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...just one more reason that men shouldn't post dick pix. Guys: just say NO...don't do it, it isn't necessary, and no matter how big or impressive you think you may be, there will always be someone bigger and/or more impressive than you. If the only thing you have to try and impress women is your dick, then you are going to be very disappointed in your searching.

Searching for new friends was an excitement I shared with my husband looking mostly at profiles similar to ours. Our first connection was with a profile that could be ours. Newbies, our age, with likes that matched us. We searched for physically fit people, maybe being too picky, it was our want. I found someone that after a short time consider a sister in not a perverted way, we just think the same way. Now I am back to looking at profiles this time with that sister. Where the first search with my husband was analytical searching with her is full of laughs and much less terrifying. The first time looking a nude picture was a turnoff now we are looking and laughing. Two of us can now laugh at giggle out loud when we see men just hanging. There are sights you just can’t unsee when it comes to nudes. Sites for swingers are there as a good starting point and can be fun to search through with like minded friends. Set your standards at your comfort level then be overly cautious.

Your wife is not a prude just, because she is not bi! There is nothing prudish about being straight and straight people are no less sexual. They are just not interested in the same sex. Not everyone is bi even though many bi people seem to think that way. As far as letting people know ahead of time that you will not be playing and she is not actually bi I think that would be a good thing. We always liked knowing these kind of things before play ever starts, because it makes a difference on if we are interested in going further or not. My lady is totally bi and it is the only kind of play she looks for now. She likes the full package when it comes to this and does not play with other women unless they are also wanting to be fully engaged in bi play. Light girl on girl play feels like a waste of time for her so she doesn’t bother. We found over the years there are a lot of women in couples out there that are listed as bi, but once we start talking to them we find out that is not the case at all. It is misleading and disappointing to say the least. Best to just be honest from the get go.