted to try DP as a bucket list thing. The 3 of us talked about it while we were nude around their swimming pool. So we got the lube and her husband laid on a pool lounge chair and she rode him cow girl.I got in behind her with plenty of lube and it happened a lot easier than I expected. She came very quickly and her husband came next with me shortly afterwards. Now about the age, I do take viagra and don't know if her husband did, but what amazed me was the ease to enter her anally. I have had anal sex with various women of age, but in my opinion, the older the woman, the easier it is to have anal sex. And as far as athleticism, it's just knowing that the bottom man has to put his legs together while inside her pussy so the guy that enters her anus can have easier access. To me, I think DP is easier from 50's older simple because more relaxed.

Yeah, I mean I don't necessarly have a problem with the group part, it is more that I felt like I spent a lot of time of our group date on waiting. I think the reason why we got into that situation was because he and one of the girls had started making out a lot, and then the girl suddenly got down on all fours on his bed and he started examining her and got ready to penetrate her from behind. I guess the rest of us just fell in line at that point, and the moment when he got up to me, I did feel like all the waiting had been worth it. I will admit though that I felt a bit unnoticed a lot of the time; it was only really the moment when he penetrated me and started with me that I felt like I was doing something with him. But I guess I will try to be a bit more forward with him next time. I have heard from someone who knows him that he is apparently very used to going home with several girls at once like this, and that he pretty much gets drawn into it, since girls always flirt with him so much. He did turn out to be extremely good at sex, so I guess he has got a lot of "practice".

I’ve learned a lot of people overthink, or try to create a perfect experience. The problem is, experience gives you an excellent experience, being a novice cannot. This is why we call them learning experiences. Yet, we really don’t want learning experiences when it comes to sex. We want the imagined thrill. I admit my husband and I had an amazingly great first experience, yet it was NOTHING like we had planned. I actually got the best fucking I had ever had along with my first girl. This is rare. As far as your wife getting her some ‘ girl ‘. Perhaps she could find a nice lesbian or bi gal so she can have her experience, then focus on your joint one. And it my not be a bad idea to hire a sex worker. In that case, she would be there purely for you. Also if an arrangement starts going badly you can always leave. This is a powerful consideration that people forget about. We picked up a couple and once it became apparent things weren’t right, we left. No drama, the guy tried to kiss my husband, without asking, and that ended that. You always have choices and knowing you always have the right to invoke them. I have ‘broken in’ a girl or two. Two were solo experiences and she realized very quickly it wasn’t for her. No crime no foul. The other couldn’t get enough. She went down on me like she had done it all her life. I came like a freight train. With her, we did get together as two couples and still see them, when time allows. So, try to have a good experience, not a perfect one. Yet, do find a way to have it. After all, there’s infinite diversity within infinite combinations. One last thing, while it is no strings attached sex, be careful that string doesn’t become a web. Be seeing you. Katrina

Thank you for the information. This is an unexplored world for me, both hand tools and power tools. Makes me a bit primitive, I suppose. 😊

Self depreciation aside, as long as you communicate your interests and intentions up-front all should be fine. Speaking for myself (husband) I enjoy 'just watching' and have done it many times. Note that it's a bit more common for hubby to just watch, but in the Lifestyle what's good for the goose is often good for the gander.

About 10 years ago we swapped with friends one time before we were married. We didn't even know about swinging. Six years ago my wife secret.y set up a swinging date with friends,I didn't even know that she was interested.everything went great and since we have had over 50 encounters. Each time got better as we gained experience. Last week we were swinging with a new couple, they will be visiting us again this week. We'll be teaching them. Swinging is fun. No experience necessary.

There is a reason that most who have discovered they CAN do it end up coming back for more. It's more of an occasional treat for us, in large part because any anal penetration is a closer for the night, but if you can find a good rhythm it is very intense for all parties. We tend to find DVP more enjoyable though and run with that whenever the opportunity presents.

Her clit. When I'm on the bottom doing 69 with her and he's in her, I like him occasionally pulling out of her and putting in my mouth. After they finish, I'll turn over and go after them individually on my knees. But yeah, I like to go into their slop.

The results are in. Clair and Lora both say that I do a better job with my lips and tongue solo, but they do like the visual of me being taken while getting it. Oftentimes I and the guy in me will finish first, before the girl I'm licking has had enough. Also brought up: us women 69ing while one of the guys is in her vag. I like being underneath in close proximity to his tesicles. Yeah, FFM is my favorite.

What does it for me is watching my husband tenderly making love to another woman missionary, them kissing passionately. Afterwards, him fucking me doggy like an animal while I eat her out. Doesn't happen much lately, but still a good experience when I get it.

One woman told me with her husband, it was the opposite - he could only cum with oral. He would go as along as she wanted in her pussy, then she'd have to suck him off. I don't know how she got pregnant.

I love to give blowjobs (and lick pussy too). While I like if a guy cums in my mouth and I'll eagerly swallow. But after a couple of minutes Red and hubby can't take it anymore and want in my pussy. I much prefer that a guy cums in my vagina anyway. Other guys I've been with like getting oral to ejaculation and I do it for a different thrill, then make a show of rolling the semen around in my mouth before swallowing (but only if he or someone else has or will take care of giving me my Os).

For me it's complicated. The only part of giving a blowjob I like is taking the cumshot in my mouth. But then I feel gypped that I didn't take it in the vagina. I LOVE the feeling of a penis blowing off an orgasm inside my vagina, but I don't like the process of fucking. That's right, I don't actually like being fucked. I do it as a necessary means to the end ... which I adore. My thrill from fucking comes from two points ... the initial penetration and the cumshot. The initial penetration gives me a burst of pleasure, then after that, the pleasure dies out very quickly and I wait for the next good part ... the squirty squirts. So I hate it when a guy thinks he's doing me a favor by being "Joe Stud" and fucking for 10 minutes. So the blowjob is a great way of getting a penis on the verge so that fucking to the cumshot is quick. Unfortunately, I don't like giving blowjobs until the cumshot comes. But then, the thrill starts in the mouth and I don't want to take it out. See ... that's my dilemma. So the answer is to choose your cock carefully. I don't go for Joe Stud. I go for the weaklings that can't endure more than 30 seconds of pussy - and have to fight to last every second of it. That's why god made adult theaters.

I like to give them, I especially like to tease and really get him going.