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I think this may be a hot topic but... hubby and I (white) have a black friend that we enjoy MFM with. We are also currently looking for a couple locally to have fun with in and out of bed. We recently met a couple and during the evening I mentioned our MFM situation. Call me naive or whatever :rollseyes but I was completely floored by their response. They were angry with me because I had answered their "ad" which said "no interracial couples". I explained that hubby and I are not interracial (other than he's Italian and I'm English). I couldn't believe the people thought I had been tainted and that something would rub off Well anyway... that one went nowhere. So from here on in, hubby says we shouldn't mention it. I think I should... not least of all because I don't want to be involved with anyone with that kind of silly idea. What do you guys think?

I’m a male 40’s married for almost 20 years. In the lifestyle on and off for 16years (hotwife) not so much the cuckhold aspect. I have had a few male only encounters. The first I responded to a CL personal ad for a male massage with happy ending. Few years later another ad on CL a guy looking for a blowjob. Drove 20 min spent about an hour there. Giving oral only. The third time (years later again) personal ad again . It turned out it was the same guy that massaged me (small world). No massage this time I was there to give oral. Lasted about an hour or so. His roommate (which wasn’t talked about ) joined us on the bed and I took turns taken them in my mouth again only giving Out of the 3 oral sessions no one came and no anal penetration, not saying I wouldn’t of. Last encounter was easily 10 years ago. Wife and I have played with a strap on before and I have a couple butt plugs that gets brought out every so often. She encourages me to explore and says it would turn her in to see me get penetrated by a guy with her. I can’t picture myself in a relationship with a male at all, marriage aside. Just a cock every now and then turns me on. Whether it’s oral or anal. Am I physically attracted to males, I’m not turned on the same way as seeing a sexy women but don’t have a problem saying someone has a nice physique or “I would blow him” She has had the same female resume as mine and we never labeled anything but I’m feeling like we might be bisexual. Doesn’t change anything in our day to day lives. What’s your thoughts.

Try not to over analyze it. I think the world makes it way to confusing with all these labels. I myself, man in my 50's married for 10 but love to SUCK COCK off and swallow CUM loads. We love what we love. Just enjoy, explore and don't way it down with crap. Wish you lived next door, take care.

I'm situationally bi, mostly oral I really love swallowing CUM Would love to have my wife watching, encouraging, and insisting that I swallow everything that fills my slut mouth. Enjoy

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Oh my goodness that is hilarious and also very appropriate - lol. Best typo EVER!

😂 viscous

Once an exhibitionist, always an exhibitionist...you may want to come back and revisit this with her...

We had never heard of Cap d'Adge before this...but then we haven't been looking for other alternatives for awhile. We have been to Desire RM several times and, other than the general security issues facing traveling to all of Mexico, we would go back there in a second if we were traveling and felt it was safe to go back there these days. While we do like that Cap d'Adge is in France, it is still referred to as a 'naturalist village'. It is also important to remember that (cue Venn diagram) while there is a subset where some nudists/naturalists are swingers and some swingers are nudists/naturalists, it doesn't mean that ALL swingers are naturalists and All naturalists are swingers. Where is the best place to catch fish? Generally somewhere fish have been known for being caught. Sure, there are fish at an aquarium, but that doesn't mean you are allowed to fish there. If we are going to go to the effort, we want to go to a very nice pond where fish are known to be caught. We also want the place we are staying at to be just as nice and classy as we would like to think we are. Just like njbm said above "Sorry to say that we are older and spoiled and we like nice accommodations."...although if we continue to hear good things about Cap d'Adge, we might eventually consider the trip...but since we have been in the L/S for over 10 years and this is the first time it has come up, it sounds like they have some distance left to travel before they are ready.

A young man and a young woman are going at it. After a quick finish, the boy says, "If I knew you were a virgin, I would have taken longer." She replies, "If I knew you had more time, I would have taken off my pantyhose first."

We both enjoy showing off, though in my wife's case it came as a bit of a full 360. She was very pretty, but a bit heavy when we met in college but was pretty indifferent to being seen in states of undress by others. Then in grad school she got herself into amazing shape and looked fantastic, but somehow became more conservative in her dress and being seen. A few years later pregnancy hit and some complications led her to gain a lot of weight, significantly more than when I met her. This was difficult to get off and she was hyper conservative about being seen and very self conscious. Fast forward another decade and she's looking the best she ever had has by a large margin, well muscled with visible abs, and her inner exhibitionist is out in full force. She's usually the first one naked at a party and as recently as last weekend she got up from us having our own little play session in a hotel bed to guide me to the balcony (were ground, pool side) so anyone walking by that night could see. I don't need to show her off, she take care of it now, lol

This is a good question--I suppose I'd call my self situational/cyclically bi-oral. I generally do not find men attractive or have a desire to kiss them or engage in any sort of ass play with them, but in the heat of the moment the idea of a hard cock in my mouth, especially as I watch my wife giving oral, can be very appealing. I've only ever engaged in oral with a few guys and in the presence of the wife (no same sex exploration growing up) and, although she was deeply turned on by it initially, she finds it to be a massive turn off now, so I'm not sure I'll get the opportunity again. But sucking a dick to completion remains on my fantasy list--one day I'd love to experience a man cuming in my mouth. As far as penetrative sex, I don' think I'd want to fuck a man, though I am mildly curious what it might be liked to be topped.

Mrs.Jo is bisexual and has had a couple of female lovers in and out of college before we married. I am situationally bisexual now, but I did have one relationship after college that lasted for a few months. The emotion wasn’t there, I guess you could call it an experimentation relationship to see if I could. Sexually, it was out of this world, but zero emotions involved.

Do you ever have the problem with your husbands that sometimes playtime is supposed to be only a girl thing, but he wants to jump in? Although FFM is our go-to arrangement, sometimes we need an FF or even FFF. Just watch the damn kids.

Technically id say you are flexible or fluid in your gender selection. Bisexual covers that, oral sex is sex. But I think labels are stupid. On a side note a guy that sucks dick is hot.

google 'Kinsey Scale'. In the 1950s the Kinsey group described that there is a continuum and that most people are part homosexual and part heterosexual. Wiki has a fairly good article on it. And, yeah, don't let labels define who you are.

Why label? Do what you want with who you want if they want to.

You are whatever you want to be in my opinion. I enjoy mm sex a lot, am psychically attracted to men and enjoy being with them in a non romantic way. For me, it’s often a great release and nothing more. I’ll check out guys and think “yeah he definitely deserves a blowjob” ? So I consider myself bisexual and proud of it!

In high school, I was part of a really progressive church that had a lot of programming for youth, so in going to a lot of youth get-togethers (sleepovers, conferences, workshops) I started to notice lesbians and bi girls and thought their relationships were very interesting... Occasionally I'd find a couple whose interactions I really liked and they'd almost become a model for something I wanted to have. I got a lot of attention from some of the lesbians at my school and youth group, which of course I liked. Later, after having some pretty decent relationships with guys I realized that I liked being with both and how different the two types of relationships could be. Now, I really like to play with couples because I get both!

I didn't even know if I knew the term "bisexual" when the signs first started coming around. Like ShineyHappyGirl it was at a really young age. When I started having overnights with girlfriends is when I started having those thoughts, about 3 grade. I would lay in the same bed as my girlfriend and wish like mad I could touch them and make out with them. I never had the courage too until my late teens though.

I first realized when I was in the 1st grade. All through kindergarten, all of my crushes were girls. I was hopelessly into girls and didn't even realize that was "weird" until one of my teenage aunts asked me who I liked in my class. When I named a girl she said "no, who do you want to kiss?" Confused, I named another girl. She laughed and said "No silly! What boy do you want to kiss?! You're a girl! You like boys!" I was super confused so I just named a boy and from that point on, I never let anyone know I wanted to kiss girls. But then in 1st grade I developed a crush on a boy and from then on, it was pretty even between boys and girls for me. I thought I was insane and unique until I learned what a bisexual was in 9th grade lol. I didn't even know how women had sex until I was in 10th grade (and I didn't do it myself until I was 18!)

Mrs. CXXC had several fantasies regarding girl/girl play in her early 20's. As time passed, the desire became real and her fulfillment of this desire became a need. At long last she had her experience at 33. To make certain she was doing it for her and not just to please me or put on a show, she had a girl/girl activity on her own without any men in the room. She walked away from that event knowing full well that she was Bi. To her, pleasure knows no gender.

I'm not sure I am 'bi' but here is my two cents anyway... I first started to become interested in cocks, and then m/m stuff while enjoying porn during my college days. Never once did I consider liking guys in H.S. And never looked at guys and could even say one was more attractive than another. But during my single days of watching porn I started to realize I liked seeing cock and cocks cumming etc... I repressed it for years, as all good catholic macho boys should, and after big fights trying to hide the porn and thoughts from my wife, it came out, and I am very glad it did. The weight was off my shoulders, I found out she thought it was super hot, we had previously talked about swinging, but this certainly added fuel to our fire. So here we are, broke our cherry a week ago, with swinging, and my first time with a man.

Yes you're both right and in hind-sight we should never have answered the ad. Surrender My bad!!! And I take your point about not discussing other situations with swing partners .... I am learning some of the finer points from you guys. Thanks.